I went to high school with a girl who I was really good friends with. In fact, it was freshman year we got in to a nasty fight and haven’t talked since. We go to college together and I see her around but she won’t look at me. I honestly can’t remember what the fight was about. From what people have said, “I’ve ruined her life.” I feel awful to think I’ve effected someone so deeply. I’ve tried in the past to reach out to her, but she’s shut me down.
Its been so long, and I really want to put it behind. But then again, I don’t want to get shot down. I would give anything to just sit down and talk face-to-face about it, but I don’t know how to go about it.. Or if I even should.I need some girl-friendship advice..!?
i think that if it is bothering you this much, that you should talk to her and make up. If i were you i'd pull her off to the side by saying, ';hey can i talk to you for a quick minute?';, and then apologize for anything that happened. If she wants to forgive and forget too, then that's awesome. If not, you can at least walk away knowing that you tried and you were the bigger person handling that situation. Hope this helps!I need some girl-friendship advice..!?
just walk up to her and tell her that yall dont have to be friends and you just want to put things in the past and if she shuts you down again just forget about it and move on because life is to short for bullshit like that thats so childish of her holding a grudge that long
Well i think you should go to her when you see her and simply say we need to talk...
Tell her what you told me in the info Say that you didn't know you effected her like that and say can we try to be friends again. Talk from your heart!!!!
Be nice and have a gentle voice.
If she ignores you just say please and try again!!!!
I hope this helps you!!!!
Good Luck!!!!
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
Advice plz!! its serious i think im falling for this guy really bad, plz girl me advice!!!?
i am 18 and im really pretty and skinny. i like this guy dylan A LOT and he told me that he liked me 2. he also said that he liked one other girl Mary... but she's not very pretty at all, and im smaller than her. dylan and I we hungout a lot and kissed. he would give me long hugs and just hold me, Then all of a sudden he started to date Mary just 3 days ago. i see him at school, and he stares at me all the time. and flirts with me alot. he also still gives me long hugs and txts me. WHY is he doing this??? does he still like me?? what should i do??Advice plz!! its serious i think im falling for this guy really bad, plz girl me advice!!!?
well, i'm not gonna lie. it sounds like he's not committed to you at all.
he probably only likes you because you are hot, if she's less conventional looking, she's probably his sugar momma.
classic trophy gf / sugar momma gf scenario
either way, unless you want to go all the way and it mean nothing, i'd ditch this scum bag.
trust me. i'm a guy. i know these things.Advice plz!! its serious i think im falling for this guy really bad, plz girl me advice!!!?
Just keep doing what your doing, it seems that he likes you . And maybe hes not looking for just looks, dont act so eager for him. Also dont answer some of his txts play hard to get. My Opinion though.
Just tell him how you feel. What can it hurt. You never know unless you ask.
Honestly, it sounds like your his back up girl. I have 9 brothers and whenever they were dating someone and texting someone else who was prettier, they said it was good for the ego especially if she'll make out with me on the drop of a dime. He'll keep doing it as long as you let him, and honestly if he genuinly liked you, he would have chosen you. You are like a trophy to him but apparently looks don't always catch the guy. Actually if he has a girlfriend why are you flirting and touching him? That would piss you off if he was your man and him and Mary were exchanging texts flirting and hugging.refill
well, i'm not gonna lie. it sounds like he's not committed to you at all.
he probably only likes you because you are hot, if she's less conventional looking, she's probably his sugar momma.
classic trophy gf / sugar momma gf scenario
either way, unless you want to go all the way and it mean nothing, i'd ditch this scum bag.
trust me. i'm a guy. i know these things.Advice plz!! its serious i think im falling for this guy really bad, plz girl me advice!!!?
Just keep doing what your doing, it seems that he likes you . And maybe hes not looking for just looks, dont act so eager for him. Also dont answer some of his txts play hard to get. My Opinion though.
Just tell him how you feel. What can it hurt. You never know unless you ask.
Honestly, it sounds like your his back up girl. I have 9 brothers and whenever they were dating someone and texting someone else who was prettier, they said it was good for the ego especially if she'll make out with me on the drop of a dime. He'll keep doing it as long as you let him, and honestly if he genuinly liked you, he would have chosen you. You are like a trophy to him but apparently looks don't always catch the guy. Actually if he has a girlfriend why are you flirting and touching him? That would piss you off if he was your man and him and Mary were exchanging texts flirting and hugging.
Dating A rich girl. NEED ADVICE!!! Please Read!!?
