I went to high school with a girl who I was really good friends with. In fact, it was freshman year we got in to a nasty fight and haven’t talked since. We go to college together and I see her around but she won’t look at me. I honestly can’t remember what the fight was about. From what people have said, “I’ve ruined her life.” I feel awful to think I’ve effected someone so deeply. I’ve tried in the past to reach out to her, but she’s shut me down.
Its been so long, and I really want to put it behind. But then again, I don’t want to get shot down. I would give anything to just sit down and talk face-to-face about it, but I don’t know how to go about it.. Or if I even should.I need some girl-friendship advice..!?
i think that if it is bothering you this much, that you should talk to her and make up. If i were you i'd pull her off to the side by saying, ';hey can i talk to you for a quick minute?';, and then apologize for anything that happened. If she wants to forgive and forget too, then that's awesome. If not, you can at least walk away knowing that you tried and you were the bigger person handling that situation. Hope this helps!I need some girl-friendship advice..!?
just walk up to her and tell her that yall dont have to be friends and you just want to put things in the past and if she shuts you down again just forget about it and move on because life is to short for bullshit like that thats so childish of her holding a grudge that long
Well i think you should go to her when you see her and simply say we need to talk...
Tell her what you told me in the info Say that you didn't know you effected her like that and say can we try to be friends again. Talk from your heart!!!!
Be nice and have a gentle voice.
If she ignores you just say please and try again!!!!
I hope this helps you!!!!
Good Luck!!!!
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
Advice plz!! its serious i think im falling for this guy really bad, plz girl me advice!!!?
i am 18 and im really pretty and skinny. i like this guy dylan A LOT and he told me that he liked me 2. he also said that he liked one other girl Mary... but she's not very pretty at all, and im smaller than her. dylan and I we hungout a lot and kissed. he would give me long hugs and just hold me, Then all of a sudden he started to date Mary just 3 days ago. i see him at school, and he stares at me all the time. and flirts with me alot. he also still gives me long hugs and txts me. WHY is he doing this??? does he still like me?? what should i do??Advice plz!! its serious i think im falling for this guy really bad, plz girl me advice!!!?
well, i'm not gonna lie. it sounds like he's not committed to you at all.
he probably only likes you because you are hot, if she's less conventional looking, she's probably his sugar momma.
classic trophy gf / sugar momma gf scenario
either way, unless you want to go all the way and it mean nothing, i'd ditch this scum bag.
trust me. i'm a guy. i know these things.Advice plz!! its serious i think im falling for this guy really bad, plz girl me advice!!!?
Just keep doing what your doing, it seems that he likes you . And maybe hes not looking for just looks, dont act so eager for him. Also dont answer some of his txts play hard to get. My Opinion though.
Just tell him how you feel. What can it hurt. You never know unless you ask.
Honestly, it sounds like your his back up girl. I have 9 brothers and whenever they were dating someone and texting someone else who was prettier, they said it was good for the ego especially if she'll make out with me on the drop of a dime. He'll keep doing it as long as you let him, and honestly if he genuinly liked you, he would have chosen you. You are like a trophy to him but apparently looks don't always catch the guy. Actually if he has a girlfriend why are you flirting and touching him? That would piss you off if he was your man and him and Mary were exchanging texts flirting and hugging.refill
well, i'm not gonna lie. it sounds like he's not committed to you at all.
he probably only likes you because you are hot, if she's less conventional looking, she's probably his sugar momma.
classic trophy gf / sugar momma gf scenario
either way, unless you want to go all the way and it mean nothing, i'd ditch this scum bag.
trust me. i'm a guy. i know these things.Advice plz!! its serious i think im falling for this guy really bad, plz girl me advice!!!?
Just keep doing what your doing, it seems that he likes you . And maybe hes not looking for just looks, dont act so eager for him. Also dont answer some of his txts play hard to get. My Opinion though.
Just tell him how you feel. What can it hurt. You never know unless you ask.
Honestly, it sounds like your his back up girl. I have 9 brothers and whenever they were dating someone and texting someone else who was prettier, they said it was good for the ego especially if she'll make out with me on the drop of a dime. He'll keep doing it as long as you let him, and honestly if he genuinly liked you, he would have chosen you. You are like a trophy to him but apparently looks don't always catch the guy. Actually if he has a girlfriend why are you flirting and touching him? That would piss you off if he was your man and him and Mary were exchanging texts flirting and hugging.
Dating A rich girl. NEED ADVICE!!! Please Read!!?
In March, My fiancée and I broke up after I found out she was cheating on me after dating 3 years. She came from an extremely wealthy family. The money aspect never presented a problem in the 3 years that we dated. The whole spring and summer last year was extremely depressing to me. Finally, in late September, I did something out of the ordinary for me, I joined Match.com/. Within a week I had 4 dates lined up, they all went OK. And then I met this one girl, lets call her Jen. I have been seeing her since the beginning of October and things are going really great. “Jen” also surprisingly happens to come froma very- well –to- do family also. This girl is NOT spoiled and is a sweetheart. My mother keeps warning me “ She comes from a lot of money, I don’t know if it’s gonna work out, be careful.”. I need Advice!!!!!Dating A rich girl. NEED ADVICE!!! Please Read!!?
Money doesn't mean that people cheat. There are a group of cheaters out there, but they come from all different levels of society.
I think you answered your question yourself. She is your sweetheart. Don't let your cheating ex girlfriend ruin your life anymore. Keep ';Jen';!!Dating A rich girl. NEED ADVICE!!! Please Read!!?
You may find advice at millionairematch dot com. There is the expertized web for matching. Almost all the marriage questions you can solve there.
dont judge her because of money judge her by her additiude in life and the way she treats you ...
Not all girls that come from money will do you wrong....
I am what you would consider a ';rich girl'; - I grew up being around extremely rich people all my life - people who owned Casinos, restaurant chains, private jets, fast expensive cars, vineyards, race teams, race horses, custom made everything, huge hunks of land and entire neighborhoods!
Know what I learned?? I learned that MONEY does NOT make a person, and most of those people were pretty miserable and made terrible relationship partners. They were selfish, demanding, spoiled, hard headed, cold, and always looking over their shoulders for that ';someone'; who might take it all away from them.
I ended up marrying a great guy who literally had NOTHING money wise, but was driven to be a good partner, Father, and lover - - we live in a great neighborhood, kids go to great schools, and we both earn an HONEST living. He still cannot understand why I am not impressed by people who have money - guess he would of had to have been there!
money should not be a factor if she really loves you. just be yourself and be open and truthful wth her... if she love your personality, even if you don't have that much money, your relationship will turn out pretty good... just be you and things will fall in to place...
Good Luck!!! i wish you the best!
Not ALL rich girls or boys act spoiled and rude and everything., some take careful control of their wealth because they do not want over spend..
I think it's going to work out pretty well.
no offence,but if it doesnt, if you go to dating sites again, SI think you should ask if their wealthy or not. IIN A NICE way. Because most girl's feeling easily get hurt.
GOOD luck! (: :)
You take her as you see her
The last one cheated , you got rid of her. This one is good so far accept it at face value unless you get hit on the head. and don't go looking for something.
it's not the family that she comes from that you need to be careful. it's match.com.
i know this cuz i was told that my ex wife is on that site.
There are modest, well-to-do people out there! Listen to your heart. Good luck!
get to know her first and if she falls in love with you it will work. Just try to keep the love there
sounds like you need to get to know her better before you can make a decision on what she is like.
Go out on a few dates and see what happens, she might be as she appears.
Keep ';Jen';,
I went out with a guy who's family were on benefits, he was often kicked out, never leant to drive, and was constantly on the 'sick', I felt the need to reform him.... he got a new 'good' job, learnt to drive, paid rent (thus sorting out family rifts and getting kicked out' . I wanted him to do the things I had done.
In the end we split because at the end of the day.... although he had achieved my goals and to an extent his own, he still had the same morals and lack of future.
(Please note I am not drawing any comparisons to your situation. This is an extreme case...)
At the end of the day different backgrounds can sometimes affect the future that people see themselves having together.
Be clear with each other what you'd like out of life, share goals and dreams. If your happy in a semi and Jen wants the mansion will it work?
P.s. I know houses aren't everything!
good luck..... things will be fine......
Your mother is probably just worried because the last wealthy girl you dated broke your heart. Tell her this one is different, they've got different personalities. Just because she's well-off doesn't mean she'll cheat on you.
Introduce ';Jen'; to your parents, and maybe they'll see the difference between her and your ex-fiancee and stop bugging you about it. If they don't, there's not much you can do. Just wait for them to stop judging her. However, having dinners with ';Jen'; and your family to prove how unspoiled and kind she is should definitely help the situation.
Good luck!
not all girls who come from wealthy family are spoiled...im not....and there are realy good persons who are rich,so if you like that girl why should that be a problem? money was never a problem,unless you dont have it.. =)
Money doesn't mean that people cheat. There are a group of cheaters out there, but they come from all different levels of society.
I think you answered your question yourself. She is your sweetheart. Don't let your cheating ex girlfriend ruin your life anymore. Keep ';Jen';!!Dating A rich girl. NEED ADVICE!!! Please Read!!?
You may find advice at millionairematch dot com. There is the expertized web for matching. Almost all the marriage questions you can solve there.
dont judge her because of money judge her by her additiude in life and the way she treats you ...
Not all girls that come from money will do you wrong....
I am what you would consider a ';rich girl'; - I grew up being around extremely rich people all my life - people who owned Casinos, restaurant chains, private jets, fast expensive cars, vineyards, race teams, race horses, custom made everything, huge hunks of land and entire neighborhoods!
Know what I learned?? I learned that MONEY does NOT make a person, and most of those people were pretty miserable and made terrible relationship partners. They were selfish, demanding, spoiled, hard headed, cold, and always looking over their shoulders for that ';someone'; who might take it all away from them.
I ended up marrying a great guy who literally had NOTHING money wise, but was driven to be a good partner, Father, and lover - - we live in a great neighborhood, kids go to great schools, and we both earn an HONEST living. He still cannot understand why I am not impressed by people who have money - guess he would of had to have been there!
money should not be a factor if she really loves you. just be yourself and be open and truthful wth her... if she love your personality, even if you don't have that much money, your relationship will turn out pretty good... just be you and things will fall in to place...
Good Luck!!! i wish you the best!
Not ALL rich girls or boys act spoiled and rude and everything., some take careful control of their wealth because they do not want over spend..
I think it's going to work out pretty well.
no offence,but if it doesnt, if you go to dating sites again, SI think you should ask if their wealthy or not. IIN A NICE way. Because most girl's feeling easily get hurt.
GOOD luck! (: :)
You take her as you see her
The last one cheated , you got rid of her. This one is good so far accept it at face value unless you get hit on the head. and don't go looking for something.
it's not the family that she comes from that you need to be careful. it's match.com.
i know this cuz i was told that my ex wife is on that site.
There are modest, well-to-do people out there! Listen to your heart. Good luck!
get to know her first and if she falls in love with you it will work. Just try to keep the love there
sounds like you need to get to know her better before you can make a decision on what she is like.
Go out on a few dates and see what happens, she might be as she appears.
Keep ';Jen';,
I went out with a guy who's family were on benefits, he was often kicked out, never leant to drive, and was constantly on the 'sick', I felt the need to reform him.... he got a new 'good' job, learnt to drive, paid rent (thus sorting out family rifts and getting kicked out' . I wanted him to do the things I had done.
In the end we split because at the end of the day.... although he had achieved my goals and to an extent his own, he still had the same morals and lack of future.
(Please note I am not drawing any comparisons to your situation. This is an extreme case...)
At the end of the day different backgrounds can sometimes affect the future that people see themselves having together.
Be clear with each other what you'd like out of life, share goals and dreams. If your happy in a semi and Jen wants the mansion will it work?
P.s. I know houses aren't everything!
good luck..... things will be fine......
Your mother is probably just worried because the last wealthy girl you dated broke your heart. Tell her this one is different, they've got different personalities. Just because she's well-off doesn't mean she'll cheat on you.
Introduce ';Jen'; to your parents, and maybe they'll see the difference between her and your ex-fiancee and stop bugging you about it. If they don't, there's not much you can do. Just wait for them to stop judging her. However, having dinners with ';Jen'; and your family to prove how unspoiled and kind she is should definitely help the situation.
Good luck!
not all girls who come from wealthy family are spoiled...im not....and there are realy good persons who are rich,so if you like that girl why should that be a problem? money was never a problem,unless you dont have it.. =)
Really like this girl need advice!!?
I don't see her that much anymore :( but i still really like her and homecoming is coming up next month. I have only seen her a few times this year because i don't have any classes with her or lunch maybe thursday though that is yet to be determined next week :) but when i have seen her for some reason now i am to shy to talk this morning i didn't even see the group that she %26amp; i stand is for some reason, i have asked this question many times but i never have really been satisfied with the answer
Keithgriffin49@yahoo.com
and my facebook is Keith Jeffrey GriffinReally like this girl need advice!!?
Keith, just go up to her or call and ask her to homecoming. All she can do is say no. Maybe she is dying to go out with you too. I am old to you, 54, but I always gave my own son this advice. When I was younger girls just didn't ask guys out and I know it's a little different now but still you will never know if you don't ask. But do it now so she has time to find something to wear! Really, be brave and ask her out. Then let me know what she said. I'll be rooting for you. Good Luck!
Keithgriffin49@yahoo.com
and my facebook is Keith Jeffrey GriffinReally like this girl need advice!!?
Keith, just go up to her or call and ask her to homecoming. All she can do is say no. Maybe she is dying to go out with you too. I am old to you, 54, but I always gave my own son this advice. When I was younger girls just didn't ask guys out and I know it's a little different now but still you will never know if you don't ask. But do it now so she has time to find something to wear! Really, be brave and ask her out. Then let me know what she said. I'll be rooting for you. Good Luck!
Omg girl problems advice from both genders please?
ok theres this girl that i like and i think she likes me.
shes so beautiful and stunning in everyway our personallitys go well together and shes one of the only few people who can have me in tears 1 minute and laughing the next.
the other night she tried hooking up with me while we were at a friends house. but i pulled away because i got all shy and nervous. apparently that cutt her bad and this weekend i found out she went to the movies with another guy and they didn't get to see much of the movie if u get what i mean.
so now i ask the question:
what should i do fellas and guys: give up or wait or try to prove we have more or what. im such a hopeless romanticOmg girl problems advice from both genders please?
tell her you were foolish and only did it because you are shy. you are going to have to overcome shyness and let your heart out to her to get her back, but it may go either way. she can say ';too bad, so sad'; or ';i only went to the movies with that guy to make u jealous and to see how much you liked me';Omg girl problems advice from both genders please?
I dunno, man.
This is personal opinion so you might want to consider more answers.
But if I like a certain guy, you won't find me doing another guy.
Dating other guys, yes but definitely not doing them.
Well, if you really like this girl, I'd say try again. Say you're just too nervous and that you'd like a second chance. Just proceed with caution.
hey babe
u r obviously passionate about this girl %26amp; u both sound like u r meant 4 each other
try talking 2 her about how u feel, im sure she will forgive u..
also her goin 2 the movies with another guy is probily 2 make u jealous, caze she obviously likes u [tryin 2 hook up]
so u should def. tell her how u feel
%26amp; kiss her...!!!!!!!!! do u babe
dun b scared!!
%26amp; believe in urself say Yeh i am a romantic ! %26amp; believe it
gluck xxxx
TELL HER HOW YOU REALLY FEEL FOR HER
Your gay right?
The first clue is the ';omg';
From a girl's point of view, I think you should do something for her to surprise her and then tell her how you feel. Girl's always like to be surprised especially if it is with something cute, such as flowers or a something from a joke you two have. You have to do something in order for her to notice you. Get past your shyness and get yourself out there. Tell her how you feel. Good luck!
try and prove you have more, shes just upset that you didnt ';hook up'; with her thats night and was trying to find away to get over it
do something that will completely blow her away. she must like you if she was trying it on at a party, she must feel silly because you pulled away. you need to tell her asap that you do like her, or shes just gna find someone else. do something really romantic, get a bunch of flowers or something and tell her everything you feel about her, or if you cant tell her to her face write it in a note or letter and put it in with the flowers! something adorable haha
shes so beautiful and stunning in everyway our personallitys go well together and shes one of the only few people who can have me in tears 1 minute and laughing the next.
the other night she tried hooking up with me while we were at a friends house. but i pulled away because i got all shy and nervous. apparently that cutt her bad and this weekend i found out she went to the movies with another guy and they didn't get to see much of the movie if u get what i mean.
so now i ask the question:
what should i do fellas and guys: give up or wait or try to prove we have more or what. im such a hopeless romanticOmg girl problems advice from both genders please?
tell her you were foolish and only did it because you are shy. you are going to have to overcome shyness and let your heart out to her to get her back, but it may go either way. she can say ';too bad, so sad'; or ';i only went to the movies with that guy to make u jealous and to see how much you liked me';Omg girl problems advice from both genders please?
I dunno, man.
This is personal opinion so you might want to consider more answers.
But if I like a certain guy, you won't find me doing another guy.
Dating other guys, yes but definitely not doing them.
