20 Year Old Virgin Girl Seeking Advice!?

When men approach me they are surprised to find out that i don't have a bf and have currently never dated. I don't tell men that I am a virgin bc if I did they would just pursue me even more. So, I would like to know, what do men typically think of a girl who is 20 yrs. old and not sexually active but has physical beauty. Do you think we are psychotic or something. I know that guys my age are not going to want to be in a sexless relationship, so that is why i won't date. I would just be setting myself up for disaster and heartbreak.20 Year Old Virgin Girl Seeking Advice!?
Well, really you could possibly find the right guy who is willing to wait, especially since you aren't comfortable. I think you should date, and just go really slowly. If he loves you, he can wait. I am a guy who likes the idea of a virgin at 20 bc that means you have high standards and haven't been wild or ';loose'; with guys. I think you could get the ';RIGHT'; guy to wait, which would be the right guy-in love with YOU.20 Year Old Virgin Girl Seeking Advice!?
Save that part of you for your husband, there is no greater gift a woman could give her husband on their wedding night.





Keep doing what you've been doing, Mr. Right will come along.


God bless.
I know exactly what you are going though. I was 30 years old when I lost my virginity. When I met a guy I told him straight up that I was a virgin, because i didn't want them to feel i was leading them on. Some guys were like OMG. your so beautiful how can a women like you be a virgin and I told them I was looking for someone to respect the fact that I was a virgin.





Some men told me they respected my views and could handle it and sure enough by the third month they were gone. I was kicked out of cars, I was kicked out of houses because some men thought they could change my mind. Its true some men did tell me straight out hey, i need sex and I cant see you and I respected that more then them leading me on into having a relationship with them. The older I got the better quality of men were out there.





I did meet a man who respect me to the fullest, you have to be patient cause some men out there don't know the meaning of RESPECT


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Look the first thing you should do is set yourself up to be in places where ther are men who respect virginity. Your not gona find that at a rock concert, night club or a kama sutra school lol. Try please like church, charity organizations(the best place to meet respectful men because any man that can give unselfishly and not ask anything in return is a keeper for you). Trust me i know where u are coming from cause i was there myself(im a male virgin but much older than u).


Just be picky about who you date. What i dont understand about most female virgins is that they dont care how many men their potential guy has been with in the past.





This is called reverse hypocrisy and one reason why alot of marriages fail. Start demanding that your men be clean as well. Be proud of your virginity girl!!!!!!!!!!!
When I was in college, many of my friends were virgins. It's true! (And I didn't go to college 400 years ago, either :-) )





Some of us talked big, because we had to act like we were sooo mature; in reality it was all an act, and most of us knew it.





Psychotic? Not at all -- you're fine, I think. And, for what it's worth, even years later, some of those friends of mine in college are still friends of mine (we just don't brag as much, anymore!).





Good luck, and please relax. There really are guys out there who will relish the friendship.
well a famous quote says it all... ';it is better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all';





take a chance, and see what it might be like to be in a relationship. better to try!
seriously...stay a virgin until YOU are ready. The right guy will respect that.