I'm not usually this sharing, but I could use a word of advice...
I met a girl online who's beautiful, smart, sensitive, actually out of my league is how I feel about her. It's sometimes hard to talk to her online, 'cause she has a very sarcastic side. She grew up homeschooled, a very religious background. She keeps saying she doesn't want a b/friend or a husband.
But she calls me time to time, and seems happy when I talk to her.
Do women... have a thing when they're not sure about a guy, but don't wanna lose him either that they do that, mess with his head? She gave me reasons to believe she sees more than friendship in me, for sure. My gut tells me to pursue her, drive to her state and meet her when I can.
But I'm not very mentally strong, a lot of family drama, many things wearing me down, so giving her a call isn't easy - I watch every word I say. WOuld you say we still got a chance? Since neither of us is pushing the other away? Is this how love works sometimes?About a girl, need advice?
well
i understand why u think she likes u, and she either:
1. likes u
2. is a ***** who is messin wit u
3. or she just wants to be friends because she is either afraid of falling in love or she's lesbian.
4. or she might not be into u at the moment.
don't drive to her state w,o her permission. cause then she might think ur a stalker. so ya,
tell her how u feelAbout a girl, need advice?
tell her how your feeling.
Monday, August 23, 2010
About a girl, need advice?
I'm not usually this sharing, but I could use a word of advice...
I met a girl online who's beautiful, smart, sensitive, actually out of my league is how I feel about her. It's sometimes hard to talk to her online, 'cause she has a very sarcastic side. She grew up homeschooled, a very religious background. She keeps saying she doesn't want a b/friend or a husband.
But she calls me time to time, and seems happy when I talk to her.
Do women... have a thing when they're not sure about a guy, but don't wanna lose him either that they do that, mess with his head? She gave me reasons to believe she sees more than friendship in me, for sure. My gut tells me to pursue her, drive to her state and meet her when I can.
But I'm not very mentally strong, a lot of family drama, many things wearing me down, so giving her a call isn't easy - I watch every word I say. WOuld you say we still got a chance? Since neither of us is pushing the other away? Is this how love works sometimes?About a girl, need advice?
well
i understand why u think she likes u, and she either:
1. likes u
2. is a ***** who is messin wit u
3. or she just wants to be friends because she is either afraid of falling in love or she's lesbian.
4. or she might not be into u at the moment.
don't drive to her state w,o her permission. cause then she might think ur a stalker. so ya,
tell her how u feelAbout a girl, need advice?
tell her how your feeling.
I met a girl online who's beautiful, smart, sensitive, actually out of my league is how I feel about her. It's sometimes hard to talk to her online, 'cause she has a very sarcastic side. She grew up homeschooled, a very religious background. She keeps saying she doesn't want a b/friend or a husband.
But she calls me time to time, and seems happy when I talk to her.
Do women... have a thing when they're not sure about a guy, but don't wanna lose him either that they do that, mess with his head? She gave me reasons to believe she sees more than friendship in me, for sure. My gut tells me to pursue her, drive to her state and meet her when I can.
But I'm not very mentally strong, a lot of family drama, many things wearing me down, so giving her a call isn't easy - I watch every word I say. WOuld you say we still got a chance? Since neither of us is pushing the other away? Is this how love works sometimes?About a girl, need advice?
well
i understand why u think she likes u, and she either:
1. likes u
2. is a ***** who is messin wit u
3. or she just wants to be friends because she is either afraid of falling in love or she's lesbian.
4. or she might not be into u at the moment.
don't drive to her state w,o her permission. cause then she might think ur a stalker. so ya,
tell her how u feelAbout a girl, need advice?
tell her how your feeling.
