About a year ago I was in Vegas and met a guy. Turns out he lives only 3 hours away from my home town. We had a great night together and exchanged phone numbers.
I went to visit him about 3 months after that and had a decent weekend together. It was a little awkward for me, being out of ';fantasy land'; and into the real world. But he was a great guy and treated me like a lady.
After our weekend, we stayed in touch via phone calls, and text messages, and they all ranged from casual to naughty. In January I moved back to my home town and saw him a week later. We had what I would consider a fabulous weekend. I felt much more comfortable with him, and once again he was a gentlemen. He paid for everything, and he had insisted on paying for dinner. We even hooked up with my friend and her husband for a drink, and yet again, he paid..FOR ALL OF US! What a really nice guy. Right?
Now, don't get me wrong, I'm not about the money. It was about me feeling like he wanted to take care of me. Opening doors, holding me close as we walked the streets...etc, etc.
Then Valentines Day was approaching, I really wanted to see if he wanted to get together, but I chickend out. (mostly because it was ';that time of the month'; for me and didn't want that to ruin a romantic weekend.) My friends insisted I at least send him a card, but yet again, I chickend out. I sent him a text message simply saying Happy Valentines Day, and he ended up calling. He asked if I had any plans for the night and I told him I didn't, and when I asked him if he did, he said no. Which made me feel really bummed out.
We still have stayed in touch and are in the works for getting together again next month. I really like this guy, so how do I try to bring it to next level? From what I gather, he's into me to or else he wouldn't stay in touch and treat me like such a lady. But at the same time, we don't talk as much as I would like, which makes me think maybe he doesn't want to bring it to that level.
Ugh...boys...help me out...what do you think?
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ps...I really don't think I am the woman on the side. Both times I visited him, I stayed at his apartment and there was not one shred of evidence that there was another girl around, let alone him being married...haha
See to me, he is slightly intimedating. He is 32, really smart and successful. He is from another country and has been here for over 10 years. English being his second language. And I'm not sure how he is like in a relationship, with a different culture. He is from Albania, and I don't know much about the country.28 year old girl needs advice from men in early 30's?
I'll start by disagreeing with the first answer. Albania is a country, it isn't muslim. Islam does have a considerable history in Albania, but most people there are actually agnostic now.
As far as proceeding further with your relationship, just talk to him. Tell him you enjoy your time together and ask him what he is looking for in a relationship -- but don't corner him into making a commitment early.
Reading minds never works. You've got to talk.28 year old girl needs advice from men in early 30's?
Albania is muslim -- enough said.
However, I am assuming you're like 95% of the population, so go on.
a muslim? run like heck while you stil have your head!
F**k the one who talks about religion....
well Im albanian too and at our country we guys always pay for girls and everything and its kinda a rule well guess hes OK...... if you wanna hear the other stereothypic answers that the albanians are bad...................i can say Americans are fat.. but they are not so...
Wow! He sounds like the dream guy us women strive for. On the other hand, sometimes it can be to good to be true and we always find out in the end.
From the way you explained your situation, he is travels, wealthy and willing to make an effort. In addition, he might have family in Albania and if I am correct; their culture believes that marriage comes before sex and marry within their own culture. I do know women that found out that their lover from another country had a wife and kids. She was hurt and destroyed; the guy came over with a green card and wasn't even a citizen. He had a house, car, worked for a business oriented place and the money came from family member to family member. They do that so thier not paying taxes here in the U.S.
Guys like that are willing to have several women to please in different areas, states and countries. Especially if their parents are strong believers to say with their own, he has to keep it a secret because he could be disowned! I am not saying that he doesn't like you But, he stopped the next step that people that really liked each would actually persue the chance for that next step.
Don't always believe people, trusting them is something that comes with time! I mean a long time.
I hope i did help you.
Sorry, I know you wanted advice from men but I had to respond anyway. Are you sure he is not just looking for a booty call? It is still common for men to treat a woman well and still only be looking for sex. If you think it is more than that why don't you just be open with him and tell him that you really like him and that you hope the relationship could go further. Is he shy at all? In my experience, unless the guy is really shy they are the ones that normally make the first move of initiating more in the relationship. Good Luck1
i say do not rush things let your heart lead you you are doing great !
one thing i live by is what the heart feels
and
when in doubt through it out
best wishes
one qustion to ask your self
he gives all this to you but what do you give to him ?????