Well, if you really like this girl, I'd say try again. Say you're just too nervous and that you'd like a second chance. Just proceed with caution.
hey babe
u r obviously passionate about this girl %26amp; u both sound like u r meant 4 each other
try talking 2 her about how u feel, im sure she will forgive u..
also her goin 2 the movies with another guy is probily 2 make u jealous, caze she obviously likes u [tryin 2 hook up]
so u should def. tell her how u feel
%26amp; kiss her...!!!!!!!!! do u babe
dun b scared!!
%26amp; believe in urself say Yeh i am a romantic ! %26amp; believe it
gluck xxxx
TELL HER HOW YOU REALLY FEEL FOR HER
Your gay right?
The first clue is the ';omg';
From a girl's point of view, I think you should do something for her to surprise her and then tell her how you feel. Girl's always like to be surprised especially if it is with something cute, such as flowers or a something from a joke you two have. You have to do something in order for her to notice you. Get past your shyness and get yourself out there. Tell her how you feel. Good luck!
try and prove you have more, shes just upset that you didnt ';hook up'; with her thats night and was trying to find away to get over it
do something that will completely blow her away. she must like you if she was trying it on at a party, she must feel silly because you pulled away. you need to tell her asap that you do like her, or shes just gna find someone else. do something really romantic, get a bunch of flowers or something and tell her everything you feel about her, or if you cant tell her to her face write it in a note or letter and put it in with the flowers! something adorable haha
Question about this girl? need advice?
I am a shy college guy and asked this cute girl out from class, we met leaving class.
We finally went out and had diner i had a great time and it seemed like she did also. When we were leaving i asked if she wanted to do this again and she said yes.
I called her a day after the date and told her i had a great time, and she said the same.
So i called her and left a voice mail yesterday and still haven't gotten a call back. What should i do?
Also she is very busy by being a nursing student, and partying with friends at different collages.Question about this girl? need advice?
You left the voice mail yesterday? Don't worry! You say that she's busy and that she wanted to get together again. According to what you wrote the odds seem to be in your favor. If she doesn't call you back for a day or two call her again and tell her that you've been thinking about the splendid time you had with her. Then ask her out on a second date : )Question about this girl? need advice?
I think you should give her a little more time...you never know the circumstances. She could have a bunch of work to do for nursing or ....maybe got drunk and passed out somewhere? sry,,,j/k bout the last one.
We finally went out and had diner i had a great time and it seemed like she did also. When we were leaving i asked if she wanted to do this again and she said yes.
I called her a day after the date and told her i had a great time, and she said the same.
So i called her and left a voice mail yesterday and still haven't gotten a call back. What should i do?
Also she is very busy by being a nursing student, and partying with friends at different collages.Question about this girl? need advice?
You left the voice mail yesterday? Don't worry! You say that she's busy and that she wanted to get together again. According to what you wrote the odds seem to be in your favor. If she doesn't call you back for a day or two call her again and tell her that you've been thinking about the splendid time you had with her. Then ask her out on a second date : )Question about this girl? need advice?
I think you should give her a little more time...you never know the circumstances. She could have a bunch of work to do for nursing or ....maybe got drunk and passed out somewhere? sry,,,j/k bout the last one.
I need a girl's advice, please!!!!!! OMG!!!! WTF!!!!!!!?
So I started this job about a year ago, and there was this receptionist that was smoking hot!!!! However, she was quite the *****, never acting the least bit interested in talking to me. Well, here we are today and she's put on a few pounds. She's not real fat, but she has a well defined muffin top. Now she's all touchy feely, always talking to me like I'm in her league now. Should I just tell her to F*** off or should I take her out? I know she treated me like s**t in the past, but I could tough it out and take her jogging. Then she would lose weight and I would have a smokin hot girlfriend!!!! Should I keep my dignity or go for it? Thanks.I need a girl's advice, please!!!!!! OMG!!!! WTF!!!!!!!?
dont go for it she only is paying attention to you cause shes now getting rejected by everyone else and needs help with her self esteem.
once shes skinny again then shell drop you like a fly. your her rebound.I need a girl's advice, please!!!!!! OMG!!!! WTF!!!!!!!?
Ok really, you're only looking at her because she's fine. That is so shallow, and if she's pretty, she can move on from you. Get to know her, you don't have to necessarily take her out, just talk to her. See if you like her as a person.
Also, if she's only talking to you now because she thinks you're in her league, it's not good. Once she loses the weight (if she does) she'll drop you like a hot potato and go for someone that she believes is in her league.
Hope this helps!!
Good luck ;)
Wooow dude that totally sucks. But it made me laugh :)
Anyway, I know she definitely is using you because she can't get the guys she used to (no offense at all). However, I think you should take her out because you might find that she is your type of girl. Looks may seem like everything but I guess if you're looking for that perfect meal you have to read the description on the menu, not only look at the pictures.
ok i don't really know this chick so i'll try not to generalize. Use your intuition maybe she is a total ***** and didn't realize what she was missing until recently. I think you should go out with her, get to know each other well enough, and when there is trust ask her about your doubts. Later on you can decide if continuing the relationship or not. Anyways, what's there to loose?!?! Please don't go out with her because of her hotness, you don't know if she'll fatten up even more as time goes by, so try to see her inner beauty !
First its not about your dignity! You don't now want she has gone through in the last year or way she has put on the weight. Maybe she is all over you now because she has realized what a great guy you are and wants a great guy. It may have nothing to do with her weight. If the weight is a problem for you then I think you should leave her alone because what if she doesn't lose the weight?
I'll give you the reason first....
before when she was smokin hot....she could have any guy she wanted and she got cocky about it making her ';quite the *****';....now that she gained a little weight she needs to feel like she can still get any guy, hence her being nice to you.
Be aware that she may get thin and dump you all over again.
You can take her out and see what happens, but remember you work with her and dumping her WILL make it awkward in the work place.
Hope this helped!
Ummm please don't be shallow. Because to be honest, if she's only talking to you now it's probably because she keeps getting rejected and needs someone to make her feel good about herself. And truthfully she'll prolly dump you the minute she starts feeling good about herself. Sorry dude, but seriously don't be shallow. Karma's a b****.
Keep your dignity. She's gained a few pounds and she can't wear that bikini no more. And if you do take her don't take her jogging because she will leave you when she gets her body back. It's not worth having a broken heart or getting blue balls when you can easily avoid it by getting you a real girl.
I would say don't waste your time with her. She is obviously really shallow if she didn't give you the time of day before and now since she isn't as attractive she thinks you will just jump at the chance of being with her? that's the dumbest thing i have heard in a while. You deserve someone who actually gives you the time of day.
Uhm, honestly tell her to go away.
Unless you want a fat *****... it's up to you.
But she's just trying to get your attention now cause she can't get anything and she knows that you were interested in the past. I don't think she's gonna lose weight either. Just show her you're not looking to play games for a relationship. Keep your dignity bud.
okay maybe she had a boyfriend before?
find out if she did?
and ask her why she is interested?
but i would say dont go for it
thats kindaa messed up now sincee noone likes her shes going to you
thats not right
but first find out whuts the deal
shes usen u and when she looses weight im almost 100% shure she will cheat on u or go out out with someone she thinks is better lookin than uu
and u dont waant to be upset if that happens and u cant be upset if you dont date her ....
omg ew how ugly! i think you should take her to the gym or something hqf(ha que funny) not mean but thats what I will do just be friendly and say hey want to go hit the gym later on or something. If she says yes then there you go and if she says why you think I'm fat say no I just want a workout buddy and have nobody else..
hope this works.And try to forgive and forget don't hold grudges..
-Kandii-=]]
You need to stop being shallow and know and figure out what this girl has in her plans if she wasn't into you before.
Being hot doesn't mean it has to be on a physical basis!
How about her mind, goals, dreams, beliefs, and personality (which you have come across of before).
I say that you don't date her until you know why she is interested in you all of a sudden.
HOPE THIS HELPS!!! :IF I HELPED ADD ME AS A CONTACT!!! :o)
well, both of you sound like you have problems
here's advice for you, never date a ***** who needs a self esteem boost and a little weight loss, and never ever date a girl in hopes she'll change into miss. sexy, because that's wrong on your part.
but final judgment don't date her.
Who says big women can't get anyone?
Sure its harder but there is someone for everybodyt.
Any ways
Now if u like her go for it
Tell her how u feel ask her why. Did she act the way she did b4.
%26amp; remember if u decide to take her out u can't change her weight
U shouldn't want to like her because of who she is and if overweight is who she is that's wat ur getting. What if she tried to change something about u!!!
Everyone is not perfect
that would be a cool way to help her loose wight if she's feeling bad about her self .but she might be just using u to make her self feel better, and your the only one paying her some attention. then again you could get to know each other hit the gym and live happily ever after!!!!
See why she's so interested now rather than before. It's probably just because she's getting rejected now because some people are so shallow. Don't stoop to her level. There are other girls that are just as hot I'm sure. Don't go for it. Keep yourself above her level.
Shes fat now of course she likes you.
Youre pretty much a dick for saying that you'll take her jogging and that all you care about is a sexy girlfriend CLEARLY since she treated you like crap earlier and youre willing to take that.
i wudnt go for her but u cud always say 'so listen, i was thinkin of becomin a member to this gym, wanna join?'; so she can lose the weight, nd u can see it from there cuz ull get to know hwe real personality by then :)
No, you shouldn't... what would your friends and family think when they find out that You liked this girl....
She treated you like crap....
she gains a few pounds...
now shes desperate and will go out with any guy that crosses her way???
Yeah, real good story to tell at te next Thanksgiving party
take her out. bang her. then blow it in her face and tell her shes a ***** that got fat and she got what she deserved. then never talk to her again :D
she is just trying to make herself feel better, if she liked you earlier you would've been able to see it in her eyes, regardless if she ignored you.
being shallow isn't going to work all the time. just because she's hot doesn't mean she's got no brain or heart. ask her why she's acting interested now.
You were not good enough at first but now that she gained a little and maybe isnt smoking hot, now shes interested!!
You are better than that. That really should show you how shallow she is
you can be her frined but not her lover she is just using you
no way,
she's just using you
when she's ';smokin' hot'; again,
she'll go back to what she dated before,
seriously
NOO.
she's just using you basically.
plus, if you helped her lose a bit of weight, she'd definitely go back to her old ways.
tell her to f u c k o f f !
IGNORE her!! Omg, she really is a b!tch...
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Don't do it. Instead return the favor and act like you're too good for her and her muffin top.
Amber is exactly right. Baby, stick with dignity.
if she didn't like you then( when she was hot), doesn't it seem weird that she likes you now when shes not? sounds fishy to me. anyway, what if she likes being chunky and doesn't wanna work out? hmmmrefill
dont go for it she only is paying attention to you cause shes now getting rejected by everyone else and needs help with her self esteem.
once shes skinny again then shell drop you like a fly. your her rebound.I need a girl's advice, please!!!!!! OMG!!!! WTF!!!!!!!?
Ok really, you're only looking at her because she's fine. That is so shallow, and if she's pretty, she can move on from you. Get to know her, you don't have to necessarily take her out, just talk to her. See if you like her as a person.
Also, if she's only talking to you now because she thinks you're in her league, it's not good. Once she loses the weight (if she does) she'll drop you like a hot potato and go for someone that she believes is in her league.
Hope this helps!!
Good luck ;)
Wooow dude that totally sucks. But it made me laugh :)
Anyway, I know she definitely is using you because she can't get the guys she used to (no offense at all). However, I think you should take her out because you might find that she is your type of girl. Looks may seem like everything but I guess if you're looking for that perfect meal you have to read the description on the menu, not only look at the pictures.
ok i don't really know this chick so i'll try not to generalize. Use your intuition maybe she is a total ***** and didn't realize what she was missing until recently. I think you should go out with her, get to know each other well enough, and when there is trust ask her about your doubts. Later on you can decide if continuing the relationship or not. Anyways, what's there to loose?!?! Please don't go out with her because of her hotness, you don't know if she'll fatten up even more as time goes by, so try to see her inner beauty !
First its not about your dignity! You don't now want she has gone through in the last year or way she has put on the weight. Maybe she is all over you now because she has realized what a great guy you are and wants a great guy. It may have nothing to do with her weight. If the weight is a problem for you then I think you should leave her alone because what if she doesn't lose the weight?
I'll give you the reason first....
before when she was smokin hot....she could have any guy she wanted and she got cocky about it making her ';quite the *****';....now that she gained a little weight she needs to feel like she can still get any guy, hence her being nice to you.
Be aware that she may get thin and dump you all over again.
You can take her out and see what happens, but remember you work with her and dumping her WILL make it awkward in the work place.
Hope this helped!
Ummm please don't be shallow. Because to be honest, if she's only talking to you now it's probably because she keeps getting rejected and needs someone to make her feel good about herself. And truthfully she'll prolly dump you the minute she starts feeling good about herself. Sorry dude, but seriously don't be shallow. Karma's a b****.
Keep your dignity. She's gained a few pounds and she can't wear that bikini no more. And if you do take her don't take her jogging because she will leave you when she gets her body back. It's not worth having a broken heart or getting blue balls when you can easily avoid it by getting you a real girl.
I would say don't waste your time with her. She is obviously really shallow if she didn't give you the time of day before and now since she isn't as attractive she thinks you will just jump at the chance of being with her? that's the dumbest thing i have heard in a while. You deserve someone who actually gives you the time of day.
Uhm, honestly tell her to go away.
Unless you want a fat *****... it's up to you.
But she's just trying to get your attention now cause she can't get anything and she knows that you were interested in the past. I don't think she's gonna lose weight either. Just show her you're not looking to play games for a relationship. Keep your dignity bud.
okay maybe she had a boyfriend before?
find out if she did?
and ask her why she is interested?
but i would say dont go for it
thats kindaa messed up now sincee noone likes her shes going to you
thats not right
but first find out whuts the deal
shes usen u and when she looses weight im almost 100% shure she will cheat on u or go out out with someone she thinks is better lookin than uu
and u dont waant to be upset if that happens and u cant be upset if you dont date her ....
omg ew how ugly! i think you should take her to the gym or something hqf(ha que funny) not mean but thats what I will do just be friendly and say hey want to go hit the gym later on or something. If she says yes then there you go and if she says why you think I'm fat say no I just want a workout buddy and have nobody else..
hope this works.And try to forgive and forget don't hold grudges..
-Kandii-=]]
You need to stop being shallow and know and figure out what this girl has in her plans if she wasn't into you before.
Being hot doesn't mean it has to be on a physical basis!
How about her mind, goals, dreams, beliefs, and personality (which you have come across of before).
I say that you don't date her until you know why she is interested in you all of a sudden.
HOPE THIS HELPS!!! :IF I HELPED ADD ME AS A CONTACT!!! :o)
well, both of you sound like you have problems
here's advice for you, never date a ***** who needs a self esteem boost and a little weight loss, and never ever date a girl in hopes she'll change into miss. sexy, because that's wrong on your part.
but final judgment don't date her.
Who says big women can't get anyone?
Sure its harder but there is someone for everybodyt.
Any ways
Now if u like her go for it
Tell her how u feel ask her why. Did she act the way she did b4.
%26amp; remember if u decide to take her out u can't change her weight
U shouldn't want to like her because of who she is and if overweight is who she is that's wat ur getting. What if she tried to change something about u!!!
Everyone is not perfect
that would be a cool way to help her loose wight if she's feeling bad about her self .but she might be just using u to make her self feel better, and your the only one paying her some attention. then again you could get to know each other hit the gym and live happily ever after!!!!
See why she's so interested now rather than before. It's probably just because she's getting rejected now because some people are so shallow. Don't stoop to her level. There are other girls that are just as hot I'm sure. Don't go for it. Keep yourself above her level.
Shes fat now of course she likes you.
Youre pretty much a dick for saying that you'll take her jogging and that all you care about is a sexy girlfriend CLEARLY since she treated you like crap earlier and youre willing to take that.
i wudnt go for her but u cud always say 'so listen, i was thinkin of becomin a member to this gym, wanna join?'; so she can lose the weight, nd u can see it from there cuz ull get to know hwe real personality by then :)
No, you shouldn't... what would your friends and family think when they find out that You liked this girl....
She treated you like crap....
she gains a few pounds...
now shes desperate and will go out with any guy that crosses her way???
Yeah, real good story to tell at te next Thanksgiving party
take her out. bang her. then blow it in her face and tell her shes a ***** that got fat and she got what she deserved. then never talk to her again :D
she is just trying to make herself feel better, if she liked you earlier you would've been able to see it in her eyes, regardless if she ignored you.
being shallow isn't going to work all the time. just because she's hot doesn't mean she's got no brain or heart. ask her why she's acting interested now.
You were not good enough at first but now that she gained a little and maybe isnt smoking hot, now shes interested!!
You are better than that. That really should show you how shallow she is
you can be her frined but not her lover she is just using you
no way,
she's just using you
when she's ';smokin' hot'; again,
she'll go back to what she dated before,
seriously
NOO.
she's just using you basically.
plus, if you helped her lose a bit of weight, she'd definitely go back to her old ways.
tell her to f u c k o f f !
IGNORE her!! Omg, she really is a b!tch...