In March, My fiancée and I broke up after I found out she was cheating on me after dating 3 years. She came from an extremely wealthy family. The money aspect never presented a problem in the 3 years that we dated. The whole spring and summer last year was extremely depressing to me. Finally, in late September, I did something out of the ordinary for me, I joined Match.com/. Within a week I had 4 dates lined up, they all went OK. And then I met this one girl, lets call her Jen. I have been seeing her since the beginning of October and things are going really great. “Jen” also surprisingly happens to come froma very- well –to- do family also. This girl is NOT spoiled and is a sweetheart. My mother keeps warning me “ She comes from a lot of money, I don’t know if it’s gonna work out, be careful.”. I need Advice!!!!!Dating A rich girl. NEED ADVICE!!! Please Read!!?
Money doesn't mean that people cheat. There are a group of cheaters out there, but they come from all different levels of society.
I think you answered your question yourself. She is your sweetheart. Don't let your cheating ex girlfriend ruin your life anymore. Keep ';Jen';!!Dating A rich girl. NEED ADVICE!!! Please Read!!?
You may find advice at millionairematch dot com. There is the expertized web for matching. Almost all the marriage questions you can solve there.
dont judge her because of money judge her by her additiude in life and the way she treats you ...
Not all girls that come from money will do you wrong....
I am what you would consider a ';rich girl'; - I grew up being around extremely rich people all my life - people who owned Casinos, restaurant chains, private jets, fast expensive cars, vineyards, race teams, race horses, custom made everything, huge hunks of land and entire neighborhoods!
Know what I learned?? I learned that MONEY does NOT make a person, and most of those people were pretty miserable and made terrible relationship partners. They were selfish, demanding, spoiled, hard headed, cold, and always looking over their shoulders for that ';someone'; who might take it all away from them.
I ended up marrying a great guy who literally had NOTHING money wise, but was driven to be a good partner, Father, and lover - - we live in a great neighborhood, kids go to great schools, and we both earn an HONEST living. He still cannot understand why I am not impressed by people who have money - guess he would of had to have been there!
money should not be a factor if she really loves you. just be yourself and be open and truthful wth her... if she love your personality, even if you don't have that much money, your relationship will turn out pretty good... just be you and things will fall in to place...
Good Luck!!! i wish you the best!
Not ALL rich girls or boys act spoiled and rude and everything., some take careful control of their wealth because they do not want over spend..
I think it's going to work out pretty well.
no offence,but if it doesnt, if you go to dating sites again, SI think you should ask if their wealthy or not. IIN A NICE way. Because most girl's feeling easily get hurt.
GOOD luck! (: :)
You take her as you see her
The last one cheated , you got rid of her. This one is good so far accept it at face value unless you get hit on the head. and don't go looking for something.
it's not the family that she comes from that you need to be careful. it's match.com.
i know this cuz i was told that my ex wife is on that site.
There are modest, well-to-do people out there! Listen to your heart. Good luck!
get to know her first and if she falls in love with you it will work. Just try to keep the love there
sounds like you need to get to know her better before you can make a decision on what she is like.
Go out on a few dates and see what happens, she might be as she appears.
Keep ';Jen';,
I went out with a guy who's family were on benefits, he was often kicked out, never leant to drive, and was constantly on the 'sick', I felt the need to reform him.... he got a new 'good' job, learnt to drive, paid rent (thus sorting out family rifts and getting kicked out' . I wanted him to do the things I had done.
In the end we split because at the end of the day.... although he had achieved my goals and to an extent his own, he still had the same morals and lack of future.
(Please note I am not drawing any comparisons to your situation. This is an extreme case...)
At the end of the day different backgrounds can sometimes affect the future that people see themselves having together.
Be clear with each other what you'd like out of life, share goals and dreams. If your happy in a semi and Jen wants the mansion will it work?
P.s. I know houses aren't everything!
good luck..... things will be fine......
Your mother is probably just worried because the last wealthy girl you dated broke your heart. Tell her this one is different, they've got different personalities. Just because she's well-off doesn't mean she'll cheat on you.
Introduce ';Jen'; to your parents, and maybe they'll see the difference between her and your ex-fiancee and stop bugging you about it. If they don't, there's not much you can do. Just wait for them to stop judging her. However, having dinners with ';Jen'; and your family to prove how unspoiled and kind she is should definitely help the situation.