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
12 year old girl idk !!!! advice please?
ok
a friend of mine has a daughter .
the girl is 12 years old and she is all over guys .
im not being disgusting but she just got her period and the bathroom looked like a horror flick .
now
shes running around i would assume in heat which is nasty but shes seeing a kid whos 13 and and kid whos 12
i mean by seeing not dating like playing with everyday
and she was on my computer while her mom came over and i saw on the history that she was looking up how to get pregnant , what is puberty , and what does sex feel like
im talking google searchs
so im trying to look out for her
her mom wants to know what to do ???
she looks 15 but shes 12
i dont know
any advice12 year old girl idk !!!! advice please?
explain to her the consequences behind her behavior12 year old girl idk !!!! advice please?
O dear. Whats the world coming to. What ever happened to hopscotch.
kids are just getttin worse now a days!
they get soo slutty
i doubt this one is gonna change
once they startlike that theyll neveer stop!
i think u should tell her mom
what if she doesnt care?!?!
u should talk to her
the simple thing to do is ask her if she really is your friend, then when she says yes have her mom take her to a high school or some were that have teen moms and have those teens talk to her and tell her what its like to be a mom at a yung age, then you can tell her that if she really is your firend she would stop treating her self as a whore cause she isnt and that you are there for her and just want to see her be safe and happy tell she finds the right guy (when she is older) theres no rush to being older and haveing a kid trust me :)
P.S tell her mom it will be ok there are many ways to stop her from doing bad things
Tell her mother what you found.
weellll you do what you want if she was my daughter she could do what ever she wants
Mind your own business and let the girl's mother handle her.
Yea seriously it would take something jurassic to make her change. Like maybe giving her one of the fake but REALLY life like babies to take care of so her wish can come true. Then her mom should make her care for it so she can see what the real world is like. She could maybe even make her do lots of chores to simulate having a job and then the mom can take out money for taxes and make her pay rent, food etc. with the money she makes. Then the daughter can see first hand how life is.
Hopefully the girl would realize that teen pregnancy and sex is not ok and then she be a normal kid again with having to go through all the aforementioned things FOR REAL when she either an adult or gets the baby she was hoping for.
And if you cant do something jurassic that can alter this behavior then she has a difficult road ahead of her.
Sounds like her mom needs to have ';the talk'; with her. Every girl at that age are curious like that-but if the moms don't sit down and explain it, the girl will be left with questions. She will turn to the Internet to find out the answers and the more she finds out the deeper she will get into it. A harmless talk with mom has boundaries, but the Internet doesn't! And things will go to rated r content. Her mom really needs to keep an eye on her because she WILL become a little skank child.
Okay, first I want to start out with she's going to regret acting like that later on in life. Tell her that. If she tells you to leave (or something along those lines) just continue on because if she keeps acting this way and her friends find out then everyone will find out and think she is a greasy slut. The one thing I regret from when i was twelve was having a boyfriend. Sure, it was common to have one. You wanted someone to go to dances with. But that's really it. I spent more and more time talking to him at home on MSN than i did hanging out with my friends. And, what did i do when i was with my friends? I talked about guys of course. Then, I realized that i was spending more time sitting at home trying to find a way to go out to a movie or do something than i actually was doing these things.
I cant remember where this story was going but I hope the advice i have given so far works out for you.
Teens and preteens have so much more to deal with now than their parents had to at their age. The media, internet and even kids at school are the sources of much misinformation about sex and sexuality.
It seems as though your friend's daughter is maturing physically but mentally and emotionally she is still a bit immature.
It is natural for her to be curious about sex, boys and babies, however, she needs alot of guidance in this area.
Apart from her own curiosity, exposure to pornographic material at home or at school, or sexual molestation could be a contributing factor to her current behaviour.
Her mother should sit with her and try discuss the issue of sex, as well as boy-girl relationships, puberty and some of the many challenges which she may be facing now as a pre teen. If her mother finds it difficult to have such open discussions herself she can seek the help of a counsellor, possibly at school or church. As her mother's friend you can also try to talk with her and guide her. Don't be too quick to judge her or label her though, just try to understand that she is going through a very tough period of her life and she needs alot of love and support from friends and family.
I have two teen girls myself. When they had their first period I had a ladies only party to celebrate their beginning womanhood. I invited my female relatives, (no litttle girls) and we talked about what it means to be a woman. We also just had alot of good, clean fun with games and treats. Maybe you guys can try this too. I hope that I was helpful to you in some way.
Sign up her mother for wife swap. That should be an interesting episode. She would get a strict mother, who won't ler her out of her sight.
