Met a girl on the internet. First started talking on Yahoo. Hit it off. She was first to start flirting. She gave me the next date she was in town; made plans to meet. All was well. Three weeks we talked on phone/text, myspace, %26amp; msgr. She still flirted like crazy. I just went with it. By now, I like her. She told me many times she likes me %26amp; she can't wait to meet me. Her birthday was last week. Asked her for her address so I could send something. I sent flowers. She texted me when she got 'em; told me how sweet %26amp; amazing I was %26amp; thanked me; we talked happily the rest of the day. Next day, no texts/calls. Same thing for 2 more days. I call her; no answer. Texted her, %26amp; got short, 1 or 2 word replies. I asked what was up. She said she is feeling smothered %26amp; she just got out of a bad relationship and isn't looking for another right now. Said she's just looking for a good friend. What am I to do? She obviously likes me as more than a friend, but seems scared to be hurt again.What is with this girl? Any advice would be much appreciated. Gave as much detail as I could I think.?
It could be the truth, but then again a red flag would go up if she said you might not like me when we finally meet, does she really look like what she is saying? is this the reason why she is hesitating to meet you, and making up execuses to not meet, she might of just told you she really wants to meet and all to just keep you interested... all i know you must be careful when meeting someone off the net, anyone can say anything when behind the screen of a computer or even a phone.... but if it seems to be true what she is saying just give her time, you dont want to be the rebound.....What is with this girl? Any advice would be much appreciated. Gave as much detail as I could I think.?
just give her space and let her pursue you. if she is worried just remind her there is no pressure and if all she wants is a friendship that you would rather have that than nothing. she will come around if she really has feelings. good luck
ha.ha probably because you are stingy..
Well, my advice to you is to plan to her what kind of person that you are..but also let her know that you understand what she is saying, and give her the space needed. If she comes back then its meant to be. Just continue to be a friend to her and she with see that your words are sincere.
She needs you and likes you still but she is scare that maybe you'll be a repeat of the last jerk she was with. Trust me on this, all you gotta do is be there for her and help her trust you. Don't let her escape or run away from you. Every girl does thia at one point in their love relationships. I did it myself and i almost missed out a fabolous future with my boyfriend. Just talk to her and tell her everything on how you feel and just be there. That's what my b/f did. We've been together for a long time now and we are planing on getting married in like a year.
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