Shy girl needs advice about boys and parties!: July 2010

Saturday, July 31, 2010

Cute Girl, Need Advice?

I just moved to a new high school. Ive made a few friends, so things are going pretty good. I know of a couple girls that like me but theres one girl that I find really cute. A lot of guys go for the hot popular girls but I like the girls that arent ';well known';. Ive seen her arround with firends or just goign to class, we make eye contact every here and then. The other day I saw her sitting alone at lunch. I was gonna go sit next to her and say hey but I was walking with a friend. Its gonna be kinda hard to run into her again, while shes alone too cause I dont wanna approach her with friends. Any tips?Cute Girl, Need Advice?
well 1st let em say i appluad you and think your very sweet...lol! Ok let me think...well if you see her outside of school you could be casual and say something like, ';hey i think i've seen you around______(insert school name), do you go there?';. Umm wait I just thought of a ? 4 u...do you know her name????....that changes alot! Ok anyway I don't think you should say something to her if she is with friends, or talking to someone...at least for the first time. If you see her alone but your not say to your friend. ';Do you know who that girl is???(like you're noticed her)'; If your friend knows her try to find out as much info as possible. I'm saying be a stocker but kinda notice her nd find out as much as you can about who she is! Be a friend to her, not a boyfriends...i'm shy to nd if she is it might scare her if you come on to strong...and lol you sound kinda popular yourself!!! anyway i'll be praying for you and her! I know it will work out...I have a God-feeling. Well good luck :) or nd good choice of adjective.

God bless,

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I am so happy to help you today let me know if you need any more tipsCute Girl, Need Advice?
it doesn't matter friends or no friends, that's just an excuse because you're being shy.

muster up all your courage, sit down (after asking ';is it ok if i sit here?';) and just TALK

if she's uncomfortable, which seems unlikely, just excuse yourself.

nothing to lose, she won't think you're a freak or anything.

talk, nothin to lose :]
aww thats sweet :)

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Long distance relationship with girl. Need ADvice!?

Ok, so I met this girl from another place and I only saw her like 4 times and talked to her a couple of times when I was over there during my 1 week period. At the very last day, we had an official date and we talked for hours until the very next morning. We sealed the date with a sweet ';French'; kiss. After that I liked her and I think she liked me too. We talked over the phone a couple of times and chat with her evrsince. Lately I'm not too sure anymore and its only been a few days since we last saw each other. It feels like the ';Spark'; was kinda loss and I noticed that the conversation was not as deep and long as it used to be. Am I overreacting on this? I just feel like she loss interest since its a long distance relationship so she might feel like theres no point to it. Or maybe she was just not interested in me in the first place? Or maybe she found someone else local? Girls I need advice on this. What should I do? I wish I can provide more details so you can get the whole picturLong distance relationship with girl. Need ADvice!?
Don't assume anything. Keep talking to her. Tell her how you feel. But let her know that you don't want to be played a fool. Long distance relationships are hard. They have a lot of ups and downs. Some people can't handle it. She might be one of them. I did it with my husband for the past 4 years. Just take one day at time. She might of had a bad day and not comfortable talking about things like that to you. Specially if you just started dating.Long distance relationship with girl. Need ADvice!?
i dnt think its a good idea hhavin a long dstant relationship....no offence......but do wat u feel thats in ur heart!
In long distance relationships, this happens. When you meet up after a certain period, there is an awkwardness. Then right as you are about to get past that, you have to go your seperate ways again. These things almost never work out. I would suggest this. Remain friends for a while, a long while. Build trust and respect and you will have a good foundation for something more. Then a long distance relationship with you two may work. Right now all it is resting on is phone calls and a french kiss. That is not much at all. Good Luck!
from a guy: why would she want to committ to anything that is so restrictive like a long distance relationship... why don't you just keep her in your back pocket and see what happens.. why pressure her, unless she wants to be a b/f,g/f relationship...

kick back, see her once in awhile and have fun when she is inbetween boyfriends... catch her on the rebound and when your out of school catch back up with her and see what happens..
you want advice dont do it lol.
in a long distance relationship only 2 out of the 3 people involved in it are going to be happy, guess which one you are and you should know what to do
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I need advice on talking to a girl I like...?

I have already asked her out, and I got a definite no, but I still really like her. She pretty much ignores me and I'm too shy to do anything.I need advice on talking to a girl I like...?
i'm sorry but if she said no, and she ignores you try to forget about her.....

:(I need advice on talking to a girl I like...?
19 Steps to Effective Communication

1. See communication opportunity to pay tribute to, create, affirm, heal, to give active support and strengthen, rather than the right to criticize, tear down, injuries, wounds, attack. Praise opens the door to further communication, while the closure of their criticism.

2. Please remember that actions speak louder than words; non-verbal communication is often more powerful multi-language exchange. The avoidance of double message oral and non-verbal message some contradictions. (Credibility gap)

3. To define what is important, and stressed it; to define what is unimportant and de-emphasize or ignore it. To avoid failure to investigate.

4. Way of communicating, respect each other's value as a human being. ';Avoid statements began to read,'; You will never ... ';or'; I think you .... ';

5. Must be clear and specific in your communication. Avoid any ambiguity.

6. Is realistic and reasonable in your statements. Avoid exaggerated and the beginning of the sentence ';You always ...';

7. Test all the assumptions verbally asked if they are accurate. Refrain from taking action until the completion of this work.

8. To recognize that every event we can see that different points of view. Avoid other people to see things like you to do so. (Perception)

9. Recognizing that your family members and close friends is an expert on you and your behavior. To avoid the trend, you deny their views - especially if you are not sure.

10. Recognizing that differences could be a meaningful means of communication. Avoid destructive arguments.

11. Honest and open about your feelings and perspectives. The realization of all the major issues, even if you are worried about doing so would interfere with others. Tell the truth of love. Silent to avoid depression.

12. Do not put down and / or manipulation of other people's tactics, such as ridicule, interruption, curse, change the subject, accused of wiretapping, irony, criticism, identity, guilt-induced, such as to avoid one-upmanship game.

13. More concerned about how it affects the exchange of others than what you intend. If you are a pain to avoid misunderstanding.

14. Accept all the feelings and try to understand why other people think, and as they are. To avoid the trend said, ';You should not think this is a point.';

15. Was experienced and thoughtful, and courteous. Refrain from using other people's feelings.

16. Ask questions and listen carefully. To avoid preaching or indoctrination.

17. Do not use an excuse. To avoid falling into the hands of others an excuse.

18. Polite and gentle and kind words. Avoid nagging shout or complain.

19. Recognition of the value of humor and seriousness. Avoid destructive teasing
well sorry dude there is more fish in the sea move on and i bet you will find some one. good luck

Need a girl's advice please?

i'm in lala land for a cooworker, she' is freaking beautiful, i think she knows i like her but she doesn't seem interested,,,,,,,,,,what shoul i do?Need a girl's advice please?
If you like her that much ask her out. Women like men that are forward. Plus, you can move on if she tells you she's not interested.Need a girl's advice please?
If she is not interested then back off. Their are plenty of single women out their that may like your type.

Huge dilemma with a girl...need advice.?

Ok well there was one girl i was talking to that i just kinda broke off form because it wasn't going my way. So then i meet this girl at a party, we connect, and it seems like i'll have smething i can fall back on and everything will be ok. Then i found out she had been talking to my friend before me, and she had feelings for both of us. The thing is, my friend is the kinda guy who just uses a girl to get some, while i want an actual realtionship with her. I dont want to tell her and get **** started up with my friend, yet it will kill me to watch him use her with me feeling like a jackass. If i dont get her either, i honestly may consider suicide, i mean this is just another thing added onto a lot of stress already in my life. I just need someone to tell me what i can do to win her over, or tell her getting with my friend would be a bad idea....Huge dilemma with a girl...need advice.?
well you said that you would have someone to fall back on...doesn't sound like your all that serious but if you really like this girl and want her that bad, I say fight for her. Be yourself and woo her. Call her, take her out and show her a good time.

