Advice on a girl and best way to deal with fear of rejection?

I've gone on one date with a girl in my professional program while we were both on Christmas break. Since then she came down with the flu and I had to go back to classes (we have an abbreviated vacation), so the second date hasn't happened.





It's been really hard to get hold of her. I usually have to wait two days for her to return my phone calls, even though she has yet to leave me hanging. If she leaves a message and I call back, I usually have to wait two days for that, too.





Thing is, when we do talk, it goes really well. We talked for three hours on our first date, two hours on the phone on Christmas, and one hour this past Tuesday. I called her this Thursday (it was her B-day) and still have yet to hear back from her.





I feel like I'm getting mixed signals. What sucks is that when this happens, I have a hard time focusing on anything that's not the relationship. I'm pretty sure this stems from a fear of rejection and I'm not sure what to do about it. Any advice?Advice on a girl and best way to deal with fear of rejection?
She probably has stuff going on with her life that you are yet to find out. If you really like this girl go for it, the fact that she already went out with you once is a good sign. Unless you proved to be insufferably boring, which I hope is not the case. Fear of rejection is for grade schoolers, though. Ask yourself, what's the worse that could happen? She'd say no, I don't want to get with you, big deal. Better now that you're not yet in love than 4 or 5 dates into the deal.Advice on a girl and best way to deal with fear of rejection?
She could just be genuinely scatty and forgetful. I am like this. some of my best friends (who I think the world of) call me and I don't respond for a day or so, usually because I'm pre occupied or busy. It doesn't mean I think any less of them.





The point is that she is responding isn't she? If she wasn't interested at all then she would probably ignore you.
bring her some homemade soup
just keep hanging out with her and make yur dates REALLY fun
ANYTHING WORTH HAVING IS WORTH THE TIME AND EFFORT TO OBTAIN.....Remember this....hang in there and until such time as she breaks it off, you keep your end open....good luck...
Back off. think about yourself. think with your brain not your emotions.
Yeah you are scared of losing her....and being that she IS giving u mixed signals it does not help because all you can really do is wonder and worry. It's kinda hard to tell tho...I am a girl myself and I know that if I was really into a guy I would return his phone calls ASAP but at the same time maybe she is an extremely busy person....cuz she does eventually call u back and when she does you guys do talk for a long while. I am not sure what to tell u and I know it's hard not to think about it but really worrying about the situation does not change things so you got to do your best to find something else to keep you occupied.
When you do get a hold of her, you should tell her how you feel and ask her how she feels because there's not point in beating around the bush.





Everyone has been through rejection. It sucks but you just have to pick yourself up again, leanr and grow from it.
I dont know
let her know how you feel. That you really like her, and you enjoy talking to her, but you are a bit confused. i am sure that once you find out where she stands, you will be able to focus on other things as well
Take a chance!