i liked this girl for a while and asked her to hang out a few times, but she either stood me up or flaked on the day, but she always said yes and with such enthusiasm and happiness.
I eventually got the point and left it that. we started talking again and tried to explain herself, how she was hanging out with guys here and there and they were just friends and how she wanted to only be just friends with me too. so i didnt wanna get into anything so i just ';yeah cool, dont stress it'; she knows i liked her a lot
Anyway i was curious as to why she did that and now we are pretty good friends. this happened 3 months ago. i wanted to email her this
';hey i just had a question that i was curious about since things are calm now and i aint feeling you like that anymore.
how come you never hung out with me? i dont mean to be intrusive or what not, im curious... i always asked you in a platonic way. You did say you were lonely and you were hanging with others... i did have feelings but i was gonna get rid of them on my own. Im also curious why you never said no...
Im not trying to stress you about it...';
is that good or bad? im really curious wgy she did what she did.Need help with girl problem? ADVICE PLEASE?
it is good she realise and return backNeed help with girl problem? ADVICE PLEASE?
girls (and some boys) don't like to hurt or disappoint people (the nice one anyway) so they will often give a wrong phone number or say they will hang out or something when they don't really want to. This girl has sent you the message - actions speak more truth than words. Smile when you see her and move on. There are a lot of good ones out there that will return your attention.
may be she is afraid
errrr........
i think you need to need the curiosity stay in your head
if it doesn't matter then what's the point?
like, you don't wanna seem clingy and desperate to know what other people think thats not cool
my advice: don't email her
good luck!
i think instead of emailing it, you ask her personally to her face, just be like, i was wondering some things that i could hope you could answer, and ask her your questions like what you wrote sounded good.
Maybe she had good reasons to not be able to go. let her explain herself and trust her.
I'm just being truthful here, but if she knew that you really liked her, if she liked you back she would problably atleast flirt with you a lot.
i hope this helped :)
I think thats it's totally fine to ask her that, but it would be better, if possible in person... she may also be confused about her own feelings, so the only way to know, is to ask!
GOOD LUCK!
She already gave you an answer and asking her by email seems a little too much. Just let it go
I think you should give her some privacy. Maybe she will understand later that your sincere to her. Girls always want a privacy. But if you can't wait for the time, you should say like ';hey, it's not that I didn't trust on you but seriously I just want to know why you never hung out with me? Please don't stress yourself.
God no, don't send that. It makes you sound desperate and needy. She would never want to see you, let alone go out with you if she sees that.
Monday, August 23, 2010
I need a girl's advice.?
Sometimes I don't feel very girly. I know I'm young %26amp; still developing but I feel less girly because I have A cups sometimes. I know girls with my build are late bloomers %26amp; my body is very proportionate but it still makes me feel bad. I work at a fast food restaurant %26amp; I work by our grill area. That is considered a guy's job. Today I moved around something really heavy. My boss consider me strong %26amp; asked if I was manly (well he phrased it another way but that's the basic idea). I sing low notes in chorus. I'm an alto 2 (the lowest part a girl can sing) %26amp; I can hit bass notes. One of my friends said I dress like a guy %26amp; thinks I don't wear enough makeup. Another one of my friends criticized me on my looks too (the way I dress, my makeup, and saying I need to put my hair up and stuff). So what can I do to make these bad feelings go away?I need a girl's advice.?
Dress how you want and be comfortable with yourself. Dont change yourself into someone your not b/c you will regret it later. If you want to change then do it a little at a time. Brush off what they are saying. They probably spend 2 hours in the morning for pretty much no reason. No one really cares as long a you dont smell bad.
And by the way I sing alto too. I think that it is a great and wonderful thing to be able to sing low. I personally can sing every womens part. But the low parts just seem so much better. Plus, every guy I talk to prefers a low alto over a sopranno. I doesnt make you more like a guy.
I bet that there is many people that want to be like you. So dont change if you dont want to. Be your self and have fun. Dont listen to your friends. Besides if all they want is to change you then they are not really friendsI need a girl's advice.?
Hey, dress how you like. It you're not gay however, you might want to girlie it up a little. It has nothing to do with cup size, but it has everything to do with style. Go shopping with some friends and ask their advice.
Accept yourself for whoever you are. I call myself ';La Petite Linebacker!';. I have always been muscular with broad shoulders, big muscular thighs, a deep voice and masculine walk. When I was in high school, I wore mini-skirts and the other kids would call me ';She-Man';. But I never really cared. I thought and still think I'm beautiful. So what others said rarely mattered. Even now, I'm 36 and I have co-workers who feel like they should tell me how I should dress to be more femine. Well, I know what I'm comfortable with. And for me a nice pair of slacks or a comfy pair of jeans are great. I wear heels but they are always low and casual. Take the time to get to know you and learn to love who you are and appreciate all that you are. No one else on the whole Earth is you, and that makes you very special. And if your friends have problems with that, don't worry about it. To this day, I still can't whisper, cause my voice is deep and heavy, but I'm all woman and any man who can get and keep my attention will tell you this too. Also, after one baby and growing all the way up, I still only wear a B cup (A cup until I had the baby) and men love my boobs. So don't think less of yourself for not being the typical,
You are the unique and special. Embrace it!
i know EXACTLY where your comming from because i have a muscular build and can single base in cheerleading. theres two things you can get to make you feel better
1.buy a heavliy padded push up bra (victorias secret makes a great puch up with air pockeets to make you look natrual)
2.buy tighter tops with a moderalty low cut but not low v necks,so tight you feel uncomfortable.the shirts should be fitted not sluty
and if you like the way you dress them stay that way im 15 and the only makeup i wear is lipgloss if i remember that
if you do decide to wear make up DO NOT I REPEAT DO NOT wear so much your pores cant breath itl cause acne and black heads. start wearing it gradually only add 1 thing every other week your face has to get used to it and change the oils and amount of oils released
o dont worry what they say, imma A cup, im an alto. as far as how you dress maybe if you wear T shirts and shop in the guys section id worry, but as long as you shop in the womens department and dont wear too many T shirts then leave the rest of the trust to the store. if you think the make up u wear makes you look fine than thats ok, personaly im pretty strong , but that doesnt make me like a man.
dont feel bad about yourself and if your friends really cared about you they would NOT judge you about how your hair looks your size makeup but you could try some new things like dressing up in more girl like clothes with more make up if you dont feel comfortable in this then you dont have make this the permanent way you look and dress.
ignore them darling. people can be so ignorant. there is nothing wrong with you. i was a late bloomer(a cup at 19), im a 34dd now (naturally) and im gettin girlier the older i get (im 23). just ignore the people who make stupid comments.
you will grow into your looks! it just takes time and you pretty much got that on your side. so what if you are strong. if your friends critisize you, they are probably dealing with some of their own issues....inside. you are fine the way you are and if you want, get a make up lesson (the department store girls LOVE a makeover!) and if not, who cares? peole dont MAKE you feel a certain way, you ALLOW them to make you feel that way. let people know how you feel when they say something about you femininity. they will get the picture. by the time you get out of highschool, you will be the envy of all! dont worry!
dress and act the way you are most comfortable.
many times people will say things to you to make themselves feel superior--i think those are the types of things being said to you.
people will always speak before they think.
you just need to accept that you`re fine the way you are.
things may change as you get older, and then again, they may not.
just accept that you`re a great person just as you are.
';you are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars--you have a right to be here.
and whether or not it is clear to you, the universe is unfolding as it should';.
Dress how you want and be comfortable with yourself. Dont change yourself into someone your not b/c you will regret it later. If you want to change then do it a little at a time. Brush off what they are saying. They probably spend 2 hours in the morning for pretty much no reason. No one really cares as long a you dont smell bad.
And by the way I sing alto too. I think that it is a great and wonderful thing to be able to sing low. I personally can sing every womens part. But the low parts just seem so much better. Plus, every guy I talk to prefers a low alto over a sopranno. I doesnt make you more like a guy.
I bet that there is many people that want to be like you. So dont change if you dont want to. Be your self and have fun. Dont listen to your friends. Besides if all they want is to change you then they are not really friendsI need a girl's advice.?
Hey, dress how you like. It you're not gay however, you might want to girlie it up a little. It has nothing to do with cup size, but it has everything to do with style. Go shopping with some friends and ask their advice.
Accept yourself for whoever you are. I call myself ';La Petite Linebacker!';. I have always been muscular with broad shoulders, big muscular thighs, a deep voice and masculine walk. When I was in high school, I wore mini-skirts and the other kids would call me ';She-Man';. But I never really cared. I thought and still think I'm beautiful. So what others said rarely mattered. Even now, I'm 36 and I have co-workers who feel like they should tell me how I should dress to be more femine. Well, I know what I'm comfortable with. And for me a nice pair of slacks or a comfy pair of jeans are great. I wear heels but they are always low and casual. Take the time to get to know you and learn to love who you are and appreciate all that you are. No one else on the whole Earth is you, and that makes you very special. And if your friends have problems with that, don't worry about it. To this day, I still can't whisper, cause my voice is deep and heavy, but I'm all woman and any man who can get and keep my attention will tell you this too. Also, after one baby and growing all the way up, I still only wear a B cup (A cup until I had the baby) and men love my boobs. So don't think less of yourself for not being the typical,
You are the unique and special. Embrace it!
i know EXACTLY where your comming from because i have a muscular build and can single base in cheerleading. theres two things you can get to make you feel better
1.buy a heavliy padded push up bra (victorias secret makes a great puch up with air pockeets to make you look natrual)
2.buy tighter tops with a moderalty low cut but not low v necks,so tight you feel uncomfortable.the shirts should be fitted not sluty
and if you like the way you dress them stay that way im 15 and the only makeup i wear is lipgloss if i remember that
if you do decide to wear make up DO NOT I REPEAT DO NOT wear so much your pores cant breath itl cause acne and black heads. start wearing it gradually only add 1 thing every other week your face has to get used to it and change the oils and amount of oils released
o dont worry what they say, imma A cup, im an alto. as far as how you dress maybe if you wear T shirts and shop in the guys section id worry, but as long as you shop in the womens department and dont wear too many T shirts then leave the rest of the trust to the store. if you think the make up u wear makes you look fine than thats ok, personaly im pretty strong , but that doesnt make me like a man.
dont feel bad about yourself and if your friends really cared about you they would NOT judge you about how your hair looks your size makeup but you could try some new things like dressing up in more girl like clothes with more make up if you dont feel comfortable in this then you dont have make this the permanent way you look and dress.
ignore them darling. people can be so ignorant. there is nothing wrong with you. i was a late bloomer(a cup at 19), im a 34dd now (naturally) and im gettin girlier the older i get (im 23). just ignore the people who make stupid comments.
you will grow into your looks! it just takes time and you pretty much got that on your side. so what if you are strong. if your friends critisize you, they are probably dealing with some of their own issues....inside. you are fine the way you are and if you want, get a make up lesson (the department store girls LOVE a makeover!) and if not, who cares? peole dont MAKE you feel a certain way, you ALLOW them to make you feel that way. let people know how you feel when they say something about you femininity. they will get the picture. by the time you get out of highschool, you will be the envy of all! dont worry!
dress and act the way you are most comfortable.
many times people will say things to you to make themselves feel superior--i think those are the types of things being said to you.
people will always speak before they think.
you just need to accept that you`re fine the way you are.
things may change as you get older, and then again, they may not.
just accept that you`re a great person just as you are.
';you are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars--you have a right to be here.
and whether or not it is clear to you, the universe is unfolding as it should';.
Girls help.. i dont know how to deal with this girl...need advice!?
Please read the full story!
Theres this girl at canada high school i chat to all the time (shes in my class), she used to be quiet when i used to talk at the start, and i always catch her staring at me, and when i catch her she looks away:).Now she has really opened up and talks to me alot, and laughs alot when i speak to her!, she can still be quiet at times though, but she will try her best to start a conversation now too! i wave to her everytime she looks and she always smiles and waves back to me. The other day, i told her about an event i went and done during my holiday, and she was like ';i havent done that in ages!';, and then she said ';where do you even go to do that nowadays';..i told her where and said its heaps of fun....then she went quiet for awhile...then we started talking again, was she wanting me to ask her out?i like this girl alot! and have been chatting to her little bits at a time for around 4 months!.she also said ';do you have any plans for your school break?';Girls help.. i dont know how to deal with this girl...need advice!?
she wants you but she doesnt want to leave her boyfriend, probably. she needs to leave her bf before she can start anything with you because you cant have a relationship if she is still with him., somehow yo uhave to work her boyfriend into a conversation and ask about him. then act kinda ';down'; to show you dont like that she has a bf. if later she heckof keeps flirting and askin you out, say you cant because she has a bf. then if she wants you enough she'll leave him.
hope it works out=)Girls help.. i dont know how to deal with this girl...need advice!?
www.datingloveandsex.com will help you
Theres this girl at canada high school i chat to all the time (shes in my class), she used to be quiet when i used to talk at the start, and i always catch her staring at me, and when i catch her she looks away:).Now she has really opened up and talks to me alot, and laughs alot when i speak to her!, she can still be quiet at times though, but she will try her best to start a conversation now too! i wave to her everytime she looks and she always smiles and waves back to me. The other day, i told her about an event i went and done during my holiday, and she was like ';i havent done that in ages!';, and then she said ';where do you even go to do that nowadays';..i told her where and said its heaps of fun....then she went quiet for awhile...then we started talking again, was she wanting me to ask her out?i like this girl alot! and have been chatting to her little bits at a time for around 4 months!.she also said ';do you have any plans for your school break?';Girls help.. i dont know how to deal with this girl...need advice!?
she wants you but she doesnt want to leave her boyfriend, probably. she needs to leave her bf before she can start anything with you because you cant have a relationship if she is still with him., somehow yo uhave to work her boyfriend into a conversation and ask about him. then act kinda ';down'; to show you dont like that she has a bf. if later she heckof keeps flirting and askin you out, say you cant because she has a bf. then if she wants you enough she'll leave him.
hope it works out=)Girls help.. i dont know how to deal with this girl...need advice!?
www.datingloveandsex.com will help you
Girls help.. i dont know how to deal with this girl...need advice!?
Please read the full story!
Theres this girl at canada high school i chat to all the time (shes in my class), she used to be quiet when i used to talk at the start, and i always catch her staring at me, and when i catch her she looks away:).Now she has really opened up and talks to me alot, and laughs alot when i speak to her!, she can still be quiet at times though, but she will try her best to start a conversation now too! i wave to her everytime she looks and she always smiles and waves back to me. The other day, i told her about an event i went and done during my holiday, and she was like ';i havent done that in ages!';, and then she said ';where do you even go to do that nowadays';..i told her where and said its heaps of fun....then she went quiet for awhile...then we started talking again, was she wanting me to ask her out?i like this girl alot! and have been chatting to her little bits at a time for around 4 months!.she also said ';do you have any plans for your school break?';Girls help.. i dont know how to deal with this girl...need advice!?
Well.. Maybe she wasn't really happy with her current BF and she was trying to see if you could be a better replacement.. Or maybe she was just fooling around and didn't really think what she'd do would leave an impact on you.. Another thought, she might see you as a friend only and she just has fun when she's around you.. I don't really know.. But if I were you, I'd definately ignore her after all that act she pulled.. And if she was REALLY interested, she'd ditch her BF and come after you.. I say ignore her, just be friendly to her don't be mean or rude xD no extra attention.. Treat her like ';one of the guys'; you know?? And see what happens.. Unless you don't like her that much lol then you are free to go find another girl.. I say find another girl anyway xD she already has someone, you wouldn't want to be plan B now, would you??
Best of luck boy ^-^Girls help.. i dont know how to deal with this girl...need advice!?
well sounds like she was flirting, I don't think she was playing you (well yet anyways), I think she wouldve gone out to the movies with you if her bf hadn't have answered your call. Hmm why didn't she mention the fact that she even had a bf? Anyway, if she is still talking with you, i don't see any harm in that. But if you expect more, I would be careful.
it hard maybe she doesn't like her bf any more. she just cant find a way to break up with if not she is playing around with your feelings which is just wrong.
yikes
just play along
and maybe she'llbring it up
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If you didn't' know she had a boyfriend she may be hiding more than you know,
Oh the other hand, she may be trying to get out of a relationship but the other party just is not getting the hint or doesn't want her to go. meaning he is possessive.
You make her feel good, and that is a good thing. Even if it's just a flirt from class. Give her some time, then ask about her boyfriend. Find out if they are trying to break up and if she does need help to get rid of a psycho guy, then she should talk to a counselor or something.
If she is opening up to you, keep that line of communication going, you never know what will happen. Or if she will need you for something.
She was very deceitful. If she comes on to you all flirty I would ask her why she accepted a date if she had a bf and why she never told you this before. She was willing to cheat on her bf so what kind of person do you really think she is? Be glad you found out now before things got too involved. If you feel you want to continue a friendship with her I'd keep it really low key.
dude dont mess with her if she has a boyfriend. i've been that girl before, having a boyfriend and seeing someone else too, and it is HARD and NOT FUN, not to mention STRESSFUL!!! the guy that i was seeing (aka: you, in your situation) ended up getting hurt by my ';sneaking around'; cuz he wanted me all to himself, not to mention my boyfriend got hurt too, when he found out. She's not gonna leave her bf for you, or else she already would have. I'd tell her to call you when she's actually SINGLE.