I need girl/female advice on this PROBLEM!?
http://s234.photobucket.com/albums/ee244/elhajan/
I am the guy on the far right with the flag portrait on my cheeks and a football shirt
basically i met this really pretty girl and she seems amazing, we have so much in common and sort of admits that...
we texted a few times and she gave me all the signals to suggest she was also interested in me....she even wanted to go to the club together and it all seemed perfect but when we got there she started drinking and became more active with the middle guy...as they were both drinking and i was sober as i dont drink i was not on the same level as them...I was basically out of the game, much to my dissapointement
she says she is only friends with him but i dont believe it because wherever i see her she is with him...they are both single tho, as stated on facebook...he is actually 2 years younger than her and I am 1 year older than her (21)
Why is she doing this to me altho i want her so much more than he, he is surely playing around with her, BUT IS HE BETTER looking, is that the reason??
i think the girl now only wants to be friends with me, it really seems like that.................altho she did say she likes my personality
2 hours ago - 3 days left to answer. I need girl/female advice on this PROBLEM!?
noo calm down, if she really loves you back then she will come to you, i mean you can make the first move, but if she doesn't seem interested then don't push her. and if she decides to go out with tht guy, he is probably not as good as you will be so then maybe she will come to you. I need girl/female advice on this PROBLEM!?
if u feel so strongly about her, don't let her go, you'll only regret it later!
perhaps she is just testing you, to see how far you will go for her?
good luck! =]
your better lookin hes so ugly
get sticky
I dont think she's the girl for you!!!! A girl that would rather drink and hang around with a younger guy???? Immature....
go for it
I am the guy on the far right with the flag portrait on my cheeks and a football shirt
basically i met this really pretty girl and she seems amazing, we have so much in common and sort of admits that...
we texted a few times and she gave me all the signals to suggest she was also interested in me....she even wanted to go to the club together and it all seemed perfect but when we got there she started drinking and became more active with the middle guy...as they were both drinking and i was sober as i dont drink i was not on the same level as them...I was basically out of the game, much to my dissapointement
she says she is only friends with him but i dont believe it because wherever i see her she is with him...they are both single tho, as stated on facebook...he is actually 2 years younger than her and I am 1 year older than her (21)
Why is she doing this to me altho i want her so much more than he, he is surely playing around with her, BUT IS HE BETTER looking, is that the reason??
i think the girl now only wants to be friends with me, it really seems like that.................altho she did say she likes my personality
2 hours ago - 3 days left to answer. I need girl/female advice on this PROBLEM!?
noo calm down, if she really loves you back then she will come to you, i mean you can make the first move, but if she doesn't seem interested then don't push her. and if she decides to go out with tht guy, he is probably not as good as you will be so then maybe she will come to you. I need girl/female advice on this PROBLEM!?
if u feel so strongly about her, don't let her go, you'll only regret it later!
perhaps she is just testing you, to see how far you will go for her?
good luck! =]
your better lookin hes so ugly
get sticky
I dont think she's the girl for you!!!! A girl that would rather drink and hang around with a younger guy???? Immature....
go for it
I need girl/moral advice?
me and my girlfriend got into a fight 2 days over something very dumb and she truly doesnt act like she loves me at all and we both agreed that she wouldnt hang out with her and just 1 or more guys and i couldnt do the same regarding to girls kas were both very jealous people and since the fight all she does is chill with guys and i wanna dump her even though i really do love her because i dont think she loves me at all and has lost total interest but she says she loves me and wants to stay with me but i can just tell that shes not being honest by her actions so should i dump her or what. idk what to doI need girl/moral advice?
Move on like dude said. If you guys fight about someting this stupid all the time, just think about what kind of fights your going to have when you do find out that she is not being honest about everything with you. ditch the *****, and get on with your life :DI need girl/moral advice?
You know, I heard once that where there is slavery there will be rebellion. You're both trying to control each other, so you both act out just to prove that you're not under control. You two should split, definitely. And work on your self esteem %26amp; confidence. Because believe it or not guys %26amp; girls can be friends and not have anything sexual going on. You don't trust her- obviously, or you wouldn't try2 tell her she can't hang with guys. It shouldn't matter if every guy she hangs with has a crush on her, if you trusted her you would have that confidence in her.