This is th answer, I am serious.
the internet is a good place to learn that stuff. especially wikipedia. she's doing the right thing.
i think you should mind your own business and let her mother worry about her own daughter.
Let easy girls be easy girls! She sounds like a little skank girl. There's nothing you can do for this type of girl, just watch.
a friend of mine has a daughter .
the girl is 12 years old and she is all over guys .
im not being disgusting but she just got her period and the bathroom looked like a horror flick .
now
shes running around i would assume in heat which is nasty but shes seeing a kid whos 13 and and kid whos 12
i mean by seeing not dating like playing with everyday
and she was on my computer while her mom came over and i saw on the history that she was looking up how to get pregnant , what is puberty , and what does sex feel like
im talking google searchs
so im trying to look out for her
her mom wants to know what to do ???
she looks 15 but shes 12
i dont know
any advice12 year old girl idk !!!! advice please?
explain to her the consequences behind her behavior12 year old girl idk !!!! advice please?
O dear. Whats the world coming to. What ever happened to hopscotch.
kids are just getttin worse now a days!
they get soo slutty
i doubt this one is gonna change
once they startlike that theyll neveer stop!
i think u should tell her mom
what if she doesnt care?!?!
u should talk to her
the simple thing to do is ask her if she really is your friend, then when she says yes have her mom take her to a high school or some were that have teen moms and have those teens talk to her and tell her what its like to be a mom at a yung age, then you can tell her that if she really is your firend she would stop treating her self as a whore cause she isnt and that you are there for her and just want to see her be safe and happy tell she finds the right guy (when she is older) theres no rush to being older and haveing a kid trust me :)
P.S tell her mom it will be ok there are many ways to stop her from doing bad things
Tell her mother what you found.
weellll you do what you want if she was my daughter she could do what ever she wants
Mind your own business and let the girl's mother handle her.
Yea seriously it would take something jurassic to make her change. Like maybe giving her one of the fake but REALLY life like babies to take care of so her wish can come true. Then her mom should make her care for it so she can see what the real world is like. She could maybe even make her do lots of chores to simulate having a job and then the mom can take out money for taxes and make her pay rent, food etc. with the money she makes. Then the daughter can see first hand how life is.
Hopefully the girl would realize that teen pregnancy and sex is not ok and then she be a normal kid again with having to go through all the aforementioned things FOR REAL when she either an adult or gets the baby she was hoping for.
And if you cant do something jurassic that can alter this behavior then she has a difficult road ahead of her.
Sounds like her mom needs to have ';the talk'; with her. Every girl at that age are curious like that-but if the moms don't sit down and explain it, the girl will be left with questions. She will turn to the Internet to find out the answers and the more she finds out the deeper she will get into it. A harmless talk with mom has boundaries, but the Internet doesn't! And things will go to rated r content. Her mom really needs to keep an eye on her because she WILL become a little skank child.
Okay, first I want to start out with she's going to regret acting like that later on in life. Tell her that. If she tells you to leave (or something along those lines) just continue on because if she keeps acting this way and her friends find out then everyone will find out and think she is a greasy slut. The one thing I regret from when i was twelve was having a boyfriend. Sure, it was common to have one. You wanted someone to go to dances with. But that's really it. I spent more and more time talking to him at home on MSN than i did hanging out with my friends. And, what did i do when i was with my friends? I talked about guys of course. Then, I realized that i was spending more time sitting at home trying to find a way to go out to a movie or do something than i actually was doing these things.
I cant remember where this story was going but I hope the advice i have given so far works out for you.
Teens and preteens have so much more to deal with now than their parents had to at their age. The media, internet and even kids at school are the sources of much misinformation about sex and sexuality.
It seems as though your friend's daughter is maturing physically but mentally and emotionally she is still a bit immature.
It is natural for her to be curious about sex, boys and babies, however, she needs alot of guidance in this area.
Apart from her own curiosity, exposure to pornographic material at home or at school, or sexual molestation could be a contributing factor to her current behaviour.
Her mother should sit with her and try discuss the issue of sex, as well as boy-girl relationships, puberty and some of the many challenges which she may be facing now as a pre teen. If her mother finds it difficult to have such open discussions herself she can seek the help of a counsellor, possibly at school or church. As her mother's friend you can also try to talk with her and guide her. Don't be too quick to judge her or label her though, just try to understand that she is going through a very tough period of her life and she needs alot of love and support from friends and family.