Don't bring up the other guy when your out, do not let her know you are ';competing'; so to speak.

And don't tell your friend either...guys become very competitive when backed into a corner.

I would tell this girl you really like her, but don't scare her..do it in s subtle way.

Good Luck !! Now go get your girl.................Huge dilemma with a girl...need advice.?
Dude i was in a situation that i was thinking commiting suicide but i didnt. You should talk ot her about your feeling and see waht happen and if it dont work . Just forget her man. Some girl outhere dont kow what good and what not. trust me.
well what you can do to get close to her is really get to know her and show her how much more you care about her then your friend. Show her what you could do for her and show her that being with you would be the best thing ever. If she is really into your friend then while she is around put ur friend into a situation where he has to show his jerk side and then make sure she sees and understands and if the girl doesn't realize how great you are and doesn't fall more for you then she isn't your type and oyu are wasting your time. But if she picks your friend and you love her enough then when your friend hurts her then you need to be there you scoop her up off her feet and tell her everything will be alright.

I hope that helps you in some way!!!
Don't get into that, it would be trouble, leave her alone, if you value your friendship. That situation is nothing but an explosion waiting to happen especially since Homegirl can't make up her mind. Either she wants her cake and pie, and cookies, too or she like the attention and wants to keep the game going!
suicide? omg emo jesus ppl like u are so damn dramatic.

hang out with her more and be more flirty and then she'll probably forget about hte other guy.

be the sweetest guy ever.

but =.- ew ppl like u who think about suicide over one girl are just sad maybe u should kill urself.
Tell your friend that you're interested in her. If he respects you at all, he would back down and let you have her.

Maybe you could try and be persistent in talking with her, as well. Only if you have her number, her email and so on. I'm sure your friend isnt slick enough to not make it obvious he just wants her for sex. Girls have a radar for that stuff most of the time. At least I do.

Don't let this little thing ruin you though. if your friends behavior in all sincerity bothers you, maybe you should question his friendship and ask him why he has to be that way all the time. May be a tough subject, but it's something that will be worth having in the long run.

Best of luck.
Your so called friend doesn't sound much like a real friend I say you ask her out first. He doesn't deserve her and you do. Don't think of suicide, don't give up on the world. It will work out. I think all you need is a friend. I will be your friend if it keeps you from comitting suicide. The best way to win a girls heart is being some what sensitive. If she goes out with your friend tell her what you just told me and say that you don't wanta she her hurt. I wish you the best of luck and hope you get the girl instead of you jackass friend sorry but he sounds like a reall asshole.
Alright man, first, suicide is not a good answer. Its just selfish. Your parents wasted 15 years on you? Selfish. And things always get better.

And if you think she will say yes, ask her out before your friend does. And if he says Dude wtf or whatever, just say you got her first, tough luck.

Good luck, and god bless.
im very sorry for everything going on in your life. im sure everything will be okay in the end. ive been through depression... it hurts so bad... i know. you arent going to like my answer but i promise i know whats best. ive been through this.. now listen to me. you dont need to have a girlfriend at all. you need to find yourself and sort out your feelings. having a girlfriend may only make you happier on the outside and when it ends... it will only hurt worse. start to belive in yourself and open your eyes to what is good in life. enjoy the little things in life. dont stress over having a girlfriend. it sounds like you definately need someone to talk to... so if you need anything just email me at hhscheerms@aim.com or IM me on AIM. belive me... after what i went through i want to be there for anyone i can. make sure your true to yourself and love yourself before you get into a relaionship and yes.. maybe you should warn the girl about your friend and tell your friend you dont appriciate the way you treat girls. its not right. you should stick up for what you belive in. and this habit your friend has got into will not be good for him later in life. good luck.. remember to have faith that everything will be just fine. remember.. you can talk to me if you ever need anything.

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Do you have any advice for a girl on her first job?

My first job is paying me great, the hours are reasonable, and the people are nice. The only problem is that I'm still in high school while the people I work with are all college-age or older. Plus, my good friend (while we had a class together last year) is now a college student and he hired me on... but he's now my boss! It's a transition that's hard to adjust with to say the least, but I want to persevere...Do you have any advice for a girl on her first job?
The key is to do your job professionally to the best of your ability, dress appropriately, and let business be business. Leave personal relationships at home, and don't take work drama if any home and vice versa leave home drama at home. If you like the company and want to grow with them instead of it being a job, show them you are reliable, willing to go above and beyond, accept responsibility and show leadership.Do you have any advice for a girl on her first job?
Just remember that at work he is not your friend; he's your boss. Don't expect any special treatment, but keep an eye out for him overcompensating by being more strict with you.

As for being successful, you're not in high school when you're at work, either. Dress appropriately for the position, don't chew gum, wear flip-flops, or be more concerned about text messages than focusing on your job (we just fired someone for that). Speak, work, and act like an adult.
keep things professional

just do your job the best you can and try to stay out of the gossip circle
Take advantage of this experience because you have a great advantage you're around older people with more experience and you can learn a lot. As far as your boss its tough to be friends with your boss. They will remind you if you cross the line even if you don't mean to. So at the office keep things as professional as possible, don't gossip about your co-workers just because you're friends and keep your focus on the job at hand. You'll do great!
Good question !!! You are smart beyond your high school age, and I can see why you got hired. What you have to do is remember that Shakespeare was right - ';All the world's a stage...';, and we have to play many roles in life.

To be successful at your job now, you have to play the professional role at work. Your friend is not your friend at work - HE'S YOUR BOSS and you must never let your friendship enter or play a part in your work environment. The less you talk about your friendship to other co-workers, the better.

Good Luck
I don't know what your job is but you sound happy there. If you are dealing with customers, remember that the customer is always right and to smile and be friendly. I am always grateful for someone who helps me in a friendly way. Show the college kids you can work hard and not whine about stuff. Jump in anywhere anyone needs help. These things will help you for your future jobs and school.

I want to meet a girl for improving my english knowledge from any country who is in position to advice me?

in letters or over the phone some thing like a Skype. Honest attempt may be admired.I want to meet a girl for improving my english knowledge from any country who is in position to advice me?
Try enrolling in a language institution? The immersion will help you a lot!

Good luck!I want to meet a girl for improving my english knowledge from any country who is in position to advice me?
There are several sites you can go to that are designed specifically for people to practice a foreign language.

Here are two examples:

Mixxer: http://www.language-exchanges.org

iTalki: http://www.italki.com/

You can choose to speak with whoever you want, so you don't have to worry about talking to a guy.
Good luck with her

Does ANYONE have any ADVICE for a GIRL heading into HIGH SCHOOL?

ne adviceDoes ANYONE have any ADVICE for a GIRL heading into HIGH SCHOOL?
Wait for the summer to end.Does ANYONE have any ADVICE for a GIRL heading into HIGH SCHOOL?
Just be yourself and you'll be fine! Have fun bcuz HS flies by soooo fast! Good luck!
Enroll in an all girls school.
High school, is one of the most memorble part of your life. It seems like yesterday i was going into high school but i am going to be a junior. I say live it up and don't be scared to try something new. Attend all the games and activities. I was a shy freshman and know i regret it. So just try new things and don't be shy.
be yourself forget about everybody else's expectations just be you
Just remember its just high school. Half the stuff that seems life-ending now, you'll look back at and laugh to yourself about, in five years. Most important, be yourself and don't try to be like others.
Well I am only in 7th grade but i have a friend who is in High School. It is kind of like Middle School but different. Hope that somewhat helped*
STAY A VIRGIN!!! and avoid young guys like i was, trynna get the panties.....GET YOUR SCHOOL WORK
At least in my case, I found that HS was far less dramatic (and traumatic) than Jr High. People are starting to mature a bit, and bullies and druggies end up on the bottom of the high school food chain. Just be yourself, and be happy being yourself. Remember that 10 years from now, you WILL realize that everything you thought was such a big deal will mean nothing. You'll run into people you remember being total punks to you, and they'll act like you were best friends. High school is an adventure...just focus on your studies, be nice to EVERYONE and you'll come out okay. :)
dont act like youre big stuff cause really, no one cares about the fishies. watch yourself.
Yeah high school! r u nervous? Well my advice is to keep your head up,but don't be too cocky.But remember every1 is nervous in a new situation. Make a friend or 2 %26amp; keep em close,so u can have someone to lean on,and always talk to.

