Girl + Phone advice! PLEASE READ!?

Ok so i live in California and the girl i like lives in Chicago...


I use to live in Chicago so i HAVE seen and talked to her in real life! (keep that in mind) so its not a 100% online relationship.





When i talk to her online we can talk FOREVER.. about everything: her, me, school, work, news, politics, opinions/views, etc





however i just started talking to her on the phone... and when im on the phone with her.. we'll say hi and talk a little but it gets silent fast. i sometimes come up with things to talk about and i feel her trying to do the same thing.. but it always turns silent and akward..





i often have to say a fake ';oh bye i have to go ill ttyl'; even tho i dont have to go or even want to go.





why is it sooo easy to talk online but hard on the phone?


i kno you guys will say ';your just nervous'; but i dont feel that nervous and im sure she doesn't either.





what to do? we really like each other... and i want to be able to talk to her on the phone for hours...





advice please!





We are both 18 btw.Girl + Phone advice! PLEASE READ!?
a dead convo on the phone...doesnt seem like a very good start. Normally it just happens...phone conversations dont end and you hve noe diea what youve been talking about. In the beginning cors its weird but a bit later it gets ok.until you reach a point your talking so much about absolutely nothng!





How long ago did you start talkin to her on the phone?Girl + Phone advice! PLEASE READ!?
talk about stuff you have in common or even stuff about her, like so how's it going over there. girls love to talk about themselves. keep the conversation going ask questions but not too much. act like your on the computer and maybe even write down what you are going to say. hope it helps!
Just tell her that you don鈥檛 know what to say鈥hat you just wanna talk to her forever but don鈥檛 know what about鈥here to start.
same with me. you get lost on the phone cuz u dont no what to say but on the comp you have a lot to say. soo when its silent just say heyy hows your family or just ask her about her life
you're both nervous
I'm kind of the same way. Talking online is easier because you have time to think about what you want to say or you can multitask while you are talking to someone. Being on the phone is so immediate it's like you HAVE to say something or you might as well hang up. Online it's okay if you can't think of anything for a minute and you aren't rushed so things come easier. You can both be doing other things like listening to music or reading news or watching tv or whatever and it doesn't seem like the conversation is lacking. Maybe you should just stick to IM.
ok well maybe it is just easier to say what you need with your fingers and in your head than to say them outloud... that could be also when you are on the computer no one else can hear it is just between you and her... so it isn't that yall are nervous it is just that it is like a special bond that yall share and want it to stay that way..try starting out saying what you are typing or even texting.. out loud to your self as you do it and maybe that will help with being able to talk on the phone more... just try it and see... an hang in there it wont be silent and akward for long..