I have two teen girls myself. When they had their first period I had a ladies only party to celebrate their beginning womanhood. I invited my female relatives, (no litttle girls) and we talked about what it means to be a woman. We also just had alot of good, clean fun with games and treats. Maybe you guys can try this too. I hope that I was helpful to you in some way.
Sign up her mother for wife swap. That should be an interesting episode. She would get a strict mother, who won't ler her out of her sight.
This is th answer, I am serious.
the internet is a good place to learn that stuff. especially wikipedia. she's doing the right thing.
i think you should mind your own business and let her mother worry about her own daughter.
Let easy girls be easy girls! She sounds like a little skank girl. There's nothing you can do for this type of girl, just watch.
I like a girl, Need Advice?
Ya, so I like this girl, She is a good person. I am a shy guy, I talk to her many times, but for some reason when I am alone with her, I dont know what happens my mind, just goes blank. My friends are all outgoing and they can converse with her fine, but I dont talk all that much, and even if i talk it just a small talk. They talk about everything, and I am careful to choose my words, not to offened her. Age dirrence between her and me is like 1-2 years and some that of my friends and her. Just dont want her to like them but not me. So what can i do help me.
And how can i tell she likes me if i talk to her.I like a girl, Need Advice?
Just practise on talking more to her. I don't know what else to tell you, if you really want her to notice you then you should simply tell her that you like her.
Maybe she likes you as well but like you, she's a bit shy to admit it.
Good luck and I really hope this helps! ^__^
And how can i tell she likes me if i talk to her.I like a girl, Need Advice?
Just practise on talking more to her. I don't know what else to tell you, if you really want her to notice you then you should simply tell her that you like her.
Maybe she likes you as well but like you, she's a bit shy to admit it.
Good luck and I really hope this helps! ^__^
I need a girl's advice about this message I received?
I received it from some girl in myspace I want to know what it means because I'm not sure what she means by ';Im looking for something casual';. Also, I find it strange that she would use her friends account and not her own account but I'm aware that there's the possibility she doesn't have an account...Im probably over-analyzing this too much, here's the message:
Subject:
Hello...
Body:
Hiya there!
I'm new to this, so stick with me! I saw your profile page and wanted to contact you. I consider myself to be very good-looking. I love being active, I work out twice a week or more. I also love to travel Presently, I'm looking for something casual. I did the whole long-term thing and need a break!
FYI, I'm using one of my friend's personal accounts, so don..t respond directly to this message. So please use my own email instead: XXXXX at yahoo..
Hoping to hear from you!I need a girl's advice about this message I received?
I would be really wary of this if I were you, the message sounds like a pre-made fake that they probably send to a lot of people. But to technically answer the question ';something casual'; means usually sex with no strings. But I think that this message sounds fake...I need a girl's advice about this message I received?
Is it possible that this girl knows you other than on myspace? She sounds very sure of herself and seems to like you. As for something casual - maybe she just wants someone to go places with or just hang out. No commitments. She is just being straight forward and honest in my opinion.
This sounds like one of those spam messages you sometimes get on myspace, do not respond, if you go to that email address you could cause a bug to your computer.. report it is spam
yikes
If someone is good looking, they don't need to be discreet about it. He/she should open their own account and contact people. sounds like someone wants to set you up.
Too many crazy people out there. Be careful.
haha
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Amv033Pyi6SjK3JhP6h_zeXsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20080522142527AAuqOdV
';i consider myself to be very good-looking'; stay away lol shes gonna play around with you
definitely sounds like spam. Nobody types with so many exclamations -.-
could be a spammer. or
something casual means like a one night stand typa deal no relationships
Sounds like spam, delete it.
she is like a whore and wants to hook up with you
she just wants to have fun it seems. she does want any commitment. good luck!
i think its one of those scam things...like a robot or something...don't take it serious...lol
its spamm. don't answer it
I've gotten messages like this before and it is DEFINITELY spam... just delete it and don't talk to her.refill
Subject:
Hello...
Body:
Hiya there!
I'm new to this, so stick with me! I saw your profile page and wanted to contact you. I consider myself to be very good-looking. I love being active, I work out twice a week or more. I also love to travel Presently, I'm looking for something casual. I did the whole long-term thing and need a break!
FYI, I'm using one of my friend's personal accounts, so don..t respond directly to this message. So please use my own email instead: XXXXX at yahoo..
Hoping to hear from you!I need a girl's advice about this message I received?
I would be really wary of this if I were you, the message sounds like a pre-made fake that they probably send to a lot of people. But to technically answer the question ';something casual'; means usually sex with no strings. But I think that this message sounds fake...I need a girl's advice about this message I received?