Oh,u only get 1 chance at this so try hard %26amp; go to college;-)

Take some advice from someone who wishes she would've tried harder.
lol the first guy's answer was funny, and um...

well dont bring a gun to school.

=)
Do not rush your time in high school trust me as a current working girl that has been out of high school for many years now the time goes by so fast you will be looking back and wishing you had to do it all over again. One good piece of advice is to be nice to everybody you don't know when you might need their help one day down the road. Also study hard and make good grades this pays off big time when it comes time for applying to colleges. Make lots of friends and there will be plenty of time for boys just enjoy your time as a single girl you have the rest of your life to be tied down. And the most important thing it to make sure and have fun! High school is a time to laugh, party, cut -up with friends, be silly, stay up late at slumber parties, go to football games and cheer on the team even if they are not good. Enjoy your time in high school I know you will do great!
I'm heading into high school too, so the advise I'm giving myself is not to be worried about impressing upperclassmen. Don't waste you're freshman year worrying about what they think when you could be having a blast. Plus, if they don't like you, well then they're not even worth it.
Seems like a question everybody's hitting on.Well for high school i have only few words of wisdom its something you will really hate when you are in it and once you are out you will miss it.All i can say is try at your level best to avoid relationships or else you will be going to college with a baby of some bobby ..., josh tom whatever he he.so always remember the question do you want to enjoy now or later,.Cause you cant have the cake both way.Btw add me if you want , i'll be glad to be a online counseler.I also cant wait for my 1st day of college anymore.
How to become popular 101...

Wear clothes that is appropriate to your school code, and what's cool. If you can... say a colored tank with white jeans... don't forget cute boots or pumps. Just use the style you see your fave t.v's character wearing. Find a perfect first day outfit to fit your style... and show it off big-time.

You have to talk the talk. I'm not saying go gansta, but you should at least have a few slang' words in your life. Instead of thank you, say thanks. Instead of hi, say sup or yo. Not gangsta... just real quickly say ';yo'; not ';yyyooo';. It's not cool... Instead of cool, say some new words, like awesome. Make up new words and tell your friends about them, start a revolution.

Now, walk the walk. No more sit straight, walk straight... you should at least slump a little. It's cool, and it will feel better, too. No ordinary walk, a cool walk that will totally fit your personality. Find a walk perfect for the first day and wow everybody!

Makeup. What an interesting subject. You NEED to look good with your makeup. Go on www.youtube.com and type in Sandy's Smoky Eyes... if you want to learn how to do a great tequnique. Pick the right color for your skin. Light pink- peach skin. Hot Read/Pink- lightly tanned skin. Clear- tan skin.

Now you have it... contact me if you need anything else... need more points so I have to answer more questions.
stay calm and dont freak out. i am a junior and i know that if you freak out on the first day it will be terrible. DO YOUR HOMEWORK AND STUDDY!!!
Just be yourself because honestly, nobody in high school cares who you're trying to be. Those are the big dogs.
i dont know if you have heard this alrready. but before i went to high school. every one was like ohhh freshmen are going to get it soo bad this year. blah blah blah. nothing happend. seniors are just talking crap. they are not out to get the freshmen. dont worry. and dont be something your not. becuase you might not be able to change it. dont try to just get through it. my freshmen year was amazing i just didnt really take the time to enjoy it. and now its over. be yourself. you know all that kind of stuff. have fun sweetie. :]
just be yourself highschool is all about that if you have confidence you will look fine
go emo

they are cute
Guys want sex, so be aware of them horny fellas.

Its a great experience, i loved my first year.

No worries, its great. :D
just relax and be yourself you will find friends and don't worry if you be yourself people will like you better than if your pretending to be somebody yournot
Be confident in who you are. Choose your friends based on how much you enjoy being with them and not on how popular they seem or don't seem to be, let your natural charisma and energy guide you and don't ever sweat the small stuff. It is important to focus your mental energies on the three basics, reading, math %26amp; science so that you can get high scores on your state tests, because high school is confusing, challenging and emotionally difficult but it is just the beginning. Always keep in mind that there is life after high school. But the real friends you make will be with you forever. Cherish the bonds made, and don't let peer preasure get in the way because life changes every year and what isn't popular one year is the sh%t the next.
i need some advice too.
ok first of all you need to join at least two activities, cheer and tennis, and then choose your friends wisely, get good grades and dont skip and you should be fine, oh and most important dont be a ****, you will live with that name for four years so be careful and have fun.
ALWAYS create an impression that will make people think who you are for the entire High School time. If you want to be 'gangster', and you are wearing nice sneakers and chains, people will expect you to be wearing that every day for the next four years. Just act yourself. Always do something you are and capable of. That solves 'image'. Now actual life. (In the words of my cousins)...balance everything carefully. Don't overdose on education. Keep it a priority but always have a good pen of friends to back you up. Do good in your Freshman and I believe Junior year academically and the honors and AP classes will come pouring in. Keep your cool and never keep your head to deep in either education or popularity and you will have a nice and decent high school life. And ALWAYS think about what you're going to do and how it might affect you.

Cheers.

P.S: This advice pretty much applies to both male and female.
You will always be judged by the company you keep! Don't sleep around and don't have a serious boyfriend all through high school....enjoy those years they really are the best!
stay focused %26amp;%26amp; don't play around, be organized %26amp;%26amp; study!!
be yourself and stick to your studies. i messed up big time, and NO BOYS!!! you have years to get into relationships with boys stick with school! im 15 and i had to drop out cause im pregnante and i was failing so stick to boys and dont cut class im serious.. if u wanna talk ... mii_bubble14 thats my yahoo messenger name
omg, I'm goin to high school next year too, I am so scared, but I don't know why, because you know how when we move from elementary to middle school, it wasn't anything to be afraid about, so I think its the same with high school, I think if you just act like yourself, be confident, and stay out of trouble then you will be fine

ok, bye

oh bye the way if you don't mind could I be best answer?

Girl's Advice: What should I do next?

Girl predicament... advice?

I'm a guy, just turned 27. My best friend is a girl, 22. I am currently dating another girl. I find myself constantly having feelings for my best friend. She is also dating someone. My problem is, we hang around each other a lot and her boyfriend lives like 4 hours away. I just flat out told her I had feelings for her and that I shouldn't. I feel guilty for it. The shocker... she tells me she has feelings for me too and that she feels she is between a rock and a hard place. She also feels guilty. She has been dating her guy for about a year and has known him for a long time, but they fight alot. She sent me a message today that read... ';I miss you and I thats sad because I should be missing him.';

What do I do here?Girl predicament... advice?
You don't choose how to feel and who to feel it about. It just happens. You feel how you feel. So there is no point in feeling guilt. There would be guilt, however, if you two continue to date others and deny your feelings about each other. Because you both would be stringing the other folks along. You both know how you feel. So act on it.

Best friends make for the best relationships and eventually marriages. Nothing better then going home to your best friend and the love of your life. Being that you are already best friends you're ahead of most new relationships. You know things about each other that you might never tell a person you're dating. You know her mood swings and when she's having good days. You know how to make her laugh and smile. There is no awkward shyness to overcome. You two know each other well.