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Don't do it. Instead return the favor and act like you're too good for her and her muffin top.
Amber is exactly right. Baby, stick with dignity.
if she didn't like you then( when she was hot), doesn't it seem weird that she likes you now when shes not? sounds fishy to me. anyway, what if she likes being chunky and doesn't wanna work out? hmmm
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There is this girl and as everyone knows valentines day is coming up..i really like her and i have no problem with talking to girls but im single and so is she. The only problem is she had this friend i used to talk to but we never went together but we did have sex and me and her are just like friends though. She says she doesnt want to talk to me because i had sex with her friend but it was just a one night stand thing. I really like her and i want to take her out for valentines day but not only that i want her to be my girlfriend ya know. But its hard because i know how girls are about their friends but it was nothing serious between me and her friend and we didnt even go out and we dont really even talk as much and when we do talk we arent talkin about us. I need advice, tips, or something to let her know im serious about her and that its nothing like a game or anything. I told her how i felt and everything but its like she wont let up because of that friend stuff.I need a girl's advice.?
Ok I can totally understand why this girl is acting like this she believes you are a player!
Furthermore, that you will play around with her and then leave furthermore her friend may not be chatting to you nevertheless I think her friend has said to her that you are not the type of person that wants something serious the girl may like you however she is just being extremely careful because of what people have said about you in the past so what I would do is start basic with her do not rush her because you have to see it like this you might have seen it as a one night stand with her friend but woman never forget these things and they we make sure that there friends well know furthermore they will make big stores up because they don鈥檛 like being used they we say that this guy is a player!!! Therefore, what I would do is stop talking to her and start proving them wrong! First of all send her flowers and put a nice card in there telling her that you are serious about her as well as that you respect her and that you would never do anything to make her feel offend in any way Also, tell her that you are sorry that things did not go good with her friend and that you did not mean to cause offense to her or her friend and that you would never play around with her furthermore make it clear that you want to prove to her that you are a good man and ask her to just think about going on a date with you also tell her that it can be a group date if she doesn鈥檛 feel happy coming on her own just show her that you are not going to make her feel withdrawn or do anything that would hurt her that way she well see that you are proving everyone wrong!!!! and that you are not playing with her feelings also just say that you know that things haven鈥檛 gone well but you want her to see what you are really like for her self furthermore ask her to give you a chances because you feel that no one has seen your side of the story and tell her that if she did go out with you and furthermore if she didn鈥檛 like it then you would never ask her again see what happens ok I hope that helps! I just think she is worried because of every one she well always take her friend side it is just the way things are! However, do not let it get to You鈥?prove them Wrong!!!!!!!!!! and make it clear that you are not trying to break her friendship in any way!!!! GOOD LUCK!!!I need a girl's advice.?
Uuuhhhhhhhh....I wouldn't want to date a guy who had sex w/ my friend. Sorry...but it's the truth, you'll just have to really prove it to her and wait.
you had sex with her friend...tut tut
Well heres an idea and it is totally crazy but it just might work - talk to the girl you slept with first - she might not only have ideas actually, but if she thinks it is ancient history like you do, it will only help in what you are trying to do. If she cant come up with anything good for you to do, then write this Valentine of yours a poem or letter or something and then have the ';friend'; girl actually deliver it saying ';he wanted me to give this to you, and he really likes you'; - this not only says that you (and her) are super over the past, but that of course you really are into her and are willing to take risks - also at the end of the note or letter or whatever when you ask her to be your Valentine, you can say exactly that ';the past is the past and I really want to show you that I am willing to take risks, are you?'; - plus you get the added bonus of keeping the other chick as your friend and also seeming like a completely different guy in her eyes while totally flattering her.
Haven sex wt her friend just mean u have to work 2 winning her heart 2wice as much as u wud 4 any other grl maybe 3 times harder....try 2 explain to her that u and her friend is over no feelings wat so ever....and shes the 1 u want to pursue and maybe spend ur life wt....and wen u tell her this look n2 her eyes and say it like u mean it....bring her flowers and candy and throw n a card and a teddy bear....and tried 2 give her,her favorites....favorite colored flowers,favorite candy...etc u no....GOOD LUCK!!!!!
sucks 2 b u....my advice no more 1 night stands buddy.
Well...it is kinda awkward for a girl to be dating a guy who she knows had sex with one of her friends. Us girls (some of us) don't like to think about our men with any other women and friends top the list..she might know herself well enough to know that she won't be able to get that little fact out of her head and it'll drive her crazy or Maybe she knows that her friend likes you more than you think and she doesn't want to hurt her.
Just be romantically persistent not stalker-ish though..lol...Maybe ask her if you having had sex with one of her friends is the ONLY reason she won't date you...see what she says to that :o)
She has made it clear that she doesn't want to date you so you need to respect her feelings and leave her alone.
Like you said... you know how girls are about their friends, so you should not get your hopes up....I dont really have any advice about that, but if things end up good and you guys do get together then be prepaired to not talk to her friend as much... because that will always be on your girls mind. And eventhough you know its nothing it something that is always going to be in the back of her head. I was in a relationship where that happend and i always thought what if it was more then just sex... ya konw?
good Luck!
oooo shes jealous...thats a rough spot my friend
I GUESS YOU GOT TO GET OVER IT....IT MIGHT BE WORTH IT.
It seems like the only thing you haven't tried is talking to the other girl -- your crush's friend. If you make it clear to HER that it wasn't anything too serious, then maybe she will talk to the girl you like and straighten things out. Usually that's how girls break that friends barrier. If it's okay with the girl you had sex with, then she can probably convince her friend that it was okay.
On the other hand, if you keep going after the girl you like for awhile and just keep telling her how serious you are, she'll probably start to believe you because you won't give up so easily. That is, if you like her that much.
Oh, and your crush MIGHT think that she will turn into another one-night stand, so she might be afraid of that also. So definitely make it clear to her that sex isn't what you're after. Err...hopefully it isn't.
So yeah, as for the friends thing, just talk to the other girl!
Good luck! Hope everything works out the way you want it to. =]
its always hard because girls tell everything to eachother you know and as a friend she is like having the seconds you know what i mean its like ur friend had the girl and now u have her its been around. now maybe she thinks that you might screw her over so you should take the time dont let valentines be the reason why u aske her out the date is just a date valentine is celbretated everyday with couples that reakky care and the 14 is just a day were america makes money. but any who stick around be persistent show her your side , your through feelings and then maybe just she will give in and if not then maybe she is not the one and you need to look else where but dont worry i have my fingers cross for you!!!! good luck
Since she already has trust issues in this situation, having a relationship with her might be even harder. I think your best bet is to recognize verbally to her that she is uneasy with you in a romantic way and ask if you could do something as friends.
I have found that the only way to earn trust is through slow and gentle actions... and even then, some people just will not trust you, so you have to cut your losses and concentrate on someone who will appreciate your affections.
Dude she thinks you are trying to do the same thing to her is her problem not yours but if you want to hit that let me tell you one thing seduce her in phone real nice no perv ok women fall in love trew ther ear in otherwords sweet talk to her no fake stuff thoe real man suduction patients persistance positive mental attitude and passion in doing all of this
well u may have been clear about it just being a pure sexual thing how ever the other chick who u were just sleeping with may have had a more deep thinking about ur little ';flings'; with her. Most chicks make up the whole ';friends with benefitz'; thing wen really they want to be more than ';just friends with benefits'; but do it purely on the fact it would make you happy and maybe closen ur and hers relationship. This other girl that u really want coudlve seen u as a dog for doing that to her somewhat of a close mate but for being even more of a dog for sleeping with her and without any feelings i men trust me girls well some find sex to be something special and to be take seriously and something more than just fun. or she just doesnt like the fact that u routed her mate. Like she would probably get the sudden feeling of LEFT OVERS lol i know i would. just try and be a sweet guy and plan suprises on valentines day or something more affective like planning little suprises leading up to valentines day where you would be doing something like over the top sweet. Show her that you wont give up and are willing to do anything for her to make your relationship work. well god luck and i hope i helped
write her a letter (if she wont hear you out in person) explaining that the thing w/her friend just sorta happened even though it probably shouldnt have ... and even though you think her friend is a very nice person, the two of you just aren't interested in each other in that way. however you do really care about her (not her friend) and are very interested a relationship w/her ... and if she can forgive the incident w/her friend, you think you could make her very happy.
send her flowers.
wirte a note (or even betta a poem)
to tell her that the friend is in the past and didnt matter in teh first place.
tell her how you feel..
%26amp; ask her out on a date.
but make sure you DO NOT talk to the friend..
even if you think she wont find out; she will.
=]
good luck.
if i was that girl i probably wouldn't go out with u either, unless my friend who u slept with told me that u weren't that bad so try to get that girl who u slept with to tell her that it was just a one time thing and that u really like her
chances are that she'll listen to her friend if she puts in a good word for you because now u guys are juss friends right?
and if she does end up going out with u take her to a movie or a good restaurant and don't bring up her friend at all.
GOOD LUCK!!! : )
Ok I can totally understand why this girl is acting like this she believes you are a player!
Furthermore, that you will play around with her and then leave furthermore her friend may not be chatting to you nevertheless I think her friend has said to her that you are not the type of person that wants something serious the girl may like you however she is just being extremely careful because of what people have said about you in the past so what I would do is start basic with her do not rush her because you have to see it like this you might have seen it as a one night stand with her friend but woman never forget these things and they we make sure that there friends well know furthermore they will make big stores up because they don鈥檛 like being used they we say that this guy is a player!!! Therefore, what I would do is stop talking to her and start proving them wrong! First of all send her flowers and put a nice card in there telling her that you are serious about her as well as that you respect her and that you would never do anything to make her feel offend in any way Also, tell her that you are sorry that things did not go good with her friend and that you did not mean to cause offense to her or her friend and that you would never play around with her furthermore make it clear that you want to prove to her that you are a good man and ask her to just think about going on a date with you also tell her that it can be a group date if she doesn鈥檛 feel happy coming on her own just show her that you are not going to make her feel withdrawn or do anything that would hurt her that way she well see that you are proving everyone wrong!!!! and that you are not playing with her feelings also just say that you know that things haven鈥檛 gone well but you want her to see what you are really like for her self furthermore ask her to give you a chances because you feel that no one has seen your side of the story and tell her that if she did go out with you and furthermore if she didn鈥檛 like it then you would never ask her again see what happens ok I hope that helps! I just think she is worried because of every one she well always take her friend side it is just the way things are! However, do not let it get to You鈥?prove them Wrong!!!!!!!!!! and make it clear that you are not trying to break her friendship in any way!!!! GOOD LUCK!!!I need a girl's advice.?
Uuuhhhhhhhh....I wouldn't want to date a guy who had sex w/ my friend. Sorry...but it's the truth, you'll just have to really prove it to her and wait.
you had sex with her friend...tut tut
Well heres an idea and it is totally crazy but it just might work - talk to the girl you slept with first - she might not only have ideas actually, but if she thinks it is ancient history like you do, it will only help in what you are trying to do. If she cant come up with anything good for you to do, then write this Valentine of yours a poem or letter or something and then have the ';friend'; girl actually deliver it saying ';he wanted me to give this to you, and he really likes you'; - this not only says that you (and her) are super over the past, but that of course you really are into her and are willing to take risks - also at the end of the note or letter or whatever when you ask her to be your Valentine, you can say exactly that ';the past is the past and I really want to show you that I am willing to take risks, are you?'; - plus you get the added bonus of keeping the other chick as your friend and also seeming like a completely different guy in her eyes while totally flattering her.
Haven sex wt her friend just mean u have to work 2 winning her heart 2wice as much as u wud 4 any other grl maybe 3 times harder....try 2 explain to her that u and her friend is over no feelings wat so ever....and shes the 1 u want to pursue and maybe spend ur life wt....and wen u tell her this look n2 her eyes and say it like u mean it....bring her flowers and candy and throw n a card and a teddy bear....and tried 2 give her,her favorites....favorite colored flowers,favorite candy...etc u no....GOOD LUCK!!!!!
sucks 2 b u....my advice no more 1 night stands buddy.
Well...it is kinda awkward for a girl to be dating a guy who she knows had sex with one of her friends. Us girls (some of us) don't like to think about our men with any other women and friends top the list..she might know herself well enough to know that she won't be able to get that little fact out of her head and it'll drive her crazy or Maybe she knows that her friend likes you more than you think and she doesn't want to hurt her.
Just be romantically persistent not stalker-ish though..lol...Maybe ask her if you having had sex with one of her friends is the ONLY reason she won't date you...see what she says to that :o)
She has made it clear that she doesn't want to date you so you need to respect her feelings and leave her alone.
Like you said... you know how girls are about their friends, so you should not get your hopes up....I dont really have any advice about that, but if things end up good and you guys do get together then be prepaired to not talk to her friend as much... because that will always be on your girls mind. And eventhough you know its nothing it something that is always going to be in the back of her head. I was in a relationship where that happend and i always thought what if it was more then just sex... ya konw?
good Luck!
oooo shes jealous...thats a rough spot my friend
I GUESS YOU GOT TO GET OVER IT....IT MIGHT BE WORTH IT.
It seems like the only thing you haven't tried is talking to the other girl -- your crush's friend. If you make it clear to HER that it wasn't anything too serious, then maybe she will talk to the girl you like and straighten things out. Usually that's how girls break that friends barrier. If it's okay with the girl you had sex with, then she can probably convince her friend that it was okay.
On the other hand, if you keep going after the girl you like for awhile and just keep telling her how serious you are, she'll probably start to believe you because you won't give up so easily. That is, if you like her that much.
Oh, and your crush MIGHT think that she will turn into another one-night stand, so she might be afraid of that also. So definitely make it clear to her that sex isn't what you're after. Err...hopefully it isn't.
So yeah, as for the friends thing, just talk to the other girl!
Good luck! Hope everything works out the way you want it to. =]
its always hard because girls tell everything to eachother you know and as a friend she is like having the seconds you know what i mean its like ur friend had the girl and now u have her its been around. now maybe she thinks that you might screw her over so you should take the time dont let valentines be the reason why u aske her out the date is just a date valentine is celbretated everyday with couples that reakky care and the 14 is just a day were america makes money. but any who stick around be persistent show her your side , your through feelings and then maybe just she will give in and if not then maybe she is not the one and you need to look else where but dont worry i have my fingers cross for you!!!! good luck
Since she already has trust issues in this situation, having a relationship with her might be even harder. I think your best bet is to recognize verbally to her that she is uneasy with you in a romantic way and ask if you could do something as friends.
I have found that the only way to earn trust is through slow and gentle actions... and even then, some people just will not trust you, so you have to cut your losses and concentrate on someone who will appreciate your affections.
Dude she thinks you are trying to do the same thing to her is her problem not yours but if you want to hit that let me tell you one thing seduce her in phone real nice no perv ok women fall in love trew ther ear in otherwords sweet talk to her no fake stuff thoe real man suduction patients persistance positive mental attitude and passion in doing all of this
well u may have been clear about it just being a pure sexual thing how ever the other chick who u were just sleeping with may have had a more deep thinking about ur little ';flings'; with her. Most chicks make up the whole ';friends with benefitz'; thing wen really they want to be more than ';just friends with benefits'; but do it purely on the fact it would make you happy and maybe closen ur and hers relationship. This other girl that u really want coudlve seen u as a dog for doing that to her somewhat of a close mate but for being even more of a dog for sleeping with her and without any feelings i men trust me girls well some find sex to be something special and to be take seriously and something more than just fun. or she just doesnt like the fact that u routed her mate. Like she would probably get the sudden feeling of LEFT OVERS lol i know i would. just try and be a sweet guy and plan suprises on valentines day or something more affective like planning little suprises leading up to valentines day where you would be doing something like over the top sweet. Show her that you wont give up and are willing to do anything for her to make your relationship work. well god luck and i hope i helped
write her a letter (if she wont hear you out in person) explaining that the thing w/her friend just sorta happened even though it probably shouldnt have ... and even though you think her friend is a very nice person, the two of you just aren't interested in each other in that way. however you do really care about her (not her friend) and are very interested a relationship w/her ... and if she can forgive the incident w/her friend, you think you could make her very happy.
send her flowers.
wirte a note (or even betta a poem)
to tell her that the friend is in the past and didnt matter in teh first place.
tell her how you feel..
%26amp; ask her out on a date.
but make sure you DO NOT talk to the friend..
even if you think she wont find out; she will.
=]
good luck.
if i was that girl i probably wouldn't go out with u either, unless my friend who u slept with told me that u weren't that bad so try to get that girl who u slept with to tell her that it was just a one time thing and that u really like her
chances are that she'll listen to her friend if she puts in a good word for you because now u guys are juss friends right?
and if she does end up going out with u take her to a movie or a good restaurant and don't bring up her friend at all.
GOOD LUCK!!! : )
Crush girl help advice?