First of all ask urself this... Do you want a girl who will be dating you and going out to movies with other guys at the same time BEHIND UR BACK. She didnt ask her b/f if she could go to the movies with u ';as friends'; and all this flirting if shes doing this to her b/f then she is probably going to do it to you too and no telling how many other guys she talks to and sneaks around with. Maybe she likes drama too... No girl is going to leave her phone around her b/f knowing that other guys have her number (unless the guy is really cool and lets her have guy friends but come on they dont exist any more.) So if you want a flirt with all the guys, sneak around behind my b/fs back, drama queen go for it if not then u should already know that u deserve a way better girl and belive me they are out there!!!!!
Girls with boyfriends are off limits. Relationships are meant for two people only. It does not have room for three. If she keeps on talking to you, ask her ';how is your boyfriend?'; She'll know what you mean. You should keep your distance from her.
in this situation she proable just wanted to talk to you and like you a lot but she does have a boyfriend so be careful of smileing face because they tell lies what i mean by that is she want to get close but not in the risk of lose her boyfriend....or she tring to give him the cold shoulder and she dont know how in all reasons you will only know if you try this hold her han and kiss her on the lips if rejected you got your answer if accepted you have to decide wheather you want a relationship with her or just the firting and make it known
if she has a bf i would back off. sounds to me like she is a girl who loves male attention. so she loves that you notice her and think she is cute but is not ready to break it off with her bf
WOW! Her BF is a Ba*d (replace * with star (get it!?)).
Any way. She may just want a friend?! Did that every occur to you. If you have been chatting a lot then perhaps (!) she considers you a friend.
She doesn't sound like a player, otherwise she would of really been FLIRTING with you.
Personally I understand why it would feel weird, you like this girl and you thought she liked you. She should have found a way to let you know that she had a boyfriend, but since she didn't things are going to be weird. I think that you really only have a couple of choices, if she's still acting the same way towards you maybe it's just her personality to be naturally flirtatious. If she's willing to look past it and keep talking to you it's sort of cruel to snub her. Pretty much you can either keep talking to her, with or without flirting with her, or you can stop talking to her it's kind of up to you. Although, I should warn you, you don't know how stable her relationship with her boyfriend is, if they don't have much longer to last and you stop talking to her you could be the one that loses out in the end.
Theres this girl at canada high school i chat to all the time (shes in my class), she used to be quiet when i used to talk at the start, and i always catch her staring at me, and when i catch her she looks away:).Now she has really opened up and talks to me alot, and laughs alot when i speak to her!, she can still be quiet at times though, but she will try her best to start a conversation now too! i wave to her everytime she looks and she always smiles and waves back to me. The other day, i told her about an event i went and done during my holiday, and she was like ';i havent done that in ages!';, and then she said ';where do you even go to do that nowadays';..i told her where and said its heaps of fun....then she went quiet for awhile...then we started talking again, was she wanting me to ask her out?i like this girl alot! and have been chatting to her little bits at a time for around 4 months!.she also said ';do you have any plans for your school break?';Girls help.. i dont know how to deal with this girl...need advice!?
Well.. Maybe she wasn't really happy with her current BF and she was trying to see if you could be a better replacement.. Or maybe she was just fooling around and didn't really think what she'd do would leave an impact on you.. Another thought, she might see you as a friend only and she just has fun when she's around you.. I don't really know.. But if I were you, I'd definately ignore her after all that act she pulled.. And if she was REALLY interested, she'd ditch her BF and come after you.. I say ignore her, just be friendly to her don't be mean or rude xD no extra attention.. Treat her like ';one of the guys'; you know?? And see what happens.. Unless you don't like her that much lol then you are free to go find another girl.. I say find another girl anyway xD she already has someone, you wouldn't want to be plan B now, would you??
Best of luck boy ^-^Girls help.. i dont know how to deal with this girl...need advice!?
well sounds like she was flirting, I don't think she was playing you (well yet anyways), I think she wouldve gone out to the movies with you if her bf hadn't have answered your call. Hmm why didn't she mention the fact that she even had a bf? Anyway, if she is still talking with you, i don't see any harm in that. But if you expect more, I would be careful.
it hard maybe she doesn't like her bf any more. she just cant find a way to break up with if not she is playing around with your feelings which is just wrong.
yikes
just play along
and maybe she'llbring it up
={
If you didn't' know she had a boyfriend she may be hiding more than you know,
Oh the other hand, she may be trying to get out of a relationship but the other party just is not getting the hint or doesn't want her to go. meaning he is possessive.
You make her feel good, and that is a good thing. Even if it's just a flirt from class. Give her some time, then ask about her boyfriend. Find out if they are trying to break up and if she does need help to get rid of a psycho guy, then she should talk to a counselor or something.
If she is opening up to you, keep that line of communication going, you never know what will happen. Or if she will need you for something.
She was very deceitful. If she comes on to you all flirty I would ask her why she accepted a date if she had a bf and why she never told you this before. She was willing to cheat on her bf so what kind of person do you really think she is? Be glad you found out now before things got too involved. If you feel you want to continue a friendship with her I'd keep it really low key.
dude dont mess with her if she has a boyfriend. i've been that girl before, having a boyfriend and seeing someone else too, and it is HARD and NOT FUN, not to mention STRESSFUL!!! the guy that i was seeing (aka: you, in your situation) ended up getting hurt by my ';sneaking around'; cuz he wanted me all to himself, not to mention my boyfriend got hurt too, when he found out. She's not gonna leave her bf for you, or else she already would have. I'd tell her to call you when she's actually SINGLE.
First of all ask urself this... Do you want a girl who will be dating you and going out to movies with other guys at the same time BEHIND UR BACK. She didnt ask her b/f if she could go to the movies with u ';as friends'; and all this flirting if shes doing this to her b/f then she is probably going to do it to you too and no telling how many other guys she talks to and sneaks around with. Maybe she likes drama too... No girl is going to leave her phone around her b/f knowing that other guys have her number (unless the guy is really cool and lets her have guy friends but come on they dont exist any more.) So if you want a flirt with all the guys, sneak around behind my b/fs back, drama queen go for it if not then u should already know that u deserve a way better girl and belive me they are out there!!!!!
Girls with boyfriends are off limits. Relationships are meant for two people only. It does not have room for three. If she keeps on talking to you, ask her ';how is your boyfriend?'; She'll know what you mean. You should keep your distance from her.
in this situation she proable just wanted to talk to you and like you a lot but she does have a boyfriend so be careful of smileing face because they tell lies what i mean by that is she want to get close but not in the risk of lose her boyfriend....or she tring to give him the cold shoulder and she dont know how in all reasons you will only know if you try this hold her han and kiss her on the lips if rejected you got your answer if accepted you have to decide wheather you want a relationship with her or just the firting and make it known
if she has a bf i would back off. sounds to me like she is a girl who loves male attention. so she loves that you notice her and think she is cute but is not ready to break it off with her bf
WOW! Her BF is a Ba*d (replace * with star (get it!?)).
Any way. She may just want a friend?! Did that every occur to you. If you have been chatting a lot then perhaps (!) she considers you a friend.
She doesn't sound like a player, otherwise she would of really been FLIRTING with you.
Personally I understand why it would feel weird, you like this girl and you thought she liked you. She should have found a way to let you know that she had a boyfriend, but since she didn't things are going to be weird. I think that you really only have a couple of choices, if she's still acting the same way towards you maybe it's just her personality to be naturally flirtatious. If she's willing to look past it and keep talking to you it's sort of cruel to snub her. Pretty much you can either keep talking to her, with or without flirting with her, or you can stop talking to her it's kind of up to you. Although, I should warn you, you don't know how stable her relationship with her boyfriend is, if they don't have much longer to last and you stop talking to her you could be the one that loses out in the end.
Girls help.. i dont know how to deal with this girl...need advice!?
Please read the full story!
Theres this girl at canada high school i chat to all the time (shes in my class), she used to be quiet when i used to talk at the start, and i always catch her staring at me, and when i catch her she looks away:).Now she has really opened up and talks to me alot, and laughs alot when i speak to her!, she can still be quiet at times though, but she will try her best to start a conversation now too! i wave to her everytime she looks and she always smiles and waves back to me. The other day, i told her about an event i went and done during my holiday, and she was like ';i havent done that in ages!';, and then she said ';where do you even go to do that nowadays';..i told her where and said its heaps of fun....then she went quiet for awhile...then we started talking again, was she wanting me to ask her out?i like this girl alot! and have been chatting to her little bits at a time for around 4 months!.she also said ';do you have any plans for your school break?';Girls help.. i dont know how to deal with this girl...need advice!?
hate to say it, but your gonna have to give it up. tell her that unless she ends it with her bf then you can't have a relationship with her.
also, i've been in this girld shoes and its not fun. unless she's some kind of phyco *****, then she's just probably confused about what she really wants.Girls help.. i dont know how to deal with this girl...need advice!?
You really do know what you need to do or in this case ';Not'; do. Be mature and let her go. She clearly has a b'friend and you are the odd one out. Tell her politely that you don't roll like that and that things might be different if she lost him first. Don't be a fool you are worth more than that. If she likes you that much then she will make that choice, you can't do it for her. Find a girl that is available, there are loads of them out there!! The right one is just around the next corner. I promise!!
It sounds like her boyfriends a redard first of all. I can see why she is scoping other avenues. Not to say that she isn't genuinely into you. If she didn't have a bf, I'm sure she would have been able to go out with you by now. She is quiet, so she can't be like this normally. Something about made her open up adn Im sure her bf saw that change in her. Now seeing as how he appears to want to control her, of course he is going to not let her go to a movie with a friend.
My advice is... stay her friend. She obviously want to be your friend, that's why she isn't acting like anything happened, she dosen't want to bring attn to it from other people... ti's bad enough you got dragged in it. Hopefully she will get rid of him and then the road will be clear for the two of you. Just give her time and be her friend.
Of course, you could always just try and steal her away. :)
What makes you think it was her boyfriend, it could have been her older brother or her father that are restricting her movements. Have you asked her straight out, and make sure you are looking into her eyes and shes looking into yours otherwise if she looks down, or shuffles her shoes around etc., shes gonna make something up or is covering something up, don't push her though, maybe there is violence in the home and she is scared, just make sure she knows that you care about her and that you are there for her if she needs you. I hope this helps you, Goodluck!!!
Epic fail.
Theres this girl at canada high school i chat to all the time (shes in my class), she used to be quiet when i used to talk at the start, and i always catch her staring at me, and when i catch her she looks away:).Now she has really opened up and talks to me alot, and laughs alot when i speak to her!, she can still be quiet at times though, but she will try her best to start a conversation now too! i wave to her everytime she looks and she always smiles and waves back to me. The other day, i told her about an event i went and done during my holiday, and she was like ';i havent done that in ages!';, and then she said ';where do you even go to do that nowadays';..i told her where and said its heaps of fun....then she went quiet for awhile...then we started talking again, was she wanting me to ask her out?i like this girl alot! and have been chatting to her little bits at a time for around 4 months!.she also said ';do you have any plans for your school break?';Girls help.. i dont know how to deal with this girl...need advice!?
hate to say it, but your gonna have to give it up. tell her that unless she ends it with her bf then you can't have a relationship with her.
also, i've been in this girld shoes and its not fun. unless she's some kind of phyco *****, then she's just probably confused about what she really wants.Girls help.. i dont know how to deal with this girl...need advice!?
You really do know what you need to do or in this case ';Not'; do. Be mature and let her go. She clearly has a b'friend and you are the odd one out. Tell her politely that you don't roll like that and that things might be different if she lost him first. Don't be a fool you are worth more than that. If she likes you that much then she will make that choice, you can't do it for her. Find a girl that is available, there are loads of them out there!! The right one is just around the next corner. I promise!!
It sounds like her boyfriends a redard first of all. I can see why she is scoping other avenues. Not to say that she isn't genuinely into you. If she didn't have a bf, I'm sure she would have been able to go out with you by now. She is quiet, so she can't be like this normally. Something about made her open up adn Im sure her bf saw that change in her. Now seeing as how he appears to want to control her, of course he is going to not let her go to a movie with a friend.
My advice is... stay her friend. She obviously want to be your friend, that's why she isn't acting like anything happened, she dosen't want to bring attn to it from other people... ti's bad enough you got dragged in it. Hopefully she will get rid of him and then the road will be clear for the two of you. Just give her time and be her friend.
Of course, you could always just try and steal her away. :)
What makes you think it was her boyfriend, it could have been her older brother or her father that are restricting her movements. Have you asked her straight out, and make sure you are looking into her eyes and shes looking into yours otherwise if she looks down, or shuffles her shoes around etc., shes gonna make something up or is covering something up, don't push her though, maybe there is violence in the home and she is scared, just make sure she knows that you care about her and that you are there for her if she needs you. I hope this helps you, Goodluck!!!
Epic fail.
I feel I may lose this girl if...(advice)?
So there is this girl right, a kind of co-worker but very part time. I really like her a lot, she's absolutely perfect. She's funny, great to talk with, we enjoy many of the same things...
I hesitate though to take things farther...even though I really want to. My reason being that I just have so many things going on w/college and work. My routine sucks but there's no altering it any time soon...if I'm not at work, I am in class, and vice versa... I have every other weekend off, and normally get home around 7-8pm on any day I don't have off.
So my question is, with such a busy schedule, is there any way to make 'us' work? I've held off on taking our relationship farther because I know having very little time to spend with her wouldn't work well. I'm crazy about her but with so much going on, I feel stuck in the routine. I can't take off more work. Having classes has already sliced a good amount of my check nearly in half...
What should I do? Thanks all...I feel I may lose this girl if...(advice)?
Keep her as a close friend and start spending time together and going on causal dates. Make sure to let her know that at this time in your life there is not time for a 'girlfriend' but that you want to spend time with her. Let her make the decision if she is ok with your busy life right now.I feel I may lose this girl if...(advice)?
You honestly have to take care of your priorities first.
If you takes things further while trying to juggle your girl, work, and school, you're going to end up very stressed out.
Talk to your girl. Let her know the deal and how you feel. If she cares about you enough, she'll understand your situation and work with you on it.
Just remember, you come first, not your lady.refill
I hesitate though to take things farther...even though I really want to. My reason being that I just have so many things going on w/college and work. My routine sucks but there's no altering it any time soon...if I'm not at work, I am in class, and vice versa... I have every other weekend off, and normally get home around 7-8pm on any day I don't have off.
So my question is, with such a busy schedule, is there any way to make 'us' work? I've held off on taking our relationship farther because I know having very little time to spend with her wouldn't work well. I'm crazy about her but with so much going on, I feel stuck in the routine. I can't take off more work. Having classes has already sliced a good amount of my check nearly in half...
What should I do? Thanks all...I feel I may lose this girl if...(advice)?
Keep her as a close friend and start spending time together and going on causal dates. Make sure to let her know that at this time in your life there is not time for a 'girlfriend' but that you want to spend time with her. Let her make the decision if she is ok with your busy life right now.I feel I may lose this girl if...(advice)?
You honestly have to take care of your priorities first.
If you takes things further while trying to juggle your girl, work, and school, you're going to end up very stressed out.
Talk to your girl. Let her know the deal and how you feel. If she cares about you enough, she'll understand your situation and work with you on it.
Just remember, you come first, not your lady.
Threesome advice: what kind of girl to ask?
My new GF said she would be willing to have a threesome with another girl. The question is, what kind of girl should we pick?
I was thinking about finding some hot girl that neither of us will ever see again so that feelings won't get involved.
I also thought that we might be more comfortable and open with one of her friends, though it might be awkward to see them after we do it.
So, which should it be? A stranger or someone we know?Threesome advice: what kind of girl to ask?
You should always seek for added partners in a swinging community, they are like minded and seeking as you are. It just makes it easier and allows for a more positive experience.
GinniThreesome advice: what kind of girl to ask?
The type of girl should not be someone who is convenient and I would also dissuade you from choosing a friend.
My recommendation would be for the two of you to sit down, talk about having a threesome including boundaries, and the type of person the two of you feel would be best suited for the two of you. Only by talking about it will the two of you discover the type of person would fit with you. In my honest opinion the two of you would be better off with a stranger than a friend.
well you might not wanna see the person you have a threesome with every day it might get kind of aquard so go with the stranger but she might have a s.t.d so make sure you see her test results
Don't ever use her friends, that's disgusting. If she wanted to have sex w/ them she would've done it already. A stranger is the only way to go.
I was thinking about finding some hot girl that neither of us will ever see again so that feelings won't get involved.
I also thought that we might be more comfortable and open with one of her friends, though it might be awkward to see them after we do it.
So, which should it be? A stranger or someone we know?Threesome advice: what kind of girl to ask?
You should always seek for added partners in a swinging community, they are like minded and seeking as you are. It just makes it easier and allows for a more positive experience.
GinniThreesome advice: what kind of girl to ask?
The type of girl should not be someone who is convenient and I would also dissuade you from choosing a friend.
My recommendation would be for the two of you to sit down, talk about having a threesome including boundaries, and the type of person the two of you feel would be best suited for the two of you. Only by talking about it will the two of you discover the type of person would fit with you. In my honest opinion the two of you would be better off with a stranger than a friend.
well you might not wanna see the person you have a threesome with every day it might get kind of aquard so go with the stranger but she might have a s.t.d so make sure you see her test results
Don't ever use her friends, that's disgusting. If she wanted to have sex w/ them she would've done it already. A stranger is the only way to go.