I think you two just need to be honest with yourselves here. Get rid of these other people and focus on you two. These feelings aren't just going to go away. You both will always wonder what if. I wish you both the best of luck!Girl predicament... advice?
Apparently both of you do not like the people you are with at the moment as much as you like each other. You should not feel guilty for liking someone else...I would say break it off with the other people before it gets harder to do (trust me the longer you wait the harder it will get) and start dating each other. If she fights a lot with her guy tell her that is not mentally healthy for her to be in that kind of relationship.
Sounds like the two of you should be together. I would talk to her seriously, about a relationship together. Make your reasons known, state points, and facts that give your feelings merit. If she doesn't want a relationship with you, move on and find someone not between a rock and a hard place. There is really nothing you can do, until you find out what she wants to do.
wow.how lucky are you?well,I guess the question here is what do YOU WANT to do?Who do you have deeper feelings for?the girl you're dating or your best friend?which one do you want to keep? once you decide that then go for it!good luck!
Guy, if this were a movie the audience would be *screaming* at you ';Go *get* her you fool! This chance may never come again!!';

Go get her. (Then the two of you part company with your significant-others very gently).
dude if you really feel something for her then do what your heart says and go after her thats the best thing you can do

Girl Help? / Advice ?

Ok heres a little background information. So I used to go to this place every weekend. And this girl worked there. She was cute, and my friend who has a little more guts than me went up and started to talk to her and they sorta became friends. She went on and got a new job, so two days ago on facebook I was like ';hey have you seen you in awhile you still working there'; and so on went the conversation. Yesterday we talked for almost 4 hours on the little fb chat thing, and I have her my number when i got off and she txted me today we talked for a little while and then she just stopped txting me. I didnt bug her i just sent the question she didnt answer so i stopped so a few hours later i was on fb and she got on and i just said hey, and she said nothing....

I didnt ask her anything weird at all, so maybe she just didnt feel like talking anymore or maybe she was just busy??

what do i do now, wait a few days and then txt her.. or should i even be worried, this might sound kinda stupidGirl Help? / Advice ?
DON'T TEXT HER ANYMORE!!! It makes you look desperate. If she likes you, she'll text you back.

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Girl > help > advice > I like her > but im not sure if she likes me?

This girl I really like sometimes makes comments about my penis..... as jokes of course but is there a hidden message. And everyone always says to us in college why dont you two just go out you were made for each other as she is always flirting! :)

e.g. She says what size are your feet I swear the other boys are size 12 whereas your size 11 I said thats quite big you know ........ etc well she says You know what they say about boys with big feet haha!

Today I asked her can I borrow a pencil -----%26gt; She found this small pencil in her pencil case and said have this one it im sure it matches your haha and giggled ..............??

CAn someone please explain! Does she like me if so why do you think this?

ThanksGirl %26gt; help %26gt; advice %26gt; I like her %26gt; but im not sure if she likes me?
eww you should ask her! why is she even talking about your AHEM! thats just rude even if it is a joke, maybe shes 'sexually' attracted to you!Girl %26gt; help %26gt; advice %26gt; I like her %26gt; but im not sure if she likes me?
For starters - how can you like someone like that? She ridicules you in front of people. Is this the sort of person that you want as a girlfriend? You deserve better than that. I think you should ask her outright why she says stuff like this. It could be cause she likes you - some girls say things cause they are shy. However, I have never been cruel and said anything like that to a guy. The best thing to do would be to ask her. If you can't do it face-to-face, text her or send her a private message on Bebo/Facebook.

Good luck hun x

Girl trouble... Advice please?

Well, yesterday, my friend (let's call him Jack) and his girlfriend (Let's call her Dora) came up to me and said ';Hey, this girl, (let's call her Sally) Sally, said that she wants to get to know you better. She's really shy so she wants you to start talking to her first.'; Well Dora is Sally's best friend, so she can help too. The problem is, I'm really shy, and I need advice on how to approach Sally. She knows that I like her obviously, and I barely even talk to her, but I want to get to know her as well. I'm not in any classes with her - we only have one activity that we do together and that's once every 2 weeks.Girl trouble... Advice please?
well talk abotu that or ask what she likes and crap like that its easy!

but complemet her!Girl trouble... Advice please?
I know it is nerve wracking, but think of the positives that the first move could lead to versus the negatives. And most girls appreciate guys that make the first move.

Talk to her by saying ';So, how's your day?'; or ';How's life with you?'; and then that way you can delve into personal topics rather than just school topics. As for real life, just go up to her and say ';Hey! What's up?'; Even saying that could be the start of something amazing.

And what's the worst that she could say? No? What human being says no to another saying hello? LOL

She'll then repsond back with ';Oh, blah blah blah,'; and you can keep the conversation that way, or she'll say ';Oh, nothing.'; And then you can throw in a compliment. Make sure to smile when you're complimenting her, so that she knows it's genuine.

But anyway, then just keep the conversation going from there. Ask her questions that don't have a yes or no answer, because that'll keep her talking to you. Like ';So how's your day?'; and stuff like that. She'll think you're nice and sweet. And you'll definitely have her attention. =]

You want to get to know her, don't you? Then you should talk about school, TV shows, music, life, etc. Just talk to her like you would with any other person. Good luck and I'm sure you'll do great! =]

And then you can ask her out! Just say like ';Hey! I've seen you around a lot, and I was wondering if you wanted to go out sometime?'; If she says no, then just play it off by saying ';Oh, okay. I was just wondering if some people wanted to go out to the movies with me. No big deal.'; Smile and walk off.

If she says yes, then great! Think of the positives outweighing the negatives. And really the only way to know for sure is by straight asking out. Good luck and I'm sure you'll do fine! =]

Girl problems. advice?

okay well im 16 years old

and well lemme start from te beginning..

theres this girl who i met in my 8th rade year, her 7 th grade year.

from then onb we told each other that we liked each other. so that sae year we hooked up. and were on andoff for a total of 3 times.

we ended up breaking up for good because id be going to highschool and she'd still be in middle school.

so my freshman i still talked to her, texting and al that stuff.

that year she had i believe 4 boyfriends?

well i confessed to her my freshman year that I had still had STRONG feelings for her, and she told me she did too. but nothing happened because we went to different schools..

well then sophomore years olls along and we finally got back together ... again.

we were together for a total of about 11 months. thing were really good

she was my first kiss, my first makeout, and well you get the point...

well the following school year (this cuurent school year; im a junior) i brok up with her (on oct of 08); my reasons for this was that i didnt want to be in a relationship anymore. and thats how I truly felt. HONESTLY.

i still love her though.

i know i hurt her really bad and i was so upset at myself for doing that too her. i became depressed.

i know that was very mean for me to do.. but if im not going to be 100% committed to the relationship, i dont believe that's fair to her, right?

she deserves someone who'd wantto be with her. well thats how I feel.

well throughout this school year we still kissed alot, madeout, and held hands, despite that we were not together..

i know thats wrong but it all just happens in the moment.

recently, these past two weeks ive kind of stopped with all the affection cause i dont think its right..

but we still flirt a lot,. and it doesnt help that i have a class with her. and that i sit right next to her.

what a coincidence, i swear. o.o so its IMPOSSIBLE for me to forget about her.

i dont underastand whats wrong with me?! i truly love her but i dont want to be in a relationship.

because i believe i am not ready, and that i wont be commited

I DONT UNDERSTAND MYSELF.

im headed towards a MAJOOR BREAKDOWN.

and i dont know what to do anymore

can someone give me advice?

PLEASE.

