Girl Problem... ADVICE DESPERATELY NEEDED?

Hey all,





I have a major dillema. At school there is this girl that i really like and have liked for a while. But... she has a boyfriend and to make it worse... he and I kinda hang out (in groups mostly ... were not really like best buddies or anything). She and him had broken up a few times before but got back together so it has gotten confusing to know when to approach her. however, he'll be graduating this year and she and i still have one more year and im still waiting to see if they break it off after he graduates. I really like her though and if they dont break up... then im pretty much screwed ... cause id never do that to another guy( no matter how much i disliked him)Girl Problem... ADVICE DESPERATELY NEEDED?
It sounds like you have a good handle on the situation. I admire you for not wanting to take a guy's girl from him. It shows you have class. You're right - just wait until next fall and see what happens. In the meantime, be fun, kind and confident but be your own man - don't be clingy or nervous around her. And then just wait it out. If you're meant to date her, you will. I wish you the best.Girl Problem... ADVICE DESPERATELY NEEDED?
Well, if you're his friend, and you truly like her, although this may seem hard, you can't come between their relationship or try to steal her away. Sorry. If it's meant to happen it will. Just play it cool. Stay friends with both of them. If they break up for good, wait a while and ask the guy if it'd be cool with him. Just play it cool, and DONT get in the way of their relationship for now. If it's suppose to happen it will, so enjoy the ride. :-)
First of all, if they have already broken up once or more than once, then they are more likely going to break up again. The thing you need to watch out for is being the rebound guy if they do break up again and youre there to ';catch'; her. Also Im glad that you would never cheat. That is always a good thing.
well i would say that you should just wait til they break up...but don't try to get them to break up.


if you would never do that, then you should try to get over her.
You answered your own question.





Wait until they break up if you don't want to cause any trouble.
find another girl for a girlfriend atleast for now. Maybe you are just infatuated to this girl. It might wear off over time
The best thing you can do is let their relationship run its course. If you have let your feelings for her to be known to her and she has not accepted or reciprocated your feelings, then she may not be ready to give up on here current relationship. This is your senior year and I am sure that their is someone that has been eying you from afar, but you have not even given a second glance. Have fun, be open to dating other girls, and give someone else a chance because you might just find someone you just click with. Also at the end of the day if it is meant for you and the girl you are interested in to be together it will happen effortlessly.