Thursday, July 29, 2010

I need a girl's advice!!!?

Okay, I'm a junior in high school, and I really like one of my female friends (also a junior). We have really great conversations, and I know she likes me as at least a good friend. We haven't really ever hung out or anything, but she always sits by me on the bus, she always says hi, she seems interested in what I have to say, and she invited me to some play of hers once (I'm the only guy who was there. She invited one other, but he didn't show up). Anyway, I wanna ask her to hang out with me sometime. I was thinking of just saying ';hey, I'm going to the movies on Sunday, wanna come?'; (Sunday is the only day we'd be able to go). Good idea or not? Any advice? Will she see this as a date, or just as friends? I don't even know if I want it to be a date or not.....I just want to be able to spend some time with her.I need a girl's advice!!!?
you should ask her to go for just the two of you.. don't talk to her everyday and be like OMG YOU LOOK SO BEAUTIFUL all the time and stuff because that's just annoying.. i'm sure she'll say yes if she invited you to a play obviously she likes your company just do itt!I need a girl's advice!!!?
well, be casual about it. don't make it look like you're crazy about her, though. act like you normally do around her, because if you act like someone you're not, her impression of you can change from good to bad. if you go to the movie, be polite. i know it sounds cheesy, but its better than doing or saying something you'd regret later. tell her a few jokes, make her laugh. girls like boys with a sense of humor. she'd probably think of the movie as a date, since you two are the only ones going. if not, and you're bringing many friends, she might think of it as a group thing. if you don't want it to be a date, bring friends. if you do and you're still nervous, bring friends still but stay close to her. not like im-glued-to-her-side close, but close enough so you can talk to her when you want to.
you should do your homework
Does she do this to other boys too? If she does, she is probably just flirting, or just being nice. If she seems to only do this with you, I would ask her out, mabey at first with a couple of friends or as a ';friends'; date, and see how you feel and how she responds. If your feeling bold, you could just go out straight and ask her for a date, but you might blow it. I would just go on as ';friends'; until you know each other better.
you never know until you try...i say ask her...the worst she can say is no...remember: what doesn't kill you, makes you stronger
Put it to her exactly like you said it here. Bet she'll go.


Let us know.....
sounds good to me.a date is a date.it doesnt mean your going to get married or your boyfreind and girlfriend,its just a date.you sound like a very nice guy.maybe she's been waiting for you to ask her out..on a date.good luck,have fun and relax..
ask her, and if she seems to hesitate tell her it isnt a date if she doesnt want it to be. if she says no then still talk to her like she is ur friend
I think that's fine.


I don't know if she'd see it as a date though..


Just see how she reacts.





Good luck!


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Well, I think you could do that yes. You should invite her, and as soon as you feel that is a good time to tell her what you are feeling for her, tell her. One of my biggest regrets was not tell my high school ';friend'; that I loved him, because years late I found out that he also loved me, but we never said to each other and when I finally decide to tell him he already had a girlfriend and he loved her very much, so I learned my lesson, and today if I have special feelings for someone, he will know. You have nothing to lose. That's my experience.
just be your self.


it sepends on the girl if she sees it just as friends or as a date
start as a friend get to know her better THEN make ur move
I Say GO FOR IT! even if she didn't like you anymore then a friend I'm sure she would be happy to go to the movies with you and find out if she really likes you.
why not A guys
If you dont want it to be a date, invite more ppl and tell her ';some of us are going to the movies, wanna come?';

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