Ok so their is this girl I like and last year I asked her to a dance and she said,';I want to get to know you better.';. So I asked her at the nxt dance to dance with me and she said no. So I barely talked to her for the rest of the year. Now this year I talk to her alot. So one day she asked me to carry her instrument, so I went out on a limb and asked her if she wanted to get to know me better over jamba juice. She said she said she was sorry and couldn't because... I didn't hear the last part because she mumbled it. Now I still talk to her and she stopped me once as I was walking by to talk. Now her mom keeps picking her up early. I think this is because she doesn't like me talking to her. I think we parents don't want her to have a boyfriend because she doesn't hate to talk to me. SHe has found excuses to talk to me though. Her friends don't like me that much, so I think that could also be a problem. Her friends dont like me because I'm kind of too quiet around them because I'm nervous. I was thinking about getting her a pin with mickey dressed as Jack Skellington and put it on her backpack with a note saying,';I hope no one ruins your holidays.';. She likes Disney, horses, and is in band. Please give me advice and try and figure out what she is thinking. Preferably girls answers are wanted. I am 14 now and she is 13. We are both in eigth grade now.Crush girl help advice?
im sorry but i dont think she likes you. I think she wants to be your friend though...but the pin is a good idea..it might help ya'll become better firends and that could help your problem.
im sorry but i dont think she likes you. I think she wants to be your friend though...but the pin is a good idea..it might help ya'll become better firends and that could help your problem.
I need a girl's advice?
My girlfriend and I have been dating for nearly two years now. We have shared absolutely everything together. I have never connected with someone is such a way as I do with her, and she has always said the same. These past two years have been the absolute most incredible experience of my life - but lately she says she's just not feeling ';that electricity'; between us anymore. She says she still loves me dearly, and we both want to work this out. But I never saw this coming - I am totally unprepared as to how to address this problem. It's mostly the kissing and such. She used to just melt every time I would so much as touch her. Now I believe she is just so accustomed to me that it's nothing out of the ordinary to be touched. Don't get me wrong, I can understand this completely. But I'm worried. I want to handle this before I lose her. Is this completely out of the ordinary? Or is it normal for a couple to go through stages where the ';spark is fading.'; I am willing to do absolutely everything in my power to turn this around, I just need to know where to start. Thank you for your time.I need a girl's advice?
First of all, I have to applaud you for being willing to do anything to get her back. Most men would not. As for getting the spark back, I would suggest trying something new. Have you two role played? Have you planned any romantic evenings lately? How about a new toy? Try to do something out of the ordinary for you. Role playing is fun because it allows you to be someone different and it can be very exciting. New toys are also a fun way of spicing things up in the bedroom. Romantic evenings are always nice if they are a surprise. Maybe have flowers and dinner ready for her when she comes home... Hope this helps.I need a girl's advice?
Yes, its very normal for relationships to calm down and many will heat up again. Find something new to do together. The excitement of a new interest or hobby (etc) will hopefully spill over into the relationship
too long ';/
time is of the essence.
First of all, I have to applaud you for being willing to do anything to get her back. Most men would not. As for getting the spark back, I would suggest trying something new. Have you two role played? Have you planned any romantic evenings lately? How about a new toy? Try to do something out of the ordinary for you. Role playing is fun because it allows you to be someone different and it can be very exciting. New toys are also a fun way of spicing things up in the bedroom. Romantic evenings are always nice if they are a surprise. Maybe have flowers and dinner ready for her when she comes home... Hope this helps.I need a girl's advice?
Yes, its very normal for relationships to calm down and many will heat up again. Find something new to do together. The excitement of a new interest or hobby (etc) will hopefully spill over into the relationship
too long ';/
time is of the essence.
Crush girl help advice?
Ok so their is this girl I like and last year I asked her to a dance and she said,';I want to get to know you better.';. So I asked her at the nxt dance to dance with me and she said no. So I barely talked to her for the rest of the year. Now this year I talk to her alot. So one day she asked me to carry her instrument, so I went out on a limb and asked her if she wanted to get to know me better over jamba juice. She said she said she was sorry and couldn't because... I didn't hear the last part because she mumbled it. Now I still talk to her and she stopped me once as I was walking by to talk. Now her mom keeps picking her up early. I think this is because she doesn't like me talking to her. I think we parents don't want her to have a boyfriend because she doesn't hate to talk to me. SHe has found excuses to talk to me though. Her friends don't like me that much, so I think that could also be a problem. Her friends dont like me because I'm kind of too quiet around them because I'm nervous. I was thinking about getting her a pin with mickey dressed as Jack Skellington and put it on her backpack with a note saying,';I hope no one ruins your holidays.';. She likes Disney, horses, and is in band. Please give me advice and try and figure out what she is thinking. Preferably girls answers are wanted. I am 14 now and she is 13. We are both in eigth grade now.Crush girl help advice?
im sorry but i dont think she likes you. I think she wants to be your friend though...but the pin is a good idea..it might help ya'll become better firends and that could help your problem.
im sorry but i dont think she likes you. I think she wants to be your friend though...but the pin is a good idea..it might help ya'll become better firends and that could help your problem.
I like this girl and advice would be good lol?
ok well i really like this girl, shes soo goodlooking best body tall perfect pretty much. she tells me she likes me too. and i would really like to be with her just that she talks to a lot of people over the internet. she has this dating site thing she goes on and i go on it a few times just to see what people are saying to her, everytime i go on there it always says that she was on the site that day and that shes talking to like 20 ppl. im sooo jealous and even though we arent together as of yet i dont think i would ever be able to trust her and just be happy with her when she goes on that site all the time. i cant have someone i like talking to more people as if to meet someone better. should i just give up, accept that we're friends and not hurt myself? but it would take me sooo long to get over her, im hooked :( how would i get over her and just move on ? advice would be good. cheers :)I like this girl and advice would be good lol?
Let her know how you feel and see what she has to say. She may be talking with people on the internet because she is lonely. xoxI like this girl and advice would be good lol?
well thats hard to get over a girl you like and she likes you and shes talk to other boys. wat you should do is just ask her do you think we can be more then friends. if she replies right there go out with her or if she pause for a bit don't try cuz she is finding a way to just tell you no or lie to you. i hope you can overcome this message me at gravelle91@hotmail.com to tell me wat happens anytime ill help.
Well, just go for her if you really like her, she may be flirting with other guys, but probably just trying to find someone, so ask her out and take the risk of getting your heart broken! Good luck with whatever you choose!
choices:
trust her
move on with your life
Let her know how you feel and see what she has to say. She may be talking with people on the internet because she is lonely. xoxI like this girl and advice would be good lol?
well thats hard to get over a girl you like and she likes you and shes talk to other boys. wat you should do is just ask her do you think we can be more then friends. if she replies right there go out with her or if she pause for a bit don't try cuz she is finding a way to just tell you no or lie to you. i hope you can overcome this message me at gravelle91@hotmail.com to tell me wat happens anytime ill help.
Well, just go for her if you really like her, she may be flirting with other guys, but probably just trying to find someone, so ask her out and take the risk of getting your heart broken! Good luck with whatever you choose!
choices:
trust her
move on with your life
I need a girl's advice?
Ok
I've been dating this nice girl for about a month and im pretty sure she's ready to go all the way. There's one thing that's keeping me. Here the story. When i was young (2 years old) i fell badly on my groin. This caused my testicles to move out of their place and be dislocated. I went to see a doctor but he said nothing was wrong. (by the way, i was too young to remember any of this, my parents told me this). So after a day my parents took me to a specialist and he noticed my nuts where almost to my stomach. One of them was dead but he rescued one. now i only have 1 ball. However, it didn't keep me back from maturing. I matured way earlier than any of the other kids. If you were my girlfriend, what would you do if i told you this.I need a girl's advice?
If she loves you, none of this will matter at all. If she doesn't like it, go find someone else, there are a ';lot of fish'; in the sea..I need a girl's advice?
That doesn't matter, dude. I mean, half of us probably don't wanna do that. But some of us are fast-goers but if she understands how you feel, she'd say it's okay. If she doesn't, then tough nubs for her. Your fine the way you are. Because if I were your girlfriend, I seriously wouldn't care. If your a good kisser, that doesn't matter one bit.
I would be completely fine with it. If she's really ready to go that far with you then she will be a little disappointed, but by now you should have both built up a love that wouldn't shatter because of something like this. :)
if she is the one for you, it wont matter, if she honestly and truly loves you, she wont care if you had 5 testicles, just be honest, if she is a good person she wont give it a second thought
well honestly i'd freak out a bit... but you should wait more than one month before you do it, so that 1.) you build a stronger relationship with your GF and 2.) so she will be ready when you tell her....
sorry about your situation dude...
Just be upfront and honest with her about it and see how she reacts. If she loves you, she'll accept it. If she doesn't, then you know she's not the one for you.
Well I would totally understand, especially if you told me to my face or whatever. I'd respect you for that. I don't see why it would be a problem :)
uhmmm thatss a hard one,
i guess if she really liked you she wouldnt care,
other then that she prolley wouldnt stay long
if she loves you she will understand if she doesnt understand dump her she is being heartless. we dont want the nuts we only want the joy stick as long as ur twerckin it ur good
doesn't bother me, as long as you have a good personality. hitler had one ball and had a shitload of gals.
Go for just be confident.
As long as you function normally why would it matter?
I would want you to tell me before, don't let it be a surprise. Your gf shouldn't care, but if she does then she doesn't really love you.
i would take special care of the one u still got.
i wouldnt mind at all. id stay with the guy :)
You can let her know and I am almost certain she will not care. Although I can understand it may do things to a mans pride, believe me when I say not too many women find them to be all that great to look at! I really think if she cares greatly for you this will not change a thing at all. Explain what happened and if she has questions, don't get defensive right away. Let her ask them and answer them. I think once you have the conversation, you will both feel better. (Chances are, she already knows something is up because if you are worrying this much, I am betting she has already caught onto it).refill
I've been dating this nice girl for about a month and im pretty sure she's ready to go all the way. There's one thing that's keeping me. Here the story. When i was young (2 years old) i fell badly on my groin. This caused my testicles to move out of their place and be dislocated. I went to see a doctor but he said nothing was wrong. (by the way, i was too young to remember any of this, my parents told me this). So after a day my parents took me to a specialist and he noticed my nuts where almost to my stomach. One of them was dead but he rescued one. now i only have 1 ball. However, it didn't keep me back from maturing. I matured way earlier than any of the other kids. If you were my girlfriend, what would you do if i told you this.I need a girl's advice?
If she loves you, none of this will matter at all. If she doesn't like it, go find someone else, there are a ';lot of fish'; in the sea..I need a girl's advice?
That doesn't matter, dude. I mean, half of us probably don't wanna do that. But some of us are fast-goers but if she understands how you feel, she'd say it's okay. If she doesn't, then tough nubs for her. Your fine the way you are. Because if I were your girlfriend, I seriously wouldn't care. If your a good kisser, that doesn't matter one bit.
I would be completely fine with it. If she's really ready to go that far with you then she will be a little disappointed, but by now you should have both built up a love that wouldn't shatter because of something like this. :)
if she is the one for you, it wont matter, if she honestly and truly loves you, she wont care if you had 5 testicles, just be honest, if she is a good person she wont give it a second thought
well honestly i'd freak out a bit... but you should wait more than one month before you do it, so that 1.) you build a stronger relationship with your GF and 2.) so she will be ready when you tell her....
sorry about your situation dude...
Just be upfront and honest with her about it and see how she reacts. If she loves you, she'll accept it. If she doesn't, then you know she's not the one for you.
Well I would totally understand, especially if you told me to my face or whatever. I'd respect you for that. I don't see why it would be a problem :)
uhmmm thatss a hard one,
i guess if she really liked you she wouldnt care,
other then that she prolley wouldnt stay long
if she loves you she will understand if she doesnt understand dump her she is being heartless. we dont want the nuts we only want the joy stick as long as ur twerckin it ur good
doesn't bother me, as long as you have a good personality. hitler had one ball and had a shitload of gals.
Go for just be confident.
As long as you function normally why would it matter?
I would want you to tell me before, don't let it be a surprise. Your gf shouldn't care, but if she does then she doesn't really love you.
i would take special care of the one u still got.
i wouldnt mind at all. id stay with the guy :)
You can let her know and I am almost certain she will not care. Although I can understand it may do things to a mans pride, believe me when I say not too many women find them to be all that great to look at! I really think if she cares greatly for you this will not change a thing at all. Explain what happened and if she has questions, don't get defensive right away. Let her ask them and answer them. I think once you have the conversation, you will both feel better. (Chances are, she already knows something is up because if you are worrying this much, I am betting she has already caught onto it).
There's this girl... need advice!!!!!!!?
there's this girl i really like me and her have got on each other over her house party a lot!!! And that was about a month ago and ever since then i cant stop thinking about her. I dont know how to ask her out though :-(
I have developed feelings for her but i dont know if i should tell her ???
Anyway recently i found out that she went to a party and now she has a BF so now i kinda feel a bit down.
What should i do and how should i do it??
should i wait until she is single again and tell her how i feel or should i do it now?!?!?
By the way i am really shy.
Please i need advice you wont beleive how grateful i am.
Soz for this being really long i guess i got carried awayThere's this girl... need advice!!!!!!!?
hi. just calm down first. if u rly rly rly lyk her, u rly should tell her dat. she got a new bf maybe just because u didn't tell her dat u lyk her before... u kinda lost a chance but u can still hv another one if u can be brave. go to her and chat with her first, then, if u wanna ask her out, say,';hey, r u free tonight(or another time dat u'r free)?'; if she says yes, then say, ';do u wanna hv dinner with me'; or something like dat... if she says no, then say, ';nvm then. thought it'd be nice if u can spend da night with me'; ... don be jealous about her bf or she might not lyk u anymore.
if u don wanna tell her, then u shouldn't hv been asking dis question. but i rly suggest dat u should tell her lol, at least let her know dat u like her... i'm a girl(ofcourse) and some of da boys at my school told me dat they like me too. but i kinda ignored them ... they didn't give up though~~ and i don think dat u should either xp
good luck to u :DThere's this girl... need advice!!!!!!!?
confessing to her now is the worse thing u can do. She'll probabaly say no and the bf might kill u ,you should try to find another girl but if u really really like this girl and r willing to wait the best advice for u is spend this bf period building a stronger relationship with her and becoming really good friends and when her relationship ends then make your move
well becum relli good friends with her firstly make her like you as a friend make her laff thats the best way once she is relli gwd friends with you start slowly hitting on her or giving her small hints that u mite be into her but not at once then after a couple of weeks just say that u like her more than a friend and if she wonts to go out with u, u will say YES.
hope that helps.
u r acting on hearsay. Are u sure she has a BF. To get what u want u have to go for it with vigour. And it all depends what u mean BF, whats in the BF relationship, are they serious or justs FRIENDS. dont trouble your soul, u want this girl invite her for an outing and pick it up from there, Go Go Go Big Boy, i know u can Do IT
forget about her. you don't have to wait till she is single. find some other girl that you like and make a move quick because you've got nothing to lose.
Hi Johnny,
Wait and see if she becomes single again..Don't want to cause problems with her B.F. or Her at this time..Be smart and just watch from a distant My Friend..
Your Friend,
poppy1
Beat off in front of her moron!!!!
try to be her friend.n' get closer to her.............
I have developed feelings for her but i dont know if i should tell her ???
Anyway recently i found out that she went to a party and now she has a BF so now i kinda feel a bit down.
What should i do and how should i do it??
should i wait until she is single again and tell her how i feel or should i do it now?!?!?
By the way i am really shy.
Please i need advice you wont beleive how grateful i am.
Soz for this being really long i guess i got carried awayThere's this girl... need advice!!!!!!!?
hi. just calm down first. if u rly rly rly lyk her, u rly should tell her dat. she got a new bf maybe just because u didn't tell her dat u lyk her before... u kinda lost a chance but u can still hv another one if u can be brave. go to her and chat with her first, then, if u wanna ask her out, say,';hey, r u free tonight(or another time dat u'r free)?'; if she says yes, then say, ';do u wanna hv dinner with me'; or something like dat... if she says no, then say, ';nvm then. thought it'd be nice if u can spend da night with me'; ... don be jealous about her bf or she might not lyk u anymore.
if u don wanna tell her, then u shouldn't hv been asking dis question. but i rly suggest dat u should tell her lol, at least let her know dat u like her... i'm a girl(ofcourse) and some of da boys at my school told me dat they like me too. but i kinda ignored them ... they didn't give up though~~ and i don think dat u should either xp
good luck to u :DThere's this girl... need advice!!!!!!!?
confessing to her now is the worse thing u can do. She'll probabaly say no and the bf might kill u ,you should try to find another girl but if u really really like this girl and r willing to wait the best advice for u is spend this bf period building a stronger relationship with her and becoming really good friends and when her relationship ends then make your move
well becum relli good friends with her firstly make her like you as a friend make her laff thats the best way once she is relli gwd friends with you start slowly hitting on her or giving her small hints that u mite be into her but not at once then after a couple of weeks just say that u like her more than a friend and if she wonts to go out with u, u will say YES.
hope that helps.
u r acting on hearsay. Are u sure she has a BF. To get what u want u have to go for it with vigour. And it all depends what u mean BF, whats in the BF relationship, are they serious or justs FRIENDS. dont trouble your soul, u want this girl invite her for an outing and pick it up from there, Go Go Go Big Boy, i know u can Do IT
forget about her. you don't have to wait till she is single. find some other girl that you like and make a move quick because you've got nothing to lose.