Good luck!
not all girls who come from wealthy family are spoiled...im not....and there are realy good persons who are rich,so if you like that girl why should that be a problem? money was never a problem,unless you dont have it.. =)
Money doesn't mean that people cheat. There are a group of cheaters out there, but they come from all different levels of society.
I think you answered your question yourself. She is your sweetheart. Don't let your cheating ex girlfriend ruin your life anymore. Keep ';Jen';!!Dating A rich girl. NEED ADVICE!!! Please Read!!?
You may find advice at millionairematch dot com. There is the expertized web for matching. Almost all the marriage questions you can solve there.
dont judge her because of money judge her by her additiude in life and the way she treats you ...
Not all girls that come from money will do you wrong....
I am what you would consider a ';rich girl'; - I grew up being around extremely rich people all my life - people who owned Casinos, restaurant chains, private jets, fast expensive cars, vineyards, race teams, race horses, custom made everything, huge hunks of land and entire neighborhoods!
Know what I learned?? I learned that MONEY does NOT make a person, and most of those people were pretty miserable and made terrible relationship partners. They were selfish, demanding, spoiled, hard headed, cold, and always looking over their shoulders for that ';someone'; who might take it all away from them.
I ended up marrying a great guy who literally had NOTHING money wise, but was driven to be a good partner, Father, and lover - - we live in a great neighborhood, kids go to great schools, and we both earn an HONEST living. He still cannot understand why I am not impressed by people who have money - guess he would of had to have been there!
money should not be a factor if she really loves you. just be yourself and be open and truthful wth her... if she love your personality, even if you don't have that much money, your relationship will turn out pretty good... just be you and things will fall in to place...
Good Luck!!! i wish you the best!
Not ALL rich girls or boys act spoiled and rude and everything., some take careful control of their wealth because they do not want over spend..
I think it's going to work out pretty well.
no offence,but if it doesnt, if you go to dating sites again, SI think you should ask if their wealthy or not. IIN A NICE way. Because most girl's feeling easily get hurt.
GOOD luck! (: :)
You take her as you see her
The last one cheated , you got rid of her. This one is good so far accept it at face value unless you get hit on the head. and don't go looking for something.
it's not the family that she comes from that you need to be careful. it's match.com.
i know this cuz i was told that my ex wife is on that site.
There are modest, well-to-do people out there! Listen to your heart. Good luck!
get to know her first and if she falls in love with you it will work. Just try to keep the love there
sounds like you need to get to know her better before you can make a decision on what she is like.
Go out on a few dates and see what happens, she might be as she appears.
Keep ';Jen';,
I went out with a guy who's family were on benefits, he was often kicked out, never leant to drive, and was constantly on the 'sick', I felt the need to reform him.... he got a new 'good' job, learnt to drive, paid rent (thus sorting out family rifts and getting kicked out' . I wanted him to do the things I had done.
In the end we split because at the end of the day.... although he had achieved my goals and to an extent his own, he still had the same morals and lack of future.
(Please note I am not drawing any comparisons to your situation. This is an extreme case...)
At the end of the day different backgrounds can sometimes affect the future that people see themselves having together.
Be clear with each other what you'd like out of life, share goals and dreams. If your happy in a semi and Jen wants the mansion will it work?
P.s. I know houses aren't everything!
good luck..... things will be fine......
Your mother is probably just worried because the last wealthy girl you dated broke your heart. Tell her this one is different, they've got different personalities. Just because she's well-off doesn't mean she'll cheat on you.
Introduce ';Jen'; to your parents, and maybe they'll see the difference between her and your ex-fiancee and stop bugging you about it. If they don't, there's not much you can do. Just wait for them to stop judging her. However, having dinners with ';Jen'; and your family to prove how unspoiled and kind she is should definitely help the situation.
Good luck!
not all girls who come from wealthy family are spoiled...im not....and there are realy good persons who are rich,so if you like that girl why should that be a problem? money was never a problem,unless you dont have it.. =)
Really like this girl need advice!!?
I don't see her that much anymore :( but i still really like her and homecoming is coming up next month. I have only seen her a few times this year because i don't have any classes with her or lunch maybe thursday though that is yet to be determined next week :) but when i have seen her for some reason now i am to shy to talk this morning i didn't even see the group that she %26amp; i stand is for some reason, i have asked this question many times but i never have really been satisfied with the answer
Keithgriffin49@yahoo.com
and my facebook is Keith Jeffrey GriffinReally like this girl need advice!!?