You aren't saying how old you are? You have to give her an ultimatum, Edither stop hanging out with the guys or let her know you are going to break up. If she says she still wants to hang out with the guys, then she obviously does not care that much about you and your feelings, so you need to break up and move on.
Ok so you love her and she loves you, but she obviously does not have any respect for you on the flip side of things why have you restrictions on each other its very possessive, you both need to sit down and see what you want from this relationship, are you heading down the route of kids and marriage or is less serious?? if you are going to become serious you need to have this discussion.
Ummm well jealousy isn't very cute maybe just a little bit. But not a lot it really shows how insecure you are. and her making a bet like or deal. means that you guys dont really trust eachother and trust is very important in a relationship.if her actions seem like she doesnt love you well idk what to tell you maybe you should just move on.
dump her see she knows you love her so she is thinking if he loves me he won't and can't break up with me!. to her surprise if you break it off she will be shocked and if she is hanging out with boys you go hang out with a girl. what's good for the goose is good for the geese.
your right she sounds like shes lost interest. these things happen, so my advice to you is to dump her, move on, and have some fun in the mean time. she will say anything she can most likely to keep you around but trust me, she has no intent of treating you better (even if she says she will). goodluck, happier days ahead of you!
the best thing to do is talk to her.. to find out the real answers.. no point waisting you time asking us.. because the relationship is between you two and your the one who knows hoe much you love her and that.. so just talk to her and tell her how you feel... and ask her if theres anypoint in the relationship.... because only she can tell you whats in her heart.. dont dump her coz some stupid person on yahoo answers told you too... follow your heart and use your brain...
ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THEN WORDS.
Im so sorry to say this, but I can tell she doesn't seem to be into you anymore. She's off hanging out with ohther people.... do yourself a favor please, and move on to someone who treats you right!!
Good luck, maybe I helped =)
-julia
Let her go and once she realizes what she has done, she will want you back.
Your better of if you let herr go because she is only going to continue to hurt you.
find another chick
here answer this
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
i think you should dump her because if she loved you she wouldn't do anything to hurt u...and hanging out with other guys is hurting you right now..so honestly i feel that she doesn't care about this relationship or your feelings...you deserve better
Yeah you need to end this relationship.
Mind answering mine?http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
Ummm, maybe. She probably genuinely doesn't love you, break up. But if you like her so much that it doesn't matter, go ahead. IT's your decision.
uhh. well maybe you should start acting like her hang around a lot of girls and tell her u love her.. and maybe she will realise something? i would do it...
If you feel this way, I think you should probably move on and find someone that treats you better, fight or not.
OMG!!! Can you insert some punctuation in the story to make it more understandable, please?
Move on.
move on you two are not ready to be with one person
That's really hard.
First you need to talk to each other about the fight.
Then, once that is fully resolved,tell her that when she hangs out with guys a lot you don't feel like she loves you. just talk it all out. of course she's going to say that she loves you and all of that, but you should tell her 100% how you're feeling.
really talk.
Tell her that you don't really think she cares about you by her actions, that you don't think she's into you anymore. And that if she is, then she should act like it. Don't be aggressive. try something like this ';I really love you, and I want us to stay together, but how you're acting...I don't feel loved. I mean when you hang out with all these guys, I feel like you really don't care about me. I feel like if you love me you'd show it more.';
If she's not changing or putting in a genuine effort, I'd suggest calling the relationship off.
me and my boyfriend are the same way but he lets me hang out with guys but i don't unless were in a fight but i hang out with them 2 make myself feel better because i miss all that attention from my boyfriend. so maybe you could just send her flower and a card saying your sorry and to meet you out at dinner 2 talk the fight over(even if its not your fault she might blame it on you and she might feel better knowing you are sorry for the fight). oh and if u stop her from being her own person and act like you don't trust her around other guys maybe the lack of trust made her not love you anymore but if she accepts your apology and apologizes back then its most likely that she does love you
Move on like dude said. If you guys fight about someting this stupid all the time, just think about what kind of fights your going to have when you do find out that she is not being honest about everything with you. ditch the *****, and get on with your life :DI need girl/moral advice?