Hi Johnny,
Wait and see if she becomes single again..Don't want to cause problems with her B.F. or Her at this time..Be smart and just watch from a distant My Friend..
Your Friend,
poppy1
Beat off in front of her moron!!!!
try to be her friend.n' get closer to her.............
I need some girl help/advice?
So in a nutshell, there is a girl at my college I have been friends with for awhile. I always felt we had a little chemistry, but never acted on it.
So last night I went to party where she was there as well. We ended up getting drunk, and lots of flirting and dancing. There was some creep hitting on her so she asked me to save her, so we ended up going to a bedroom and just talking. We talked for a long time.
When I went to leave the party, she wanted to wait outside with me. She was cold so I gave her my coat, and she leaned on me while we waited for my ride. I got the courage and asked her out tomorrow (which is today) and she said yeah. Earlier today I asked if she still wanted to do something tonight, and she said:
';awww well i'm still at ____ house and i think i'm staying here tonight :/'; so I said ';maybe another night then'; and she wrote back ';Sure :)';
I am HORRIBLE at deciphering girl code. Does it seem like she lost interest, or still wants to go out? I can't tell if the ';sure'; means she wants to, or just doesn't care. We seemed to really hit it off last night.
Also, if so, how long should I wait to call her? The party was last night, and I was wanting to ask her out sometime this week. I don't wanna be bugging her, but I don't want to miss out on this either.I need some girl help/advice?
Call her soon (like 1-3 days) but don't do something lame like take her to a movie. Do something fun and interesting for your first date, like go to an art or pottery class, or if she likes dancing (and you don't have 2 left feet) then take a dance class together (Girls love guys who can actually dance and you'll have some good laughs in the process). Do something that doesn't make you force awkward conversation and that isn't longer than an hour or 2. If she likes you and had fun, the short date will leave her wanting more, but if things don't go well (which probably wont happen, from the sounds of your previous night) then the nights over quick and your not stuck thinking of some dramatic way to end the date.
Good luck man, and i hope it works out.I need some girl help/advice?
I think by that one quote you shouldnt give up and dont loose hopes.You should just txt and call her and talk as friends and not mention the going out thing until you notice whats really on her mind...and if you see everythings good maybe you should remind her and ask her again.I hope it works out!!!
yea, you should call her.. tommorow.
she definetly wants to hang out. ask her to go for something simple, like coffee.
good luck,
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Honestly.. if she was drunk last night she was probably just really hung over and stayed at her friend's place. And she said ';sure :)'; which means she wants to.. so just call her or text her if you don't want to seem so annoying or whatever. She seems to like you, just go for it.
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Hey, College girl here answering your question hoping to help!!
First, i understand you guys were drunk at that party? Guys hang on girls when they're drunk and girls flirt and hang back, it's a rough code to learn and understand. but I promise you that if she was drunk and so were you the truth would come out! You need to ask this girl if she has feelings for you that stretch beyond friendship, if she's drunk she'll tell you.
BUT, you guys are in college now, she should be able to answer you truthfully even if she's sober, if she doesn't like you she should be able to say ';hey I like you, but as a friend'; and I hate to say it, but you're only making it harder on yourself by saying ';want to do something tonight'; you need to be more direct and ask her on a DATE (ps, the caps is for emphasis, deffinitely not shouting)
Ask her if she'd like to go out to dinner or on a movie date with you? That's a more direct question and so she's forced to giv eyou a straight answer.
If none of these things work then ask some mutual friends (if you guys share any friends) to dig up a little dirt here and there and maybe you can go from there.
Be confident in yourself! Maybe next time you guys are drunk and she's hanging on you, take advantage of the moment and just give her a peck on the lips..just a peck; that will be seen as gentlemanly, I think and not too forward.
Good luck!
So last night I went to party where she was there as well. We ended up getting drunk, and lots of flirting and dancing. There was some creep hitting on her so she asked me to save her, so we ended up going to a bedroom and just talking. We talked for a long time.
When I went to leave the party, she wanted to wait outside with me. She was cold so I gave her my coat, and she leaned on me while we waited for my ride. I got the courage and asked her out tomorrow (which is today) and she said yeah. Earlier today I asked if she still wanted to do something tonight, and she said:
';awww well i'm still at ____ house and i think i'm staying here tonight :/'; so I said ';maybe another night then'; and she wrote back ';Sure :)';
I am HORRIBLE at deciphering girl code. Does it seem like she lost interest, or still wants to go out? I can't tell if the ';sure'; means she wants to, or just doesn't care. We seemed to really hit it off last night.
Also, if so, how long should I wait to call her? The party was last night, and I was wanting to ask her out sometime this week. I don't wanna be bugging her, but I don't want to miss out on this either.I need some girl help/advice?
Call her soon (like 1-3 days) but don't do something lame like take her to a movie. Do something fun and interesting for your first date, like go to an art or pottery class, or if she likes dancing (and you don't have 2 left feet) then take a dance class together (Girls love guys who can actually dance and you'll have some good laughs in the process). Do something that doesn't make you force awkward conversation and that isn't longer than an hour or 2. If she likes you and had fun, the short date will leave her wanting more, but if things don't go well (which probably wont happen, from the sounds of your previous night) then the nights over quick and your not stuck thinking of some dramatic way to end the date.
Good luck man, and i hope it works out.I need some girl help/advice?
I think by that one quote you shouldnt give up and dont loose hopes.You should just txt and call her and talk as friends and not mention the going out thing until you notice whats really on her mind...and if you see everythings good maybe you should remind her and ask her again.I hope it works out!!!
yea, you should call her.. tommorow.
she definetly wants to hang out. ask her to go for something simple, like coffee.
good luck,
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Honestly.. if she was drunk last night she was probably just really hung over and stayed at her friend's place. And she said ';sure :)'; which means she wants to.. so just call her or text her if you don't want to seem so annoying or whatever. She seems to like you, just go for it.
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Hey, College girl here answering your question hoping to help!!
First, i understand you guys were drunk at that party? Guys hang on girls when they're drunk and girls flirt and hang back, it's a rough code to learn and understand. but I promise you that if she was drunk and so were you the truth would come out! You need to ask this girl if she has feelings for you that stretch beyond friendship, if she's drunk she'll tell you.
BUT, you guys are in college now, she should be able to answer you truthfully even if she's sober, if she doesn't like you she should be able to say ';hey I like you, but as a friend'; and I hate to say it, but you're only making it harder on yourself by saying ';want to do something tonight'; you need to be more direct and ask her on a DATE (ps, the caps is for emphasis, deffinitely not shouting)
Ask her if she'd like to go out to dinner or on a movie date with you? That's a more direct question and so she's forced to giv eyou a straight answer.
If none of these things work then ask some mutual friends (if you guys share any friends) to dig up a little dirt here and there and maybe you can go from there.
Be confident in yourself! Maybe next time you guys are drunk and she's hanging on you, take advantage of the moment and just give her a peck on the lips..just a peck; that will be seen as gentlemanly, I think and not too forward.
Good luck!
I need a girl to advice me i will take all kinds of advices.?
My girlfriend and I brocke up last Saturday, we were together for 3 years, she means the world to me, I love her with all I have and I showed my love to her in any way I could, but she decided to leave and even though she loves me she said it was better for us to be separate, she told me she didn't love me like she use to, she would do things behind my back and if asked her wy she didn't try to talk to me about how she feels she would start screaming and sayin she was in control of her life and I had no right to tel her what to do, she would also said things like ';do your things and ill do mines'; I've try all types of solutions trying to make her happy but now she is gone and I don't know if she is ever going to come back, I miss her and I love her should I call her and ask her to come back or should I just let her go?I need a girl to advice me i will take all kinds of advices.?
distance makes the heart grow fonder..
sometimes it takes a person to lose someone in order to see what they're missing..a little messed up but some people are wired that way.
just give her space and let her be, do your own thing! fake it til you make it :)I need a girl to advice me i will take all kinds of advices.?
Dont call her.
Dont push her.
We cant make people change.
You seem a young person, so you have future in front of you and you will meet many other girls.
So, look at that relationship as a lesson and experience and learn from it.
Pray to God to give you the best ever and to guide you.
i know it's hard but you have to try to let her go... you can't make her happy right now, probably no one can. just take it one step at a time. talk it out with someone. it will make you feel better. i've been in your shoes before. it will get better. i promise:)
With an attitude like she has, let her go.
You will both be miserable if you stay together.
She has a lot of growing up to do.
I know this is sucky advice but I would say just let her go. If it is ment to be then she will come back or it will work out. Sometimes people just grow apart or maybe she didn't love you as much as you loved her. I have been there in many cases. It sounds like she wanted to do her own thing and those things didn't fit in with a relationship. I know that it is tough but sometimes you are just better off apart. I was so in love with this guy for 6 years. We were together off and on for 6 years. We were getting married finally. However, in the off and on part of our love, he didn't treat me the best. he broke my heart more times then I can count. But I loved him so much even though he didn't love me the same amount. Well he finally realized that he wanted to be with me and that's when we all most got married. Well, as much as I loved this guy and wanted to be with him I saw that we had grown in different directions. So I left. It broke my heart so much but I had to. Some times saying good bye and moving on is the best thing for you. She might have saved you a lot more heart ache by leaving.
Just let her go. If you love someone, let them go ......or whatever that quote is.
she wants to be with other guys and she is not going to change just let he go
because she is just a *****
Sorry mate, she has moved on.
If you call her and continually insist on talking to her, you will find yourself on the receiving end of a restraining order.
Best to leave it be and move on...
im very sorry to say to let her go. she is seeing someone else..... im srry...i kno these things...i hurt my man tht way too....i added u i will be contactin u and i wanna tlk bout this ok?
Let her go. She wants to boink other guys.
Sorry to be so blunt. She is just a ******.
Hi from France 鈾?br>
It sounds that probably she loves you less than YOU love her !.. That is why she is gone .. Sorry..
Wait a little ( some days / Weeks) then try to contact her and wait and see .. The time repairs the things sometimes ...
Have a great day,
Cat.
let her go...if you really love her you will...she seems to be having some kind of pressure in her life that you can't help or she doesn't want help with. Just let her be, give her space. You never know, space might be just what she needs...and she might come back after some time ^.^ Good luck!!
distance makes the heart grow fonder..
sometimes it takes a person to lose someone in order to see what they're missing..a little messed up but some people are wired that way.
just give her space and let her be, do your own thing! fake it til you make it :)I need a girl to advice me i will take all kinds of advices.?
Dont call her.
Dont push her.
We cant make people change.
You seem a young person, so you have future in front of you and you will meet many other girls.
So, look at that relationship as a lesson and experience and learn from it.
Pray to God to give you the best ever and to guide you.
i know it's hard but you have to try to let her go... you can't make her happy right now, probably no one can. just take it one step at a time. talk it out with someone. it will make you feel better. i've been in your shoes before. it will get better. i promise:)
With an attitude like she has, let her go.
You will both be miserable if you stay together.
She has a lot of growing up to do.
I know this is sucky advice but I would say just let her go. If it is ment to be then she will come back or it will work out. Sometimes people just grow apart or maybe she didn't love you as much as you loved her. I have been there in many cases. It sounds like she wanted to do her own thing and those things didn't fit in with a relationship. I know that it is tough but sometimes you are just better off apart. I was so in love with this guy for 6 years. We were together off and on for 6 years. We were getting married finally. However, in the off and on part of our love, he didn't treat me the best. he broke my heart more times then I can count. But I loved him so much even though he didn't love me the same amount. Well he finally realized that he wanted to be with me and that's when we all most got married. Well, as much as I loved this guy and wanted to be with him I saw that we had grown in different directions. So I left. It broke my heart so much but I had to. Some times saying good bye and moving on is the best thing for you. She might have saved you a lot more heart ache by leaving.
Just let her go. If you love someone, let them go ......or whatever that quote is.
she wants to be with other guys and she is not going to change just let he go
because she is just a *****
Sorry mate, she has moved on.
If you call her and continually insist on talking to her, you will find yourself on the receiving end of a restraining order.
Best to leave it be and move on...
im very sorry to say to let her go. she is seeing someone else..... im srry...i kno these things...i hurt my man tht way too....i added u i will be contactin u and i wanna tlk bout this ok?
Let her go. She wants to boink other guys.
Sorry to be so blunt. She is just a ******.
Hi from France 鈾?br>
It sounds that probably she loves you less than YOU love her !.. That is why she is gone .. Sorry..
Wait a little ( some days / Weeks) then try to contact her and wait and see .. The time repairs the things sometimes ...
Have a great day,
Cat.
let her go...if you really love her you will...she seems to be having some kind of pressure in her life that you can't help or she doesn't want help with. Just let her be, give her space. You never know, space might be just what she needs...and she might come back after some time ^.^ Good luck!!
What do boys like in a girl? I really want a Boyfriend! I didnt even have my first kiss! Advice plz! i am 13!?
I can wait for the right time but should I be enjoying life to the full now!What do boys like in a girl? I really want a Boyfriend! I didnt even have my first kiss! Advice plz! i am 13!?
I was your age when I got my first kiss and honestly I regret it. I moved waaaay to fast. Now I JUST turned 18 in december and I am 3 months pregnant with my first child. My babys father is a jerk. I dated him for a little while cause I wanted a boyfriend. And now here I am alone and pregnant. Boyfriends are NOT what is important. Us girls want to feel loved and admired but guys want action and at your age thats all they are going to start wanting. Does a 15, 16, 17, even 18 year old boy want a girl he can marry, or a girl he can have a family with, heck no! Their out for one thing, and they will get it and move on to another girl and leave you alone cold and upset. Show boys that theres a new era in life. Girls aren't gonna believe their crap anymore. Live life for yourself. Go out and do fun outdoor adventurous things. See the world. But don't let yourself gget cought up on boys. You're too young. I promise you I'm telling you the right thing! Don't end up like me. Live life for you not boys! You have a chance to dodge all these bullets. Don't end up young with kids or STDS. Your decisions now will effect you later.What do boys like in a girl? I really want a Boyfriend! I didnt even have my first kiss! Advice plz! i am 13!?
take it from someone who knows and started having sex at a young age........... you have your whole lifetime to be someones girl friend. i think at thirteen you should be focusing on your education and obviously you need to find some type of extra curricular activities. i know right now it seems awful and that everyone else is doing it but trust me the people that are doing wish they were in your position. young men at your age only want one thing and once they get it they will surely drag your name through the mud. and i dont wanna see you go out like that so keep your legs closed and your lips locked tight!
boys your age don't even know what they want. heck guys of all ages dont. but chill i was 14 when i got my first kiss and i have a guy friend right now who is 15 and hasn't had his first kiss. wait til you find a guy that you genuinely like and take it frm there. just enjoy being 13 don't worry about stuff like that til your 15. trust me.. you dont want to regret it. good luck
im 15 and still havent had a first kiss or a girlfriend. alot of girls actually think im pretty cute and ive been asked out a couple times but i just said no because i knew that it wouldnt work out with those people. i dont really care about getting a date, im just waiting for the right one.
You are 13 and 13 year olds don't need or have boyfriends. I didn't have my first kiss til I was 17! Stop worrying and just enjoy being single. Get yourself a new hobby! Guys LOVE independent girls who have their own life.
Wait for it. I wasn't 16 till I got my first kiss. I waited for someone special. And as for what guys want, it varies from guy to guy.
you are 13 you may not know it but you have not begun to live life. stop rushing into things or trying to rush into things.
you should enjoy life while you can. youre still young!
tell boys you can cook even if you cant...
Im sure many guys will come along and screw your life up. Dont worry about them for now and just be 13
DONT FREAK OUT!!! im 14 and iv never had a bf either (even tho im about to) dont worry about it! just be patient the right guy will come along :)
I was your age when I got my first kiss and honestly I regret it. I moved waaaay to fast. Now I JUST turned 18 in december and I am 3 months pregnant with my first child. My babys father is a jerk. I dated him for a little while cause I wanted a boyfriend. And now here I am alone and pregnant. Boyfriends are NOT what is important. Us girls want to feel loved and admired but guys want action and at your age thats all they are going to start wanting. Does a 15, 16, 17, even 18 year old boy want a girl he can marry, or a girl he can have a family with, heck no! Their out for one thing, and they will get it and move on to another girl and leave you alone cold and upset. Show boys that theres a new era in life. Girls aren't gonna believe their crap anymore. Live life for yourself. Go out and do fun outdoor adventurous things. See the world. But don't let yourself gget cought up on boys. You're too young. I promise you I'm telling you the right thing! Don't end up like me. Live life for you not boys! You have a chance to dodge all these bullets. Don't end up young with kids or STDS. Your decisions now will effect you later.What do boys like in a girl? I really want a Boyfriend! I didnt even have my first kiss! Advice plz! i am 13!?
take it from someone who knows and started having sex at a young age........... you have your whole lifetime to be someones girl friend. i think at thirteen you should be focusing on your education and obviously you need to find some type of extra curricular activities. i know right now it seems awful and that everyone else is doing it but trust me the people that are doing wish they were in your position. young men at your age only want one thing and once they get it they will surely drag your name through the mud. and i dont wanna see you go out like that so keep your legs closed and your lips locked tight!
boys your age don't even know what they want. heck guys of all ages dont. but chill i was 14 when i got my first kiss and i have a guy friend right now who is 15 and hasn't had his first kiss. wait til you find a guy that you genuinely like and take it frm there. just enjoy being 13 don't worry about stuff like that til your 15. trust me.. you dont want to regret it. good luck
im 15 and still havent had a first kiss or a girlfriend. alot of girls actually think im pretty cute and ive been asked out a couple times but i just said no because i knew that it wouldnt work out with those people. i dont really care about getting a date, im just waiting for the right one.