Thanks

P.S. she had a date to winterformal and i believe she likes him a bit, and he definately likes her. she denied his kiss @ WF because she still had strong feelings for me; which i thought was really sweeet.

and i also had a date to WF, but we just went as friends, nothing more.

well i have to admit that im pretty jealous of that guy, because hes goodlooking, well built, and in football.

and well me? people tthink im goodlooking...im in tennis

and ive come to a conclusion that i have low self esteeem

well help me pleasee

any advice would be great!thankssGirl problems. advice?
Awe you sound like such a nice guy :) you sound super sweet :)

anyways.... if your not completely into the relationship then you did the right thing ending it. and hey, no-one ever said you guys cant get back together right? you dont need to worry about it because you did the right thing. continue to be her friend and talk to her daily but only as friends.that way she isn't totally out of your life. good luck with everything. oh and good job playing tennis- i love tennis! i go to a full time academy- 5 hours a day everyday :)Girl problems. advice?
I agree you did a good thing :) or maybe just a better thing, see most guys just ignore it and keep going out with them until everything falls apart. if she knows that you still love but your just going through things she might be hurt, but everyone gets hurt when you break up with someone no matter what. keep in touch with each other and maybe in the future when your both ready for it youll be together again.

Girl's Advice: What should I do?

There is a girl that I really like in my gym class. We went to the same middle school so we know each other. Last week when we were playing baseball, she purposely kept missing the ball and she smiled at me. But the way she smiled at me wasn't the friend type smile. Eventually, she hit the ball and scored a run. After, she sat next to me on the grass since we were playing on the grass and we talked for a little bit? Does she like me? Plz help. What should I do now? By the way, this is not the first time. This is the second time she has walked up to me and talked to me. What should I do? Should I talk to her or should I wait? Because it's so hard to find the perfect time to sit down and talk to her since she is always around her friends. What should I say to her when she's around her friends. I don't want to talk to her around her friends. BTW, i don't think she just wants to be friends because I have known her for almost a year and she never once tried talking to me before these two times. Ever since last week when we played baseball, she hasn't tried to talk to me for three days. She looks back at me when I look at her but that's all. And I haven't talked to her either since she is always with her friends. I don't know if she still likes me or not. What should I do?Girl's Advice: What should I do?
She likes you and she's waiting for you to make the next move. Next time you see her, ask her if she'll take a walk with you. Ask her questions about herself (music, movies, etc).Girl's Advice: What should I do?
She may not ';like'; you (she doesn't seem like she knows you well enough for that), but she is definitely interested. Keep talking to her; maybe ask her out to the movies or lunch. You never know. :)

Girl's Advice: What should I do?

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Girl's Advice: What should I do?

There is a girl that I really like in my gym class. We went to the same middle school so we know each other. Last Thursday when we were playing baseball, she purposely kept missing the ball and she smiled at me. But the way she smiled at me wasn't the friend type smile. Eventually, she hit the ball and scored a run. After, she sat next to me on the grass since we were playing on the grass and we talked for a little bit. By the way, this is not the first time. This is the second time she has walked up to me and talked to me. I don't think she just wants to be friends because I have known her for almost a year and she never once tried talking to me before these two times. After waiting three days for her to talk to me again, she didn't. So yesterday I decided to talk to her but the conversation didn't last long since her friend started talking to her as well. But when I talked to her she seemed pretty enthusiastic and didn't sound uninterested. But today, I was going to talk to her again but she was always with her friends and I didn't talk to her. We only said hi to each other. I only have 2 days left with her. I really like her but i don't know if she likes me the same way. What should I do?Girl's Advice: What should I do?
Just tell her, is she moving? If so, she won't be that far away and she'll make visits. Just see what happens!Girl's Advice: What should I do?
keep on trying to talk to her, ignore her a little bit, and then she will come back and start talking to you again. Trust me,, girls hate it when you dont talk to them, when you stop talking to her ya will probably start talking a lot more, become friends, or best friends, and then when you think its the right time, ask her out!
Okay, try to find time to be with her alone, maybe during a class her friends are not in? If not, try walking up to them and asking if you can talk to her alone. Then tell her you like her. Maybe like:

Hey (Whatever her name is), so, the truth is, I really like you. And I was wondering if you liked me to.

And after she gives you an answer, whether it's yes or no, be happy you had the guts to say it.
Talk to her again. Ask her if she wants to go out sometime. Don't wait for her to talk to you again, she needs to know you're interested in her. She's attempted to show you her interest, now it's your turn. It's all apart of the female's game in taunting the male....';chase me! chase me!'; Dog, it's time for you to catch your cat!
oh hun,..just because her friend interrupts doesn't mean u shouldn't like her...next time ask her if you two can have a private. conversation and ask her if she likes you and tell her you like her and ask her out. She and you both will be glad you did....good luck and in the meantime please answer my question:::http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
I'll say this to yet another boy, us girls are confusing. Tell her you liek her, ask her out, do anything. She's waiting for you, girl around friends, true friends, well blow off our boyfriend or crushes for our true friends sometimes.
if you are nervous you could start at just friends first, ask for her number, call/text her. if things go well you could become more. me and my boyfriend were friends first and now we have been dating for almost a year, it worked well for us:)
aw thats cute ! :D i think you should talk to her about it and see if she feels the same way. you dont want to think ';what would it have been like if i did tell her how i feel?'; good luck :)
ignore her

here answer this good question !!!

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
Tell her that you like her. If there's no response then ignore her. She will do a move when she realize that she like you to.
Try to make her laugh or get her attention

Just don't follow her around cause she might not like it

Ask her out on a date try to get her alone :)
why do u care if her freinds are around you have 2 days left you need to hurry and get her # or email or somthing god boys are so diffucult
txt her that u like her and c what she says back

if she lyks u (which its pretty obvious she does)

ask her 2 go 2 the movies or something
Yu should just let her

know dhat yu like her

before its to late.
i think you should tell her what you feel and go for it.:D

and asked her out.

go0d luckkk hope it goes go0d.:D
Ever hear the song Textbook love by fleet foxes?

go for before youre her friend and not boyfriend
well it seems to me like she dose like u in the same way u like her. so maybe u should try asking her out.
Well, give her your number :).

I have a question, do you still have school?!
just walk up and ask her out. all she can do is say no.
dude ya better talk to her and make ya move before shes gone
well i could say i almsot had the same exprience =)..

(how old are you btw? =P) heres my advice..

maybe you should just tell her how you feel and dont be shy to ask her if shes around her friends or something if/when you see them stopped talking to her or stopped talking just go up to her and ask if you could talk to her for a while then just tell her how you feel..

hope i helped!

PS- i have a question about a guy thing too..please please answer it! thanks ;)

Rock show fashion advice. What should i wear? im a girl.?

hi! im a girl and later on in the month i am going to see a punk/mod rock band (the horrors) but i don't know what to wear. skinny jeans is the fashion, but i am a pear shape and maybe won't suit them, should i just go for it any way? any other tips or advice would be greatly valued.

please help meRock show fashion advice. What should i wear? im a girl.?
yeah of course you can wear skinny jeans :-) the way you get around this is by wearing a top and/or jacket with puff sleeves or shoulder pads to balance out your frame. completely sequinned tops also draw attention to your upper torso. heel boots are always a MUST of course. how about this outfit?:

jeans: http://www.asos.com/Cheap-Monday/Cheap-M鈥?/a>

top: http://www.asos.com/Fetish-By-Eve/Fetish鈥?/a>

throw over a waistcoat (left open): http://www.topshop.com/webapp/wcs/stores鈥?/a>

and black boots: http://www.barratts.co.uk/webapp/wcs/sto鈥?/a>

and bracelet: http://www.asos.com/Asos/Asos-Woven-Fabr鈥?/a>

or use the same jeans and boots but add a cami: http://www.asos.com/Asos/Asos-Cupped-Cam鈥?/a>

with jacket over the top: http://www.asos.com/Bolongaro-Trevor/Bol鈥?/a>

Girl Help? / Advice ?