Keith, just go up to her or call and ask her to homecoming. All she can do is say no. Maybe she is dying to go out with you too. I am old to you, 54, but I always gave my own son this advice. When I was younger girls just didn't ask guys out and I know it's a little different now but still you will never know if you don't ask. But do it now so she has time to find something to wear! Really, be brave and ask her out. Then let me know what she said. I'll be rooting for you. Good Luck!
Keithgriffin49@yahoo.com
and my facebook is Keith Jeffrey GriffinReally like this girl need advice!!?
Keith, just go up to her or call and ask her to homecoming. All she can do is say no. Maybe she is dying to go out with you too. I am old to you, 54, but I always gave my own son this advice. When I was younger girls just didn't ask guys out and I know it's a little different now but still you will never know if you don't ask. But do it now so she has time to find something to wear! Really, be brave and ask her out. Then let me know what she said. I'll be rooting for you. Good Luck!
Omg girl problems advice from both genders please?
ok theres this girl that i like and i think she likes me.
shes so beautiful and stunning in everyway our personallitys go well together and shes one of the only few people who can have me in tears 1 minute and laughing the next.
the other night she tried hooking up with me while we were at a friends house. but i pulled away because i got all shy and nervous. apparently that cutt her bad and this weekend i found out she went to the movies with another guy and they didn't get to see much of the movie if u get what i mean.
so now i ask the question:
what should i do fellas and guys: give up or wait or try to prove we have more or what. im such a hopeless romanticOmg girl problems advice from both genders please?
tell her you were foolish and only did it because you are shy. you are going to have to overcome shyness and let your heart out to her to get her back, but it may go either way. she can say ';too bad, so sad'; or ';i only went to the movies with that guy to make u jealous and to see how much you liked me';Omg girl problems advice from both genders please?
I dunno, man.
This is personal opinion so you might want to consider more answers.
But if I like a certain guy, you won't find me doing another guy.
Dating other guys, yes but definitely not doing them.
Well, if you really like this girl, I'd say try again. Say you're just too nervous and that you'd like a second chance. Just proceed with caution.
hey babe
u r obviously passionate about this girl %26amp; u both sound like u r meant 4 each other
try talking 2 her about how u feel, im sure she will forgive u..
also her goin 2 the movies with another guy is probily 2 make u jealous, caze she obviously likes u [tryin 2 hook up]
so u should def. tell her how u feel
%26amp; kiss her...!!!!!!!!! do u babe
dun b scared!!
%26amp; believe in urself say Yeh i am a romantic ! %26amp; believe it
gluck xxxx
TELL HER HOW YOU REALLY FEEL FOR HER
Your gay right?
The first clue is the ';omg';
From a girl's point of view, I think you should do something for her to surprise her and then tell her how you feel. Girl's always like to be surprised especially if it is with something cute, such as flowers or a something from a joke you two have. You have to do something in order for her to notice you. Get past your shyness and get yourself out there. Tell her how you feel. Good luck!
try and prove you have more, shes just upset that you didnt ';hook up'; with her thats night and was trying to find away to get over it
do something that will completely blow her away. she must like you if she was trying it on at a party, she must feel silly because you pulled away. you need to tell her asap that you do like her, or shes just gna find someone else. do something really romantic, get a bunch of flowers or something and tell her everything you feel about her, or if you cant tell her to her face write it in a note or letter and put it in with the flowers! something adorable haha
shes so beautiful and stunning in everyway our personallitys go well together and shes one of the only few people who can have me in tears 1 minute and laughing the next.
the other night she tried hooking up with me while we were at a friends house. but i pulled away because i got all shy and nervous. apparently that cutt her bad and this weekend i found out she went to the movies with another guy and they didn't get to see much of the movie if u get what i mean.
so now i ask the question:
what should i do fellas and guys: give up or wait or try to prove we have more or what. im such a hopeless romanticOmg girl problems advice from both genders please?
tell her you were foolish and only did it because you are shy. you are going to have to overcome shyness and let your heart out to her to get her back, but it may go either way. she can say ';too bad, so sad'; or ';i only went to the movies with that guy to make u jealous and to see how much you liked me';Omg girl problems advice from both genders please?
I dunno, man.
This is personal opinion so you might want to consider more answers.
But if I like a certain guy, you won't find me doing another guy.
Dating other guys, yes but definitely not doing them.