I am very bad in how to get in a relationship with any girl i need advice?
You can try asking the girl if she is busy on a night and then see what she answers and then tell her that you want to go out with her or something. On your date try to ask her questions like how her life is going and be a gentleman.I am very bad in how to get in a relationship with any girl i need advice?
why not try guysI am very bad in how to get in a relationship with any girl i need advice?
why not try guys?
after dating a little it should feel natural. say, ';i like you a lot...i'd like to be your boyfriend.';
slap butts and wink
why not try guysI am very bad in how to get in a relationship with any girl i need advice?
why not try guys?
after dating a little it should feel natural. say, ';i like you a lot...i'd like to be your boyfriend.';
slap butts and wink
I am 13 never had a girlfriend and need some advice about how to get a girl to like me what should I do?
First off, this might sound harsh, but you're only thirteen.
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That should be an answer in itself. Don't worry about it. You're not done growing, you have plenty of time for relationships. Girls will come in time.
My advice is to focus on your family and school at this time in your life. You're young. Have fun, hang out with your friends--male and female-- and just have a good time. Relationships are serious things, and you might find that after you get into one, it's more than you want to handle.
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Let yourself be young while you can. Reality sets in soon enough.I am 13 never had a girlfriend and need some advice about how to get a girl to like me what should I do?
I think you should just wait until you have more girl that are your friends and then you should start being nice to a lot of girls.
THen slowlyl you will start to like someone and then you will get one you can't rush this kind of things because if you do then i don't think you will be able to get a girlfriend.
Just Wait brother and then you will get one.I am 13 never had a girlfriend and need some advice about how to get a girl to like me what should I do?
you dont need a girl yet mate,
wait to ur 15 to start worring about that
im 15, and when the right girl comes u'll know it because u'll be thinking about her all the time and u'll feel almost sick,
but if u really want a girlfriend that badly then i say just be yourself, be nice to a girl u like, if your nicer to her than other guys she'll notice u and well see what happens
or if she's popular you can go and give her a back handed comment, because she's popular she'll be getting nice comments all the time and if u say something like 'o hi there, nice shoes i saw someone else wearing them earlyer' (something like that for heavens sake dont say tht it wont be good) and she'll notice you because she'll be used to getting nice compliments
but in the end mate, if u like someone just go up and tell her how u feel because hey u only live once and you might as well see if she'll go out with you
i hope i helped mate
plain and simple, and I know this is cliched but BE YOURSELF. There's really now other way. You can't MAKE a girl like you so the best you can do is to charm her, be her friend (mind you not too good of friend :) ) and let her find out what an awsome person you are. And if she doesn't end up liking you, don't worry about it too much. There will be plenty of time to find a girlfriend! In the Meanwhile, enjoy being you, and stay positive.
you are still young, you dont need to force up yourself on any girl, just be yourself. if they dont like you the way you are then to hell with them. Just know that God placed someone in this world for you and if who you like dosen't like you the way you are, then just way on till someone really do.
if its ur first u need to (1)...learn how to spit game to a gurl when u talk to her be like wats up beautiful hows ur day goin u looking so fine today and when she starts to respond gop with the flow(2).... if ur clothes r ugly to u go out and get some fly *** gear bro ladies like a man with style and fashion cause a grls favorite thing to do is shop well most of them sum good name brand clothes (jordan,nike,coogi,enyce,dickies,brookly鈥?express,ecko,akademiks,evisu,sean john but they can be a bit pricey(3).....get a nice hair cut 1 dat looks frsh on u like i get a blowout with a double edge so fresh and most of all atleast get sum bling bro ull start knockin them gurls dead i swear but ur game is the most important thing of all
well, first off, you need a lot of self-confidence. Try not to stutter and try your best to talk smoothly. This is critical; try to use cocky comedy, this means dont just tell her jokes to laugh, try to be funny during your talks. Be nice, flirt some, and treat her as if your going to go out with her.
good luck bro.
alright i'm 14 and it's not about trying to get a girl to like you because girls will like you for who you are and not who you try to be and dude it's easier to get a girl to like you by just talking to her.
Geezus! You're only 13! You don't even need to be worrying about having a girlfriend yet. You still have plenty of time to get a girlfriend when you're older. Just chill out, make friends with girls. Then later on perhaps you could have a girlfriend.
I'm trying to remember what girls like at that age. One thing that always worked on the ladies with me was to write a short poem, probably likening her beauty to a shimmering pool by moonlight, or eye as blue as the Carribean.
im 13 never had a boyfriend so chill
best ways to get a 13 y/o girl...
-be funny
-joke around
-smell nice
-be open
-say stupid funny things
-make fun of yourself in a sarcastic way
I'm seventeen and i've never had a boyfriend. Its not that big of a deal and sometimes its funner to stay single.
Just relax you have all the time in the world!!!! You are only 13....
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That should be an answer in itself. Don't worry about it. You're not done growing, you have plenty of time for relationships. Girls will come in time.
My advice is to focus on your family and school at this time in your life. You're young. Have fun, hang out with your friends--male and female-- and just have a good time. Relationships are serious things, and you might find that after you get into one, it's more than you want to handle.
=]
Let yourself be young while you can. Reality sets in soon enough.I am 13 never had a girlfriend and need some advice about how to get a girl to like me what should I do?
I think you should just wait until you have more girl that are your friends and then you should start being nice to a lot of girls.
THen slowlyl you will start to like someone and then you will get one you can't rush this kind of things because if you do then i don't think you will be able to get a girlfriend.
Just Wait brother and then you will get one.I am 13 never had a girlfriend and need some advice about how to get a girl to like me what should I do?
you dont need a girl yet mate,
wait to ur 15 to start worring about that
im 15, and when the right girl comes u'll know it because u'll be thinking about her all the time and u'll feel almost sick,
but if u really want a girlfriend that badly then i say just be yourself, be nice to a girl u like, if your nicer to her than other guys she'll notice u and well see what happens
or if she's popular you can go and give her a back handed comment, because she's popular she'll be getting nice comments all the time and if u say something like 'o hi there, nice shoes i saw someone else wearing them earlyer' (something like that for heavens sake dont say tht it wont be good) and she'll notice you because she'll be used to getting nice compliments
but in the end mate, if u like someone just go up and tell her how u feel because hey u only live once and you might as well see if she'll go out with you
i hope i helped mate
plain and simple, and I know this is cliched but BE YOURSELF. There's really now other way. You can't MAKE a girl like you so the best you can do is to charm her, be her friend (mind you not too good of friend :) ) and let her find out what an awsome person you are. And if she doesn't end up liking you, don't worry about it too much. There will be plenty of time to find a girlfriend! In the Meanwhile, enjoy being you, and stay positive.
you are still young, you dont need to force up yourself on any girl, just be yourself. if they dont like you the way you are then to hell with them. Just know that God placed someone in this world for you and if who you like dosen't like you the way you are, then just way on till someone really do.
if its ur first u need to (1)...learn how to spit game to a gurl when u talk to her be like wats up beautiful hows ur day goin u looking so fine today and when she starts to respond gop with the flow(2).... if ur clothes r ugly to u go out and get some fly *** gear bro ladies like a man with style and fashion cause a grls favorite thing to do is shop well most of them sum good name brand clothes (jordan,nike,coogi,enyce,dickies,brookly鈥?express,ecko,akademiks,evisu,sean john but they can be a bit pricey(3).....get a nice hair cut 1 dat looks frsh on u like i get a blowout with a double edge so fresh and most of all atleast get sum bling bro ull start knockin them gurls dead i swear but ur game is the most important thing of all
well, first off, you need a lot of self-confidence. Try not to stutter and try your best to talk smoothly. This is critical; try to use cocky comedy, this means dont just tell her jokes to laugh, try to be funny during your talks. Be nice, flirt some, and treat her as if your going to go out with her.
good luck bro.
alright i'm 14 and it's not about trying to get a girl to like you because girls will like you for who you are and not who you try to be and dude it's easier to get a girl to like you by just talking to her.
Geezus! You're only 13! You don't even need to be worrying about having a girlfriend yet. You still have plenty of time to get a girlfriend when you're older. Just chill out, make friends with girls. Then later on perhaps you could have a girlfriend.
I'm trying to remember what girls like at that age. One thing that always worked on the ladies with me was to write a short poem, probably likening her beauty to a shimmering pool by moonlight, or eye as blue as the Carribean.
im 13 never had a boyfriend so chill
best ways to get a 13 y/o girl...
-be funny
-joke around
-smell nice
-be open
-say stupid funny things
-make fun of yourself in a sarcastic way
I'm seventeen and i've never had a boyfriend. Its not that big of a deal and sometimes its funner to stay single.
Just relax you have all the time in the world!!!! You are only 13....
Girls - if a guy likes you but asks another girl for advice on how to approach you ?
do you feel indifferent about that ?
or would you much rather prefered it if he took the hard route to confess his feelings for you, by somehow just telling you face to face - no matter how awkward,weird or silly it makes him or you feel ?
i'm not a big fan of getting a third party involved in helping a potential relationship blossom between people, it just makes things complicated.
i also find it kills off some of the intimacy and unique spice that comes with the 'approach him/her alone' scenario.
there are cases where a friend can help though, unfortunately my best bud Chad, is a 13 yr old boy trapped inside a 24 year old mans body and I don't really trust the guy when around special women in my life heh.Girls - if a guy likes you but asks another girl for advice on how to approach you ?
i would love for them to come up themselves. but also if i knew who sent the friend to ask about me then i'd think thats cute too.
but i would love if someone approached me and told me their feelings no matter how silly or cheesy it was.Girls - if a guy likes you but asks another girl for advice on how to approach you ?
aww.. i think thats kinda cute, hehe.
but yeah, i'd rather him just approach me first.
HAHA my dad sounds like Chad he has 2 teenage daughters and 2 grown and he still acts like he's 14! I had to kee up with him when he chaperoned school trips because he'd wander off!
or would you much rather prefered it if he took the hard route to confess his feelings for you, by somehow just telling you face to face - no matter how awkward,weird or silly it makes him or you feel ?
i'm not a big fan of getting a third party involved in helping a potential relationship blossom between people, it just makes things complicated.
i also find it kills off some of the intimacy and unique spice that comes with the 'approach him/her alone' scenario.
there are cases where a friend can help though, unfortunately my best bud Chad, is a 13 yr old boy trapped inside a 24 year old mans body and I don't really trust the guy when around special women in my life heh.Girls - if a guy likes you but asks another girl for advice on how to approach you ?
i would love for them to come up themselves. but also if i knew who sent the friend to ask about me then i'd think thats cute too.
but i would love if someone approached me and told me their feelings no matter how silly or cheesy it was.Girls - if a guy likes you but asks another girl for advice on how to approach you ?
aww.. i think thats kinda cute, hehe.
but yeah, i'd rather him just approach me first.
HAHA my dad sounds like Chad he has 2 teenage daughters and 2 grown and he still acts like he's 14! I had to kee up with him when he chaperoned school trips because he'd wander off!
Girls help.. i dont know how to deal with this girl...need advice!?
Please read the full story!
Theres this girl at canada high school i chat to all the time (shes in my class), she used to be quiet when i used to talk at the start, and i always catch her staring at me, and when i catch her she looks away:).Now she has really opened up and talks to me alot, and laughs alot when i speak to her!, she can still be quiet at times though, but she will try her best to start a conversation now too! i wave to her everytime she looks and she always smiles and waves back to me. The other day, i told her about an event i went and done during my holiday, and she was like ';i havent done that in ages!';, and then she said ';where do you even go to do that nowadays';..i told her where and said its heaps of fun....then she went quiet for awhile...then we started talking again, was she wanting me to ask her out?i like this girl alot! and have been chatting to her little bits at a time for around 4 months!.she also said ';do you have any plans for your school break?';Girls help.. i dont know how to deal with this girl...need advice!?
If you like her, ask her out! Given the circumstances, she'll probably say yes. If not, thats okay. Rejection is bound to happen some point in life. The part where you went quiet...nobody was there, so we can't really tell you what she wanted, but if she did want you to ask her out, too bad for now. You can't change the past, but its not too late to ask her out now. I wish you two the best of luck.Girls help.. i dont know how to deal with this girl...need advice!?
are you sure she has a boyfriend and she's not doing this just to make you jealous?find out...if she does it probably means that her mind is not in her relationship,but she's scared or unwilling to call it quits.in my opinion,its rather unwise to trust such girls coz ,u never know ...she can do the same thing with you if you are her boyfriend!
Well yup it is obvious she likes you but she has a boyfriend so try to not steal her away from the guy cause itz not a nice thing to do..i think she cant break it off with her boyfriend ...and he wouldnt let go of her...so i suggest just act normal and be a friend to her so anytime she needed someone there for her , your the shoulder she can lend on!
try not to be awkward about it...cause its normal things like this happen just have to be friends with her....and be there for her just in case her BF is a psycho....!!!
be brave! this girl likes you!
do it!
i reckon she dus want u to ask her out or like hang out with her at least
HAHA! You have an admirer!!
I think she's actually quiet in nature but she tries to be more active just so she won't lose you.
I think you SHOULD ask her out.
Oh no, wait!
Don't make a move until she loses her boy. :-)
Theres this girl at canada high school i chat to all the time (shes in my class), she used to be quiet when i used to talk at the start, and i always catch her staring at me, and when i catch her she looks away:).Now she has really opened up and talks to me alot, and laughs alot when i speak to her!, she can still be quiet at times though, but she will try her best to start a conversation now too! i wave to her everytime she looks and she always smiles and waves back to me. The other day, i told her about an event i went and done during my holiday, and she was like ';i havent done that in ages!';, and then she said ';where do you even go to do that nowadays';..i told her where and said its heaps of fun....then she went quiet for awhile...then we started talking again, was she wanting me to ask her out?i like this girl alot! and have been chatting to her little bits at a time for around 4 months!.she also said ';do you have any plans for your school break?';Girls help.. i dont know how to deal with this girl...need advice!?
If you like her, ask her out! Given the circumstances, she'll probably say yes. If not, thats okay. Rejection is bound to happen some point in life. The part where you went quiet...nobody was there, so we can't really tell you what she wanted, but if she did want you to ask her out, too bad for now. You can't change the past, but its not too late to ask her out now. I wish you two the best of luck.Girls help.. i dont know how to deal with this girl...need advice!?
are you sure she has a boyfriend and she's not doing this just to make you jealous?find out...if she does it probably means that her mind is not in her relationship,but she's scared or unwilling to call it quits.in my opinion,its rather unwise to trust such girls coz ,u never know ...she can do the same thing with you if you are her boyfriend!
Well yup it is obvious she likes you but she has a boyfriend so try to not steal her away from the guy cause itz not a nice thing to do..i think she cant break it off with her boyfriend ...and he wouldnt let go of her...so i suggest just act normal and be a friend to her so anytime she needed someone there for her , your the shoulder she can lend on!
try not to be awkward about it...cause its normal things like this happen just have to be friends with her....and be there for her just in case her BF is a psycho....!!!
be brave! this girl likes you!
do it!
i reckon she dus want u to ask her out or like hang out with her at least
HAHA! You have an admirer!!
I think she's actually quiet in nature but she tries to be more active just so she won't lose you.
I think you SHOULD ask her out.
Oh no, wait!
Don't make a move until she loses her boy. :-)
Do any teenage guys need fashion advice from a girl?
yes I do.. do you thinkg its ok for a guy to wear girls jeans as long as they not really feminine looking ( colored stitching, jewels flowers,etc)? reason I ask is because I tried a pair on and they seem to fit alot better than any mens jeans i've evr wornDo any teenage guys need fashion advice from a girl?
do girls like mustaches? i shave mine but several girls flirt with me when ever i don't. i don't know what it means.refill
do girls like mustaches? i shave mine but several girls flirt with me when ever i don't. i don't know what it means.
Okay...and girl drama advice?
okay
here is the story.
Theres me: Sophie
My Friend: Lex
And Her: Jordan
i know this sounds so pathetic and kindergarten-ish
i thought the same thing
okay so lex was saying jordan was a *****, even tho neither of us really know her that well. last year one of her friends came up to me and said, jordan wants you to know she thinks your a slut. we had never even talked before! and so i was like ok whatever, it might not be true and so i never said anything until she started talking about me when i went out with her ex (she was right, hes a perv). and so i just assumed she was one of those bitchy girls. so the other day lex was talking about her to jordan (and guess now my) ex. and she saw the comments, and got mad and said
';so u talk **** about me behind my back?
im not a *****'; and they got in a fight.
but i dont want jordan to hate me cause her **** with lex.
so i wanna somehow to tell her that without sounding pathetic
haha
you know what i meen?
ok
well thanks in advanceOkay...and girl drama advice?
Ha wow..I was in alot of drama last year with a girl named Jordan too.
I think you should just tell her that you dont have a problem with her, Lex is your friend..but you dont want their drama to be any drama between you two. And if she starts being a ***** and talking ****..then just dont worry about her hating you. Shes the one that is being pathetic..and everyone will see how stupid she looks.