Girl > help > advice > I like her > but im not sure if she likes me?

Girl trouble... Advice please?

Well, yesterday, my friend (let's call him Jack) and his girlfriend (Let's call her Dora) came up to me and said ';Hey, this girl, (let's call her Sally) Sally, said that she wants to get to know you better. She's really shy so she wants you to start talking to her first.'; Well Dora is Sally's best friend, so she can help too. The problem is, I'm really shy, and I need advice on how to approach Sally. She knows that I like her obviously, and I barely even talk to her, but I want to get to know her as well. I'm not in any classes with her - we only have one activity that we do together and that's once every 2 weeks.Girl trouble... Advice please?
I know it is nerve wracking, but think of the positives that the first move could lead to versus the negatives. And most girls appreciate guys that make the first move.

Talk to her by saying ';So, how's your day?'; or ';How's life with you?'; and then that way you can delve into personal topics rather than just school topics. As for real life, just go up to her and say ';Hey! What's up?'; Even saying that could be the start of something amazing.

And what's the worst that she could say? No? What human being says no to another saying hello? LOL

She'll then repsond back with ';Oh, blah blah blah,'; and you can keep the conversation that way, or she'll say ';Oh, nothing.'; And then you can throw in a compliment. Make sure to smile when you're complimenting her, so that she knows it's genuine.

But anyway, then just keep the conversation going from there. Ask her questions that don't have a yes or no answer, because that'll keep her talking to you. Like ';So how's your day?'; and stuff like that. She'll think you're nice and sweet. And you'll definitely have her attention. =]

You want to get to know her, don't you? Then you should talk about school, TV shows, music, life, etc. Just talk to her like you would with any other person. Good luck and I'm sure you'll do great! =]

And then you can ask her out! Just say like ';Hey! I've seen you around a lot, and I was wondering if you wanted to go out sometime?'; If she says no, then just play it off by saying ';Oh, okay. I was just wondering if some people wanted to go out to the movies with me. No big deal.'; Smile and walk off.

If she says yes, then great! Think of the positives outweighing the negatives. And really the only way to know for sure is by straight asking out. Good luck and I'm sure you'll do fine! =]Girl trouble... Advice please?
well talk abotu that or ask what she likes and crap like that its easy!

but complemet her!

Girl problems. advice?

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Girl's Advice: What should I do?

Girl needs advice on how to help her guy friend!!!!?

My friend had been datin this one girl for 6 mths and she broke up wit him cuz she said he was tooo shy. Around me he tlks all the time! He is so sad all the time. Every time i ask him wat he is doin he say thinkin bout_____! She treated him like crap and cheated on him wit plenty of guys. What can i say or do to help him get over this depression stage. I luv this boy to death and i really hate seeing him like this.Girl needs advice on how to help her guy friend!!!!?
tell him she was a ho and he should be gld she s out of his life... telll him you think he is tooo goood for a girl like that and he deserves better

Girl's Advice: What should I do?

GIRL/COLLEGE advice...urgent....PLZ Help??

ok so

im in college

and i took a badminton class because there is no homework and its pretty cool

and there is this cool girl that is also in my class

ive talked to her every time ive had badminton class

(Mon, Wed- 12-12:50pm)

today will be the 6th class

we always play singles against each other when class starts to warm up

(she asks me to)

and we tease each other when we mess up...

i want to get to know her better

maybe even go out with her

how should i ask her???

i dont have her number

What should we do/where to go??

i dont want it to be akward because i hardly know her

Do you think she might like me?

Thanks for the help!

detailed answers are very appreciated!

she is a year older than me....GIRL/COLLEGE advice...urgent....PLZ Help??
She is mad for you and wonders when you will be man enough to ask her out.

GIRL/COLLEGE advice...urgent....PLZ Help??
Sounds like she might have a ';thing'; for you. Don't play games. . . if you like her, say so! Most women do not like to be played with, but we do like to have ';guy friends';. Better to tell her how you feel (without going overboard and fessin up to be madly in love) and the worst thing that can happen is for her to say she just wants to be friends. . .and sounds like she is becoming a great friend already. Be Brave, my good man. Life is too short! Good luck!
If you don't have any of her contact info, start with that. You don't want to seem too aggressive by asking her out when you don't even have her number; it might be a turn off for her. But she does seem to like you so just take small steps. Your class is around lunch time. Invite her out one day.
I like the wager one, but if you don't want it to be awkward I would suggest doing a group outing, I mean if she doesn't really have the same friends as you ask her if she wants to hang out with you and some friends possibly a movie. Age is nothing so don't let that deter you.

but just to be safe make sure she's single..lol.. sometimes girls flirt...and thier not single so just make sure...lol
After class, take her to a local cafe. I'm sure she will be thirsty so tell her you will taker her out and you can buy drinks. Since you two seem to be flirting (teasing), tease her into taking you out. Tell her if you win, she has to go with you. Say it in a fun, cheeky way.
i reckon she likes u. next time u see her, ask her if she would like to go for a coffee sometime. then take her to a nice casual cafe. be bold, go for it, take the plunge. thats what i always do and it works. and if it doesnt, there is plenty of fish in the sea!
Isn't there a coffee house on campus or near the campus? Just invite her out for a cup of coffee after your class. If she says yes then that will lead into you asking for her number.

If she doesn't drink coffee then she can get a pastry or something.
Just ask her if she wants to grab a cup of coffee or a snack after class. Most campuses have at least one coffee house on campus and several dining facilities.
play her in a game and put a wager on it. say if i win we go to lunch.

Girl help/advice please?

Ok so i have been with girls before, but it always seems to be awkward getting there. I'm a pretty shy person. I like this girl and want to hook up with her or whatever and then take it from there. I know she likes me back. We keep talking about hanging out, but I don't know what to do. Just invite her over my house? That seems really weird and awkward. I do drive so that helps I guess, but still need some advice. What should I do to hangout with her? thanks.Girl help/advice please?
a simple way is to pick her up and go to a park and walk around. its simple and its not hard to plan outGirl help/advice please?
Hi, I'd like to ask first one thing how old are you two?

Second, do you like her more then just a one night stand or a real relationship?

Third, is she shy to?

Well i would say if you are going out to eat and dinners or movies. In a way you are going out with each other. Pay attention on how she acts if when you do nice things for her. if she is happy then maybe she is waiting for you to ask her out her or just tell her how you feel .. I'm 34 yrs. old i have dated and been even married and now have my own children so. Don't be to be stalker crazy just read her body langage and how she acts .... and make sure shes not using you girls can do that too. but if i did know your age that would help alot.. hope this helps.. Sun
I see questions like this all the time. You should go to valuedynamics.blogspot.com and read up a bit. It'll help you understand women better.

Girl trouble, advice needed?

I am 16 years old and there is a girl I really like who is also 16. If you remember my age, you will know that most relationships are mostly just date, get laid, and break up (thats not how I do it, but thats how most people I know operate), but this is different. I actually really like her and I don't really know what to say. With most girls I'm fine, but I find it really difficult to talk to this girl in particular. Please help. I don't know what to do... I am kinda one of the super athletes, as i play both basketball and football. She is super smart, and is a total drama nerd (in a good kinda way). I'm not that bad looking either, so that isn't a problem. I don't know if she has a boyfriend either...Girl trouble, advice needed?
Just talk to her as if she was one of your basketball buddies. Dont see her as a beautiful princess to be put up on a pedastal. Instead see her as one of your guy friends. This will help you get rid of those emotions that are stopping you from talking to her.

Come on, be a man. You play sports so why would you be intimidated by a girl. You know she farts too! She's not the end all be all...

Once you get a conversation going its pretty easy from there:

Stupid Example:

You: So do you have any drama performances coming up?

Girl: No but we are rehearsing for one.