Well, if you really like this girl, I'd say try again. Say you're just too nervous and that you'd like a second chance. Just proceed with caution.
hey babe
u r obviously passionate about this girl %26amp; u both sound like u r meant 4 each other
try talking 2 her about how u feel, im sure she will forgive u..
also her goin 2 the movies with another guy is probily 2 make u jealous, caze she obviously likes u [tryin 2 hook up]
so u should def. tell her how u feel
%26amp; kiss her...!!!!!!!!! do u babe
dun b scared!!
%26amp; believe in urself say Yeh i am a romantic ! %26amp; believe it
gluck xxxx
TELL HER HOW YOU REALLY FEEL FOR HER
Your gay right?
The first clue is the ';omg';
From a girl's point of view, I think you should do something for her to surprise her and then tell her how you feel. Girl's always like to be surprised especially if it is with something cute, such as flowers or a something from a joke you two have. You have to do something in order for her to notice you. Get past your shyness and get yourself out there. Tell her how you feel. Good luck!
try and prove you have more, shes just upset that you didnt ';hook up'; with her thats night and was trying to find away to get over it
do something that will completely blow her away. she must like you if she was trying it on at a party, she must feel silly because you pulled away. you need to tell her asap that you do like her, or shes just gna find someone else. do something really romantic, get a bunch of flowers or something and tell her everything you feel about her, or if you cant tell her to her face write it in a note or letter and put it in with the flowers! something adorable haha
Question about this girl? need advice?
I am a shy college guy and asked this cute girl out from class, we met leaving class.
We finally went out and had diner i had a great time and it seemed like she did also. When we were leaving i asked if she wanted to do this again and she said yes.
I called her a day after the date and told her i had a great time, and she said the same.
So i called her and left a voice mail yesterday and still haven't gotten a call back. What should i do?
Also she is very busy by being a nursing student, and partying with friends at different collages.Question about this girl? need advice?
You left the voice mail yesterday? Don't worry! You say that she's busy and that she wanted to get together again. According to what you wrote the odds seem to be in your favor. If she doesn't call you back for a day or two call her again and tell her that you've been thinking about the splendid time you had with her. Then ask her out on a second date : )Question about this girl? need advice?
I think you should give her a little more time...you never know the circumstances. She could have a bunch of work to do for nursing or ....maybe got drunk and passed out somewhere? sry,,,j/k bout the last one.
We finally went out and had diner i had a great time and it seemed like she did also. When we were leaving i asked if she wanted to do this again and she said yes.
I called her a day after the date and told her i had a great time, and she said the same.
So i called her and left a voice mail yesterday and still haven't gotten a call back. What should i do?
Also she is very busy by being a nursing student, and partying with friends at different collages.Question about this girl? need advice?
You left the voice mail yesterday? Don't worry! You say that she's busy and that she wanted to get together again. According to what you wrote the odds seem to be in your favor. If she doesn't call you back for a day or two call her again and tell her that you've been thinking about the splendid time you had with her. Then ask her out on a second date : )Question about this girl? need advice?
I think you should give her a little more time...you never know the circumstances. She could have a bunch of work to do for nursing or ....maybe got drunk and passed out somewhere? sry,,,j/k bout the last one.
I need a girl's advice, please!!!!!! OMG!!!! WTF!!!!!!!?
So I started this job about a year ago, and there was this receptionist that was smoking hot!!!! However, she was quite the *****, never acting the least bit interested in talking to me. Well, here we are today and she's put on a few pounds. She's not real fat, but she has a well defined muffin top. Now she's all touchy feely, always talking to me like I'm in her league now. Should I just tell her to F*** off or should I take her out? I know she treated me like s**t in the past, but I could tough it out and take her jogging. Then she would lose weight and I would have a smokin hot girlfriend!!!! Should I keep my dignity or go for it? Thanks.I need a girl's advice, please!!!!!! OMG!!!! WTF!!!!!!!?
dont go for it she only is paying attention to you cause shes now getting rejected by everyone else and needs help with her self esteem.
once shes skinny again then shell drop you like a fly. your her rebound.I need a girl's advice, please!!!!!! OMG!!!! WTF!!!!!!!?
Ok really, you're only looking at her because she's fine. That is so shallow, and if she's pretty, she can move on from you. Get to know her, you don't have to necessarily take her out, just talk to her. See if you like her as a person.
Also, if she's only talking to you now because she thinks you're in her league, it's not good. Once she loses the weight (if she does) she'll drop you like a hot potato and go for someone that she believes is in her league.
Hope this helps!!