GoodLuck!Okay...and girl drama advice?
I think you have added more drama llamas to the herd!!
stupid drama. not worth your time.
here is the story.
Theres me: Sophie
My Friend: Lex
And Her: Jordan
i know this sounds so pathetic and kindergarten-ish
i thought the same thing
okay so lex was saying jordan was a *****, even tho neither of us really know her that well. last year one of her friends came up to me and said, jordan wants you to know she thinks your a slut. we had never even talked before! and so i was like ok whatever, it might not be true and so i never said anything until she started talking about me when i went out with her ex (she was right, hes a perv). and so i just assumed she was one of those bitchy girls. so the other day lex was talking about her to jordan (and guess now my) ex. and she saw the comments, and got mad and said
';so u talk **** about me behind my back?
im not a *****'; and they got in a fight.
but i dont want jordan to hate me cause her **** with lex.
so i wanna somehow to tell her that without sounding pathetic
haha
you know what i meen?
ok
well thanks in advanceOkay...and girl drama advice?
Ha wow..I was in alot of drama last year with a girl named Jordan too.
I think you should just tell her that you dont have a problem with her, Lex is your friend..but you dont want their drama to be any drama between you two. And if she starts being a ***** and talking ****..then just dont worry about her hating you. Shes the one that is being pathetic..and everyone will see how stupid she looks.
GoodLuck!Okay...and girl drama advice?
I think you have added more drama llamas to the herd!!
stupid drama. not worth your time.
Need a girl's advice!?
I have been 'dating' this girl for ~1 month. We are not official, even though I want to be (and she does too from what I have heard). There is a 2 week break coming up where we won't be seeing eachother and will be communicating solely through phone + texting. I am scared that we won't have as strong of a connection when we get back and maybe she will have moved on. Should I ask her to be my official girlfriend directly after the break and the next time we are together.. or wait to see how we stand?Need a girl's advice!?
If it's meant to happen it will. Don't worry about losing the strong connection. Don't push things. It's better to take your time. It would be good for you to have a talk with her about feelings and whatnot though. Good luck. =)Need a girl's advice!?
Wait to see where you stand. If she really likes you this will give you the upper hand in the relationship when you return and she will want to make it offical. On the other hand by waiting you are also buying time to see if she really does like you this is a good thing! If you find out that she has lost interest in the two weeks you haven't throw your heart out there to get it ran over and you will not seem desperate to ask her to be offical just because you are away from her for 2 weeks.
well since its break and ur going to talk to her over texting and on the phone just make it official there...its kinda kidish but just make sure she knows that you would do it in person if it was possible and see how that works out...if that doesn't work for you, ask her to meet you somewhere on the break and hang out and at the end of ur date make it official
hope that helped and good luck =)
merry xmas
I think you should ask her the next time you see her.
But keep in contact with her through the break, because
you don't want her to forget about you! Plus, it'll show her that you're really interested in her, and that this isn't just a fling.
If you want her to be your g/f then ask her...asap...most girls dont get asked coz the guys are to scared to ask and we girls are left asking 'Why didnt he ask me..why didnt he like me'?... I wish someone was sweet enough to ak me sometimes..go ahead ask her I bet she will say 'yes'..'what have yo to loose.?.hope it works out for you?
i think waiting might be the best way, but when ever you are in contact with her, phone or texting, ask how she is and how she feels about you too and be really sweet, girls love guys who just want to talk trust me
Good Luck!
wait and see. maybe after being away from you after so long will make her realize that she wants to tie herself down to you in a relationship. make sure you keep talking to her over break though so she doesnt forget about you :)
You should wait and see where you guys stand.
and in order to not lose the connection you guys have you should try to do something with her over the break. try lunch or a movie or something :)
it wont matter either way, she will meet somebody and will be getting her brains bonked out by some dude over this 2 week break...
Its 2 weeks! trust me she won't move on--just ask her out the next time you see her-I know she'll say yes ;D
Just ask her out.
Just ask her
ask her!!!!!!!!!! before its to late
im sure she wants u to ask her as much as you want to ask her
ask her and i'm sure she will say yes
don't wait because if you do then it might be too late
ask her!!!!
ask her boy
If it's meant to happen it will. Don't worry about losing the strong connection. Don't push things. It's better to take your time. It would be good for you to have a talk with her about feelings and whatnot though. Good luck. =)Need a girl's advice!?
Wait to see where you stand. If she really likes you this will give you the upper hand in the relationship when you return and she will want to make it offical. On the other hand by waiting you are also buying time to see if she really does like you this is a good thing! If you find out that she has lost interest in the two weeks you haven't throw your heart out there to get it ran over and you will not seem desperate to ask her to be offical just because you are away from her for 2 weeks.
well since its break and ur going to talk to her over texting and on the phone just make it official there...its kinda kidish but just make sure she knows that you would do it in person if it was possible and see how that works out...if that doesn't work for you, ask her to meet you somewhere on the break and hang out and at the end of ur date make it official
hope that helped and good luck =)
merry xmas
I think you should ask her the next time you see her.
But keep in contact with her through the break, because
you don't want her to forget about you! Plus, it'll show her that you're really interested in her, and that this isn't just a fling.
If you want her to be your g/f then ask her...asap...most girls dont get asked coz the guys are to scared to ask and we girls are left asking 'Why didnt he ask me..why didnt he like me'?... I wish someone was sweet enough to ak me sometimes..go ahead ask her I bet she will say 'yes'..'what have yo to loose.?.hope it works out for you?
i think waiting might be the best way, but when ever you are in contact with her, phone or texting, ask how she is and how she feels about you too and be really sweet, girls love guys who just want to talk trust me
Good Luck!
wait and see. maybe after being away from you after so long will make her realize that she wants to tie herself down to you in a relationship. make sure you keep talking to her over break though so she doesnt forget about you :)
You should wait and see where you guys stand.
and in order to not lose the connection you guys have you should try to do something with her over the break. try lunch or a movie or something :)
it wont matter either way, she will meet somebody and will be getting her brains bonked out by some dude over this 2 week break...
Its 2 weeks! trust me she won't move on--just ask her out the next time you see her-I know she'll say yes ;D
Just ask her out.
Just ask her
ask her!!!!!!!!!! before its to late
im sure she wants u to ask her as much as you want to ask her
ask her and i'm sure she will say yes
don't wait because if you do then it might be too late
ask her!!!!
ask her boy
Boy or girl?? need advice...?
i just want to know if this has happen to any moms because i am so confuse. i am 21 wks pregnant and already had 3 ultrasounds and on all ultrasounds the baby's legs keep covering his/her private part, therfore we have not been able to find out the sex. just yesterday i had to pay to get an ultrasound and the same thing happen, the doctor told me it might be a girl because girls tend to be more shy then boys, is that true?? eventhough we were unable to determine, my gut instincts tell me its a boy. i have 2 girls already and with my first i found out right away my 2nd i didnt find out till birth-day but i just knew it was a girl. what can i do should i follow my instincts?? or when is the best time for another ultrasound, either way i am a happy mom....Boy or girl?? need advice...?
My daughter did the exact same thing when i went for my ultrasounds. They said they were 90% sure it was a girl, but i didn't need an ultrasound to tell me what i was having, i just knew. I was right with my son as well.
Another way you could try, i know some people will say this is an old wives tale but it was right with both of mine and my mums 6.
Ask someone to look at you side on then front, if you are carrying all front then it tends to be a boy, if you are carrying all round then it tends to be a girl.
Good luck.Boy or girl?? need advice...?
how much was it to get an ultrasound?
Apparently, when my mom had an ultrasound while she was pregnant with me, I had my legs spread wide open and the doctor still thought I was going to be a boy!!!!!
you usually find out the baby's gender is done between 18-22 weeks. but i wouldnt just rely on what your doc has told you or the ultrasound. doctors can be wrong for one, and second the baby might not be in the best position to tell its gender. my son always use to moon us... crazy kid.anyways my doctor told me throughout my whole pregnancy that i was having a girl... and i even had a ultrasound done everytime i had an appointment. anyways 18 hours of labor later, i gave birth to a baby boy. well lets just say all i had was girls clothes and stuff at home cause the doctor was so confident it was a girl... thank god for my family going out that night and buy all boy stuff. i tell you what my next baby, i dont want to know the gender cause i have clothes for both sexs. anyways get neutral colored clothing...
i would get a 3d/4d ultrasound done when you are 22-25 weeks, to get a more accurate reading
Well with my boy, she put the ultrasound thing on my belly and his legs were spread wide open. if that helps any. lol
not true my daughter had her legs wide open
my sons legs were closed until i was around 30 weeks then he gave a quick view
My son was a suprize because all he would do is turn over and show his butt to the ultrasound everytime..... my little girl was legs spread wide when we found out. I am 27 weeks preggy lol my son is 3 1/2yrs old
i say go with your instincts this is my first and i knew it was a boy even went shopping for boy stuff before i found out and its a boy! Just keep the receipts for just in case purposes. and you already have 2 girls and you knew they were girls! the doctors kept saying my sister was a boy the whole time and my mom just knew it was a girl well shes my sister not my brother lol
My little guy kept his legs closed until my 4th ultrasound! 1st one he was too young (12 weeks) 2nd %26amp; 3rd (16 %26amp; 17 weeks) his legs were closed. And the 4th (20 weeks) he finally revealed to cash %26amp; prizes! So no I wouldn't say that girls are more shy than boys. My gut instinct told me boy all along as well. I knew from the begining it was boy.
Hmm.. this won't be much help at all. I have had 2 ultrasounds. The first was at week 18. They were unable to tell me the gender as baby was shy and crossed its legs. I had a gut instinct it was a girl, dreams with girls in it and just an overall feeling of it being a girl. Yesterday went and had an ultrasound, 33weeks (growth scan) and found out it was a boy.
Gut instincts can be wrong, and obviously girls are no shyer than boys. Sorry darl X Good luck
the nurse at my obgyn told me that she has her patients do the drano test and it has been right every time! What you do is... take a tablespoon of drano crystals and poor a tablespoon of your urine on top of it, do it outside on the concret because it smells bad! If it turns brown it is a girl if it stays blue green its a boy! Good luck!
My daughter did the exact same thing when i went for my ultrasounds. They said they were 90% sure it was a girl, but i didn't need an ultrasound to tell me what i was having, i just knew. I was right with my son as well.
Another way you could try, i know some people will say this is an old wives tale but it was right with both of mine and my mums 6.
Ask someone to look at you side on then front, if you are carrying all front then it tends to be a boy, if you are carrying all round then it tends to be a girl.
Good luck.Boy or girl?? need advice...?
how much was it to get an ultrasound?
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Apparently, when my mom had an ultrasound while she was pregnant with me, I had my legs spread wide open and the doctor still thought I was going to be a boy!!!!!
you usually find out the baby's gender is done between 18-22 weeks. but i wouldnt just rely on what your doc has told you or the ultrasound. doctors can be wrong for one, and second the baby might not be in the best position to tell its gender. my son always use to moon us... crazy kid.anyways my doctor told me throughout my whole pregnancy that i was having a girl... and i even had a ultrasound done everytime i had an appointment. anyways 18 hours of labor later, i gave birth to a baby boy. well lets just say all i had was girls clothes and stuff at home cause the doctor was so confident it was a girl... thank god for my family going out that night and buy all boy stuff. i tell you what my next baby, i dont want to know the gender cause i have clothes for both sexs. anyways get neutral colored clothing...
i would get a 3d/4d ultrasound done when you are 22-25 weeks, to get a more accurate reading
Well with my boy, she put the ultrasound thing on my belly and his legs were spread wide open. if that helps any. lol
not true my daughter had her legs wide open
my sons legs were closed until i was around 30 weeks then he gave a quick view
My son was a suprize because all he would do is turn over and show his butt to the ultrasound everytime..... my little girl was legs spread wide when we found out. I am 27 weeks preggy lol my son is 3 1/2yrs old
i say go with your instincts this is my first and i knew it was a boy even went shopping for boy stuff before i found out and its a boy! Just keep the receipts for just in case purposes. and you already have 2 girls and you knew they were girls! the doctors kept saying my sister was a boy the whole time and my mom just knew it was a girl well shes my sister not my brother lol
My little guy kept his legs closed until my 4th ultrasound! 1st one he was too young (12 weeks) 2nd %26amp; 3rd (16 %26amp; 17 weeks) his legs were closed. And the 4th (20 weeks) he finally revealed to cash %26amp; prizes! So no I wouldn't say that girls are more shy than boys. My gut instinct told me boy all along as well. I knew from the begining it was boy.
Hmm.. this won't be much help at all. I have had 2 ultrasounds. The first was at week 18. They were unable to tell me the gender as baby was shy and crossed its legs. I had a gut instinct it was a girl, dreams with girls in it and just an overall feeling of it being a girl. Yesterday went and had an ultrasound, 33weeks (growth scan) and found out it was a boy.
Gut instincts can be wrong, and obviously girls are no shyer than boys. Sorry darl X Good luck
the nurse at my obgyn told me that she has her patients do the drano test and it has been right every time! What you do is... take a tablespoon of drano crystals and poor a tablespoon of your urine on top of it, do it outside on the concret because it smells bad! If it turns brown it is a girl if it stays blue green its a boy! Good luck!
All Guys Please: Virgin girl need advice about first time (girls please help too)?
Hi. I am nervous about giving oral tomorrow for the first time to much older, really experienced man. What can I try to make him have an orgasm so he'll keep wanting me as much as he does now. I plan to give him my virginity, too, but not tomorrow b/c his kids will be in the house with us. What can I expect about the oral? And what should I do to prepare if he wants to lick me? Please answer b/c I will be with him tomorrow and want to make him really like me.All Guys Please: Virgin girl need advice about first time (girls please help too)?
First of all it sounds to me like you are under-age. Which is 25 to life in prison if anyone finds out about it, which do trust, will happen.
Secondly, if you are a virgin you shouldn't waste your virginity on a man who is married with children. I know it's corny, but it's a special thing that you only have to give away once. And if you are going to do it so freely, you might as well get a pimp and stand on a street corner.
Thirdly, if you are only doing this to get this man to like you, then why are you even going to be with him in the first place?? Why would you want to be with someone, if you are so concerned about him NOT liking you if you do something wrong??
Fourthly, I am a married woman. And I will tell you right now, if I found out that some little tramp was sucking on my husbands c0ck. I would flip out. Him and her both would be in for a world of hurt. Because not only would I tell the LITTLE GIRLS parents, I would divorce my husband, but not before I called the cops to come and arrest his nasty @ss for sleeping with a minor. I don't give s $hit if the pope told you that his wife wouldn't care, and wouldn't find out. SHE DOES, AND SHE WILL. Then not only are you going to have to deal with the pain of knowing that you cause IMMENSE pain in a wifes life, you are going to have to live with the fact that you are the sole cause of breaking up a relationship that involves children.
So pretty much....
His wife WILL find out, it isn't a matter of IF, it's a matter of WHEN. You shouldn't be giving your virginity to someone you aren't in love with. And if you are going to be a tramp, go fu*k someone that isn't married with children.
I'm not looking for a best answer, and I'm not asking to be liked. I'm telling you straight up, how it is. If you do this, you are no better than the 2cent hookers who stand around on street corners waiting for that dollar bill!!!!!All Guys Please: Virgin girl need advice about first time (girls please help too)?
you said, ';his WIFE'; and that's where your story really starts.
Dump him. He's using you. And quite frankly, you should have asked his wife yourself as to her preference regarding him having extra-marital relationships. You are being gyped.
If you're under 17, what you're referring to is called ';statutory rape.'; Get off the internet and dial 911.
How old are you, and how old is he and his wife? These are the things I'd like to know.
Do you really believe what he says to you? If so, you need a reality check, sweetie. If you need advice about it and you are asking online, you are probably not ready.
To KayBay above: Are you serious? At 12, you should be focused in school, not preparing yourself to get pregnant! YOU ARE STILL A CHILD!!!!! Unbelievable.
He only wants you to be a sex object for his sexual entertainment. How could you be so unwise and willing to be used up there and down there. You really do not need any help for that. Just let him stuff you anywhere and don't complain. If it hurts, it hurts. You will suffer.
DONT DO IT!!!!!!!! what is wrong with you??
HE'S MARRIED!! ITS AGAINST GOD!!!
what is wrong with you..
p.s put it in your mouth and basicly pretend your mouth is your vagina. i hope you can handle breathing through your nose for 20 minutes gagging a few times. and drinking spirm.
IF HE STARTS LICKING YOUR PUSSYCAT, I DON'T THINK YOU WILL NOT ALLOW HIM TO GET IN BETWEEN YOUR LEGS.
BUT IF YOU CAN CONTROL AND JUST ONLY ORAL TO HIM AND LICKING TO YOU.
CONGRATULATION. YOU THE BEST GIFT YOU CAN GIVE TO YOUR FUTURE HUSBAND IS YOUR VIRGINITY.
dont do it. im tellin ya now, dont do it. my friends dad did the exact same thing with a girl, and told her that his wife wouldnt care... his wife found out, and they got a divorce a month later. the family was shattered, and in the end, everyone was hurt.
this is fake.
but to entertain you, there is nothing you can do that is wrong if he is in love with you as well as physically attracted. the act alone will be pretty erotic.
First of all, affairs are stupid.