You know, I heard once that where there is slavery there will be rebellion. You're both trying to control each other, so you both act out just to prove that you're not under control. You two should split, definitely. And work on your self esteem %26amp; confidence. Because believe it or not guys %26amp; girls can be friends and not have anything sexual going on. You don't trust her- obviously, or you wouldn't try2 tell her she can't hang with guys. It shouldn't matter if every guy she hangs with has a crush on her, if you trusted her you would have that confidence in her.
You aren't saying how old you are? You have to give her an ultimatum, Edither stop hanging out with the guys or let her know you are going to break up. If she says she still wants to hang out with the guys, then she obviously does not care that much about you and your feelings, so you need to break up and move on.
Ok so you love her and she loves you, but she obviously does not have any respect for you on the flip side of things why have you restrictions on each other its very possessive, you both need to sit down and see what you want from this relationship, are you heading down the route of kids and marriage or is less serious?? if you are going to become serious you need to have this discussion.
Ummm well jealousy isn't very cute maybe just a little bit. But not a lot it really shows how insecure you are. and her making a bet like or deal. means that you guys dont really trust eachother and trust is very important in a relationship.if her actions seem like she doesnt love you well idk what to tell you maybe you should just move on.
dump her see she knows you love her so she is thinking if he loves me he won't and can't break up with me!. to her surprise if you break it off she will be shocked and if she is hanging out with boys you go hang out with a girl. what's good for the goose is good for the geese.
your right she sounds like shes lost interest. these things happen, so my advice to you is to dump her, move on, and have some fun in the mean time. she will say anything she can most likely to keep you around but trust me, she has no intent of treating you better (even if she says she will). goodluck, happier days ahead of you!
the best thing to do is talk to her.. to find out the real answers.. no point waisting you time asking us.. because the relationship is between you two and your the one who knows hoe much you love her and that.. so just talk to her and tell her how you feel... and ask her if theres anypoint in the relationship.... because only she can tell you whats in her heart.. dont dump her coz some stupid person on yahoo answers told you too... follow your heart and use your brain...
ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THEN WORDS.
Im so sorry to say this, but I can tell she doesn't seem to be into you anymore. She's off hanging out with ohther people.... do yourself a favor please, and move on to someone who treats you right!!
Good luck, maybe I helped =)
-julia
Let her go and once she realizes what she has done, she will want you back.
Your better of if you let herr go because she is only going to continue to hurt you.
find another chick
here answer this
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
i think you should dump her because if she loved you she wouldn't do anything to hurt u...and hanging out with other guys is hurting you right now..so honestly i feel that she doesn't care about this relationship or your feelings...you deserve better
Yeah you need to end this relationship.
Mind answering mine?http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
Ummm, maybe. She probably genuinely doesn't love you, break up. But if you like her so much that it doesn't matter, go ahead. IT's your decision.
uhh. well maybe you should start acting like her hang around a lot of girls and tell her u love her.. and maybe she will realise something? i would do it...
If you feel this way, I think you should probably move on and find someone that treats you better, fight or not.
OMG!!! Can you insert some punctuation in the story to make it more understandable, please?
Move on.
move on you two are not ready to be with one person
That's really hard.
First you need to talk to each other about the fight.
Then, once that is fully resolved,tell her that when she hangs out with guys a lot you don't feel like she loves you. just talk it all out. of course she's going to say that she loves you and all of that, but you should tell her 100% how you're feeling.
really talk.
