Please help....I'm so lost...what does this girl want?? Advice appreciated!?

hey i'm 17 and i like this girl, who knows that i like her. i have a hard time talking to her b/c i get nervous, and lately we had a disagreement and haven't talked in a month. well, she keeps saying how she doesn't want me to like her, yet she never gives are reason. she tries to put me down sometimes. but right now she keeps asking my best friend how I am doing in the class they have together. What does she really want???


thanks.Please help....I'm so lost...what does this girl want?? Advice appreciated!?
It sounds like she's scared... Give her time... Dont be pushy... Respect her wishes and maybe she'll come to you. If you love her you'll give her space and let her figure out her feelings and what she wants! Good Luck!Please help....I'm so lost...what does this girl want?? Advice appreciated!?
If this girl is asking about you, then she likes you to at least some degree. If she is putting you down, it could be that she is afraid of you, and has no real reason to offer. As far as the disagreement. She could be a stubborn type, or maybe is use to having her way. If that is the case, then she is waiting for you to come around, and apologize, then you too can be friends. As far as you nervousness, and her need to not have you like her, sounds like you both have issues with expressing your true feelings, in this case, with each other. I would not write her off just yet. Work on it. First by apologizing for whatever the disagreement was about, regardless if you were right or wrong, just to get the door somewhat open for further advancement.





Girls love a guy who can admit they may have been wrong, even when they know in their heart they were not. This will hopefully give the girl the opportunity to look at her side of the disagreement, and admit to some fault as well.





Good Luck.


Hope this makes sense. : )
I'd move on and find someone new. She seems to enjoy playing games.
Just leave her alone. It doesn't sound like she knows what she wants. She really doesn't want you as a boyfriend, but she still wants you pursuing her. It is an ego booster for her. Don't give her the satisfaction. Find someone else to hang out with immediately, and end this petty game.
Babe, it sounds like this girl is playing hard to get and playing w/ your mind. You need to take a step back and let her go, just be nice and friendly and try to be friends. If she realizes you see right through her and she'll stop. When shes ready to go out with you she will. Until then, move one and dont let her hold onto you and hold you down like that.
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that is all i have to say
this girl doesnt want anything, clearly. i think you should keep away from her
just get over her, she obviously is playing games. if she said she doesnt want you to like her, then she meant it. you don't wanna be with someone like that.