Second of all, you're giving your virginity to a guy you probably don't love and he most likely doesn't love you either. Think about that.
Would you like to be tagged as a ';Home wrecker';? Damn, you shouldn't be believing in all these craps! you wanna give your virginity to someone who just wanna have sex with you? Wake up li'l girl! Dreaming is over!
You will regret giving your virginity to a married man. And how can you believe anything he says? Just to be sure...since he said his wife wouldn't mind, I'd ask her permission first. You're in for a rude awakening.
Ok. News flash. Most wives are NOT going to be ok with her HUSBAND and FATHER OF HER CHILDREN to be sleeping around with some girl. You're probably still in high school. He's lying and using you! Don't be so naive!
he is using you. go away before its too late
also, please answer mine too in business http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
Ask his wife how he likes his blowjobs done. He said she doesn't care after all. I hope you don't mind giving your virginity to a complete liar.
If he's married then run! Don't get involved whatsoever!
How would YOU feel if your husband had oral sex with another women behind your back?
tongue techniques...tongue techniques!
move it liek a snake....no teeth no teeth...that hurts
If he wants to do it to you...well u better be prepared to enjoy a natural high!*
U can practice on me...I'll teach u everything
he just wants to enjoy u thats it he just wants to have refreshment.
Don't walk away, run! Geez ...
Dont do it....he s just using u and u r DEFINITELY on the path of getting hurt......JUS DONT DO IT
There are things about having sex for the first time that really counts. It not only has to be with someone special, but it has to mean more to you than just losing your virginty, or in your case, giving oral for the first time. The first thing you need to think about, is his pros and cons. Will you regret him later? Will he be one of those guys you never want to see again? Will he hurt you? If you say he has a wife that doesn't care, then that means that he doesn't care about her feelings. If can't care about her feelings, what makes you different from her. The only thing is that you're a virgin, and being one, there are a lot of things you have to look out for when it comes to guys like this. It isn't about if you can do it. Sex is a natural thing that, if done at the right moment and in the right moment, it'll all just come naturally to you. Which is why the only thing you want to look out for isn't the question of can you do it right? It's the question, is he special enough to take that power from you. Think about that long and hard before you go do something you may regret later. By all means, if you don't think you will, then do it. Let it just come to you. But if you're not sure, then don't do it. No matter how sweet he is, he still has the ability to take this one thing you have against him, away from you, and in turn, could turn out to be your biggest regret. Love yourself enough first.
ARE YOU MAD??? He's MARRIED!! How old are you anyways?? What is the world coming to? Please reconsider you actions, this can't end well for you, he's playing you, a side-attraction to his wife. I'm sorry if you're hating me right now, but girl! Please think about all this...it can't be good. It's going to turn out badly whether you think it is or not. Just how much does his wife know about you anyways? Think about everyone this is going to effect if it blows up. Please, think about what you're doing...
I'm not sure if this is a real question, but this is a real answer anyways. First off, sleeping with an older guy isn't necessarily bad, but it depends how much older and how old you are. You sound young and for this guy to have kids already...he sounds waaaay older. You sound too young to even be having sex, I'm 18 and no virgin, so its not some 40 year old mom telling you that. Honestly, If I had sex when I was 14, I'd probably be pregnant because I was stupid. I didn't think so then though. No one can force you to wait, but you probably should because honestly, yes, you are still very very dumb. And I say that in the nicest way possible :) Second, he has a wife and kids. Not only are you messing in a place that you really aren't welcome...I don't care what he may say...and you are making things hard on his kids. If this question is legit, I just wouldn't do it. Its your choice, hopefully you think like an adult then act like one. Good luck!
girl im in the same possition
im 12 hes 15
hes experianced
im barely
WE CAN GET HELP ON THIS TOGETHER
First of all it sounds to me like you are under-age. Which is 25 to life in prison if anyone finds out about it, which do trust, will happen.
Secondly, if you are a virgin you shouldn't waste your virginity on a man who is married with children. I know it's corny, but it's a special thing that you only have to give away once. And if you are going to do it so freely, you might as well get a pimp and stand on a street corner.
Thirdly, if you are only doing this to get this man to like you, then why are you even going to be with him in the first place?? Why would you want to be with someone, if you are so concerned about him NOT liking you if you do something wrong??
Fourthly, I am a married woman. And I will tell you right now, if I found out that some little tramp was sucking on my husbands c0ck. I would flip out. Him and her both would be in for a world of hurt. Because not only would I tell the LITTLE GIRLS parents, I would divorce my husband, but not before I called the cops to come and arrest his nasty @ss for sleeping with a minor. I don't give s $hit if the pope told you that his wife wouldn't care, and wouldn't find out. SHE DOES, AND SHE WILL. Then not only are you going to have to deal with the pain of knowing that you cause IMMENSE pain in a wifes life, you are going to have to live with the fact that you are the sole cause of breaking up a relationship that involves children.
So pretty much....
His wife WILL find out, it isn't a matter of IF, it's a matter of WHEN. You shouldn't be giving your virginity to someone you aren't in love with. And if you are going to be a tramp, go fu*k someone that isn't married with children.
I'm not looking for a best answer, and I'm not asking to be liked. I'm telling you straight up, how it is. If you do this, you are no better than the 2cent hookers who stand around on street corners waiting for that dollar bill!!!!!All Guys Please: Virgin girl need advice about first time (girls please help too)?
you said, ';his WIFE'; and that's where your story really starts.
Dump him. He's using you. And quite frankly, you should have asked his wife yourself as to her preference regarding him having extra-marital relationships. You are being gyped.
If you're under 17, what you're referring to is called ';statutory rape.'; Get off the internet and dial 911.
How old are you, and how old is he and his wife? These are the things I'd like to know.
Do you really believe what he says to you? If so, you need a reality check, sweetie. If you need advice about it and you are asking online, you are probably not ready.
To KayBay above: Are you serious? At 12, you should be focused in school, not preparing yourself to get pregnant! YOU ARE STILL A CHILD!!!!! Unbelievable.
He only wants you to be a sex object for his sexual entertainment. How could you be so unwise and willing to be used up there and down there. You really do not need any help for that. Just let him stuff you anywhere and don't complain. If it hurts, it hurts. You will suffer.
DONT DO IT!!!!!!!! what is wrong with you??
HE'S MARRIED!! ITS AGAINST GOD!!!
what is wrong with you..
p.s put it in your mouth and basicly pretend your mouth is your vagina. i hope you can handle breathing through your nose for 20 minutes gagging a few times. and drinking spirm.
IF HE STARTS LICKING YOUR PUSSYCAT, I DON'T THINK YOU WILL NOT ALLOW HIM TO GET IN BETWEEN YOUR LEGS.
BUT IF YOU CAN CONTROL AND JUST ONLY ORAL TO HIM AND LICKING TO YOU.
CONGRATULATION. YOU THE BEST GIFT YOU CAN GIVE TO YOUR FUTURE HUSBAND IS YOUR VIRGINITY.
dont do it. im tellin ya now, dont do it. my friends dad did the exact same thing with a girl, and told her that his wife wouldnt care... his wife found out, and they got a divorce a month later. the family was shattered, and in the end, everyone was hurt.
this is fake.
but to entertain you, there is nothing you can do that is wrong if he is in love with you as well as physically attracted. the act alone will be pretty erotic.
First of all, affairs are stupid.
Second of all, you're giving your virginity to a guy you probably don't love and he most likely doesn't love you either. Think about that.
Would you like to be tagged as a ';Home wrecker';? Damn, you shouldn't be believing in all these craps! you wanna give your virginity to someone who just wanna have sex with you? Wake up li'l girl! Dreaming is over!
You will regret giving your virginity to a married man. And how can you believe anything he says? Just to be sure...since he said his wife wouldn't mind, I'd ask her permission first. You're in for a rude awakening.
Ok. News flash. Most wives are NOT going to be ok with her HUSBAND and FATHER OF HER CHILDREN to be sleeping around with some girl. You're probably still in high school. He's lying and using you! Don't be so naive!
he is using you. go away before its too late
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Ask his wife how he likes his blowjobs done. He said she doesn't care after all. I hope you don't mind giving your virginity to a complete liar.
If he's married then run! Don't get involved whatsoever!
How would YOU feel if your husband had oral sex with another women behind your back?
tongue techniques...tongue techniques!
move it liek a snake....no teeth no teeth...that hurts
If he wants to do it to you...well u better be prepared to enjoy a natural high!*
U can practice on me...I'll teach u everything
he just wants to enjoy u thats it he just wants to have refreshment.
Don't walk away, run! Geez ...
Dont do it....he s just using u and u r DEFINITELY on the path of getting hurt......JUS DONT DO IT
There are things about having sex for the first time that really counts. It not only has to be with someone special, but it has to mean more to you than just losing your virginty, or in your case, giving oral for the first time. The first thing you need to think about, is his pros and cons. Will you regret him later? Will he be one of those guys you never want to see again? Will he hurt you? If you say he has a wife that doesn't care, then that means that he doesn't care about her feelings. If can't care about her feelings, what makes you different from her. The only thing is that you're a virgin, and being one, there are a lot of things you have to look out for when it comes to guys like this. It isn't about if you can do it. Sex is a natural thing that, if done at the right moment and in the right moment, it'll all just come naturally to you. Which is why the only thing you want to look out for isn't the question of can you do it right? It's the question, is he special enough to take that power from you. Think about that long and hard before you go do something you may regret later. By all means, if you don't think you will, then do it. Let it just come to you. But if you're not sure, then don't do it. No matter how sweet he is, he still has the ability to take this one thing you have against him, away from you, and in turn, could turn out to be your biggest regret. Love yourself enough first.
ARE YOU MAD??? He's MARRIED!! How old are you anyways?? What is the world coming to? Please reconsider you actions, this can't end well for you, he's playing you, a side-attraction to his wife. I'm sorry if you're hating me right now, but girl! Please think about all this...it can't be good. It's going to turn out badly whether you think it is or not. Just how much does his wife know about you anyways? Think about everyone this is going to effect if it blows up. Please, think about what you're doing...
I'm not sure if this is a real question, but this is a real answer anyways. First off, sleeping with an older guy isn't necessarily bad, but it depends how much older and how old you are. You sound young and for this guy to have kids already...he sounds waaaay older. You sound too young to even be having sex, I'm 18 and no virgin, so its not some 40 year old mom telling you that. Honestly, If I had sex when I was 14, I'd probably be pregnant because I was stupid. I didn't think so then though. No one can force you to wait, but you probably should because honestly, yes, you are still very very dumb. And I say that in the nicest way possible :) Second, he has a wife and kids. Not only are you messing in a place that you really aren't welcome...I don't care what he may say...and you are making things hard on his kids. If this question is legit, I just wouldn't do it. Its your choice, hopefully you think like an adult then act like one. Good luck!
girl im in the same possition
im 12 hes 15
hes experianced
im barely
WE CAN GET HELP ON THIS TOGETHER
GAHHH teen girl needing advice about a guy! PLEASE HELP?
He said he liked me (in that way yes) and i was like ok (crap crap) i'm not confident around guys not even goofy sweet ones like him. The thing is i know his type of girl and she is not me but i think he likes me as he said he liked me on like Friday this was when i was drunk so wasn't really me.
We've recently met up with some of my friends and his (one of my friends going out with his) so theres me, two of my friends, one of his and him. They are much more fun and flirtatious i feel he'll be drawn to the single one if i don't do something quick. He told one of my friends he thinks i've got my barriers up (emotionally) well i guess slightly but really wouldn't make a difference if i did feel comfortable around him as i am truelly a boring person (not low confidence i honestly am). Today my mates kept urging me to talk to him and left me alone with him. It was so awkward i didn't know what to say to him, but this isn't just around guys it's same with sometimes even close friends. I just don't know what to talk about.
He is making the effort as he's never had a serious girl friend but i just think it's sooo frustrating how people need to make an extreme effort to like me. I feel lost as i have asked for advice previously but i don't get that decent advice I'm sorry but find something you have in common ok well how would you start that conversation? When i do say something my friends always seem to have the lead on their wittiness and fun comments and etc ahhhhhhhh sorry posted this already but got 1 answer.GAHHH teen girl needing advice about a guy! PLEASE HELP?
Lol, I thought I was reading about my life there for a moment. I'm the same really, I put walls up to protect myself from people and I know I do but I can't help it. I met this guy when I was a little drunk and we hit it off and then I started panicking the next day as I thought he wouldn't like me as me as in quite shy. My friends were very sutile about leaving us along to talk and it was a bit awkward for a while. But he persisted in liking me and we ending up dating ^^. I'm guessing your about 16? Just try and relax and the conversation will start flowing.
Good Luck.GAHHH teen girl needing advice about a guy! PLEASE HELP?
Do you like him?
The best advice anyone could give you in this situation is not advice you will want to even hear. You are way too young to be worrying about any of this. You just need to chill out and sit back and enjoy being young. None of this will even matter in six months!!! Trust me!! Just be a kid, stop getting drunk, and act your age. You will be much happier in the long run. This kind of drama is simply made up in the minds of a teenager. Just act like you are unaffected by his actions...and if he's meant to, he'll come around. At your age....you are supposed to have a ';wall'; up. You are a KID! Not an adult. Quit trying to overload yourself with adult problems. Enjoy being a kid.
stop sying you cant be confident and start acting confident. fack it if you have to but over time you will strartt to turely be it. and when talking just say anything it might be radom or something but at least it will get a coversation going. try talking to the guy if hes puting effort in to talking to you you should try to if you like him plus he might lose intrest or give up becuse its to hard for him to get to know you.
I know, you'll be sick of reading answers along these lines by now... but it's really true- if someone doesn't like you for who you are, then they ain't meant to be with you.
On the other hand, don't go giving up on him. If you like him, just be yourself around him. Best case scenario? You two end up dating. Worst case scenario? Nothing happens.
In that case, you just wait for a guy who does like you for you.. trust me, he'll be out there = ]
Just relax, be yourself, even if that is rather shy!
Some guys prefer confidence, others shyness... but ALL decent guys want a girl to be able to be herself around them.
Good Luck : )
well, i'm the same way with friends. one or two will come along and i can REALLY be my obnoxious self around them.
you need to just talk to him. be real.
it never seems like theres anything to talk about when your with him, just make something up.
say hey, and he'll say hey back. ask what his favorite color is or something ask him stuff like how long have you and (idk his name, his friend) known each other?
make sure you compliment him.
you definitely wont be comfortable with him right off the bat so you need to get to know him. go get some ice cream with him or something.
it may be awkward at first, but the more your around him, the more you guys will be comfortable and you'll get closer. hopefully you get the courage to tell him you like him. hopefully things work out. :)
good luck.
We've recently met up with some of my friends and his (one of my friends going out with his) so theres me, two of my friends, one of his and him. They are much more fun and flirtatious i feel he'll be drawn to the single one if i don't do something quick. He told one of my friends he thinks i've got my barriers up (emotionally) well i guess slightly but really wouldn't make a difference if i did feel comfortable around him as i am truelly a boring person (not low confidence i honestly am). Today my mates kept urging me to talk to him and left me alone with him. It was so awkward i didn't know what to say to him, but this isn't just around guys it's same with sometimes even close friends. I just don't know what to talk about.
He is making the effort as he's never had a serious girl friend but i just think it's sooo frustrating how people need to make an extreme effort to like me. I feel lost as i have asked for advice previously but i don't get that decent advice I'm sorry but find something you have in common ok well how would you start that conversation? When i do say something my friends always seem to have the lead on their wittiness and fun comments and etc ahhhhhhhh sorry posted this already but got 1 answer.GAHHH teen girl needing advice about a guy! PLEASE HELP?
Lol, I thought I was reading about my life there for a moment. I'm the same really, I put walls up to protect myself from people and I know I do but I can't help it. I met this guy when I was a little drunk and we hit it off and then I started panicking the next day as I thought he wouldn't like me as me as in quite shy. My friends were very sutile about leaving us along to talk and it was a bit awkward for a while. But he persisted in liking me and we ending up dating ^^. I'm guessing your about 16? Just try and relax and the conversation will start flowing.
Good Luck.GAHHH teen girl needing advice about a guy! PLEASE HELP?
Do you like him?
The best advice anyone could give you in this situation is not advice you will want to even hear. You are way too young to be worrying about any of this. You just need to chill out and sit back and enjoy being young. None of this will even matter in six months!!! Trust me!! Just be a kid, stop getting drunk, and act your age. You will be much happier in the long run. This kind of drama is simply made up in the minds of a teenager. Just act like you are unaffected by his actions...and if he's meant to, he'll come around. At your age....you are supposed to have a ';wall'; up. You are a KID! Not an adult. Quit trying to overload yourself with adult problems. Enjoy being a kid.
stop sying you cant be confident and start acting confident. fack it if you have to but over time you will strartt to turely be it. and when talking just say anything it might be radom or something but at least it will get a coversation going. try talking to the guy if hes puting effort in to talking to you you should try to if you like him plus he might lose intrest or give up becuse its to hard for him to get to know you.
I know, you'll be sick of reading answers along these lines by now... but it's really true- if someone doesn't like you for who you are, then they ain't meant to be with you.
On the other hand, don't go giving up on him. If you like him, just be yourself around him. Best case scenario? You two end up dating. Worst case scenario? Nothing happens.