You are 13 and 13 year olds don't need or have boyfriends. I didn't have my first kiss til I was 17! Stop worrying and just enjoy being single. Get yourself a new hobby! Guys LOVE independent girls who have their own life.
Wait for it. I wasn't 16 till I got my first kiss. I waited for someone special. And as for what guys want, it varies from guy to guy.
you are 13 you may not know it but you have not begun to live life. stop rushing into things or trying to rush into things.
you should enjoy life while you can. youre still young!
tell boys you can cook even if you cant...
Im sure many guys will come along and screw your life up. Dont worry about them for now and just be 13
DONT FREAK OUT!!! im 14 and iv never had a bf either (even tho im about to) dont worry about it! just be patient the right guy will come along :)
Moms of little girl - some advice please....?
I have an 18 month old daughter who has gorgeous, very fine brown hair. The issue is, it's getting long and for the past couple of months she will not let me put it up so that it's not in her face. I see her getting frustrated with it and repeatedly trying to brush it out of her eyes. I have tried putting a clip in it and distracting her - but she will have that clip ripped out in less than 5 minutes. I REALLY don't want to cut her hair because it's gorgeous but i'm starting to feel there's no other option. I could really use some advice from moms who have been there.Moms of little girl - some advice please....?
I had that problem with my daughter, she has very fine curly blond hair that gets so tangled so easily, i took her to the store and let her pick out some hair clips and ties and told her i'd get whatever ones she wanted but they had to go into her hair everyday, and we made it a thing too lol. She loves the disney princesses and so i tell her ok, time to give Chloe Princess hair! Pick out the princess you are today and i'll do your hair like hers. Well by no means does it ever come out like that but she doesn't know it and it gets the job done.Moms of little girl - some advice please....?
Try letting her pick out the clips or bows or whatever at the store. Also do her hair in the mirror and keep telling her how beautiful she looks. Remember to pick and choose your battles, in the end you may not win this one. It is not a huge issue to stress over. Try lots of different kinds of hair accessories, headbands, ribbons, rubber bands, clips, just try everything, and you are going to probably find something she likes.
My daughter had unruly curls but she eventually let me put a ponytail in it. Try letting her pick out cute headbands and other accessories. maybe that will make her want to wear them??
maybe just give her bangs. That way it's not in her eyes..
I had that problem with my daughter, she has very fine curly blond hair that gets so tangled so easily, i took her to the store and let her pick out some hair clips and ties and told her i'd get whatever ones she wanted but they had to go into her hair everyday, and we made it a thing too lol. She loves the disney princesses and so i tell her ok, time to give Chloe Princess hair! Pick out the princess you are today and i'll do your hair like hers. Well by no means does it ever come out like that but she doesn't know it and it gets the job done.Moms of little girl - some advice please....?
Try letting her pick out the clips or bows or whatever at the store. Also do her hair in the mirror and keep telling her how beautiful she looks. Remember to pick and choose your battles, in the end you may not win this one. It is not a huge issue to stress over. Try lots of different kinds of hair accessories, headbands, ribbons, rubber bands, clips, just try everything, and you are going to probably find something she likes.
My daughter had unruly curls but she eventually let me put a ponytail in it. Try letting her pick out cute headbands and other accessories. maybe that will make her want to wear them??
maybe just give her bangs. That way it's not in her eyes..
15 year old girl seeking advice???
alright im 15 years old %26amp; there is this 16 or 17 year old guy that i like. he goes to a different school than i do and we've hung out twice. the first time was at a US marines camping thing (he is joining the marines and my brother in law is the recruiter) we hardly talked there but the second time was when he met me and my friends at the mall. We talked there but it was basically the first time we had communicated in person (we've been talking to each other online also) so we were both a little shy. I think he acts like he likes me %26amp; flirts with me but i could be wrong i guess. i dont mean to sound conceited but i am pretty %26amp; i think i have a good personality so i dont know why he wouldnt like me. And he did come all the way to the mall by himself to meet up with a girl he barely knows...
So. to get to the point... my homecoming is coming up and i really want to ask him but i dont want him to say no. Would it be wierd of me to ask him even though we've barely hung out?15 year old girl seeking advice???
Lets start off with the fact that you said, ';not to sound concieted but I am pretty and think i have a good personality,'; THAT IS NOT CONCIETED!!! It is very, VERY good that you feel that way about yourself. Keep that up, don't let anyone tell you any different! Most girls your age don't feel that way and that causes a lot of problems later in life. Now, about your question, you should ask him. I mean, its just homecoming. Your not asking him to marry you!!!! lol! But you should probably hold off on getting in a relationship because of the age difference. But he might say yes... I don't know how you guys talk or how you get along, but if you feel he likes you, then he'll say yes(if he doesn't already have plans). If you do ask him, make sure you give him enough notice so that its not last minute. That could make him want to say no. Also, when you ask, sound casual. That way he doesn't feel pressured to say yes or feel that he HAS to go... that will most likely make him stand you up if he feels that way when answering, either that or the night just wont be that fun!!! So, if you do ask him, just ask him as friends. You'll soon know if he wants it to be more than that!!! Just give it time! Good luck! Enjoy homecoming!15 year old girl seeking advice???
before you ask him i would try to learn a bit more about him and try to get to know each other better. also ask if he has a girlfriend and if he doesnt you should ask him because probably he is way too shy to ask you. and also check out his friends to see with what kinds of people he hangs out with. if his friends like you, he will like you as well.
If you ask him and he does say no, it's no big deal. You still have all the people in your school to choose from. If it's something you want to do, go for it.
well this day in age girls ask out guys or vice versa. so basicly it is up to u what u want to do. My opinion would be to ask him out then he knows ur interested in him. But if ur one of the traditionists that the guy asks u out then wait until he asks.
u could ask him as a friend this way if he says no it won't hurt as much...it'll still hurt but u gotta try right.the worst he can do is say no.go for it.if u never try you'll never know.
Guys are just as shy, if not more so than girls. go ahead and ask him out. he is probably thinking that same thing... if he asks you, you will say no...
Guys are pretty simple creatures, they just like girls to like them...refill
So. to get to the point... my homecoming is coming up and i really want to ask him but i dont want him to say no. Would it be wierd of me to ask him even though we've barely hung out?15 year old girl seeking advice???
Lets start off with the fact that you said, ';not to sound concieted but I am pretty and think i have a good personality,'; THAT IS NOT CONCIETED!!! It is very, VERY good that you feel that way about yourself. Keep that up, don't let anyone tell you any different! Most girls your age don't feel that way and that causes a lot of problems later in life. Now, about your question, you should ask him. I mean, its just homecoming. Your not asking him to marry you!!!! lol! But you should probably hold off on getting in a relationship because of the age difference. But he might say yes... I don't know how you guys talk or how you get along, but if you feel he likes you, then he'll say yes(if he doesn't already have plans). If you do ask him, make sure you give him enough notice so that its not last minute. That could make him want to say no. Also, when you ask, sound casual. That way he doesn't feel pressured to say yes or feel that he HAS to go... that will most likely make him stand you up if he feels that way when answering, either that or the night just wont be that fun!!! So, if you do ask him, just ask him as friends. You'll soon know if he wants it to be more than that!!! Just give it time! Good luck! Enjoy homecoming!15 year old girl seeking advice???
before you ask him i would try to learn a bit more about him and try to get to know each other better. also ask if he has a girlfriend and if he doesnt you should ask him because probably he is way too shy to ask you. and also check out his friends to see with what kinds of people he hangs out with. if his friends like you, he will like you as well.
If you ask him and he does say no, it's no big deal. You still have all the people in your school to choose from. If it's something you want to do, go for it.
well this day in age girls ask out guys or vice versa. so basicly it is up to u what u want to do. My opinion would be to ask him out then he knows ur interested in him. But if ur one of the traditionists that the guy asks u out then wait until he asks.
u could ask him as a friend this way if he says no it won't hurt as much...it'll still hurt but u gotta try right.the worst he can do is say no.go for it.if u never try you'll never know.
Guys are just as shy, if not more so than girls. go ahead and ask him out. he is probably thinking that same thing... if he asks you, you will say no...
Guys are pretty simple creatures, they just like girls to like them...
What do boys like in a girl? I really want a Boyfriend! I didnt even have my first kiss! Advice plz! i am 13!?
I can wait for the right time but should I be enjoying life to the full now!What do boys like in a girl? I really want a Boyfriend! I didnt even have my first kiss! Advice plz! i am 13!?
I was your age when I got my first kiss and honestly I regret it. I moved waaaay to fast. Now I JUST turned 18 in december and I am 3 months pregnant with my first child. My babys father is a jerk. I dated him for a little while cause I wanted a boyfriend. And now here I am alone and pregnant. Boyfriends are NOT what is important. Us girls want to feel loved and admired but guys want action and at your age thats all they are going to start wanting. Does a 15, 16, 17, even 18 year old boy want a girl he can marry, or a girl he can have a family with, heck no! Their out for one thing, and they will get it and move on to another girl and leave you alone cold and upset. Show boys that theres a new era in life. Girls aren't gonna believe their crap anymore. Live life for yourself. Go out and do fun outdoor adventurous things. See the world. But don't let yourself gget cought up on boys. You're too young. I promise you I'm telling you the right thing! Don't end up like me. Live life for you not boys! You have a chance to dodge all these bullets. Don't end up young with kids or STDS. Your decisions now will effect you later.What do boys like in a girl? I really want a Boyfriend! I didnt even have my first kiss! Advice plz! i am 13!?
take it from someone who knows and started having sex at a young age........... you have your whole lifetime to be someones girl friend. i think at thirteen you should be focusing on your education and obviously you need to find some type of extra curricular activities. i know right now it seems awful and that everyone else is doing it but trust me the people that are doing wish they were in your position. young men at your age only want one thing and once they get it they will surely drag your name through the mud. and i dont wanna see you go out like that so keep your legs closed and your lips locked tight!
boys your age don't even know what they want. heck guys of all ages dont. but chill i was 14 when i got my first kiss and i have a guy friend right now who is 15 and hasn't had his first kiss. wait til you find a guy that you genuinely like and take it frm there. just enjoy being 13 don't worry about stuff like that til your 15. trust me.. you dont want to regret it. good luck
im 15 and still havent had a first kiss or a girlfriend. alot of girls actually think im pretty cute and ive been asked out a couple times but i just said no because i knew that it wouldnt work out with those people. i dont really care about getting a date, im just waiting for the right one.
You are 13 and 13 year olds don't need or have boyfriends. I didn't have my first kiss til I was 17! Stop worrying and just enjoy being single. Get yourself a new hobby! Guys LOVE independent girls who have their own life.
Wait for it. I wasn't 16 till I got my first kiss. I waited for someone special. And as for what guys want, it varies from guy to guy.
you are 13 you may not know it but you have not begun to live life. stop rushing into things or trying to rush into things.
you should enjoy life while you can. youre still young!
tell boys you can cook even if you cant...
Im sure many guys will come along and screw your life up. Dont worry about them for now and just be 13
DONT FREAK OUT!!! im 14 and iv never had a bf either (even tho im about to) dont worry about it! just be patient the right guy will come along :)
I was your age when I got my first kiss and honestly I regret it. I moved waaaay to fast. Now I JUST turned 18 in december and I am 3 months pregnant with my first child. My babys father is a jerk. I dated him for a little while cause I wanted a boyfriend. And now here I am alone and pregnant. Boyfriends are NOT what is important. Us girls want to feel loved and admired but guys want action and at your age thats all they are going to start wanting. Does a 15, 16, 17, even 18 year old boy want a girl he can marry, or a girl he can have a family with, heck no! Their out for one thing, and they will get it and move on to another girl and leave you alone cold and upset. Show boys that theres a new era in life. Girls aren't gonna believe their crap anymore. Live life for yourself. Go out and do fun outdoor adventurous things. See the world. But don't let yourself gget cought up on boys. You're too young. I promise you I'm telling you the right thing! Don't end up like me. Live life for you not boys! You have a chance to dodge all these bullets. Don't end up young with kids or STDS. Your decisions now will effect you later.What do boys like in a girl? I really want a Boyfriend! I didnt even have my first kiss! Advice plz! i am 13!?
take it from someone who knows and started having sex at a young age........... you have your whole lifetime to be someones girl friend. i think at thirteen you should be focusing on your education and obviously you need to find some type of extra curricular activities. i know right now it seems awful and that everyone else is doing it but trust me the people that are doing wish they were in your position. young men at your age only want one thing and once they get it they will surely drag your name through the mud. and i dont wanna see you go out like that so keep your legs closed and your lips locked tight!
boys your age don't even know what they want. heck guys of all ages dont. but chill i was 14 when i got my first kiss and i have a guy friend right now who is 15 and hasn't had his first kiss. wait til you find a guy that you genuinely like and take it frm there. just enjoy being 13 don't worry about stuff like that til your 15. trust me.. you dont want to regret it. good luck
im 15 and still havent had a first kiss or a girlfriend. alot of girls actually think im pretty cute and ive been asked out a couple times but i just said no because i knew that it wouldnt work out with those people. i dont really care about getting a date, im just waiting for the right one.
You are 13 and 13 year olds don't need or have boyfriends. I didn't have my first kiss til I was 17! Stop worrying and just enjoy being single. Get yourself a new hobby! Guys LOVE independent girls who have their own life.
Wait for it. I wasn't 16 till I got my first kiss. I waited for someone special. And as for what guys want, it varies from guy to guy.
you are 13 you may not know it but you have not begun to live life. stop rushing into things or trying to rush into things.
you should enjoy life while you can. youre still young!
tell boys you can cook even if you cant...
Im sure many guys will come along and screw your life up. Dont worry about them for now and just be 13
DONT FREAK OUT!!! im 14 and iv never had a bf either (even tho im about to) dont worry about it! just be patient the right guy will come along :)
Moms of little girl - some advice please....?
I have an 18 month old daughter who has gorgeous, very fine brown hair. The issue is, it's getting long and for the past couple of months she will not let me put it up so that it's not in her face. I see her getting frustrated with it and repeatedly trying to brush it out of her eyes. I have tried putting a clip in it and distracting her - but she will have that clip ripped out in less than 5 minutes. I REALLY don't want to cut her hair because it's gorgeous but i'm starting to feel there's no other option. I could really use some advice from moms who have been there.Moms of little girl - some advice please....?
I had that problem with my daughter, she has very fine curly blond hair that gets so tangled so easily, i took her to the store and let her pick out some hair clips and ties and told her i'd get whatever ones she wanted but they had to go into her hair everyday, and we made it a thing too lol. She loves the disney princesses and so i tell her ok, time to give Chloe Princess hair! Pick out the princess you are today and i'll do your hair like hers. Well by no means does it ever come out like that but she doesn't know it and it gets the job done.Moms of little girl - some advice please....?
Try letting her pick out the clips or bows or whatever at the store. Also do her hair in the mirror and keep telling her how beautiful she looks. Remember to pick and choose your battles, in the end you may not win this one. It is not a huge issue to stress over. Try lots of different kinds of hair accessories, headbands, ribbons, rubber bands, clips, just try everything, and you are going to probably find something she likes.
My daughter had unruly curls but she eventually let me put a ponytail in it. Try letting her pick out cute headbands and other accessories. maybe that will make her want to wear them??
maybe just give her bangs. That way it's not in her eyes..
I had that problem with my daughter, she has very fine curly blond hair that gets so tangled so easily, i took her to the store and let her pick out some hair clips and ties and told her i'd get whatever ones she wanted but they had to go into her hair everyday, and we made it a thing too lol. She loves the disney princesses and so i tell her ok, time to give Chloe Princess hair! Pick out the princess you are today and i'll do your hair like hers. Well by no means does it ever come out like that but she doesn't know it and it gets the job done.Moms of little girl - some advice please....?
Try letting her pick out the clips or bows or whatever at the store. Also do her hair in the mirror and keep telling her how beautiful she looks. Remember to pick and choose your battles, in the end you may not win this one. It is not a huge issue to stress over. Try lots of different kinds of hair accessories, headbands, ribbons, rubber bands, clips, just try everything, and you are going to probably find something she likes.
My daughter had unruly curls but she eventually let me put a ponytail in it. Try letting her pick out cute headbands and other accessories. maybe that will make her want to wear them??
maybe just give her bangs. That way it's not in her eyes..
15 year old girl seeking advice???
alright im 15 years old %26amp; there is this 16 or 17 year old guy that i like. he goes to a different school than i do and we've hung out twice. the first time was at a US marines camping thing (he is joining the marines and my brother in law is the recruiter) we hardly talked there but the second time was when he met me and my friends at the mall. We talked there but it was basically the first time we had communicated in person (we've been talking to each other online also) so we were both a little shy. I think he acts like he likes me %26amp; flirts with me but i could be wrong i guess. i dont mean to sound conceited but i am pretty %26amp; i think i have a good personality so i dont know why he wouldnt like me. And he did come all the way to the mall by himself to meet up with a girl he barely knows...
