Saturday, July 31, 2010

I need advice on talking to a girl I like...?

I have already asked her out, and I got a definite no, but I still really like her. She pretty much ignores me and I'm too shy to do anything.I need advice on talking to a girl I like...?
i'm sorry but if she said no, and she ignores you try to forget about her.....





:(I need advice on talking to a girl I like...?
19 Steps to Effective Communication





1. See communication opportunity to pay tribute to, create, affirm, heal, to give active support and strengthen, rather than the right to criticize, tear down, injuries, wounds, attack. Praise opens the door to further communication, while the closure of their criticism.





2. Please remember that actions speak louder than words; non-verbal communication is often more powerful multi-language exchange. The avoidance of double message oral and non-verbal message some contradictions. (Credibility gap)





3. To define what is important, and stressed it; to define what is unimportant and de-emphasize or ignore it. To avoid failure to investigate.





4. Way of communicating, respect each other's value as a human being. ';Avoid statements began to read,'; You will never ... ';or'; I think you .... ';





5. Must be clear and specific in your communication. Avoid any ambiguity.





6. Is realistic and reasonable in your statements. Avoid exaggerated and the beginning of the sentence ';You always ...';





7. Test all the assumptions verbally asked if they are accurate. Refrain from taking action until the completion of this work.





8. To recognize that every event we can see that different points of view. Avoid other people to see things like you to do so. (Perception)





9. Recognizing that your family members and close friends is an expert on you and your behavior. To avoid the trend, you deny their views - especially if you are not sure.





10. Recognizing that differences could be a meaningful means of communication. Avoid destructive arguments.





11. Honest and open about your feelings and perspectives. The realization of all the major issues, even if you are worried about doing so would interfere with others. Tell the truth of love. Silent to avoid depression.





12. Do not put down and / or manipulation of other people's tactics, such as ridicule, interruption, curse, change the subject, accused of wiretapping, irony, criticism, identity, guilt-induced, such as to avoid one-upmanship game.





13. More concerned about how it affects the exchange of others than what you intend. If you are a pain to avoid misunderstanding.





14. Accept all the feelings and try to understand why other people think, and as they are. To avoid the trend said, ';You should not think this is a point.';





15. Was experienced and thoughtful, and courteous. Refrain from using other people's feelings.





16. Ask questions and listen carefully. To avoid preaching or indoctrination.





17. Do not use an excuse. To avoid falling into the hands of others an excuse.





18. Polite and gentle and kind words. Avoid nagging shout or complain.





19. Recognition of the value of humor and seriousness. Avoid destructive teasing
well sorry dude there is more fish in the sea move on and i bet you will find some one. good luck

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