In that case, you just wait for a guy who does like you for you.. trust me, he'll be out there = ]
Just relax, be yourself, even if that is rather shy!
Some guys prefer confidence, others shyness... but ALL decent guys want a girl to be able to be herself around them.
Good Luck : )
well, i'm the same way with friends. one or two will come along and i can REALLY be my obnoxious self around them.
you need to just talk to him. be real.
it never seems like theres anything to talk about when your with him, just make something up.
say hey, and he'll say hey back. ask what his favorite color is or something ask him stuff like how long have you and (idk his name, his friend) known each other?
make sure you compliment him.
you definitely wont be comfortable with him right off the bat so you need to get to know him. go get some ice cream with him or something.
it may be awkward at first, but the more your around him, the more you guys will be comfortable and you'll get closer. hopefully you get the courage to tell him you like him. hopefully things work out. :)
good luck.
Does She Like Me??? GIRLS any Advice?? I like a latina girl...?
So I work with this girl...who in the past as said she doesn't like me or I'm not her type. She's latina and I'm a white guy...She's only been w/ black guys...she did ask me a once if I like her more then a friend..I was like I need to get to kno her better b/c she had already said she doesn't like me....I did end up telling her that I did like her. Why would she ask?
We tend to argue and she always gets mad at me for stupid things. She only gets mad/argues with me!!! We hadn't really talked for a couple days. A couple days later...i was sitting w/ my head down and she called my name, so I said ';What'; And she flipped out cursin at me saying how I shouldn't ';What her'; I tried talkin to her about it and she's just like I shouldn't say ';what'; when she calls my name.
It's like we'll be talking fine for a day, and then she'll just get mad over something stupid. Someone else could say the same thing and she won't get mad, but w/ me she flips out. She denies it. She used to get mad at me even before she thought I liked her.. She claimed once that she thinks I like her b/c I get mad at her and stop speaking to her when I do get mad. But she does the same thing to me..
Part of me thinks she likes me more then a friend, but just really doesn't want to admit it for some reason!!! A couple co-workers have said they think it'd be different if i wasn't white...and i Hate to say that. But she's stubborn bout admitting things and denies she only gets mad at me. I try asking her things its just hard to get stuff out of her.. So Why would a girl get mad at a guy on a regular basis for stupid things??Does She Like Me??? GIRLS any Advice?? I like a latina girl...?
maybe shes just a *****.Does She Like Me??? GIRLS any Advice?? I like a latina girl...?
It doesn't matter what color you are. that's lame. She is flirting with you when she gets mad, it has been like that since the third grade. Just chill and let things happen the way they will. There is nothing girls hate more than a guy who won't stop obsessing. She is probably a tease and that's why she asked if you liked her. So she could do things she knows drives you insane like yelling and play fighting with you. She wants to see how much you want her. Don't play that game and just say K when she starts to fight with you and watch her get annoyed that you aren't paying as much attention.
she gets mad at you because she really likes you in she wants to be wit you but she dont know how it feels to be with a white guy because she has always been dating black guys but she wants to take that next step but she dont know would it be the right thing to so she's very confused so thats why she go's off on you
hii,
honestly i think she's a jerk.
it doesn't matter what color you are for some one to love you.
honestly, i think that she doesn't deserve you becuase you should have someone who loves, respect you for who you are, and shouldn't be bossin you around like some dog...but yeah dude i dont think she's into you cuz if she was i think she would be nice at you at least but it seems she's not if i were you i would move one to some one more better at least more nicer...lol
oh but if you really like her, just try takin to her one on one dude.
tell her how you fell and you need to know if she feels the same, if not then just move on.refill
We tend to argue and she always gets mad at me for stupid things. She only gets mad/argues with me!!! We hadn't really talked for a couple days. A couple days later...i was sitting w/ my head down and she called my name, so I said ';What'; And she flipped out cursin at me saying how I shouldn't ';What her'; I tried talkin to her about it and she's just like I shouldn't say ';what'; when she calls my name.
It's like we'll be talking fine for a day, and then she'll just get mad over something stupid. Someone else could say the same thing and she won't get mad, but w/ me she flips out. She denies it. She used to get mad at me even before she thought I liked her.. She claimed once that she thinks I like her b/c I get mad at her and stop speaking to her when I do get mad. But she does the same thing to me..
Part of me thinks she likes me more then a friend, but just really doesn't want to admit it for some reason!!! A couple co-workers have said they think it'd be different if i wasn't white...and i Hate to say that. But she's stubborn bout admitting things and denies she only gets mad at me. I try asking her things its just hard to get stuff out of her.. So Why would a girl get mad at a guy on a regular basis for stupid things??Does She Like Me??? GIRLS any Advice?? I like a latina girl...?
maybe shes just a *****.Does She Like Me??? GIRLS any Advice?? I like a latina girl...?
It doesn't matter what color you are. that's lame. She is flirting with you when she gets mad, it has been like that since the third grade. Just chill and let things happen the way they will. There is nothing girls hate more than a guy who won't stop obsessing. She is probably a tease and that's why she asked if you liked her. So she could do things she knows drives you insane like yelling and play fighting with you. She wants to see how much you want her. Don't play that game and just say K when she starts to fight with you and watch her get annoyed that you aren't paying as much attention.
she gets mad at you because she really likes you in she wants to be wit you but she dont know how it feels to be with a white guy because she has always been dating black guys but she wants to take that next step but she dont know would it be the right thing to so she's very confused so thats why she go's off on you
hii,
honestly i think she's a jerk.
it doesn't matter what color you are for some one to love you.
honestly, i think that she doesn't deserve you becuase you should have someone who loves, respect you for who you are, and shouldn't be bossin you around like some dog...but yeah dude i dont think she's into you cuz if she was i think she would be nice at you at least but it seems she's not if i were you i would move one to some one more better at least more nicer...lol
oh but if you really like her, just try takin to her one on one dude.
tell her how you fell and you need to know if she feels the same, if not then just move on.
About a girl, need advice please.?
Hi. I really need some advice, any help would be appreciated. I dated this girl when I was 16 and we broke up five years later. It's been 2 years since we broke up. When we were together, she was kinda crazy and she used to call me like literally 100 times a day (at the worst points) anyway, we kind of broke up, she's the one who broke up with me, but I guess we were both okay with the breakup. (she left me for another guy)
Well, I thought I was over her, but I guess I'm not. I've been thinking about her a lot lately and I messaged her a few times on myspace, we talked a little, she seemed bitter over what happen years ago. I told her that I was seeing someone new, and thats when she stopped responding to my myspace emails. Well now I've broken up with the girl that I was seeing, like literally a few days ago. I tried emailing this chick (the one that I was with for 5ish years) asking her if she wanted to play some pool or somethign and get together, but she didn't respond.
What should my next move be? Should I leave it alone, or should I persue her and tell her how I really feel?About a girl, need advice please.?
Tell her how you really feel. If you were together for five years, then it's likely that, at some point, you had a good relationship. Be aware, though, that just because this is how you feel, she may not feel the same. You may never know if you don't tell her, though.
2 years can be a long time, especially at your age...People can do a lot of changing, maybe you'll get to talking and you'll realize she isn't the same, or vice versa. On the other hand, maybe you'll both realize you were meant to be together, and will be able to move on to form a strong relationship.
In any case, you should tell her how you fell, but be realistic in your expectations of her response to that information! Good luck!About a girl, need advice please.?
If you're SURE you wanna be with this girl, tell her how you feel. Otherwise...you might regret not telling her on down the road.
Just be upfront about it.
If she doesn't respond to that, or responds negatively...then that's when you should just leave it alone and let the past be the past.
I've been there.
Leave it alone. Ya gotta forget about her and move on.
She already took up 5 years of your life and capped it off by cheating on you, more or less.
Hate her and be happy that she's miserable and bitter with her new life.
Im sure you can find other girls to hang out with... why open old wounds.
Leave it be. Find someone new! ';A Change is as Good as a Holiday';
well i know where you're coming from. its hard but you should probably let it go. good luck bro.
leave it alone.
leave her alone.. maybe she don't have interest with you anymore.. find some new girl that is really loves you
depends on where she is. if you think she is keen by all means go for it. you will always be wondering if you dont. however, be careful and thoughtful about what she is up to these days. she might have another guy shes seeing at the momen too so i guess you just gotta try and suss it all out and test the waters with her. give her a call or a text and see if its super awkward maybe? hope it works out for you.
good luck! :)
Well, I thought I was over her, but I guess I'm not. I've been thinking about her a lot lately and I messaged her a few times on myspace, we talked a little, she seemed bitter over what happen years ago. I told her that I was seeing someone new, and thats when she stopped responding to my myspace emails. Well now I've broken up with the girl that I was seeing, like literally a few days ago. I tried emailing this chick (the one that I was with for 5ish years) asking her if she wanted to play some pool or somethign and get together, but she didn't respond.
What should my next move be? Should I leave it alone, or should I persue her and tell her how I really feel?About a girl, need advice please.?
Tell her how you really feel. If you were together for five years, then it's likely that, at some point, you had a good relationship. Be aware, though, that just because this is how you feel, she may not feel the same. You may never know if you don't tell her, though.
2 years can be a long time, especially at your age...People can do a lot of changing, maybe you'll get to talking and you'll realize she isn't the same, or vice versa. On the other hand, maybe you'll both realize you were meant to be together, and will be able to move on to form a strong relationship.
In any case, you should tell her how you fell, but be realistic in your expectations of her response to that information! Good luck!About a girl, need advice please.?
If you're SURE you wanna be with this girl, tell her how you feel. Otherwise...you might regret not telling her on down the road.
Just be upfront about it.
If she doesn't respond to that, or responds negatively...then that's when you should just leave it alone and let the past be the past.
I've been there.
Leave it alone. Ya gotta forget about her and move on.
She already took up 5 years of your life and capped it off by cheating on you, more or less.
Hate her and be happy that she's miserable and bitter with her new life.
Im sure you can find other girls to hang out with... why open old wounds.
Leave it be. Find someone new! ';A Change is as Good as a Holiday';
well i know where you're coming from. its hard but you should probably let it go. good luck bro.
leave it alone.
leave her alone.. maybe she don't have interest with you anymore.. find some new girl that is really loves you
depends on where she is. if you think she is keen by all means go for it. you will always be wondering if you dont. however, be careful and thoughtful about what she is up to these days. she might have another guy shes seeing at the momen too so i guess you just gotta try and suss it all out and test the waters with her. give her a call or a text and see if its super awkward maybe? hope it works out for you.
good luck! :)
Got a girl problem, advice please?
There's this girl that i can say I like very much. She's beautiful, funny, smart, just everything i look for in a girl. Words can't describe the type of girl she is.
The Problem : Before i met her, me and her cousin kind of liked each other, i guess you can say that. Nothing happened, all I did was take her too one movie, that was it. Anyways, she is the one who introduced me to this girl i like at the moment( this was before we stopped liking each other) and at first we just talked. But the more we talked the more i began to like her, we talk pretty much every night on the phone, we text everyday, we hang out on occassion. Her cousin also started making up stupid **** about me, saying id id things i never did ( this was after we stopped hanging out) luckily the girl i like beleives me over her cousin. so i kind of asked her if her cousin would block ANY chance i had with her, she replied yes and said 'oh no, why do you like me?' so she knows now, and i now know i have no chance with her. we work together at Zehrs, i see her every week, hear her voice every night, i can't get her off my mind, it's not good for me, knowing this one of a kind girl, needle in a haystack, i have no chance with. what do i do from here...
sorry for the long note.. lolGot a girl problem, advice please?
buy her flowers,and write her an email telling her ur mind.Got a girl problem, advice please?
Well, this is a big problem because that cousin that you took to the movies is jealous you like her cousin better. You need to tell the cousin you like that those things she is telling her are lies. You also have to realize they are related by blood and the cousin you like may choose to not date you because it would hurt her cousin too much. Keep in touch with her. You may not have a chance with her right now but you sure may have a chance at college when the cousin is out of the picture.
The Problem : Before i met her, me and her cousin kind of liked each other, i guess you can say that. Nothing happened, all I did was take her too one movie, that was it. Anyways, she is the one who introduced me to this girl i like at the moment( this was before we stopped liking each other) and at first we just talked. But the more we talked the more i began to like her, we talk pretty much every night on the phone, we text everyday, we hang out on occassion. Her cousin also started making up stupid **** about me, saying id id things i never did ( this was after we stopped hanging out) luckily the girl i like beleives me over her cousin. so i kind of asked her if her cousin would block ANY chance i had with her, she replied yes and said 'oh no, why do you like me?' so she knows now, and i now know i have no chance with her. we work together at Zehrs, i see her every week, hear her voice every night, i can't get her off my mind, it's not good for me, knowing this one of a kind girl, needle in a haystack, i have no chance with. what do i do from here...
sorry for the long note.. lolGot a girl problem, advice please?
buy her flowers,and write her an email telling her ur mind.Got a girl problem, advice please?
Well, this is a big problem because that cousin that you took to the movies is jealous you like her cousin better. You need to tell the cousin you like that those things she is telling her are lies. You also have to realize they are related by blood and the cousin you like may choose to not date you because it would hurt her cousin too much. Keep in touch with her. You may not have a chance with her right now but you sure may have a chance at college when the cousin is out of the picture.
Theres this girl, any advice?
ive been seeing this girl and weve been seeing eachother for a couple months now and she told me she wanted to take it slow and didnt want a boyfriend yet, she wanted to see how it goes, it was great at first, we started getting close and ect. i respected that she wanted to take it slow, i didnt want to push her, i treated her like a woman should be and always spoiled her with watever she wanted, ive met her parents and shes met mine but were not in a relationship but we were getting kinda serious, then recently she told me there was a guy that has broken up with his girl and wanted her and she said she wanted him to, i didnt know wat to say, it threw me off pretty bad and now shes calling me constantly and also saying papi, baby, ect. wat should i do?
any advice?Theres this girl, any advice?
just forget about her and move on. if she wants to be with that guy than let her. she is a jerk for being that way, but there is nothing you can really do. sorry for not being more helpful.Theres this girl, any advice?
I'm sorry. But if you really think about it, the only choice is to leave her. plenty of fish out in the sea!
Maybe she's trying to see your reaction? not all girls think the same, but my guess is she wanted to see how that affects you.
Tell her it bothers you the ways he asked you to take it slow, and you got closer and with him she wants instant hook up, and if you want her, dont miss out, just tell her, dont take him be with me instead, if she chooses him then she's a real jerk.
let her do want she wants to do
yo...do what you want to do...which im guessin is be in a relationship with her, forget other guys...give her all the attention and be a little more physical around such as touch her hair and hold hands more
good luck
she sounds like a WHORE!!
lol jk
i think you should talk to her and clear things up and see wat you guys really want you know =)
well that girl was just leading you on...which isn't good.
its a good idea to look for some other girls, try to get her out of your mind.
Either she doesn't know what she wants or she's playing games. She's not ready for a relationship and her behavior as you've described it here is a very juvenile. She may be gorgeous on the outside but, do you really want to subject yourself to that? In any case drastic changes in behavior are a big red flag!
aww just forget her.. there's always other girls other there.. just try to date other people.
any advice?Theres this girl, any advice?
just forget about her and move on. if she wants to be with that guy than let her. she is a jerk for being that way, but there is nothing you can really do. sorry for not being more helpful.Theres this girl, any advice?
I'm sorry. But if you really think about it, the only choice is to leave her. plenty of fish out in the sea!
Maybe she's trying to see your reaction? not all girls think the same, but my guess is she wanted to see how that affects you.
Tell her it bothers you the ways he asked you to take it slow, and you got closer and with him she wants instant hook up, and if you want her, dont miss out, just tell her, dont take him be with me instead, if she chooses him then she's a real jerk.
let her do want she wants to do
yo...do what you want to do...which im guessin is be in a relationship with her, forget other guys...give her all the attention and be a little more physical around such as touch her hair and hold hands more
good luck
she sounds like a WHORE!!
lol jk
i think you should talk to her and clear things up and see wat you guys really want you know =)
well that girl was just leading you on...which isn't good.
its a good idea to look for some other girls, try to get her out of your mind.
Either she doesn't know what she wants or she's playing games. She's not ready for a relationship and her behavior as you've described it here is a very juvenile. She may be gorgeous on the outside but, do you really want to subject yourself to that? In any case drastic changes in behavior are a big red flag!
aww just forget her.. there's always other girls other there.. just try to date other people.
Does She Like Me?? GIRLS any Advice? I like a latina girl...?
So I work with this girl...who in the past as said she doesn't like me or I'm not her type. She's latina and I'm a white guy...She's only been w/ black guys...she did ask me a once if I like her more then a friend..I was like I need to get to kno her better b/c she had already said she doesn't like me....I did end up telling her that I did like her. Why would she ask.... She says she has a boo, but it's not her man...or something like that..
We tend to argue and she always gets mad at me for stupid things. She only gets mad/argues with me!!! We hadn't really talked for a couple days. A couple days later...i was sitting w/ my head down and she called my name, so I said ';What'; And she flipped out cursin at me saying how I shouldn't ';What her'; I tried talkin to her about it and she's just like I shouldn't say ';what'; when she calls my name.