So. to get to the point... my homecoming is coming up and i really want to ask him but i dont want him to say no. Would it be wierd of me to ask him even though we've barely hung out?15 year old girl seeking advice???
Lets start off with the fact that you said, ';not to sound concieted but I am pretty and think i have a good personality,'; THAT IS NOT CONCIETED!!! It is very, VERY good that you feel that way about yourself. Keep that up, don't let anyone tell you any different! Most girls your age don't feel that way and that causes a lot of problems later in life. Now, about your question, you should ask him. I mean, its just homecoming. Your not asking him to marry you!!!! lol! But you should probably hold off on getting in a relationship because of the age difference. But he might say yes... I don't know how you guys talk or how you get along, but if you feel he likes you, then he'll say yes(if he doesn't already have plans). If you do ask him, make sure you give him enough notice so that its not last minute. That could make him want to say no. Also, when you ask, sound casual. That way he doesn't feel pressured to say yes or feel that he HAS to go... that will most likely make him stand you up if he feels that way when answering, either that or the night just wont be that fun!!! So, if you do ask him, just ask him as friends. You'll soon know if he wants it to be more than that!!! Just give it time! Good luck! Enjoy homecoming!15 year old girl seeking advice???
before you ask him i would try to learn a bit more about him and try to get to know each other better. also ask if he has a girlfriend and if he doesnt you should ask him because probably he is way too shy to ask you. and also check out his friends to see with what kinds of people he hangs out with. if his friends like you, he will like you as well.
If you ask him and he does say no, it's no big deal. You still have all the people in your school to choose from. If it's something you want to do, go for it.
well this day in age girls ask out guys or vice versa. so basicly it is up to u what u want to do. My opinion would be to ask him out then he knows ur interested in him. But if ur one of the traditionists that the guy asks u out then wait until he asks.
u could ask him as a friend this way if he says no it won't hurt as much...it'll still hurt but u gotta try right.the worst he can do is say no.go for it.if u never try you'll never know.
Guys are just as shy, if not more so than girls. go ahead and ask him out. he is probably thinking that same thing... if he asks you, you will say no...
Guys are pretty simple creatures, they just like girls to like them...
So. to get to the point... my homecoming is coming up and i really want to ask him but i dont want him to say no. Would it be wierd of me to ask him even though we've barely hung out?15 year old girl seeking advice???
Lets start off with the fact that you said, ';not to sound concieted but I am pretty and think i have a good personality,'; THAT IS NOT CONCIETED!!! It is very, VERY good that you feel that way about yourself. Keep that up, don't let anyone tell you any different! Most girls your age don't feel that way and that causes a lot of problems later in life. Now, about your question, you should ask him. I mean, its just homecoming. Your not asking him to marry you!!!! lol! But you should probably hold off on getting in a relationship because of the age difference. But he might say yes... I don't know how you guys talk or how you get along, but if you feel he likes you, then he'll say yes(if he doesn't already have plans). If you do ask him, make sure you give him enough notice so that its not last minute. That could make him want to say no. Also, when you ask, sound casual. That way he doesn't feel pressured to say yes or feel that he HAS to go... that will most likely make him stand you up if he feels that way when answering, either that or the night just wont be that fun!!! So, if you do ask him, just ask him as friends. You'll soon know if he wants it to be more than that!!! Just give it time! Good luck! Enjoy homecoming!15 year old girl seeking advice???
before you ask him i would try to learn a bit more about him and try to get to know each other better. also ask if he has a girlfriend and if he doesnt you should ask him because probably he is way too shy to ask you. and also check out his friends to see with what kinds of people he hangs out with. if his friends like you, he will like you as well.
If you ask him and he does say no, it's no big deal. You still have all the people in your school to choose from. If it's something you want to do, go for it.
well this day in age girls ask out guys or vice versa. so basicly it is up to u what u want to do. My opinion would be to ask him out then he knows ur interested in him. But if ur one of the traditionists that the guy asks u out then wait until he asks.
u could ask him as a friend this way if he says no it won't hurt as much...it'll still hurt but u gotta try right.the worst he can do is say no.go for it.if u never try you'll never know.
Guys are just as shy, if not more so than girls. go ahead and ask him out. he is probably thinking that same thing... if he asks you, you will say no...
Guys are pretty simple creatures, they just like girls to like them...
I need a girl's advice on this one please?
Well it was my friend's brithday today and i gave her a card which i though would be a nice gesture, and i was the only boy in the class who gave her one. Well its obvious that i like her, thats why i'm asking this question. Anyways. i gave her it infront of her friends and she said awww which i guess meant she may have appreciated it and after i left i over heard her telling her friends she didn't think i'd remember. She told me after a while thank you for the card. My question is i gave her a card which said happy birthbday and it had balloons and streamers printed on it, but i had another card in mind that i wanted to give her, which said stuff like its your special day and you deserve to be happy etc. Did i make a big mistake not giving her that one? I didn't give her that one because i didn't want to scare her off, but i felt that i missed a really big opportunity there, do you think i still have a chance to let her know i like her? Oh yes i also wrote in the card ';May all your wishes come through on your special day'; What about the comment was that ok. I'd like to hear all your opinions and what should be my next step, because i really missed an opportunity there.I need a girl's advice on this one please?
I think she is very lucky :) you obviously like her a lot and she'll appreciate the sentiment that the card was,
but you need to tell her that you like her before you get too far into the ';just mates'; category.
good luck!I need a girl's advice on this one please?
LOL the fact is you gave the girl a card, and thats already a nice gesture.She probably doesnt even care whats in it because just the fact that you got her a card and remembered her birthday is special.
you didnt miss the opportunity at all - you extended a gesture which she obviously appreciated!
xx
I think you made the right choice and that she really appreciated it. She knows you thinking of her.
oh my, you are soooo cute, that was a lovely gesture. she is obviously happy with it. leave it a few days, ... then you could ask her would she like to do something with you as a treat for her bday, like you could bring her to the movies or coffee? if you suggested it as her bday gift and she accepts that is the first step over, you can see from there how you get on and then suggest perhaps a 2nd ';date';... let me know how it goes!
You should have given her the other card but since you didn't that fact that it is her birthday is a huge opportunity for you. If you aren't nervous...you can go and strike up conversation and ask her if she has plans for her birthday. If she says no and you are bold enough..you can ask her if you could take her out for dinner and a movie (or just dinner so that you can talk to her). If you want to express how you feel be bold, women like men who take initiative and who aren't afraid to go for what they want. And the statement you place in the card was really sweet, I think that was a nice touch. Just don't think about it.... go for it. Good luck to you!!
I think she is very lucky :) you obviously like her a lot and she'll appreciate the sentiment that the card was,
but you need to tell her that you like her before you get too far into the ';just mates'; category.
good luck!I need a girl's advice on this one please?
LOL the fact is you gave the girl a card, and thats already a nice gesture.She probably doesnt even care whats in it because just the fact that you got her a card and remembered her birthday is special.
you didnt miss the opportunity at all - you extended a gesture which she obviously appreciated!
xx
I think you made the right choice and that she really appreciated it. She knows you thinking of her.
oh my, you are soooo cute, that was a lovely gesture. she is obviously happy with it. leave it a few days, ... then you could ask her would she like to do something with you as a treat for her bday, like you could bring her to the movies or coffee? if you suggested it as her bday gift and she accepts that is the first step over, you can see from there how you get on and then suggest perhaps a 2nd ';date';... let me know how it goes!
You should have given her the other card but since you didn't that fact that it is her birthday is a huge opportunity for you. If you aren't nervous...you can go and strike up conversation and ask her if she has plans for her birthday. If she says no and you are bold enough..you can ask her if you could take her out for dinner and a movie (or just dinner so that you can talk to her). If you want to express how you feel be bold, women like men who take initiative and who aren't afraid to go for what they want. And the statement you place in the card was really sweet, I think that was a nice touch. Just don't think about it.... go for it. Good luck to you!!
I like this girl, and ADVICE? Please help.?
We are friends and all, but I have nothing to lose with this girl, and we used to text ALL THE TIME. at the begging of summer, she was visiting texas, and we texted till 3 in the morning. i miss it :( i also sat next to her in one of my classes last year, and we talked. she doesn't go to my shcool anymore, but she lives a couple houses down, and we want to hang out, but we never end up doing so. help me figure out a way to slyly ask to hang out, and so i can take off from there, i want to just sweep her off her feet one day xD
help?I like this girl, and ADVICE? Please help.?
just ask her. theres not really a sly way of doing that.I like this girl, and ADVICE? Please help.?
aww tht's sweet. umm perhaps like email her heaps and call her and stuff for a bit. does she know that u like her? Ask her if she likes you perhaps and she whether she does or not. Maybe you'll be able to figure something out then. it could be a little awkward if she didn't like you, if you get wat i mean...
get her alone and start slow. like a gentle kiss and right before tell her how you feel. right,right before the kiss tuck a loose piece of hair behind her ear. see what happens. i cant tell you what because every relationship is different,and everybody is different.so her reaction is a mystery. hopes that helps.(:
well ima girl so if i was her i would probably want yu to ask me if there are any good movies out she wants to see...and if she says yes ask her if she wants to go some weekend and if she say yeah and yu go den make her laugh show her yu wanna be close... DONT BE SCARED TO SHOW THT YU KINDA HAVE FEELINGS FOR HER yu will regret it...good luck...message me and tell me how it goes
awwww you seem so nice :) just ask her one wekend want to see a movie at my house
First of all build up your friendship again. Maybe ask her to go to the movies? Then once you guys are comfortable with each other again ask her out.
Tommy
aww thats sweet... i know how one of my friends asked me out in a sly way.. idk if this way would work for u cuz he has a car and stuff... but we started talking and he talked about this food place and i said i've never been.... so he insisted i go.. i said sure cuz i liked the guy and we just hung out after that.. it got to let me know how it wuz like to b with him.. we started goin out a lil after that... i had this other guy text me and strait up just ask if i wanted to hang out... that works to... at least it did in my case... if the girl likes u... she'll most likely say yes to anything.
help?I like this girl, and ADVICE? Please help.?
just ask her. theres not really a sly way of doing that.I like this girl, and ADVICE? Please help.?
aww tht's sweet. umm perhaps like email her heaps and call her and stuff for a bit. does she know that u like her? Ask her if she likes you perhaps and she whether she does or not. Maybe you'll be able to figure something out then. it could be a little awkward if she didn't like you, if you get wat i mean...
get her alone and start slow. like a gentle kiss and right before tell her how you feel. right,right before the kiss tuck a loose piece of hair behind her ear. see what happens. i cant tell you what because every relationship is different,and everybody is different.so her reaction is a mystery. hopes that helps.(:
well ima girl so if i was her i would probably want yu to ask me if there are any good movies out she wants to see...and if she says yes ask her if she wants to go some weekend and if she say yeah and yu go den make her laugh show her yu wanna be close... DONT BE SCARED TO SHOW THT YU KINDA HAVE FEELINGS FOR HER yu will regret it...good luck...message me and tell me how it goes
awwww you seem so nice :) just ask her one wekend want to see a movie at my house
First of all build up your friendship again. Maybe ask her to go to the movies? Then once you guys are comfortable with each other again ask her out.
Tommy
aww thats sweet... i know how one of my friends asked me out in a sly way.. idk if this way would work for u cuz he has a car and stuff... but we started talking and he talked about this food place and i said i've never been.... so he insisted i go.. i said sure cuz i liked the guy and we just hung out after that.. it got to let me know how it wuz like to b with him.. we started goin out a lil after that... i had this other guy text me and strait up just ask if i wanted to hang out... that works to... at least it did in my case... if the girl likes u... she'll most likely say yes to anything.
15 year old girl, needs advice?
There's this boy at school called sam*, it's or last year before we finish, so i'm 15.
He's really popular, and all the girls like him, but he rarely pays girls much attention.
Anyway, one day i got into an argument during class with another boy, and sam really stood up for me, and after school he was there,he was like 'don't start on girls'.
That was really out of character.
Then i went to a house party, and he was really touchy feely, i got drunk and so did everyone and i ended up losing my virginity to him, and he was also a virgin.
The sex wasn't great, the condom split and he couldn't get in properly, but then again he was a virgin.
I feel really attached to him now, and i've briefly spoke to him, even though it's kind of awkward.
I really want a relationship with him, but he keeps his feelings to himself.
I don't know what the best thing to do is now?
advice?
p.s i don't need to be told not to have sex, i don't make a habit of it, i just had much to drink.15 year old girl, needs advice?
just ask him what he feels when it's just you and him.
so he doesn't get embarrassed or whatever since he keeps his feelings to himself.
and if he doesn't like you just move on, but don't feel like he just used you for the sex or anything. hold your head high and move onnn.
if he just used you for the sex then he's not worth it to keep worrying about.15 year old girl, needs advice?
wow ur 15 and youve had sex and you drink! girl!!! that is NOT GOOD!!!! so here is my advice stop doing that! im not gonna lie, by having sex with him you ruined your relationship by making it awkward! he is not gonna want to be with you cuz im sure he is scared that will happen again!
skinny jeans and cute uggs are the beat choice
I believe the legal age for drinking is 21... Possibly for a good reason??
鈾?Taylor
That's baaad.. Ukk.
your a sluttttttttttttttttrefill
He's really popular, and all the girls like him, but he rarely pays girls much attention.
Anyway, one day i got into an argument during class with another boy, and sam really stood up for me, and after school he was there,he was like 'don't start on girls'.
That was really out of character.
Then i went to a house party, and he was really touchy feely, i got drunk and so did everyone and i ended up losing my virginity to him, and he was also a virgin.
The sex wasn't great, the condom split and he couldn't get in properly, but then again he was a virgin.
I feel really attached to him now, and i've briefly spoke to him, even though it's kind of awkward.
I really want a relationship with him, but he keeps his feelings to himself.
I don't know what the best thing to do is now?
advice?
p.s i don't need to be told not to have sex, i don't make a habit of it, i just had much to drink.15 year old girl, needs advice?
just ask him what he feels when it's just you and him.
so he doesn't get embarrassed or whatever since he keeps his feelings to himself.
and if he doesn't like you just move on, but don't feel like he just used you for the sex or anything. hold your head high and move onnn.
if he just used you for the sex then he's not worth it to keep worrying about.15 year old girl, needs advice?
wow ur 15 and youve had sex and you drink! girl!!! that is NOT GOOD!!!! so here is my advice stop doing that! im not gonna lie, by having sex with him you ruined your relationship by making it awkward! he is not gonna want to be with you cuz im sure he is scared that will happen again!
skinny jeans and cute uggs are the beat choice
I believe the legal age for drinking is 21... Possibly for a good reason??
鈾?Taylor
That's baaad.. Ukk.
your a slutttttttttttttttt
I need some girl introduction advice! Anyone?
So, heres how it goes.
Lately i have had my on a girl i have never met.
She is pretty, her name is Stacy, and i found out about a week ago that she is good freinds with this girl named Lindsey, who is a friend of mine.
So i have been talking to Lindsey about Stacy and discussing how pretty she is. Lindsey then told Stacy i have been saying all this.
Lindsey told me she is interested and that i should say hi.
How do i say hi to a girl who knos i am attracted to her but doesnt know me? Lindsey said she would help, so any suggestions?
Thanks homiesI need some girl introduction advice! Anyone?
just go for a little group date thing, lindsey, stacy, you, and bring someone else along for lindsey, get to know her a little better. test the waters, and introduce yourself to her.I need some girl introduction advice! Anyone?
Just go up to her and say hey whats up, start a conversation. You never know what it might turn into.
Lately i have had my on a girl i have never met.
She is pretty, her name is Stacy, and i found out about a week ago that she is good freinds with this girl named Lindsey, who is a friend of mine.
So i have been talking to Lindsey about Stacy and discussing how pretty she is. Lindsey then told Stacy i have been saying all this.
Lindsey told me she is interested and that i should say hi.
How do i say hi to a girl who knos i am attracted to her but doesnt know me? Lindsey said she would help, so any suggestions?
Thanks homiesI need some girl introduction advice! Anyone?
just go for a little group date thing, lindsey, stacy, you, and bring someone else along for lindsey, get to know her a little better. test the waters, and introduce yourself to her.I need some girl introduction advice! Anyone?
Just go up to her and say hey whats up, start a conversation. You never know what it might turn into.
15 year old girl needs advice on sex and pregnancy HELP?
I am 15 years old and last wednesday, whilst on holiday i had sex for the first time. It was unprotected as we were in the pool and it lasted about 1 minute but then i realised and was like no we cant because it was unprotected. I then started to panic as i wasn't sure if he cumed or not. We then later on friday had protected sex, and i bked afterwards, which i know is normal. However now i am worried that i am pregnant as i am due my period now but it hasnt happened, and me and my friend always come on around the same time and she came on on friday. I have also been having really bad discharge and i do not know why! please help me !
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i am also not sure weather or not he put the condom on correctly does that matter?
and what could i do?