Tell her that you don't really think she cares about you by her actions, that you don't think she's into you anymore. And that if she is, then she should act like it. Don't be aggressive. try something like this ';I really love you, and I want us to stay together, but how you're acting...I don't feel loved. I mean when you hang out with all these guys, I feel like you really don't care about me. I feel like if you love me you'd show it more.';
If she's not changing or putting in a genuine effort, I'd suggest calling the relationship off.
me and my boyfriend are the same way but he lets me hang out with guys but i don't unless were in a fight but i hang out with them 2 make myself feel better because i miss all that attention from my boyfriend. so maybe you could just send her flower and a card saying your sorry and to meet you out at dinner 2 talk the fight over(even if its not your fault she might blame it on you and she might feel better knowing you are sorry for the fight). oh and if u stop her from being her own person and act like you don't trust her around other guys maybe the lack of trust made her not love you anymore but if she accepts your apology and apologizes back then its most likely that she does love you
So Cal girl seeking advice on moving to Istanbul.?
I just graduated from college in Los Angeles and I was planning to move to London, but decided to move with my friends to Istanbul. They have lived there for a year and I plan to teach Enlgish out there like they do. I have never been to Turkey, but have lived in Europe before. Can anyone who has lived/worked there offer any sound advice as I am starting to get a bit scared!So Cal girl seeking advice on moving to Istanbul.?
* istanbul is a huge city. with the population around 15 millions. you have to decide where you will work and choose a place to live around not to waste your time in traffic.
* it is physically divided to two, Asian and the European parts. European part is more lively and rich in culture but Asian part seems more quite and liberal.
* you should avoid crossing the bridges (from Asian part to European or the other way around) in the rush hours.
* Istanbul has a big expat community. Around the Taksim area you can meet them. Most expats live around that area and around Bosphorus.
* Search for IWI (international women of Istanbul) for more connections.
* Everybody seems like speaking some words in English but you need to learn some basic Turkish words and expressions.
* The central areas are quite European, while it gets more conservative when you go to the suburbs.
* For sure you will have unexpectedly good relations with the neighbors or the grocery store nearby or the restaurant you go due the the ';hospitality';
* the history, the architecture and the gorgeous Bosphorus will get you into the city very easily.
Good LuckSo Cal girl seeking advice on moving to Istanbul.?
Hi
There is nothing to get scared in Istanbul , in fact , it's one of the coolest cities in the World. One thing i may advice you, would be working at a school in borders of City Center just because transportation is mad in Istanbul, and you wouldn't like to spend half a day in roads. If you know where in Istanbul you will work write here and i might me more helpful.
The expat teachers I have seen here looked quite satisfied. If you have any doubt, feel free to check the web sites of some private schools, some of which contain the e-mail addresses of foreign teachers. You can send them mails for first hand information and experience.
A few examples:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Category:Pr鈥?/a>
You can make your own search ';private schools in Turkey'; if you want.
Yes, there are few stupid universities (colleges) who hires unexperienced teachers for English prep. Such as; Isik University, and some low budget private universities.
Additional info for additional details :)
Yup, Isik University is right there in Maslak 5min from Istinye. American consulate is in Istinye too. If I am not mistaken the names, Tarabya Kemal Ataturk Lisesi and Ozel Yildiz Lisesi are also close by. I still think you have more chance in Isik.
you will love istanbul loads of shoping if you go into the bazzar it is set out like one long row that just sells carpets another that just sells jewelry another that is just spices i woul sooner be there than in london
* istanbul is a huge city. with the population around 15 millions. you have to decide where you will work and choose a place to live around not to waste your time in traffic.
* it is physically divided to two, Asian and the European parts. European part is more lively and rich in culture but Asian part seems more quite and liberal.
* you should avoid crossing the bridges (from Asian part to European or the other way around) in the rush hours.
* Istanbul has a big expat community. Around the Taksim area you can meet them. Most expats live around that area and around Bosphorus.
* Search for IWI (international women of Istanbul) for more connections.
* Everybody seems like speaking some words in English but you need to learn some basic Turkish words and expressions.
* The central areas are quite European, while it gets more conservative when you go to the suburbs.
* For sure you will have unexpectedly good relations with the neighbors or the grocery store nearby or the restaurant you go due the the ';hospitality';
* the history, the architecture and the gorgeous Bosphorus will get you into the city very easily.
Good LuckSo Cal girl seeking advice on moving to Istanbul.?