It's like we'll be talking fine for a day, and then she'll just get mad over something stupid. Someone else could say the same thing and she won't get mad, but w/ me she flips out. She used to get mad at me even before she thought I liked her.. She claimed once that she thinks I like her b/c I get mad at her and stop speaking to her when I do get mad. But she does the same thing to me..
Part of me thinks she likes me more then a friend, but just really doesn't want to admit it for some reason!!! A couple co-workers have said they think it'd be different if i wasn't white...and i Hate to say that. I try asking her things its just hard to get stuff out of her.. So Why would a girl get mad at a guy on a regular basis for stupid things?? When we actually get along fine, we hug, joke around and have fun...We had not been talkin for a week so I finally tried talkin to her and she said she gets mad at me for stuff she wouldn't get mad at others for b/c other people don't get mad at her and I get mad. And she said we argue b/c its how we both say things to each other.....Does She Like Me?? GIRLS any Advice? I like a latina girl...?
Well, you gotta ask you're self one thing mate, would this destroy our friendship is i asked her out? i broke up with my girl friend the other day im 16 at the mo, but i been with her for 2 years, and it was big, but things got on top of me too Much and i couldn't handle it. well all you gotta think is you're lucky to have her in you're life, and that's true some times its ment to be some times its not, maybe she likes you like a brother or something. but i tell ya, the little arguments are like the ones my and my girl friend had if i didn't know any better, if i saw you 2 down the street i would think you all ready are together by the way you 2 act with each other heh, well i think you should go for it Mate, and who cares if you're white or black, im white and i have had a black girl in the past, just grab you're balls and go in for it mate, take her out to a movie, get close and see what happens from there, yeah im 16, but hell, if it works, good on ya mateDoes She Like Me?? GIRLS any Advice? I like a latina girl...?
She seems like a lot of work. Sounds like she`s holding something back. Maybe you should try treating her differently.
I swear she's like a splitting image of me. I do the same thing when i like a boy but they dont know it they just think that i dont like them but in reality i do. She's playing hard to get hun..lol thats all and she throws that ';i have a boo'; thing in there to get you to work harder or to possibly make you jealous...Its a game and if you dont wanna play it then leave her alone. Trust ive done it alot.
We tend to argue and she always gets mad at me for stupid things. She only gets mad/argues with me!!! We hadn't really talked for a couple days. A couple days later...i was sitting w/ my head down and she called my name, so I said ';What'; And she flipped out cursin at me saying how I shouldn't ';What her'; I tried talkin to her about it and she's just like I shouldn't say ';what'; when she calls my name.
It's like we'll be talking fine for a day, and then she'll just get mad over something stupid. Someone else could say the same thing and she won't get mad, but w/ me she flips out. She used to get mad at me even before she thought I liked her.. She claimed once that she thinks I like her b/c I get mad at her and stop speaking to her when I do get mad. But she does the same thing to me..
Part of me thinks she likes me more then a friend, but just really doesn't want to admit it for some reason!!! A couple co-workers have said they think it'd be different if i wasn't white...and i Hate to say that. I try asking her things its just hard to get stuff out of her.. So Why would a girl get mad at a guy on a regular basis for stupid things?? When we actually get along fine, we hug, joke around and have fun...We had not been talkin for a week so I finally tried talkin to her and she said she gets mad at me for stuff she wouldn't get mad at others for b/c other people don't get mad at her and I get mad. And she said we argue b/c its how we both say things to each other.....Does She Like Me?? GIRLS any Advice? I like a latina girl...?
Well, you gotta ask you're self one thing mate, would this destroy our friendship is i asked her out? i broke up with my girl friend the other day im 16 at the mo, but i been with her for 2 years, and it was big, but things got on top of me too Much and i couldn't handle it. well all you gotta think is you're lucky to have her in you're life, and that's true some times its ment to be some times its not, maybe she likes you like a brother or something. but i tell ya, the little arguments are like the ones my and my girl friend had if i didn't know any better, if i saw you 2 down the street i would think you all ready are together by the way you 2 act with each other heh, well i think you should go for it Mate, and who cares if you're white or black, im white and i have had a black girl in the past, just grab you're balls and go in for it mate, take her out to a movie, get close and see what happens from there, yeah im 16, but hell, if it works, good on ya mateDoes She Like Me?? GIRLS any Advice? I like a latina girl...?
She seems like a lot of work. Sounds like she`s holding something back. Maybe you should try treating her differently.
I swear she's like a splitting image of me. I do the same thing when i like a boy but they dont know it they just think that i dont like them but in reality i do. She's playing hard to get hun..lol thats all and she throws that ';i have a boo'; thing in there to get you to work harder or to possibly make you jealous...Its a game and if you dont wanna play it then leave her alone. Trust ive done it alot.
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So I accidentally called this girl I like a couple weeks back, knowing I called the wrong number I hung up immidetly, I thought she was gonna call back but nothing happend. So yesterday I called her but, I got her voice mail, I didn't leave a message and just hung up hoping she will call me back but nothing...And I know she got my number on her phone %26amp; my caller ID is unblock, so she has to know it was me that called. So whats up with that? I know shes inerested too. Girls I need your thoughts on this, should I call her back today or wait a few days? Am I tripping over nothing? Because I AM!Need a girl's advice....?
She may not pick up the phone or call back because she was to shy to and you should try once everyday to see if she would pick up or give her a note at school and ask her if she got your number.Need a girl's advice....?
if someone calls my and i missed their call and i don`t really like them i will not call back, but that's just me, she might just have alot to deal with right know.
Call her again today....one thing I hate about most guys is that if a girl doesn't answer the phone when he calls once he waits forever to call back again...but that doesn't mean blow up her phone either. A reason I don't call back when I see the missed call is because I don't want to call him when he's busy.....just call her today once, then try tomarrow once if she doen't answer then you need to take the hint that she doesn't wanna talk to you. Quit trippin of this its just a phone call if she doesn't wanna talk to you move on. Hope this helps good luck.
Does she have your # programmed in her phone with your name? If not she could be like me and not call a # back she doesn't recognize unless they leave a message. If she knows it's you she could be waiting for you to leave a message so she knows what to say when she calls you back. Don't trip, if you want to talk to her call her and leave a message if she doesn't answer. Good Luck!
call her back and actually TALK TO HER!! lol itz really not that big of a deal!
she's waiting for you to talk to her..call her and speak to her
If you want her to call you back, leave her a message saying ';hey, this is XXXXX. Call me back when you can!'; She not a freakin mind reader!
listen little man, maybe you should leave a message! just a thought, but how does she know that you are wanting her to call back?? so get your testicles back from whoever has them and when you call next time either talk to her or leave a message, otherwise I think you are bordering on stalking by calling and hanging up
Next time you call her leave a message.
Maybe she doesn't know it's you.
I don't call back numbers unless they leave a message, to many perverts out there.
Call her back and quit being silly!
She may not pick up the phone or call back because she was to shy to and you should try once everyday to see if she would pick up or give her a note at school and ask her if she got your number.Need a girl's advice....?
if someone calls my and i missed their call and i don`t really like them i will not call back, but that's just me, she might just have alot to deal with right know.
Call her again today....one thing I hate about most guys is that if a girl doesn't answer the phone when he calls once he waits forever to call back again...but that doesn't mean blow up her phone either. A reason I don't call back when I see the missed call is because I don't want to call him when he's busy.....just call her today once, then try tomarrow once if she doen't answer then you need to take the hint that she doesn't wanna talk to you. Quit trippin of this its just a phone call if she doesn't wanna talk to you move on. Hope this helps good luck.
Does she have your # programmed in her phone with your name? If not she could be like me and not call a # back she doesn't recognize unless they leave a message. If she knows it's you she could be waiting for you to leave a message so she knows what to say when she calls you back. Don't trip, if you want to talk to her call her and leave a message if she doesn't answer. Good Luck!
call her back and actually TALK TO HER!! lol itz really not that big of a deal!
she's waiting for you to talk to her..call her and speak to her
If you want her to call you back, leave her a message saying ';hey, this is XXXXX. Call me back when you can!'; She not a freakin mind reader!
listen little man, maybe you should leave a message! just a thought, but how does she know that you are wanting her to call back?? so get your testicles back from whoever has them and when you call next time either talk to her or leave a message, otherwise I think you are bordering on stalking by calling and hanging up
Next time you call her leave a message.
Maybe she doesn't know it's you.
I don't call back numbers unless they leave a message, to many perverts out there.
Call her back and quit being silly!
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Hi. I really need some advice, any help would be appreciated. I dated this girl when I was 16 and we broke up five years later. It's been 2 years since we broke up. When we were together, she was kinda crazy and she used to call me like literally 100 times a day (at the worst points) anyway, we kind of broke up, she's the one who broke up with me, but I guess we were both okay with the breakup. (she left me for another guy)
Well, I thought I was over her, but I guess I'm not. I've been thinking about her a lot lately and I messaged her a few times on myspace, we talked a little, she seemed bitter over what happen years ago. I told her that I was seeing someone new, and thats when she stopped responding to my myspace emails. Well now I've broken up with the girl that I was seeing, like literally a few days ago. I tried emailing this chick (the one that I was with for 5ish years) asking her if she wanted to play some pool or somethign and get together, but she didn't respond.
What should my next move be? Should I leave it alone, or should I persue her and tell her how I really feel?About a girl, need advice please.?
Tell her how you really feel. If you were together for five years, then it's likely that, at some point, you had a good relationship. Be aware, though, that just because this is how you feel, she may not feel the same. You may never know if you don't tell her, though.
2 years can be a long time, especially at your age...People can do a lot of changing, maybe you'll get to talking and you'll realize she isn't the same, or vice versa. On the other hand, maybe you'll both realize you were meant to be together, and will be able to move on to form a strong relationship.
In any case, you should tell her how you fell, but be realistic in your expectations of her response to that information! Good luck!About a girl, need advice please.?
If you're SURE you wanna be with this girl, tell her how you feel. Otherwise...you might regret not telling her on down the road.
Just be upfront about it.
If she doesn't respond to that, or responds negatively...then that's when you should just leave it alone and let the past be the past.
I've been there.
Leave it alone. Ya gotta forget about her and move on.
She already took up 5 years of your life and capped it off by cheating on you, more or less.
Hate her and be happy that she's miserable and bitter with her new life.
Im sure you can find other girls to hang out with... why open old wounds.
Leave it be. Find someone new! ';A Change is as Good as a Holiday';
well i know where you're coming from. its hard but you should probably let it go. good luck bro.
leave it alone.
leave her alone.. maybe she don't have interest with you anymore.. find some new girl that is really loves you
depends on where she is. if you think she is keen by all means go for it. you will always be wondering if you dont. however, be careful and thoughtful about what she is up to these days. she might have another guy shes seeing at the momen too so i guess you just gotta try and suss it all out and test the waters with her. give her a call or a text and see if its super awkward maybe? hope it works out for you.
good luck! :)refill
Well, I thought I was over her, but I guess I'm not. I've been thinking about her a lot lately and I messaged her a few times on myspace, we talked a little, she seemed bitter over what happen years ago. I told her that I was seeing someone new, and thats when she stopped responding to my myspace emails. Well now I've broken up with the girl that I was seeing, like literally a few days ago. I tried emailing this chick (the one that I was with for 5ish years) asking her if she wanted to play some pool or somethign and get together, but she didn't respond.
What should my next move be? Should I leave it alone, or should I persue her and tell her how I really feel?About a girl, need advice please.?
Tell her how you really feel. If you were together for five years, then it's likely that, at some point, you had a good relationship. Be aware, though, that just because this is how you feel, she may not feel the same. You may never know if you don't tell her, though.
2 years can be a long time, especially at your age...People can do a lot of changing, maybe you'll get to talking and you'll realize she isn't the same, or vice versa. On the other hand, maybe you'll both realize you were meant to be together, and will be able to move on to form a strong relationship.
In any case, you should tell her how you fell, but be realistic in your expectations of her response to that information! Good luck!About a girl, need advice please.?
If you're SURE you wanna be with this girl, tell her how you feel. Otherwise...you might regret not telling her on down the road.
Just be upfront about it.
If she doesn't respond to that, or responds negatively...then that's when you should just leave it alone and let the past be the past.
I've been there.
Leave it alone. Ya gotta forget about her and move on.
She already took up 5 years of your life and capped it off by cheating on you, more or less.
Hate her and be happy that she's miserable and bitter with her new life.
Im sure you can find other girls to hang out with... why open old wounds.
Leave it be. Find someone new! ';A Change is as Good as a Holiday';
well i know where you're coming from. its hard but you should probably let it go. good luck bro.
leave it alone.
leave her alone.. maybe she don't have interest with you anymore.. find some new girl that is really loves you
depends on where she is. if you think she is keen by all means go for it. you will always be wondering if you dont. however, be careful and thoughtful about what she is up to these days. she might have another guy shes seeing at the momen too so i guess you just gotta try and suss it all out and test the waters with her. give her a call or a text and see if its super awkward maybe? hope it works out for you.
good luck! :)
GAHHH teen girl needing advice about a guy! PLEASE HELP?
He said he liked me (in that way yes) and i was like ok (crap crap) i'm not confident around guys not even goofy sweet ones like him. The thing is i know his type of girl and she is not me but i think he likes me as he said he liked me on like Friday this was when i was drunk so wasn't really me.
We've recently met up with some of my friends and his (one of my friends going out with his) so theres me, two of my friends, one of his and him. They are much more fun and flirtatious i feel he'll be drawn to the single one if i don't do something quick. He told one of my friends he thinks i've got my barriers up (emotionally) well i guess slightly but really wouldn't make a difference if i did feel comfortable around him as i am truelly a boring person (not low confidence i honestly am). Today my mates kept urging me to talk to him and left me alone with him. It was so awkward i didn't know what to say to him, but this isn't just around guys it's same with sometimes even close friends. I just don't know what to talk about.
He is making the effort as he's never had a serious girl friend but i just think it's sooo frustrating how people need to make an extreme effort to like me. I feel lost as i have asked for advice previously but i don't get that decent advice I'm sorry but find something you have in common ok well how would you start that conversation? When i do say something my friends always seem to have the lead on their wittiness and fun comments and etc ahhhhhhhhGAHHH teen girl needing advice about a guy! PLEASE HELP?
just go up to him and say hi:)
then go with the flooooow:D
let him start the convo;)
good luck:Dxx
We've recently met up with some of my friends and his (one of my friends going out with his) so theres me, two of my friends, one of his and him. They are much more fun and flirtatious i feel he'll be drawn to the single one if i don't do something quick. He told one of my friends he thinks i've got my barriers up (emotionally) well i guess slightly but really wouldn't make a difference if i did feel comfortable around him as i am truelly a boring person (not low confidence i honestly am). Today my mates kept urging me to talk to him and left me alone with him. It was so awkward i didn't know what to say to him, but this isn't just around guys it's same with sometimes even close friends. I just don't know what to talk about.
He is making the effort as he's never had a serious girl friend but i just think it's sooo frustrating how people need to make an extreme effort to like me. I feel lost as i have asked for advice previously but i don't get that decent advice I'm sorry but find something you have in common ok well how would you start that conversation? When i do say something my friends always seem to have the lead on their wittiness and fun comments and etc ahhhhhhhhGAHHH teen girl needing advice about a guy! PLEASE HELP?
just go up to him and say hi:)
then go with the flooooow:D
let him start the convo;)
good luck:Dxx
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Ok. I really like this girl and i was very shy to tell her so. I decided to text her cell phone and admit to her that although i liked her, i liked her more as friends for now. It was just a way to save myself in case she told me outright that she did not like me. Well she texted me back and told me ';that's cool. I like being friends more too.';
I was hinting to her that i liked her. Was she also giving me a hint that maybe she liked me because she said ';I like being friends more (than what?) too?';Need a Girl's advice?
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No.You are beating around the bush with her.She probably took the text as meaning exactly what it looked like,that you like being her friend or only her friend.You are gonna have to come out and tell her how you feel.If you're texting that should be easier.Hell if it's really THAT big an obstacle just text a message saying ';I think you're beautiful and I've liked you for a while but didn't know how to tell you,would you like to go out sometime?';
(the beautiful remark will make her weak weather or not she likes you...it's the magic word with women) if she comes back and says no or something ignorant...apologize and tell her the text was for someone else and you sent it to her by mistake.Good luck. :)
Text her back telling her that you like her as more than a friend. Ask her what she thinks.
There's only three things that can happen.
#1: She'll say that she likes you that way too and then you can ask her out.
#2. She'll tell you that she's not sure in which way she likes you, and then time will answer you.
or #3: She'll tell you that she's not interested. That would suck, but it's better than not knowing.
Be brave, tell her that you like her, or else you'll be very angry at yourself for being afraid to know.
It sounds like she is taking what you said as ';I like you as a friend';. Maybe she didn't understand what you said.Ask her if she would ever go out with any of her friends..if she says yes, then ask her if she would ever go out with you. Just be honest with her and tell her that you like her more than just a friend.
At his point she is unsure of why you would say that it seems. If you ';really like her'; then obviously you don't like her better as a friend. I'm guessing your were nervous to come right out and tell her. But that would be the best thing to do at this point, so go for it! And good luck. %26lt;3
She would have felt stupid telling you that she liked you more if you said you only wanted to be friends.
So now you guys are just friends...maybe later when this conversation comes up again you will tell her how you feel about her...because you will be brave and stop trying to save face.