You: Oh ya, what is the play called?

Girl: It's called 'Christmas' and it's based on a true story we are reading in English class

You: Really, I hate English class

Girl: But you shoudlnt cause its important

You: Hey we have a basketball game on Tuesday, why dont you and your boyfriend come?

Girl: I dont have a boyfriend

You: Well why dont you come anyways or maybe we could go for coffee afterwards or something? In fact why dont you just give me your email and phone number...

If you have started to become friends then it should be even easier then that and you should know whether or not she has a boyfriend.

So what if it jeopardizes your friendship if you ask her out?

Do you want her as a girlfriend or a friend?

And most girls would be flattered that you are interested in them anyways so it is not necessarily going to jeopardize your friendship if you ask her out.

Is she your best friend? Have you known her for years? So who cares if it ruins the friendship between you anyways. Atleast you will have tried to get what you want.Girl trouble, advice needed?
sounds like american pie movie story
Confidence, confidence, confidence is the key. As long as you are the confident alpha male, cocky, funny (but not arrogant) is usually doesn't matter what you say or how you look. Weird but true. You must believe in your mind that you don't care if she likes you or not. I discovered this when I ran out of free nights and could no longer ask any new girls out because I didn't have the time. When you get to that point you exude so much confidence amazing things happen!
This is easy. Find something she is wearing. Sunglasses, earings, necklace, whatever. Just make mention of his in a casual way. Like,';Those earings look pretty on you.'; Then walk away. Guaranteed next day she will be looking for you to see if you have any more nice things to say to her. That is the acid test and you will find out if she is interested in you without her ever knowing it. As for a boyfriend, who cares. All is fair in Love and War! Now go get her!
Well from the way you put it, it doesn't sound like that bad of a situation. Just go up and talk to her, maybe get to know her and stuff. You don't have to be too upfront bout it. Just get comfortable with her and once you've known each other a bit better, you can ask her out. And if she does have a boyfriend, I'm sure she'll tell you when you ask her out.
Just put yourself in a situation where you will spend one on one time with her. Get to know her, and ask her out.

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Girl Problem... ADVICE DESPERATELY NEEDED?

Hey all,

I have a major dillema. At school there is this girl that i really like and have liked for a while. But... she has a boyfriend and to make it worse... he and I kinda hang out (in groups mostly ... were not really like best buddies or anything). She and him had broken up a few times before but got back together so it has gotten confusing to know when to approach her. however, he'll be graduating this year and she and i still have one more year and im still waiting to see if they break it off after he graduates. I really like her though and if they dont break up... then im pretty much screwed ... cause id never do that to another guy( no matter how much i disliked him)Girl Problem... ADVICE DESPERATELY NEEDED?
It sounds like you have a good handle on the situation. I admire you for not wanting to take a guy's girl from him. It shows you have class. You're right - just wait until next fall and see what happens. In the meantime, be fun, kind and confident but be your own man - don't be clingy or nervous around her. And then just wait it out. If you're meant to date her, you will. I wish you the best.Girl Problem... ADVICE DESPERATELY NEEDED?
Well, if you're his friend, and you truly like her, although this may seem hard, you can't come between their relationship or try to steal her away. Sorry. If it's meant to happen it will. Just play it cool. Stay friends with both of them. If they break up for good, wait a while and ask the guy if it'd be cool with him. Just play it cool, and DONT get in the way of their relationship for now. If it's suppose to happen it will, so enjoy the ride. :-)
First of all, if they have already broken up once or more than once, then they are more likely going to break up again. The thing you need to watch out for is being the rebound guy if they do break up again and youre there to ';catch'; her. Also Im glad that you would never cheat. That is always a good thing.
well i would say that you should just wait til they break up...but don't try to get them to break up.

if you would never do that, then you should try to get over her.
You answered your own question.

Wait until they break up if you don't want to cause any trouble.
find another girl for a girlfriend atleast for now. Maybe you are just infatuated to this girl. It might wear off over time
The best thing you can do is let their relationship run its course. If you have let your feelings for her to be known to her and she has not accepted or reciprocated your feelings, then she may not be ready to give up on here current relationship. This is your senior year and I am sure that their is someone that has been eying you from afar, but you have not even given a second glance. Have fun, be open to dating other girls, and give someone else a chance because you might just find someone you just click with. Also at the end of the day if it is meant for you and the girl you are interested in to be together it will happen effortlessly.

Hey girls i need fashion advice im 17 and a girl.?

i have some shirts from aeropostal (short sleeves), old navy (long sleeves), tank tops, white beaders, how can i look really cute what can i do with my clothes. I have layered my long sleeves and then put a short sleeve shirt over it. I am tired of getting the same look everytime. And i was gonna wear something cute tomorow! plz give me some style tips.Hey girls i need fashion advice im 17 and a girl.?
wear long sleeve shirt over short sleeved one and navy slacks.Hey girls i need fashion advice im 17 and a girl.?
layer camis under short sleved shirts too!!! Oh and add jelry %26amp; belts!
Try buying new clothes. I use to dress like a dork now I don't. Try A.E., Hollister, or Abercrombie and don't try to do that style you mention it ain't cool. Trust me last year I did that but got smirks change yo style go preppy!
If you're 17, then I'd suggest gradually evolving away from the early/mid teen cutesy layer look-you can still do it sometimes, but try getting some fashion staples that are a little more grown up the next time you go shopping.

Like maybe polos or cable sweaters,

Or, if you're still a big fan of mucho layering, you could try a slightly more mature victorian collored top with a colored beater/tanktop on top + belt=mature AND cute
try a whole new look by mixing it up with different accessories. Like do you have a funky bead necklace or chandelier earrings? anything.. just glam up your look with accessories. Plus change your makeup... do something more shiny and use colors that accent whatever necklace, bracelet or earrings you use. Also, if you have long hair put it back in a mid-high ponytail but make it really neat and shinny. You will look great!!!
I think you should add the long sleeves and the tanktops- along with the beaders. That is what i like to ware with that kind of stuff- i actually wore that yesterday and got alot of compliments on it! I BET YOU WOULD TO!!!:):):):) Hope I helped!!!
buy new clothes then retry to mix an match its great thrill

Girl confusion....Advice needed!?

Hey all,

First of all, sorry for adding another question about a girl from a guy, here on this site which is full of them.

There's this girl, who I like alot, and has told me she likes me, but originally said she doesn't know me well enough to go out with me yet, made a few excuses, and generally said she didn't know, effectively putting off a relationship...but we still txted and talked on MSN alot, but its hard to see her now school is up.

Anyway, we went to a party on Friday, and while I did sort of talk to her, I was still facing the fact we would not go out and tried to keep my distance. However, a few days later, she comes to me, claiming she tried to hold my hand and talk to me, but I ignored her. She now claims she won't go out with me, because I am apparently too scared to talk to her. While she still couldn't give a definative answer as to whether we could go out, I am thinking of a way to proove to her that I am confident enough, and was just in a bad mood with her on that night.

Could someone please either, give me an idea of how to proove to her I aren't damned well scared of her (School is up so its hard to see her without making it a date), or could someone please give me there opinion as to whether I should move on, or stay and try to relieve the situation.

Thanks very much,Girl confusion....Advice needed!?
tell her the truth...it should workGirl confusion....Advice needed!?
Well maybe she just trying to confuse you... because iknow im already confused by reading that. So maybe you should just tell her you really want to go out with her but you dont know how to act around her because you didnt know if she felt the same way. :) hope that helps!
This girl doesn't know what she wants. How else are you supposed to get to know someone if you don't go out with them?

Look, if you really like this girl. Ask her out. Ask her to dinner and a movie and tell her you'd like to get to to know her better. If she still says no after that, let it go. If she's not even going to give you the opportunity to try to get to know her then she's just going to keep playing stupid games with you and seeing how long she can string you along.