Good luck ;)
Wooow dude that totally sucks. But it made me laugh :)
Anyway, I know she definitely is using you because she can't get the guys she used to (no offense at all). However, I think you should take her out because you might find that she is your type of girl. Looks may seem like everything but I guess if you're looking for that perfect meal you have to read the description on the menu, not only look at the pictures.
ok i don't really know this chick so i'll try not to generalize. Use your intuition maybe she is a total ***** and didn't realize what she was missing until recently. I think you should go out with her, get to know each other well enough, and when there is trust ask her about your doubts. Later on you can decide if continuing the relationship or not. Anyways, what's there to loose?!?! Please don't go out with her because of her hotness, you don't know if she'll fatten up even more as time goes by, so try to see her inner beauty !
First its not about your dignity! You don't now want she has gone through in the last year or way she has put on the weight. Maybe she is all over you now because she has realized what a great guy you are and wants a great guy. It may have nothing to do with her weight. If the weight is a problem for you then I think you should leave her alone because what if she doesn't lose the weight?
I'll give you the reason first....
before when she was smokin hot....she could have any guy she wanted and she got cocky about it making her ';quite the *****';....now that she gained a little weight she needs to feel like she can still get any guy, hence her being nice to you.
Be aware that she may get thin and dump you all over again.
You can take her out and see what happens, but remember you work with her and dumping her WILL make it awkward in the work place.
Hope this helped!
Ummm please don't be shallow. Because to be honest, if she's only talking to you now it's probably because she keeps getting rejected and needs someone to make her feel good about herself. And truthfully she'll prolly dump you the minute she starts feeling good about herself. Sorry dude, but seriously don't be shallow. Karma's a b****.
Keep your dignity. She's gained a few pounds and she can't wear that bikini no more. And if you do take her don't take her jogging because she will leave you when she gets her body back. It's not worth having a broken heart or getting blue balls when you can easily avoid it by getting you a real girl.
I would say don't waste your time with her. She is obviously really shallow if she didn't give you the time of day before and now since she isn't as attractive she thinks you will just jump at the chance of being with her? that's the dumbest thing i have heard in a while. You deserve someone who actually gives you the time of day.
Uhm, honestly tell her to go away.
Unless you want a fat *****... it's up to you.
But she's just trying to get your attention now cause she can't get anything and she knows that you were interested in the past. I don't think she's gonna lose weight either. Just show her you're not looking to play games for a relationship. Keep your dignity bud.
okay maybe she had a boyfriend before?
find out if she did?
and ask her why she is interested?
but i would say dont go for it
thats kindaa messed up now sincee noone likes her shes going to you
thats not right
but first find out whuts the deal
shes usen u and when she looses weight im almost 100% shure she will cheat on u or go out out with someone she thinks is better lookin than uu
and u dont waant to be upset if that happens and u cant be upset if you dont date her ....
omg ew how ugly! i think you should take her to the gym or something hqf(ha que funny) not mean but thats what I will do just be friendly and say hey want to go hit the gym later on or something. If she says yes then there you go and if she says why you think I'm fat say no I just want a workout buddy and have nobody else..
hope this works.And try to forgive and forget don't hold grudges..
-Kandii-=]]
You need to stop being shallow and know and figure out what this girl has in her plans if she wasn't into you before.
Being hot doesn't mean it has to be on a physical basis!
How about her mind, goals, dreams, beliefs, and personality (which you have come across of before).
I say that you don't date her until you know why she is interested in you all of a sudden.
HOPE THIS HELPS!!! :IF I HELPED ADD ME AS A CONTACT!!! :o)
well, both of you sound like you have problems
here's advice for you, never date a ***** who needs a self esteem boost and a little weight loss, and never ever date a girl in hopes she'll change into miss. sexy, because that's wrong on your part.
but final judgment don't date her.
Who says big women can't get anyone?
Sure its harder but there is someone for everybodyt.
Any ways
Now if u like her go for it
Tell her how u feel ask her why. Did she act the way she did b4.
%26amp; remember if u decide to take her out u can't change her weight
U shouldn't want to like her because of who she is and if overweight is who she is that's wat ur getting. What if she tried to change something about u!!!
Everyone is not perfect
that would be a cool way to help her loose wight if she's feeling bad about her self .but she might be just using u to make her self feel better, and your the only one paying her some attention. then again you could get to know each other hit the gym and live happily ever after!!!!
See why she's so interested now rather than before. It's probably just because she's getting rejected now because some people are so shallow. Don't stoop to her level. There are other girls that are just as hot I'm sure. Don't go for it. Keep yourself above her level.