I'm sorry but your probably in the friend zone by now. But it's okay because If you turn on the flirty charm with her and lay it on VERY thick she will probably start to see you in the same light that you see her in =D
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well maybe shes hurt thats what i hate about texting u cant see how she really reacts but try to tell her that if she would like to be a couple u will never know if u dont try... ;)
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I'm sorry but I think she is hinting that u two are better as just friends
=( unless she is really shy...in that case she just might not know how to convey her own feelings so she didn't say anything
Bad move... The message makes it sound like you just want to be friends and now she thinks you only want to be friends.
be like, well do you think it could ever turn into anything more? or something.
hint hint and hint some more. At one point, it'll be more then obvious if she wants to be more or not.
GOOD LUCK! =]
Just tell her how you feel.
wow i really think u just need to tell her how u really feel and talk to her about it
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text her back.
telling her you two should take this further
ask her
I don't know,just be honest to her,
An honest boy is a girl's type..
By the way good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I was hinting to her that i liked her. Was she also giving me a hint that maybe she liked me because she said ';I like being friends more (than what?) too?';Need a Girl's advice?
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No.You are beating around the bush with her.She probably took the text as meaning exactly what it looked like,that you like being her friend or only her friend.You are gonna have to come out and tell her how you feel.If you're texting that should be easier.Hell if it's really THAT big an obstacle just text a message saying ';I think you're beautiful and I've liked you for a while but didn't know how to tell you,would you like to go out sometime?';
(the beautiful remark will make her weak weather or not she likes you...it's the magic word with women) if she comes back and says no or something ignorant...apologize and tell her the text was for someone else and you sent it to her by mistake.Good luck. :)
Text her back telling her that you like her as more than a friend. Ask her what she thinks.
There's only three things that can happen.
#1: She'll say that she likes you that way too and then you can ask her out.
#2. She'll tell you that she's not sure in which way she likes you, and then time will answer you.
or #3: She'll tell you that she's not interested. That would suck, but it's better than not knowing.
Be brave, tell her that you like her, or else you'll be very angry at yourself for being afraid to know.
It sounds like she is taking what you said as ';I like you as a friend';. Maybe she didn't understand what you said.Ask her if she would ever go out with any of her friends..if she says yes, then ask her if she would ever go out with you. Just be honest with her and tell her that you like her more than just a friend.
At his point she is unsure of why you would say that it seems. If you ';really like her'; then obviously you don't like her better as a friend. I'm guessing your were nervous to come right out and tell her. But that would be the best thing to do at this point, so go for it! And good luck. %26lt;3
She would have felt stupid telling you that she liked you more if you said you only wanted to be friends.
So now you guys are just friends...maybe later when this conversation comes up again you will tell her how you feel about her...because you will be brave and stop trying to save face.
I'm sorry but your probably in the friend zone by now. But it's okay because If you turn on the flirty charm with her and lay it on VERY thick she will probably start to see you in the same light that you see her in =D
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well maybe shes hurt thats what i hate about texting u cant see how she really reacts but try to tell her that if she would like to be a couple u will never know if u dont try... ;)
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I'm sorry but I think she is hinting that u two are better as just friends
=( unless she is really shy...in that case she just might not know how to convey her own feelings so she didn't say anything
Bad move... The message makes it sound like you just want to be friends and now she thinks you only want to be friends.
be like, well do you think it could ever turn into anything more? or something.
hint hint and hint some more. At one point, it'll be more then obvious if she wants to be more or not.
GOOD LUCK! =]
Just tell her how you feel.
wow i really think u just need to tell her how u really feel and talk to her about it
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text her back.
telling her you two should take this further
ask her
I don't know,just be honest to her,
An honest boy is a girl's type..
By the way good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Troubled young girl ... need advice?
My 14 yr old cousin has always been a cow who thinks she knows better than everybody else n bossed every one around from wen she could talk..her mom and dad split up good few yrs ago and she lived with her mother but saw her dad at weekends .. nov last year her mom died out of the blue and my cousin moved in with her dad (my uncle) they dont have much of a relationship she is so rude to him swears at him dont listen to him (done it b4 her mother died too).... 4 days ago she turned up at my sisters sayin her dad beat her up ... she says he punched her to the floor and started kickin her .. wen my mom rang my uncle up to ask what went on he sed yes he lost his tempa but he jst slaped her round the face.. she has spent 3 days at my sisters beggin not to go home...my uncle sayin to my mom that he cant cope with her any more but he not doin nothing about it..she sayin she wants to go into care..he doin f*** all and no one else in the fam r helpin .. what do u think i should do?Troubled young girl ... need advice?
you have to take her in its what family does. at least tell this boils over. not that any girl diserves to get hit but she sounds like she had it coming. as a father of a 9yr old id be damned if i let my daughter back talk me let alone cuse me. you need to tell her to back off and respect her father more.Troubled young girl ... need advice?
See if your mom can take her in, and get help for this girl because she is a angry child that need professional help asap.
She needs to see how a real family functions; maybe you can serve as example and show her how things fit.
Well her father is right to some extent and if he doesn't teach her to respect others now, it will never work. When I was a teenager, I used to be terrible but my dad taught me to toe the line usually through beating, it worked and I am thankful now. It might not work for others.
Also check out the people she is involved with; friends, etc.
the two of them need to sit down and talk through their differences. her teenage angst isnt helping the situation. not quite sure how you get them to both behave like adults.
i dont think its your problem but i think they should all sit down quietly and have a talk about it and maybe if both of them changed it would be for the better
you should take in your cousin and talk 2 ur uncle over the fone
Your cousin is only 14 and she is still grieving for her mum. Grief affects people in different ways and as she is only a kid herself she probably doesn't understand the feelings. Of course she is angry and upset....she's lost her mum! She sounds like she could do with seeing a Grief Councillor to help her understand her feelings. How do you think she will be feeling coz she has all these family members who won't or can't provide a home for her and it must be difficult for her with her not having had a good relationship in the past with her dad. She probably feels that no-one loves her and the only person who did has gone.
You are all trying to put adult decisions onto a child. Remember she is only 14 and despite you thinking she has always been ';a cow'; this is no reason for everyone in the family to be like they are with her.
It might be a good idea for her to go into the care of Social Services for a while and try to build a relationship with her father through that avenue. It will be possible for her to get on better with her dad but they both sound like they need help from someone who is not emotionally involved in the situation. She would probably be better in a Foster Family situation rather than a Childrens Home.
If you aren't prepared to try to see how she must be feeling and if all you can do is criticise her then perhaps you would be better staying out of it. Imagine if you can, how would you have felt and behaved if you had lost your mum at the age of 14 yrs....would you have been a bundle of joy or would your behaviour have been the same?!
you have to take her in its what family does. at least tell this boils over. not that any girl diserves to get hit but she sounds like she had it coming. as a father of a 9yr old id be damned if i let my daughter back talk me let alone cuse me. you need to tell her to back off and respect her father more.Troubled young girl ... need advice?
See if your mom can take her in, and get help for this girl because she is a angry child that need professional help asap.
She needs to see how a real family functions; maybe you can serve as example and show her how things fit.
Well her father is right to some extent and if he doesn't teach her to respect others now, it will never work. When I was a teenager, I used to be terrible but my dad taught me to toe the line usually through beating, it worked and I am thankful now. It might not work for others.
Also check out the people she is involved with; friends, etc.
the two of them need to sit down and talk through their differences. her teenage angst isnt helping the situation. not quite sure how you get them to both behave like adults.
i dont think its your problem but i think they should all sit down quietly and have a talk about it and maybe if both of them changed it would be for the better
you should take in your cousin and talk 2 ur uncle over the fone
Your cousin is only 14 and she is still grieving for her mum. Grief affects people in different ways and as she is only a kid herself she probably doesn't understand the feelings. Of course she is angry and upset....she's lost her mum! She sounds like she could do with seeing a Grief Councillor to help her understand her feelings. How do you think she will be feeling coz she has all these family members who won't or can't provide a home for her and it must be difficult for her with her not having had a good relationship in the past with her dad. She probably feels that no-one loves her and the only person who did has gone.
You are all trying to put adult decisions onto a child. Remember she is only 14 and despite you thinking she has always been ';a cow'; this is no reason for everyone in the family to be like they are with her.
It might be a good idea for her to go into the care of Social Services for a while and try to build a relationship with her father through that avenue. It will be possible for her to get on better with her dad but they both sound like they need help from someone who is not emotionally involved in the situation. She would probably be better in a Foster Family situation rather than a Childrens Home.
If you aren't prepared to try to see how she must be feeling and if all you can do is criticise her then perhaps you would be better staying out of it. Imagine if you can, how would you have felt and behaved if you had lost your mum at the age of 14 yrs....would you have been a bundle of joy or would your behaviour have been the same?!
Does She Like Me? GIRLS any Advice??? I like a latina girl...?
So I work with this girl...who in the past as said she doesn't like me or I'm not her type. She's latina and I'm a white guy...She's only been w/ black guys...she did ask me a once if I like her more then a friend..I was like I need to get to kno her better b/c she had already said she doesn't like me....I did end up telling her that I did like her. Why would she ask...She does deny liking me...
We tend to argue and she always gets mad at me for stupid things. She only gets mad/argues with me!!! We hadn't really talked for a couple days. A couple days later...i was sitting w/ my head down and she called my name, so I said ';What'; And she flipped out cursin at me saying how I shouldn't ';What her'; I tried talkin to her about it and she's just like I shouldn't say ';what'; when she calls my name.
It's like we'll be talking fine for a day, and then she'll just get mad over something stupid. Someone else could say the same thing and she won't get mad, but w/ me she flips out. She used to get mad at me even before she thought I liked her.. She claimed once that she thinks I like her b/c I get mad at her and stop speaking to her when I do get mad. But she does the same thing to me..
Part of me thinks she likes me more then a friend, but just really doesn't want to admit it for some reason!!! A couple co-workers have said they think it'd be different if i wasn't white...and i Hate to say that. I try asking her things its just hard to get stuff out of her.. So Why would a girl get mad at a guy on a regular basis for stupid things?? When we actually get along fine, we hug, joke around and have fun...We had not been talkin for a week so I finally tried talkin to her and she said she gets mad at me for stuff she wouldn't get mad at others for b/c other people don't get mad at her and I get mad. And she said we argue b/c its how we both say things to each other.....Does She Like Me? GIRLS any Advice??? I like a latina girl...?
lol, thats cute.
yea, you guys like each other and don't want to admit it. I suggust you say..';k, truths (pull out your hand) with a smirk on your face'; and see what her reaction is.
We tend to argue and she always gets mad at me for stupid things. She only gets mad/argues with me!!! We hadn't really talked for a couple days. A couple days later...i was sitting w/ my head down and she called my name, so I said ';What'; And she flipped out cursin at me saying how I shouldn't ';What her'; I tried talkin to her about it and she's just like I shouldn't say ';what'; when she calls my name.
It's like we'll be talking fine for a day, and then she'll just get mad over something stupid. Someone else could say the same thing and she won't get mad, but w/ me she flips out. She used to get mad at me even before she thought I liked her.. She claimed once that she thinks I like her b/c I get mad at her and stop speaking to her when I do get mad. But she does the same thing to me..
Part of me thinks she likes me more then a friend, but just really doesn't want to admit it for some reason!!! A couple co-workers have said they think it'd be different if i wasn't white...and i Hate to say that. I try asking her things its just hard to get stuff out of her.. So Why would a girl get mad at a guy on a regular basis for stupid things?? When we actually get along fine, we hug, joke around and have fun...We had not been talkin for a week so I finally tried talkin to her and she said she gets mad at me for stuff she wouldn't get mad at others for b/c other people don't get mad at her and I get mad. And she said we argue b/c its how we both say things to each other.....Does She Like Me? GIRLS any Advice??? I like a latina girl...?
lol, thats cute.
yea, you guys like each other and don't want to admit it. I suggust you say..';k, truths (pull out your hand) with a smirk on your face'; and see what her reaction is.
I need girl help/advice?
I really, really like this one girl I go to school with. I play music, she plays music so I asked her to play this song with me and she was really excited to do it. Some other guy (who I'm pretty sure likes her) told her I like her. He was a ';friend'; of mine and he told me she didnt want to play the song all of a sudden. I got her phone number from one of her friends. I'm afraid to call her because I dont know how she'll react. I was told she hates me now ( that same ';friend';). I dont want her to put me on speaker phone w/ her friends around or something that might embarass me (or mabe think Im a stalker or something). I thought she really liked me but Ive never had any luck when it comes to girls and that's why Im afraid.That ';friend'; has never stabbed me in the back before so I dont know wheather to believe him or not. Please help me I dont know what to do. I cant stop thinking about it. I really want to win her heart.I need girl help/advice?
It sounds like that friend is not a friend and is trying to scare you away and it looks like it working for him so no offence but grow a pair and call her.I need girl help/advice?
try to talk to her in person. talk to her whenever u see her somewhere alone. just ask if she is still interested in playing the song. if she is not, ask her out.
u can also try to talk to her online through some messanger. it is a lot easier to talk to a person online than on the phone or in person. just ask her email.
and as for ur ';friend';.... don't believe him, he just tries to mess everything up!
good luck!
Shes probably in shock. Since you guys are friends, and suddenly shes told that you like her, she would be a little freaked out. She wouldn't know how to talk to you anymore, since you like her. Maybe she likes you back. Don't lose confidence man!
Best of luck.
she basically said yes, she'd love to work on the song. so, now yall need to get in touch and set a time to start working on it. don't go by gossip.
hes jealous of u. talk 2 her when he isnt around or cant c u.
can some1 answer my question
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call her..she wont think ur stlking her unless u call like 3 times a day unless she ses to if shes nice she wont put you on speaker ur friend that likes her is lying so he can get the girl go for her. rate this answer plz
he probly told her something realy bad like u like her and watnt to do alot od ';stuff'; with her because he likes he wat u should do is go up to her and talk to her in person about ur isue good luck
Well let's see, you should try to talk her on AIM or yahoo messenger and just start up on conversation. Just talk about you two together or sumthin like that. I don't know about the phone cuz sometimes, if you're like me, it's weird to talk on the phone, especially with someone you like.
And sometimes ppl act weirder when they figure out their friend likes them. If you think you're friend is telling the truth, that's fine, but you won't know what the girl is feeling until you ask her and talk about it.
Hope everything goes ok...
im a guy but ive helped ppl out in this sorta thing b4...mabye HE the friend likes HER and has gotten jeaous...guys are like it...it doesnt matter how bad u are with girls...someday u will find a grl you ARE good with...and this is some1 like that...so dont give the FUK UP!!!! STAY WITH IT !!!!!!!!! if u really like her...**** GETTING EMBARRESED!!!!!!!!! what counts...is your plans...on how to do these things...just call her...find out whats up...TALK TO HER...dont let a friend me a messenger...remember the movie 300...yea...messenger bad xDD lol call her bro and talk...make your move...its your time to shine
HOPE THIS HELPS!!!!!!!!!
It sounds like that friend is not a friend and is trying to scare you away and it looks like it working for him so no offence but grow a pair and call her.I need girl help/advice?
try to talk to her in person. talk to her whenever u see her somewhere alone. just ask if she is still interested in playing the song. if she is not, ask her out.
u can also try to talk to her online through some messanger. it is a lot easier to talk to a person online than on the phone or in person. just ask her email.
and as for ur ';friend';.... don't believe him, he just tries to mess everything up!
good luck!
Shes probably in shock. Since you guys are friends, and suddenly shes told that you like her, she would be a little freaked out. She wouldn't know how to talk to you anymore, since you like her. Maybe she likes you back. Don't lose confidence man!
Best of luck.
she basically said yes, she'd love to work on the song. so, now yall need to get in touch and set a time to start working on it. don't go by gossip.
hes jealous of u. talk 2 her when he isnt around or cant c u.
can some1 answer my question
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
call her..she wont think ur stlking her unless u call like 3 times a day unless she ses to if shes nice she wont put you on speaker ur friend that likes her is lying so he can get the girl go for her. rate this answer plz
he probly told her something realy bad like u like her and watnt to do alot od ';stuff'; with her because he likes he wat u should do is go up to her and talk to her in person about ur isue good luck
Well let's see, you should try to talk her on AIM or yahoo messenger and just start up on conversation. Just talk about you two together or sumthin like that. I don't know about the phone cuz sometimes, if you're like me, it's weird to talk on the phone, especially with someone you like.
And sometimes ppl act weirder when they figure out their friend likes them. If you think you're friend is telling the truth, that's fine, but you won't know what the girl is feeling until you ask her and talk about it.
Hope everything goes ok...
im a guy but ive helped ppl out in this sorta thing b4...mabye HE the friend likes HER and has gotten jeaous...guys are like it...it doesnt matter how bad u are with girls...someday u will find a grl you ARE good with...and this is some1 like that...so dont give the FUK UP!!!! STAY WITH IT !!!!!!!!! if u really like her...**** GETTING EMBARRESED!!!!!!!!! what counts...is your plans...on how to do these things...just call her...find out whats up...TALK TO HER...dont let a friend me a messenger...remember the movie 300...yea...messenger bad xDD lol call her bro and talk...make your move...its your time to shine
HOPE THIS HELPS!!!!!!!!!
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