Girls: Any advice on these signals this girl might be giving out to me?? I am confused!!?

I hate to ask this kind of question for the reason that it makes one look like they have no idea how to read signals but i really care for this girl in question and and i have made wrong judgements in the past and really don't want to read the wrong things into this current situation going on in right now in my life. Your advice would be appreciated :o)





I started working at this office 5 months ago and on my first day i met this girl in the next office to me. She worked in the HR office and i just worked in one of the rooms within the office. We were always friendly to each other and i actually thought she was very attractive and the kind of girl i would go for. She lives near to me and so after afew days emailing each other afew months ago, she asked me where i lived and when i told her it works out we live very close to one another and she offered to give me a lift home whenever she could. When i am around her she acts friendly and nothing more than that i would say. I thank her for the lifts and she says it was a pleasure daily when i get out the car. She is friendly as i say but doesn't give me anymore than that to work on.





Then afew weeks ago sge texted me asking if i wanted to go out for a drink and i was taken aback slightly because whereas i fancy her and would love to go out with her, she never gave me any indication of any interest. We have been out for afew drinks together and even when out she just acts friendly and no more, maybe giving a hug when we depart but thats it.





Now the part i am getting mixed messages on are the signals i cannot read properly and i was wandering whether, as girls, you would know what a girl is trying to say when doing the following:





I went out socially drinking with my team the other week and she was out in the same area drinking with her team aswell. We both knew of each others plans before setting out for our separate nights. During the night she texted me ';come to the bar i am in, miss you';





Then on another occasion we were scheduled to go for a drink together after work one day but unfortunately her grandad was ill in hospital at the same time. She over email informed me of this so i knew the plans that night could go either way. She texted me about an hour after we both got home saying i am going to see my grandad in hospital and then maybe we can still go for a drink as i still want to see you. Out of respect for her grandad and her obvious concerns she would be having regarding him, i told her we could schedule another day to go for a drink for which she thanked me.





Throughtout all this time i was still getting the ';friendly'; vibe and nothing more but those text messages and the fact that at the companies xmas party, when she arrived she took me by the hand (like interlocking fingers type hand holding) and wanted me to be introduced to her HR team also attending the party.





the last situation i can think to talk about was a time when some more lets say ';overly friendly'; girls in my team were at a bar the same time that she was there with her team and all of a sudden the girls, only briefly but nonetheless, started to dance one on either side of me. I heard later that she although in conversation with her friends at the same time, kept looking over when i was dancing with these team mates.





Now from what i have said, is this girl sending just i want to be a friend message do you think or possibly something more?? It may seem obvious to some but really when i get her on a one to one, she doesnt give much away. Matter of fact once i think she could tell i was going to ask her out and so she politely yet obviously changed the subject. See what i mean byhard to read? haha





She is a sweet girl and would hate to mess any potential thing up and so i thought i would attempt to seek some girls opinions first..get the girls perspective and all that :o)





Cheers





DaveGirls: Any advice on these signals this girl might be giving out to me?? I am confused!!?
Oh my god, do you expect her to do everything? To me she seems interested but is not going to be all over you because you haven't shown much back. Girls want guys to make the moves so they aren't humiliating themselves. She has tried how many different things at this stage and you still haven't done anything. Maybe she is worried that you just like her as a friend. Try something and the worst she can say is no. She will more than likely stay friends with you because girls love having male friends.Girls: Any advice on these signals this girl might be giving out to me?? I am confused!!?
i think you should just ask her out over text and if she says no sorry just say what u talking about ? and pretend u didnt send the text it was a family member well thats what i would do =]
Well she is not being flirty with you.


It just seems that she likes you as a good friend.


I think if I fancied you and was in her position, I would give more signals out


Or she may fancy you, but does not want a relationship or anything, and does not want to ruin your friendship