Shes fat now of course she likes you.
Youre pretty much a dick for saying that you'll take her jogging and that all you care about is a sexy girlfriend CLEARLY since she treated you like crap earlier and youre willing to take that.
i wudnt go for her but u cud always say 'so listen, i was thinkin of becomin a member to this gym, wanna join?'; so she can lose the weight, nd u can see it from there cuz ull get to know hwe real personality by then :)
No, you shouldn't... what would your friends and family think when they find out that You liked this girl....
She treated you like crap....
she gains a few pounds...
now shes desperate and will go out with any guy that crosses her way???
Yeah, real good story to tell at te next Thanksgiving party
take her out. bang her. then blow it in her face and tell her shes a ***** that got fat and she got what she deserved. then never talk to her again :D
she is just trying to make herself feel better, if she liked you earlier you would've been able to see it in her eyes, regardless if she ignored you.
being shallow isn't going to work all the time. just because she's hot doesn't mean she's got no brain or heart. ask her why she's acting interested now.
You were not good enough at first but now that she gained a little and maybe isnt smoking hot, now shes interested!!
You are better than that. That really should show you how shallow she is
you can be her frined but not her lover she is just using you
no way,
she's just using you
when she's ';smokin' hot'; again,
she'll go back to what she dated before,
seriously
NOO.
she's just using you basically.
plus, if you helped her lose a bit of weight, she'd definitely go back to her old ways.
tell her to f u c k o f f !
IGNORE her!! Omg, she really is a b!tch...
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Don't do it. Instead return the favor and act like you're too good for her and her muffin top.
Amber is exactly right. Baby, stick with dignity.
if she didn't like you then( when she was hot), doesn't it seem weird that she likes you now when shes not? sounds fishy to me. anyway, what if she likes being chunky and doesn't wanna work out? hmmmrefill
dont go for it she only is paying attention to you cause shes now getting rejected by everyone else and needs help with her self esteem.
once shes skinny again then shell drop you like a fly. your her rebound.I need a girl's advice, please!!!!!! OMG!!!! WTF!!!!!!!?
Ok really, you're only looking at her because she's fine. That is so shallow, and if she's pretty, she can move on from you. Get to know her, you don't have to necessarily take her out, just talk to her. See if you like her as a person.
Also, if she's only talking to you now because she thinks you're in her league, it's not good. Once she loses the weight (if she does) she'll drop you like a hot potato and go for someone that she believes is in her league.
Hope this helps!!
Good luck ;)
Wooow dude that totally sucks. But it made me laugh :)
Anyway, I know she definitely is using you because she can't get the guys she used to (no offense at all). However, I think you should take her out because you might find that she is your type of girl. Looks may seem like everything but I guess if you're looking for that perfect meal you have to read the description on the menu, not only look at the pictures.
ok i don't really know this chick so i'll try not to generalize. Use your intuition maybe she is a total ***** and didn't realize what she was missing until recently. I think you should go out with her, get to know each other well enough, and when there is trust ask her about your doubts. Later on you can decide if continuing the relationship or not. Anyways, what's there to loose?!?! Please don't go out with her because of her hotness, you don't know if she'll fatten up even more as time goes by, so try to see her inner beauty !
First its not about your dignity! You don't now want she has gone through in the last year or way she has put on the weight. Maybe she is all over you now because she has realized what a great guy you are and wants a great guy. It may have nothing to do with her weight. If the weight is a problem for you then I think you should leave her alone because what if she doesn't lose the weight?
I'll give you the reason first....
before when she was smokin hot....she could have any guy she wanted and she got cocky about it making her ';quite the *****';....now that she gained a little weight she needs to feel like she can still get any guy, hence her being nice to you.
Be aware that she may get thin and dump you all over again.
You can take her out and see what happens, but remember you work with her and dumping her WILL make it awkward in the work place.
Hope this helped!
Ummm please don't be shallow. Because to be honest, if she's only talking to you now it's probably because she keeps getting rejected and needs someone to make her feel good about herself. And truthfully she'll prolly dump you the minute she starts feeling good about herself. Sorry dude, but seriously don't be shallow. Karma's a b****.
Keep your dignity. She's gained a few pounds and she can't wear that bikini no more. And if you do take her don't take her jogging because she will leave you when she gets her body back. It's not worth having a broken heart or getting blue balls when you can easily avoid it by getting you a real girl.