Is it possible that this girl knows you other than on myspace? She sounds very sure of herself and seems to like you. As for something casual - maybe she just wants someone to go places with or just hang out. No commitments. She is just being straight forward and honest in my opinion.
This sounds like one of those spam messages you sometimes get on myspace, do not respond, if you go to that email address you could cause a bug to your computer.. report it is spam
yikes
If someone is good looking, they don't need to be discreet about it. He/she should open their own account and contact people. sounds like someone wants to set you up.
Too many crazy people out there. Be careful.
haha
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Amv033Pyi6SjK3JhP6h_zeXsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20080522142527AAuqOdV
';i consider myself to be very good-looking'; stay away lol shes gonna play around with you
definitely sounds like spam. Nobody types with so many exclamations -.-
could be a spammer. or
something casual means like a one night stand typa deal no relationships
Sounds like spam, delete it.
she is like a whore and wants to hook up with you
she just wants to have fun it seems. she does want any commitment. good luck!
i think its one of those scam things...like a robot or something...don't take it serious...lol
its spamm. don't answer it
I've gotten messages like this before and it is DEFINITELY spam... just delete it and don't talk to her.
Monday, August 23, 2010
Need help with girl problem? ADVICE PLEASE?
i liked this girl for a while and asked her to hang out a few times, but she either stood me up or flaked on the day, but she always said yes and with such enthusiasm and happiness.
I eventually got the point and left it that. we started talking again and tried to explain herself, how she was hanging out with guys here and there and they were just friends and how she wanted to only be just friends with me too. so i didnt wanna get into anything so i just ';yeah cool, dont stress it'; she knows i liked her a lot
Anyway i was curious as to why she did that and now we are pretty good friends. this happened 3 months ago. i wanted to email her this
';hey i just had a question that i was curious about since things are calm now and i aint feeling you like that anymore.
how come you never hung out with me? i dont mean to be intrusive or what not, im curious... i always asked you in a platonic way. You did say you were lonely and you were hanging with others... i did have feelings but i was gonna get rid of them on my own. Im also curious why you never said no...
Im not trying to stress you about it...';
is that good or bad? im really curious wgy she did what she did.Need help with girl problem? ADVICE PLEASE?
it is good she realise and return backNeed help with girl problem? ADVICE PLEASE?
girls (and some boys) don't like to hurt or disappoint people (the nice one anyway) so they will often give a wrong phone number or say they will hang out or something when they don't really want to. This girl has sent you the message - actions speak more truth than words. Smile when you see her and move on. There are a lot of good ones out there that will return your attention.
may be she is afraid
errrr........
i think you need to need the curiosity stay in your head
if it doesn't matter then what's the point?
like, you don't wanna seem clingy and desperate to know what other people think thats not cool
my advice: don't email her
good luck!
i think instead of emailing it, you ask her personally to her face, just be like, i was wondering some things that i could hope you could answer, and ask her your questions like what you wrote sounded good.
Maybe she had good reasons to not be able to go. let her explain herself and trust her.
I'm just being truthful here, but if she knew that you really liked her, if she liked you back she would problably atleast flirt with you a lot.
i hope this helped :)
I think thats it's totally fine to ask her that, but it would be better, if possible in person... she may also be confused about her own feelings, so the only way to know, is to ask!
GOOD LUCK!
She already gave you an answer and asking her by email seems a little too much. Just let it go
I think you should give her some privacy. Maybe she will understand later that your sincere to her. Girls always want a privacy. But if you can't wait for the time, you should say like ';hey, it's not that I didn't trust on you but seriously I just want to know why you never hung out with me? Please don't stress yourself.
God no, don't send that. It makes you sound desperate and needy. She would never want to see you, let alone go out with you if she sees that.
I eventually got the point and left it that. we started talking again and tried to explain herself, how she was hanging out with guys here and there and they were just friends and how she wanted to only be just friends with me too. so i didnt wanna get into anything so i just ';yeah cool, dont stress it'; she knows i liked her a lot
Anyway i was curious as to why she did that and now we are pretty good friends. this happened 3 months ago. i wanted to email her this
';hey i just had a question that i was curious about since things are calm now and i aint feeling you like that anymore.
how come you never hung out with me? i dont mean to be intrusive or what not, im curious... i always asked you in a platonic way. You did say you were lonely and you were hanging with others... i did have feelings but i was gonna get rid of them on my own. Im also curious why you never said no...
