Heartbroken girl...needs advice?

okay.. i met this guy like 4 months ago and we were boyfriend and girlfriend. then he went to camp and hookd up with this girl and broke up with me.,.but then they broke up. and he was really hurt and didnt want a girlfriend. still doesnt. he usually ignores me.. and i was to the point where i hated him. but all of a sudden he asks me to homecoming as friends.. and i said yeah. and my pastor told me he had been talking to the guy.. and he was warming up to the idea of liking me again then my friend told me tonight that he doesnt like me right now.





i am crushed


i dont know how much more of this i can take


i want him so bad..


i need help





how do i get him?Heartbroken girl...needs advice?
It's relly painful but sometimes ';reverse psychology'; works. Do the opposite....instead of shwong him or telling him how much you wanted him....give him cold shoulder!...try to look better ( as guys really are superficial) and play hard to get....try to lie-low and as mush as possible dont talk about him....play as normal and casual as you can.....try to mingle with other guy friends...keep yourself busy....it's easier said than done but at least you tried..ok!Heartbroken girl...needs advice?
Why do you want him? really. i mean this guy does not no what he wants! so go, go find someone who will like you and will stick with you, just be yourself and you will find mr. right, trust me!
Well this hard to deal with I know. But you cant have him if he doesnt want you. The best way to go about this is, just be his friend, and I know this sucks, but just act like you dont even like him and just become best friends with him. Guys always want what they cant have. So if he thinks you just want to be friends. He might realized what kind of person you are, and start to like you!!!!! Good Luck Girly!!!!!!
Just tell him how you feel? Works most of the time. Besides its the only way hell know you really like him.
play hard to get - he blew it once with you and well, if he is going to camp then you are both young. don't go to homecoming with him, you don't want to be second best in his book. he didn't respect you when he cheated on you with another girl.
If you really need a date for this dance, then go with him, but I don't think that you should get involved with someone that can't make a commitment, especially since he has been around you many times, it will only in the long run, cause you a lot of stress and end up breaking your heart, and maybe even give you doubt's about a future relationship with a really nice guy, look around, guy's are like buses, a new one comes around every 15 minutes, take your time pick out one with a good heart!


The other thing with this guy, if he keeps getting in and going out of relationships, there could be other answers, maybe he is fighting some gay tendencies, or maybe only looking for sex, so many different things, Please don't get involved with a head case, you don't need the aggravation! God Bless you and Good Luck!