I would say don't waste your time with her. She is obviously really shallow if she didn't give you the time of day before and now since she isn't as attractive she thinks you will just jump at the chance of being with her? that's the dumbest thing i have heard in a while. You deserve someone who actually gives you the time of day.
Uhm, honestly tell her to go away.
Unless you want a fat *****... it's up to you.
But she's just trying to get your attention now cause she can't get anything and she knows that you were interested in the past. I don't think she's gonna lose weight either. Just show her you're not looking to play games for a relationship. Keep your dignity bud.
okay maybe she had a boyfriend before?
find out if she did?
and ask her why she is interested?
but i would say dont go for it
thats kindaa messed up now sincee noone likes her shes going to you
thats not right
but first find out whuts the deal
shes usen u and when she looses weight im almost 100% shure she will cheat on u or go out out with someone she thinks is better lookin than uu
and u dont waant to be upset if that happens and u cant be upset if you dont date her ....
omg ew how ugly! i think you should take her to the gym or something hqf(ha que funny) not mean but thats what I will do just be friendly and say hey want to go hit the gym later on or something. If she says yes then there you go and if she says why you think I'm fat say no I just want a workout buddy and have nobody else..
hope this works.And try to forgive and forget don't hold grudges..
-Kandii-=]]
You need to stop being shallow and know and figure out what this girl has in her plans if she wasn't into you before.
Being hot doesn't mean it has to be on a physical basis!
How about her mind, goals, dreams, beliefs, and personality (which you have come across of before).
I say that you don't date her until you know why she is interested in you all of a sudden.
HOPE THIS HELPS!!! :IF I HELPED ADD ME AS A CONTACT!!! :o)
well, both of you sound like you have problems
here's advice for you, never date a ***** who needs a self esteem boost and a little weight loss, and never ever date a girl in hopes she'll change into miss. sexy, because that's wrong on your part.
but final judgment don't date her.
Who says big women can't get anyone?
Sure its harder but there is someone for everybodyt.
Any ways
Now if u like her go for it
Tell her how u feel ask her why. Did she act the way she did b4.
%26amp; remember if u decide to take her out u can't change her weight
U shouldn't want to like her because of who she is and if overweight is who she is that's wat ur getting. What if she tried to change something about u!!!
Everyone is not perfect
that would be a cool way to help her loose wight if she's feeling bad about her self .but she might be just using u to make her self feel better, and your the only one paying her some attention. then again you could get to know each other hit the gym and live happily ever after!!!!
See why she's so interested now rather than before. It's probably just because she's getting rejected now because some people are so shallow. Don't stoop to her level. There are other girls that are just as hot I'm sure. Don't go for it. Keep yourself above her level.
Shes fat now of course she likes you.
Youre pretty much a dick for saying that you'll take her jogging and that all you care about is a sexy girlfriend CLEARLY since she treated you like crap earlier and youre willing to take that.
i wudnt go for her but u cud always say 'so listen, i was thinkin of becomin a member to this gym, wanna join?'; so she can lose the weight, nd u can see it from there cuz ull get to know hwe real personality by then :)
No, you shouldn't... what would your friends and family think when they find out that You liked this girl....
She treated you like crap....
she gains a few pounds...
now shes desperate and will go out with any guy that crosses her way???
Yeah, real good story to tell at te next Thanksgiving party
take her out. bang her. then blow it in her face and tell her shes a ***** that got fat and she got what she deserved. then never talk to her again :D
she is just trying to make herself feel better, if she liked you earlier you would've been able to see it in her eyes, regardless if she ignored you.
being shallow isn't going to work all the time. just because she's hot doesn't mean she's got no brain or heart. ask her why she's acting interested now.
You were not good enough at first but now that she gained a little and maybe isnt smoking hot, now shes interested!!
You are better than that. That really should show you how shallow she is
you can be her frined but not her lover she is just using you
no way,
she's just using you
when she's ';smokin' hot'; again,
she'll go back to what she dated before,
seriously
NOO.
she's just using you basically.
plus, if you helped her lose a bit of weight, she'd definitely go back to her old ways.
tell her to f u c k o f f !
IGNORE her!! Omg, she really is a b!tch...
Please answer ours?
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Don't do it. Instead return the favor and act like you're too good for her and her muffin top.
Amber is exactly right. Baby, stick with dignity.
if she didn't like you then( when she was hot), doesn't it seem weird that she likes you now when shes not? sounds fishy to me. anyway, what if she likes being chunky and doesn't wanna work out? hmmm
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