Girl confusion....Advice needed!?

Hey all,





First of all, sorry for adding another question about a girl from a guy, here on this site which is full of them.





There's this girl, who I like alot, and has told me she likes me, but originally said she doesn't know me well enough to go out with me yet, made a few excuses, and generally said she didn't know, effectively putting off a relationship...but we still txted and talked on MSN alot, but its hard to see her now school is up.





Anyway, we went to a party on Friday, and while I did sort of talk to her, I was still facing the fact we would not go out and tried to keep my distance. However, a few days later, she comes to me, claiming she tried to hold my hand and talk to me, but I ignored her. She now claims she won't go out with me, because I am apparently too scared to talk to her. While she still couldn't give a definative answer as to whether we could go out, I am thinking of a way to proove to her that I am confident enough, and was just in a bad mood with her on that night.





Could someone please either, give me an idea of how to proove to her I aren't damned well scared of her (School is up so its hard to see her without making it a date), or could someone please give me there opinion as to whether I should move on, or stay and try to relieve the situation.





Thanks very much,Girl confusion....Advice needed!?
tell her the truth...it should workGirl confusion....Advice needed!?
Well maybe she just trying to confuse you... because iknow im already confused by reading that. So maybe you should just tell her you really want to go out with her but you dont know how to act around her because you didnt know if she felt the same way. :) hope that helps!
This girl doesn't know what she wants. How else are you supposed to get to know someone if you don't go out with them?


Look, if you really like this girl. Ask her out. Ask her to dinner and a movie and tell her you'd like to get to to know her better. If she still says no after that, let it go. If she's not even going to give you the opportunity to try to get to know her then she's just going to keep playing stupid games with you and seeing how long she can string you along.


Just meet up with her face to face and ask her if she would come to dinner with you. If she gives you another stupid excuse like she doesn't know you well enough or she thinks you're too scared to talk to her then just tell her ';okay. thats fine, we'll just be friends then'; and let it go.


Honestly, from the sound of things, she's not interested but enjoys the attention you give her and is keeping you around as a backup. You can probably lay money on her ignoring you as soon as she finds someone ';better';.