Im not trying to stress you about it...';
is that good or bad? im really curious wgy she did what she did.Need help with girl problem? ADVICE PLEASE?
it is good she realise and return backNeed help with girl problem? ADVICE PLEASE?
girls (and some boys) don't like to hurt or disappoint people (the nice one anyway) so they will often give a wrong phone number or say they will hang out or something when they don't really want to. This girl has sent you the message - actions speak more truth than words. Smile when you see her and move on. There are a lot of good ones out there that will return your attention.
may be she is afraid
errrr........
i think you need to need the curiosity stay in your head
if it doesn't matter then what's the point?
like, you don't wanna seem clingy and desperate to know what other people think thats not cool
my advice: don't email her
good luck!
i think instead of emailing it, you ask her personally to her face, just be like, i was wondering some things that i could hope you could answer, and ask her your questions like what you wrote sounded good.
Maybe she had good reasons to not be able to go. let her explain herself and trust her.
I'm just being truthful here, but if she knew that you really liked her, if she liked you back she would problably atleast flirt with you a lot.
i hope this helped :)
I think thats it's totally fine to ask her that, but it would be better, if possible in person... she may also be confused about her own feelings, so the only way to know, is to ask!
GOOD LUCK!
She already gave you an answer and asking her by email seems a little too much. Just let it go
I think you should give her some privacy. Maybe she will understand later that your sincere to her. Girls always want a privacy. But if you can't wait for the time, you should say like ';hey, it's not that I didn't trust on you but seriously I just want to know why you never hung out with me? Please don't stress yourself.
God no, don't send that. It makes you sound desperate and needy. She would never want to see you, let alone go out with you if she sees that.
I need a girl's advice.?
Sometimes I don't feel very girly. I know I'm young %26amp; still developing but I feel less girly because I have A cups sometimes. I know girls with my build are late bloomers %26amp; my body is very proportionate but it still makes me feel bad. I work at a fast food restaurant %26amp; I work by our grill area. That is considered a guy's job. Today I moved around something really heavy. My boss consider me strong %26amp; asked if I was manly (well he phrased it another way but that's the basic idea). I sing low notes in chorus. I'm an alto 2 (the lowest part a girl can sing) %26amp; I can hit bass notes. One of my friends said I dress like a guy %26amp; thinks I don't wear enough makeup. Another one of my friends criticized me on my looks too (the way I dress, my makeup, and saying I need to put my hair up and stuff). So what can I do to make these bad feelings go away?I need a girl's advice.?
Dress how you want and be comfortable with yourself. Dont change yourself into someone your not b/c you will regret it later. If you want to change then do it a little at a time. Brush off what they are saying. They probably spend 2 hours in the morning for pretty much no reason. No one really cares as long a you dont smell bad.
And by the way I sing alto too. I think that it is a great and wonderful thing to be able to sing low. I personally can sing every womens part. But the low parts just seem so much better. Plus, every guy I talk to prefers a low alto over a sopranno. I doesnt make you more like a guy.
I bet that there is many people that want to be like you. So dont change if you dont want to. Be your self and have fun. Dont listen to your friends. Besides if all they want is to change you then they are not really friendsI need a girl's advice.?
Hey, dress how you like. It you're not gay however, you might want to girlie it up a little. It has nothing to do with cup size, but it has everything to do with style. Go shopping with some friends and ask their advice.
Accept yourself for whoever you are. I call myself ';La Petite Linebacker!';. I have always been muscular with broad shoulders, big muscular thighs, a deep voice and masculine walk. When I was in high school, I wore mini-skirts and the other kids would call me ';She-Man';. But I never really cared. I thought and still think I'm beautiful. So what others said rarely mattered. Even now, I'm 36 and I have co-workers who feel like they should tell me how I should dress to be more femine. Well, I know what I'm comfortable with. And for me a nice pair of slacks or a comfy pair of jeans are great. I wear heels but they are always low and casual. Take the time to get to know you and learn to love who you are and appreciate all that you are. No one else on the whole Earth is you, and that makes you very special. And if your friends have problems with that, don't worry about it. To this day, I still can't whisper, cause my voice is deep and heavy, but I'm all woman and any man who can get and keep my attention will tell you this too. Also, after one baby and growing all the way up, I still only wear a B cup (A cup until I had the baby) and men love my boobs. So don't think less of yourself for not being the typical,
You are the unique and special. Embrace it!
