Girl predicament... advice?

I'm a guy, just turned 27. My best friend is a girl, 22. I am currently dating another girl. I find myself constantly having feelings for my best friend. She is also dating someone. My problem is, we hang around each other a lot and her boyfriend lives like 4 hours away. I just flat out told her I had feelings for her and that I shouldn't. I feel guilty for it. The shocker... she tells me she has feelings for me too and that she feels she is between a rock and a hard place. She also feels guilty. She has been dating her guy for about a year and has known him for a long time, but they fight alot. She sent me a message today that read... ';I miss you and I thats sad because I should be missing him.';





What do I do here?Girl predicament... advice?
You don't choose how to feel and who to feel it about. It just happens. You feel how you feel. So there is no point in feeling guilt. There would be guilt, however, if you two continue to date others and deny your feelings about each other. Because you both would be stringing the other folks along. You both know how you feel. So act on it.





Best friends make for the best relationships and eventually marriages. Nothing better then going home to your best friend and the love of your life. Being that you are already best friends you're ahead of most new relationships. You know things about each other that you might never tell a person you're dating. You know her mood swings and when she's having good days. You know how to make her laugh and smile. There is no awkward shyness to overcome. You two know each other well.





I think you two just need to be honest with yourselves here. Get rid of these other people and focus on you two. These feelings aren't just going to go away. You both will always wonder what if. I wish you both the best of luck!Girl predicament... advice?
Apparently both of you do not like the people you are with at the moment as much as you like each other. You should not feel guilty for liking someone else...I would say break it off with the other people before it gets harder to do (trust me the longer you wait the harder it will get) and start dating each other. If she fights a lot with her guy tell her that is not mentally healthy for her to be in that kind of relationship.
Sounds like the two of you should be together. I would talk to her seriously, about a relationship together. Make your reasons known, state points, and facts that give your feelings merit. If she doesn't want a relationship with you, move on and find someone not between a rock and a hard place. There is really nothing you can do, until you find out what she wants to do.
wow.how lucky are you?well,I guess the question here is what do YOU WANT to do?Who do you have deeper feelings for?the girl you're dating or your best friend?which one do you want to keep? once you decide that then go for it!good luck!
Guy, if this were a movie the audience would be *screaming* at you ';Go *get* her you fool! This chance may never come again!!';





Go get her. (Then the two of you part company with your significant-others very gently).
dude if you really feel something for her then do what your heart says and go after her thats the best thing you can do