Just meet up with her face to face and ask her if she would come to dinner with you. If she gives you another stupid excuse like she doesn't know you well enough or she thinks you're too scared to talk to her then just tell her ';okay. thats fine, we'll just be friends then'; and let it go.

Honestly, from the sound of things, she's not interested but enjoys the attention you give her and is keeping you around as a backup. You can probably lay money on her ignoring you as soon as she finds someone ';better';.

Girl/Relationship Advice?

So I've been out of it for a while, but I finally have been spending time with a girl I really like. She seems to like me as well (always helps, right? :P) We're even doing something tomorrow night. The problem is I don't know how to go about asking her if she wants to be my girlfriend. Lame of me, I know, but I'm really inexperienced in this sorta thing and don't want to ask too early or wait too long. I'm making her dinner and plan on watching a movie. Any thoughts? Witty lines? Help!

Thanks guys and gals!Girl/Relationship Advice?
omg... it would be the same if you were straight! what would help is if you asked yourself, '; how would ilike to be approached?'; think about it!Girl/Relationship Advice?
well lets say something sweet and funny at the same time pick a romantic movie like the notebook than at the kissing sence turn facing her and say'; listen i need to let this out ive been holding this for a long time my heart is crying out for you if i don't ask you.... say her name and say if i don't make you mine my heart will melt into million pieces will you be my girlfriend cheesy i know but try it if u want
well if your making her dinner, be like ';Wow you look really pretty'; that way you know you are already putting it out there that you have some feelings for her!

then eat dinner talk, talk, talk.. then be like you ';i dunno if you know this but i like you....etc etc'; then ask her how she feels like '; so do you have the same feelings for me??';

make sure you lead the conversation so she doesnt feel that awkard you know...

thennnnnnn if she does would be like, ';well since we both like eachother, why dont we date?'; and there you go

GOODLUCK
tell her that you are feeling her and you are ready to move to the next level
If you are spending time together like this it would seem she already has an inkling that she is or will be your gf. The best thing to do is talk about it to her when you have your dinner. Tell her your feelings. Most girls like to hear them and they are more than not-hard to get from alot of guys. It seems everything is going great and I'm sure things will fall into place. Just relax and enjoy her company and she where it goes. Best wishes!!!
Just ask her your wasting time
you should start off by telling her exactly how you feel! once you do that it shouldnt be hard to just ask her flat out if she will be your g/f.
would you be my girlfriend? all you need to say

good luck!

Girl's Advice: What should I do?

There is a girl that I really like in my gym class. We went to the same middle school so we know each other. Last Thursday when we were playing baseball, she purposely kept missing the ball and she smiled at me. But the way she smiled at me wasn't the friend type smile. Eventually, she hit the ball and scored a run. After, she sat next to me on the grass since we were playing on the grass and we talked for a little bit. By the way, this is not the first time. This is the second time she has walked up to me and talked to me. I don't think she just wants to be friends because I have known her for almost a year and she never once tried talking to me before these two times. After waiting three days for her to talk to me again, she didn't. So yesterday I decided to talk to her but the conversation didn't last long since her friend started talking to her as well. But when I talked to her she seemed pretty enthusiastic and didn't sound uninterested. But today, I was going to talk to her again but she was always with her friends and I didn't talk to her. We only said hi to each other. I only have 2 days left with her. I really like her but i don't know if she likes me the same way. What should I do?Girl's Advice: What should I do?
Try to have a proper conversation with her, that lasts longer than 5 seconds, and yeah if she likes you she's gunna stick with her friends cus shes gunna be nervous and all that shizz, you might wanna ask yourself if you actually like her or if its just a crush as you've only got 2 days left with her, and are you ever gunna see her again after these two days are up, otherwise you might have to realise your setting yourself up for a fall. Go for it anyway, if it doesn't work, stick it down to experience, best advice i can give

hope this helpsGirl's Advice: What should I do?
Pull her away from her friends by asking her if you could talk to her alone instead of with her friends. That way there would not be any interruptions with her friends or them overhearing your conversation with her. You should ask her how she feels after you tell her how you feel about her. You should also try giving her your number to show that you are interested in her. Good luck.
Please ask her out because I hate it when love can happen and people just miss it! Go get her you have my blessing ;D
Dont make it to obvious, make it really casual, ask her what shes upto at the weekend if she says shes not busy say maybe we could hang out if she is busy say well maybe one day if your not busy we could catch up! Play it cool and dont be too eager! Good luck xx
Ask her out.
Try asking her if she wants to go get something to eat... keep it casual at first... usually if she likes you she will go by herself. If not, she will bring her friends.
Just ask her to a movie with a group of friends.
If you want to find out if she likes you that way, then talk to the people she talks to, to she has ever said anything about you. Hope this helped :)
it seems pretty obvious that she likes you...why don't you tell her?? I am almost positive that she likes you and she will probably be happy. I wouldn't usually say you should be this direct but you only have 2 days. Tell her how you feel. Good Luck!
you should ask her out and if she says no move on or get to know her better. chances are she will say yes, but don't turn into an apple while asking.
go for it and tell her how u feel what do you have to loose%26gt;
Tell Her How You Feel!!
Well, if you really like the girl then just go up to her and start talking to her anyways even if her friends are talking to her. Then if she talks to you then on your last day ask her if she wants to go to the movies with you or something like that. If she says ';yes'; then pick a date for whatever you are going to do and when she says she had a nice time then ask her if maybe she wants to do something like that again... You NEED to talk to her before it is too late and you don't have a chance... just bring up a lot of courage and talk to her... I'm sure she would love it!!!(: hope i helped someee.
2 days?!!? your gonna get your heart broken! don't do it!
Suck it up and ask her to go out sometime. If you don't you'll always regret it. It sounds like she will say yes, but even if she doesn't it's no big deal. Girls just don't go out of their way to talk to a guy if they don't like him.
Do not feel embarrassed tell her how you feel she will understand.

I am sure she feels the same way.
simple first kinda hangout alot then buy her lots of nice things like chothing and things like that then ask her and see if she feels the same way
Get into a conversation with her then say that you'd like to talk to her more so would it be okay if you got her MSN/number. It sounds like she likes you though :)
Get her a gift alongside some red flowers.

Girl problem, advice please?

There's this girl that i can say I like very much. She's beautiful, funny, smart, just everything i look for in a girl. Words can't describe the type of girl she is.

The Problem : Before i met her, me and her cousin kind of liked each other, i guess you can say that. Nothing happened, all I did was take her too one movie, that was it. Anyways, she is the one who introduced me to this girl i like at the moment( this was before we stopped liking each other) and at first we just talked. But the more we talked the more i began to like her, we talk pretty much every night on the phone, we text everyday, we hang out on occassion. Her cousin also started making up stupid **** about me, saying id id things i never did ( this was after we stopped hanging out) luckily the girl i like beleives me over her cousin. so i kind of asked her if her cousin would block ANY chance i had with her, she replied yes and said 'oh no, why do you like me?' so she knows now, and i now know i have no chance with her. we work together at Zehrs, i see her every week, hear her voice every night, i can't get her off my mind, it's not good for me, knowing this one of a kind girl, needle in a haystack, i have no chance with. what do i do from here...

sorry for the long note.. lolGirl problem, advice please?
Hun just try to reason with the cousin you liked first.

Tell her you really like the other girl and you dont want any drama between you all.

Then talk to your boo and tell her you would like a chance with her. Tell her you talked to her cousin and you dont want trouble and repeat this stuff to her.

'; There's this girl that i can't get her off my mind, it's not good for me, knowing this one of a kind girl, needle in a haystack. She's beautiful, funny, smart, just everything i look for in a girl. Words can't describe the type of girl she is ';

If shes as good as you say she wont be able to resist you! =]

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