Hi
There is nothing to get scared in Istanbul , in fact , it's one of the coolest cities in the World. One thing i may advice you, would be working at a school in borders of City Center just because transportation is mad in Istanbul, and you wouldn't like to spend half a day in roads. If you know where in Istanbul you will work write here and i might me more helpful.
The expat teachers I have seen here looked quite satisfied. If you have any doubt, feel free to check the web sites of some private schools, some of which contain the e-mail addresses of foreign teachers. You can send them mails for first hand information and experience.
A few examples:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Category:Pr鈥?/a>
You can make your own search ';private schools in Turkey'; if you want.
Yes, there are few stupid universities (colleges) who hires unexperienced teachers for English prep. Such as; Isik University, and some low budget private universities.
Additional info for additional details :)
Yup, Isik University is right there in Maslak 5min from Istinye. American consulate is in Istinye too. If I am not mistaken the names, Tarabya Kemal Ataturk Lisesi and Ozel Yildiz Lisesi are also close by. I still think you have more chance in Isik.
you will love istanbul loads of shoping if you go into the bazzar it is set out like one long row that just sells carpets another that just sells jewelry another that is just spices i woul sooner be there than in london
Question about this girl.. Guys/girls give advice please? :)?
Heyy peeps. Theres this girl i kinda like, i was talking to her on facebook for about a month and we hung out todayy, it was really funn:) some of her friends think i like her and stuff, and i do. We seem perfect for eachotherr............. but anyways i was just wondering cause like i hung out with her today and stuff but i don't want to be with her too too much because then we might become too much good friends and she wont want to go out with me ? .. What do you all think, any way i could drop hints or something.. Any advice on this topic at all, would be great! Thanks in advance.Question about this girl.. Guys/girls give advice please? :)?
You should pass off hints, or give her sweet little presents to show her that you are interested.refill
You should pass off hints, or give her sweet little presents to show her that you are interested.
Attractive indian girl, some advice needed.?
I am a very attractive, professional and nice indian , 31 year old lady.
I am divorced. I get a lot of attention from men at work. Most of these people are english, and I do like 1 or 2.
However, I know I am still not well-versed in English culture despite being in UK from last 6 years. I can really lose track of a conversation when in a pub where there is loud music etc.
Also, I don't get a chance to go to many gigs etc, so, I might be lacking in this area as well. Then, the usual music interests might be little different too. I do listen to many modern singers, but, i am not familiar with many old ones.
i hope you understand what i am trying to say here. I feel these men who seem to like me will be put off by my lack of local knowledge and common interests etc.
So, i don't really take any interest in anyone.
what is your opinion about my situation?Attractive indian girl, some advice needed.?
take it one step at a time, good things come to those who waitAttractive indian girl, some advice needed.?
Half of the fun in a relation ship is learning from each other.If they aren't into sharing experiences with you,then they are probably a waste of time.
the guy should like you for who you are. similarities in music are minor compared to common qualities you both possess. just be yourself and he'll appreciate that if he is ';the one.';
I am divorced. I get a lot of attention from men at work. Most of these people are english, and I do like 1 or 2.
However, I know I am still not well-versed in English culture despite being in UK from last 6 years. I can really lose track of a conversation when in a pub where there is loud music etc.
Also, I don't get a chance to go to many gigs etc, so, I might be lacking in this area as well. Then, the usual music interests might be little different too. I do listen to many modern singers, but, i am not familiar with many old ones.
i hope you understand what i am trying to say here. I feel these men who seem to like me will be put off by my lack of local knowledge and common interests etc.
So, i don't really take any interest in anyone.
what is your opinion about my situation?Attractive indian girl, some advice needed.?
take it one step at a time, good things come to those who waitAttractive indian girl, some advice needed.?
Half of the fun in a relation ship is learning from each other.If they aren't into sharing experiences with you,then they are probably a waste of time.
the guy should like you for who you are. similarities in music are minor compared to common qualities you both possess. just be yourself and he'll appreciate that if he is ';the one.';
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