i know EXACTLY where your comming from because i have a muscular build and can single base in cheerleading. theres two things you can get to make you feel better
1.buy a heavliy padded push up bra (victorias secret makes a great puch up with air pockeets to make you look natrual)
2.buy tighter tops with a moderalty low cut but not low v necks,so tight you feel uncomfortable.the shirts should be fitted not sluty
and if you like the way you dress them stay that way im 15 and the only makeup i wear is lipgloss if i remember that
if you do decide to wear make up DO NOT I REPEAT DO NOT wear so much your pores cant breath itl cause acne and black heads. start wearing it gradually only add 1 thing every other week your face has to get used to it and change the oils and amount of oils released
o dont worry what they say, imma A cup, im an alto. as far as how you dress maybe if you wear T shirts and shop in the guys section id worry, but as long as you shop in the womens department and dont wear too many T shirts then leave the rest of the trust to the store. if you think the make up u wear makes you look fine than thats ok, personaly im pretty strong , but that doesnt make me like a man.
dont feel bad about yourself and if your friends really cared about you they would NOT judge you about how your hair looks your size makeup but you could try some new things like dressing up in more girl like clothes with more make up if you dont feel comfortable in this then you dont have make this the permanent way you look and dress.
ignore them darling. people can be so ignorant. there is nothing wrong with you. i was a late bloomer(a cup at 19), im a 34dd now (naturally) and im gettin girlier the older i get (im 23). just ignore the people who make stupid comments.
you will grow into your looks! it just takes time and you pretty much got that on your side. so what if you are strong. if your friends critisize you, they are probably dealing with some of their own issues....inside. you are fine the way you are and if you want, get a make up lesson (the department store girls LOVE a makeover!) and if not, who cares? peole dont MAKE you feel a certain way, you ALLOW them to make you feel that way. let people know how you feel when they say something about you femininity. they will get the picture. by the time you get out of highschool, you will be the envy of all! dont worry!
dress and act the way you are most comfortable.
many times people will say things to you to make themselves feel superior--i think those are the types of things being said to you.
people will always speak before they think.
you just need to accept that you`re fine the way you are.
things may change as you get older, and then again, they may not.
just accept that you`re a great person just as you are.
';you are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars--you have a right to be here.
and whether or not it is clear to you, the universe is unfolding as it should';.
Dress how you want and be comfortable with yourself. Dont change yourself into someone your not b/c you will regret it later. If you want to change then do it a little at a time. Brush off what they are saying. They probably spend 2 hours in the morning for pretty much no reason. No one really cares as long a you dont smell bad.
And by the way I sing alto too. I think that it is a great and wonderful thing to be able to sing low. I personally can sing every womens part. But the low parts just seem so much better. Plus, every guy I talk to prefers a low alto over a sopranno. I doesnt make you more like a guy.
I bet that there is many people that want to be like you. So dont change if you dont want to. Be your self and have fun. Dont listen to your friends. Besides if all they want is to change you then they are not really friendsI need a girl's advice.?
Hey, dress how you like. It you're not gay however, you might want to girlie it up a little. It has nothing to do with cup size, but it has everything to do with style. Go shopping with some friends and ask their advice.
Accept yourself for whoever you are. I call myself ';La Petite Linebacker!';. I have always been muscular with broad shoulders, big muscular thighs, a deep voice and masculine walk. When I was in high school, I wore mini-skirts and the other kids would call me ';She-Man';. But I never really cared. I thought and still think I'm beautiful. So what others said rarely mattered. Even now, I'm 36 and I have co-workers who feel like they should tell me how I should dress to be more femine. Well, I know what I'm comfortable with. And for me a nice pair of slacks or a comfy pair of jeans are great. I wear heels but they are always low and casual. Take the time to get to know you and learn to love who you are and appreciate all that you are. No one else on the whole Earth is you, and that makes you very special. And if your friends have problems with that, don't worry about it. To this day, I still can't whisper, cause my voice is deep and heavy, but I'm all woman and any man who can get and keep my attention will tell you this too. Also, after one baby and growing all the way up, I still only wear a B cup (A cup until I had the baby) and men love my boobs. So don't think less of yourself for not being the typical,
You are the unique and special. Embrace it!
i know EXACTLY where your comming from because i have a muscular build and can single base in cheerleading. theres two things you can get to make you feel better
1.buy a heavliy padded push up bra (victorias secret makes a great puch up with air pockeets to make you look natrual)
2.buy tighter tops with a moderalty low cut but not low v necks,so tight you feel uncomfortable.the shirts should be fitted not sluty
and if you like the way you dress them stay that way im 15 and the only makeup i wear is lipgloss if i remember that
if you do decide to wear make up DO NOT I REPEAT DO NOT wear so much your pores cant breath itl cause acne and black heads. start wearing it gradually only add 1 thing every other week your face has to get used to it and change the oils and amount of oils released
o dont worry what they say, imma A cup, im an alto. as far as how you dress maybe if you wear T shirts and shop in the guys section id worry, but as long as you shop in the womens department and dont wear too many T shirts then leave the rest of the trust to the store. if you think the make up u wear makes you look fine than thats ok, personaly im pretty strong , but that doesnt make me like a man.
dont feel bad about yourself and if your friends really cared about you they would NOT judge you about how your hair looks your size makeup but you could try some new things like dressing up in more girl like clothes with more make up if you dont feel comfortable in this then you dont have make this the permanent way you look and dress.
ignore them darling. people can be so ignorant. there is nothing wrong with you. i was a late bloomer(a cup at 19), im a 34dd now (naturally) and im gettin girlier the older i get (im 23). just ignore the people who make stupid comments.
you will grow into your looks! it just takes time and you pretty much got that on your side. so what if you are strong. if your friends critisize you, they are probably dealing with some of their own issues....inside. you are fine the way you are and if you want, get a make up lesson (the department store girls LOVE a makeover!) and if not, who cares? peole dont MAKE you feel a certain way, you ALLOW them to make you feel that way. let people know how you feel when they say something about you femininity. they will get the picture. by the time you get out of highschool, you will be the envy of all! dont worry!
dress and act the way you are most comfortable.
many times people will say things to you to make themselves feel superior--i think those are the types of things being said to you.
people will always speak before they think.
you just need to accept that you`re fine the way you are.
things may change as you get older, and then again, they may not.
just accept that you`re a great person just as you are.
';you are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars--you have a right to be here.
and whether or not it is clear to you, the universe is unfolding as it should';.
Girls help.. i dont know how to deal with this girl...need advice!?
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Theres this girl at canada high school i chat to all the time (shes in my class), she used to be quiet when i used to talk at the start, and i always catch her staring at me, and when i catch her she looks away:).Now she has really opened up and talks to me alot, and laughs alot when i speak to her!, she can still be quiet at times though, but she will try her best to start a conversation now too! i wave to her everytime she looks and she always smiles and waves back to me. The other day, i told her about an event i went and done during my holiday, and she was like ';i havent done that in ages!';, and then she said ';where do you even go to do that nowadays';..i told her where and said its heaps of fun....then she went quiet for awhile...then we started talking again, was she wanting me to ask her out?i like this girl alot! and have been chatting to her little bits at a time for around 4 months!.she also said ';do you have any plans for your school break?';Girls help.. i dont know how to deal with this girl...need advice!?
she wants you but she doesnt want to leave her boyfriend, probably. she needs to leave her bf before she can start anything with you because you cant have a relationship if she is still with him., somehow yo uhave to work her boyfriend into a conversation and ask about him. then act kinda ';down'; to show you dont like that she has a bf. if later she heckof keeps flirting and askin you out, say you cant because she has a bf. then if she wants you enough she'll leave him.
hope it works out=)Girls help.. i dont know how to deal with this girl...need advice!?
www.datingloveandsex.com will help you
Theres this girl at canada high school i chat to all the time (shes in my class), she used to be quiet when i used to talk at the start, and i always catch her staring at me, and when i catch her she looks away:).Now she has really opened up and talks to me alot, and laughs alot when i speak to her!, she can still be quiet at times though, but she will try her best to start a conversation now too! i wave to her everytime she looks and she always smiles and waves back to me. The other day, i told her about an event i went and done during my holiday, and she was like ';i havent done that in ages!';, and then she said ';where do you even go to do that nowadays';..i told her where and said its heaps of fun....then she went quiet for awhile...then we started talking again, was she wanting me to ask her out?i like this girl alot! and have been chatting to her little bits at a time for around 4 months!.she also said ';do you have any plans for your school break?';Girls help.. i dont know how to deal with this girl...need advice!?
she wants you but she doesnt want to leave her boyfriend, probably. she needs to leave her bf before she can start anything with you because you cant have a relationship if she is still with him., somehow yo uhave to work her boyfriend into a conversation and ask about him. then act kinda ';down'; to show you dont like that she has a bf. if later she heckof keeps flirting and askin you out, say you cant because she has a bf. then if she wants you enough she'll leave him.
hope it works out=)Girls help.. i dont know how to deal with this girl...need advice!?
www.datingloveandsex.com will help you
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