BTW this is not my account it is my cousins * x
There are no clinics were i live in England and i dont want to tell my mum until im sure thanks for all your answers X
The lad is from a totally different place it was a holiday romance and we will probz never see eachother again! :(15 year old girl needs advice on sex and pregnancy HELP?
yes u could be pregnant go to the nearest gas station or convience store and buy a pregnancy test, if u are pregnant i will be glad to be here for you to talk to, i am 14 and by the time i am 15 i will have 4 kids, i love my life, and would love to help others who are worried about being teen parents.15 year old girl needs advice on sex and pregnancy HELP?
Sweety, 'doing it' in the pool is extremely dangerous. If you are in a chroline-treated pool, soe some otehr chemical treatment, you can abosrb taht through your female tissues inside. Please..no more in the pool ok? You neve know what ELSE might be in the water either.
It's unlikely you are pregnant, but possible. If you can buy a pregnancy test in the supermarket, and do it in the bathroom. Then you can be sure.
good job, greatest achievement ever!
Why would you have sex in a pool?
Depends on the discharge you may have an STD. If he didn't use the condom correctly, you may be pregnant. I am going to give you the same advice that was given to me many moons ago. If you cant take his penis in your hand and inspect it, you shouldn't be out there having sex. Look at it, look for anything that looks out of the ordinary, discharge, bumps(there should be none), blisters, and even then make sure that he has a condom on correctly. Practice yourself for future endevours.
Wow. You lost your V to a boy you'll never see again and now you're panicking. Little late. How do you do it for a minute, then ';realize'; you weren't protected? Do you know his name?
Yes, kiddo, it matters if he put the condom on correctly. Do you really need to ask that? Even if he didn't finish, there are still sperm in the fluid that comes out first, enough to get you knocked up.
All you can do now is take a test and pray you're not a mommy. Can't tell mommy, but ready for sex...hmm. You'll have to if you have nasty discharge, sounds like that boy gave you something to remember him by. Learn a lesson and don't have sex with strangers, especially unprotected. If you are pregnant, say goodbye to your teen fun years and get ready for a baby.
ur to young to be having sex and its important that he puts the condom on right every time dont u have health in school.. im 20 years old and i lost my virginity wen i was ur age and i wish i didnt i got pregnant my 3rd time and i was forced to have an abortion ( well i was given a chose but not a fair one i was told to either get out and not to contact w my family ever again or get rid of it cuz i was only 15) im telling yoiu this bc at ur age u dont understand how much sex can ruin ur life and i can tell u RIGHT NOW THAT SEX IS NOT WORTH THE REST OF UR LIFE and im not jus talkin bout preg. but also and std... ALWAYS USE CONDOMS... o yea and the period thing dont by wen ur friend has hers go by ur own ur cycle will always be between 24-30 days and sometimes it can change... by the way now that ur havin sex get a gyn dr. and purchase a preg. test GOOD LUCK
Get a test.
You may not know if he came, but I would be willing to wager you did not.
Sex at 15 is NOT WORTH IT for girls, and dangerous on all levels for boys and girls.
Not a prude here. I got pregnant at 16, so I know what I am taking about.
I hope you aren't pregnant, for your sake. Pretty rotten way to start off high school.
And please wear a condom that is lubricated, less chance of it breaking with vigorous sex.
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i am also not sure weather or not he put the condom on correctly does that matter?
and what could i do?
BTW this is not my account it is my cousins * x
There are no clinics were i live in England and i dont want to tell my mum until im sure thanks for all your answers X
The lad is from a totally different place it was a holiday romance and we will probz never see eachother again! :(15 year old girl needs advice on sex and pregnancy HELP?
yes u could be pregnant go to the nearest gas station or convience store and buy a pregnancy test, if u are pregnant i will be glad to be here for you to talk to, i am 14 and by the time i am 15 i will have 4 kids, i love my life, and would love to help others who are worried about being teen parents.15 year old girl needs advice on sex and pregnancy HELP?
Sweety, 'doing it' in the pool is extremely dangerous. If you are in a chroline-treated pool, soe some otehr chemical treatment, you can abosrb taht through your female tissues inside. Please..no more in the pool ok? You neve know what ELSE might be in the water either.
It's unlikely you are pregnant, but possible. If you can buy a pregnancy test in the supermarket, and do it in the bathroom. Then you can be sure.
good job, greatest achievement ever!
Why would you have sex in a pool?
Depends on the discharge you may have an STD. If he didn't use the condom correctly, you may be pregnant. I am going to give you the same advice that was given to me many moons ago. If you cant take his penis in your hand and inspect it, you shouldn't be out there having sex. Look at it, look for anything that looks out of the ordinary, discharge, bumps(there should be none), blisters, and even then make sure that he has a condom on correctly. Practice yourself for future endevours.
Wow. You lost your V to a boy you'll never see again and now you're panicking. Little late. How do you do it for a minute, then ';realize'; you weren't protected? Do you know his name?
Yes, kiddo, it matters if he put the condom on correctly. Do you really need to ask that? Even if he didn't finish, there are still sperm in the fluid that comes out first, enough to get you knocked up.
All you can do now is take a test and pray you're not a mommy. Can't tell mommy, but ready for sex...hmm. You'll have to if you have nasty discharge, sounds like that boy gave you something to remember him by. Learn a lesson and don't have sex with strangers, especially unprotected. If you are pregnant, say goodbye to your teen fun years and get ready for a baby.
ur to young to be having sex and its important that he puts the condom on right every time dont u have health in school.. im 20 years old and i lost my virginity wen i was ur age and i wish i didnt i got pregnant my 3rd time and i was forced to have an abortion ( well i was given a chose but not a fair one i was told to either get out and not to contact w my family ever again or get rid of it cuz i was only 15) im telling yoiu this bc at ur age u dont understand how much sex can ruin ur life and i can tell u RIGHT NOW THAT SEX IS NOT WORTH THE REST OF UR LIFE and im not jus talkin bout preg. but also and std... ALWAYS USE CONDOMS... o yea and the period thing dont by wen ur friend has hers go by ur own ur cycle will always be between 24-30 days and sometimes it can change... by the way now that ur havin sex get a gyn dr. and purchase a preg. test GOOD LUCK
Get a test.
You may not know if he came, but I would be willing to wager you did not.
Sex at 15 is NOT WORTH IT for girls, and dangerous on all levels for boys and girls.
Not a prude here. I got pregnant at 16, so I know what I am taking about.
I hope you aren't pregnant, for your sake. Pretty rotten way to start off high school.
And please wear a condom that is lubricated, less chance of it breaking with vigorous sex.
What do i do.....girl and guy advice please!!?
so theres this guy that i like and likes me back. everything has been great we havent talked in about a week or a little less. i txtd him today no reply. i dont know what to do. advice?What do i do.....girl and guy advice please!!?
not an expert at this stuff, but:
just go up to him in person and ask him whats up. he might be nervous or busy or some other circumstance. just walk up to him and ask him ';whats up?';.
not an expert at this stuff, but:
just go up to him in person and ask him whats up. he might be nervous or busy or some other circumstance. just walk up to him and ask him ';whats up?';.
Fifteen year old girl wants advice ... :] ?
Hey everyone, Im 15 (obviously haha) and Ive just been so confused lately
We always get told as teenagers nowadays thats its ok to masturbate and have 'periods' where we like the same sex and watch porn and stuff but when I do start to do some of the stuff above I fele really guilty
None of my friends act like they do any of that stuff and they probably dont thats the thing! I feel so pathetic sometimes
Could anyone possibly give me some advice or something since I dont feel comfortable to tell my friends about this?
%26lt;3Fifteen year old girl wants advice ... :] ?
What kind of advise are you looking for?
Well first even tho your friends have not told you they do it to trust me when I say they do masterbate and if they say they dont then they are LYING. Everyone does at some point. Same sex is popular so I'm sure at least 2 of your friends have tried it. Porn. I dont know many people who don't watch it so I'm sure your friends do to.
What I'm trying to say is be the person who has the guts to say outloud what everyone else is already thinking and is afraid to say outloud.
Don't be scared. If you like it say it and if they say they don't like it tell em to stop being such a baby and admit they like it too.
Most of the people in my husbands family were prudish when I first met them.
But having been around me for some years they now feel free to talk about anything and let me tell you, some of the things I now hear from them are nothing close to prudeish.
Turns out they are just as fun as me they just were afraid to say it.
Be yourself and others will too. Best advise I know and works.Fifteen year old girl wants advice ... :] ?
Your friends are probably masturbating too (as everyone else is) they just don't talk about it. That is a very private matter that remains secret. Watching pornography is okay, I can't give you advice about liking the same sex as that never happened to me. Just remember that exploring your body is nothing to be ashamed of, it's you body so enjoy it.
Sweetie, don't worry about what you like and don't like compared to what everybody else is telling you you SHOULD like.
Follow your conscience and don't do what makes you uncomfortable.
At 15, your sexuality is just beginning, and yours is progressing normally. You have a lifetime of sex ahead of you, and only you can decide what you'll do, where, when and with whom.
The important thing is you're NORMAL. The hell with what anyone else says. You've gotten some dreadful advice here as well as come very good advice. Listen to your conscience. Don't worry. And don't do what ';they'; tell you to do if it makes you uncomfortable now. That's your conscience. It will be a powerful ally in your life if you learn to trust it.
It's irrelevant if your friends are lying or not; that's their business. Accept them anyway and move on.
Never do what dishonors you, whether you're 15 or 17 or 25 or 35 and beyond (yes, you will be that old someday). You aren't pathetic at all; you're becoming a very smart and very principled young woman. And your doubts, questions and fears are perfectly normal.
Don't push things. Nature didn't intend 15-yr-olds to be fully developed sexually. Your friends aren't, your classmates aren't and you aren't. The media is wrong to give you such a bullsh!t idea, but they're in business to make money and that's what sells.
Good luck to you. I have every confidence in you because you're on the right track.
If you feel guilty, ashamed, uncomfortable, pressured or like you are doing something wrong, it probably means it is not something you should not be doing.
As a teen (and even today) I was considered a ';good girl';. I never smoked, didn't have sex, or experiment with drugs. I simply told people I didn't want to do these things when I was confronted by these things and you know what? I was VERY much respected for it. I had many friends and none ever turned their back on me because of how I felt or what my beliefs were. Only a select few times did people try to pressure me into things...and they were not my friends. True friends will respect how you feel.
People mture at all different rates, so maybe you are just a little ahead of your friends. Or maybe like you, they think they are the only ones. Don't worry, it's perfectly normal at your age to explore your body and your own sexuality.
You shouldn't feel guilty. Those things are private and have nothing to do with anyone else, so as long as you aren't harming yourself then carry on.
You don't need to tellk your friends, just feel comfortable with yourself.
If you feel guilty or uncomfortable doing these things, then you shouldn't do them.
I don't know who exactly is telling you these things, but they are wrong. People are all different and not all people go through the same things.
Believe me, with time and experience, everything fits into place and there is no need to rush in now.
Concentrate on school and just be a teenager!
If it makes you uncomfortable, don't do it, unless you enjoy it-- but in all probability most of your friends do it, too. Don't believe me? If you are all hanging out at a sleepover or whatever, and play ';never have I ever'; or ';truth or dare,'; you can find out.
You don't want to tell your friends but you want to tell the rest of the world?
Phone the Sex Line UK 0800 28 29 30.
Every child, will masturbate. Some teens have wet dreams, but it's part of life. Don't be embarrassed, be happy about it. It means your growing up.
its a private matter you dont have to talk to anyone about. but yeah its fine nothing wrong about it. my mates do this stuff you cant tell any diffrence in their behaviour, watching porn and mastubating is just pleasure it doesnt change your behaviour or make you bad. ave fun:)
Honey, not everything is everyones business. If you like to masturbate then do it. No need to discuss it with your friends.
And just so you know, a lot of people act like they don't do certain things, but they do :)
It's very likely that your friends DO do those things, and that's why they don't talk about it. These are all private matters. You don't have to tell anyone. When you get older, you'll all be more open about it.
Im 15 too!
Aw don't feel pathetic (or guilty!)
They probably do too but don't say they do. You can't read their minds!
Umm sorry i'm no help I just thought 'hey i'm 15 too what's her q about lol'
im also 15 and nothing could be further from the truth
there is nothing wrong with what your doing
dont feel bad about it, just enjoy it.
dont worry, be happy
im 18 years old and i just graduated with a group of kids that done the same thing whenever it came to talking about sex. people dont realize anymore that sex is a way to show somebody that you love them but now its just been made to be thought of as a sick good male story to tell his buddies. you are still a child and if you feel its bad to say what your friends say aboust sex is perfectly ok. whenever i had friends to talk about stuff like that i would tell them the same exact thing that i told you and they accepted this. and one final thing, dont do something just because your friends are doing it (or at least they are saying that there doing it) if it makes you feel really guilty. just be who you are and tell them what you think, because what it really boils down to is that sex is whenever two people love eachother and they want to show it, not just because it feels good and they want to brag to their buddies.and if you ever have someone trying to get you to have sex just say no, not just because there is so many of pregnant teens in the world but also because you can only lose your virginity one time, do you really want to lose it to just anybody or do you wanna wait until your married and lose it to somebody you love? And i know that theres hormones that make you want to do things at times but trust me, you'll be thankful one day
trust me, ive been through this before and if your friends are really true to you then they'll understand
We always get told as teenagers nowadays thats its ok to masturbate and have 'periods' where we like the same sex and watch porn and stuff but when I do start to do some of the stuff above I fele really guilty
None of my friends act like they do any of that stuff and they probably dont thats the thing! I feel so pathetic sometimes
Could anyone possibly give me some advice or something since I dont feel comfortable to tell my friends about this?
%26lt;3Fifteen year old girl wants advice ... :] ?
What kind of advise are you looking for?
Well first even tho your friends have not told you they do it to trust me when I say they do masterbate and if they say they dont then they are LYING. Everyone does at some point. Same sex is popular so I'm sure at least 2 of your friends have tried it. Porn. I dont know many people who don't watch it so I'm sure your friends do to.
What I'm trying to say is be the person who has the guts to say outloud what everyone else is already thinking and is afraid to say outloud.
Don't be scared. If you like it say it and if they say they don't like it tell em to stop being such a baby and admit they like it too.
Most of the people in my husbands family were prudish when I first met them.
But having been around me for some years they now feel free to talk about anything and let me tell you, some of the things I now hear from them are nothing close to prudeish.
Turns out they are just as fun as me they just were afraid to say it.
Be yourself and others will too. Best advise I know and works.Fifteen year old girl wants advice ... :] ?
Your friends are probably masturbating too (as everyone else is) they just don't talk about it. That is a very private matter that remains secret. Watching pornography is okay, I can't give you advice about liking the same sex as that never happened to me. Just remember that exploring your body is nothing to be ashamed of, it's you body so enjoy it.
Sweetie, don't worry about what you like and don't like compared to what everybody else is telling you you SHOULD like.
Follow your conscience and don't do what makes you uncomfortable.
At 15, your sexuality is just beginning, and yours is progressing normally. You have a lifetime of sex ahead of you, and only you can decide what you'll do, where, when and with whom.
The important thing is you're NORMAL. The hell with what anyone else says. You've gotten some dreadful advice here as well as come very good advice. Listen to your conscience. Don't worry. And don't do what ';they'; tell you to do if it makes you uncomfortable now. That's your conscience. It will be a powerful ally in your life if you learn to trust it.
It's irrelevant if your friends are lying or not; that's their business. Accept them anyway and move on.
Never do what dishonors you, whether you're 15 or 17 or 25 or 35 and beyond (yes, you will be that old someday). You aren't pathetic at all; you're becoming a very smart and very principled young woman. And your doubts, questions and fears are perfectly normal.
Don't push things. Nature didn't intend 15-yr-olds to be fully developed sexually. Your friends aren't, your classmates aren't and you aren't. The media is wrong to give you such a bullsh!t idea, but they're in business to make money and that's what sells.
Good luck to you. I have every confidence in you because you're on the right track.
If you feel guilty, ashamed, uncomfortable, pressured or like you are doing something wrong, it probably means it is not something you should not be doing.
As a teen (and even today) I was considered a ';good girl';. I never smoked, didn't have sex, or experiment with drugs. I simply told people I didn't want to do these things when I was confronted by these things and you know what? I was VERY much respected for it. I had many friends and none ever turned their back on me because of how I felt or what my beliefs were. Only a select few times did people try to pressure me into things...and they were not my friends. True friends will respect how you feel.
People mture at all different rates, so maybe you are just a little ahead of your friends. Or maybe like you, they think they are the only ones. Don't worry, it's perfectly normal at your age to explore your body and your own sexuality.
You shouldn't feel guilty. Those things are private and have nothing to do with anyone else, so as long as you aren't harming yourself then carry on.
You don't need to tellk your friends, just feel comfortable with yourself.
If you feel guilty or uncomfortable doing these things, then you shouldn't do them.
I don't know who exactly is telling you these things, but they are wrong. People are all different and not all people go through the same things.
Believe me, with time and experience, everything fits into place and there is no need to rush in now.
Concentrate on school and just be a teenager!
If it makes you uncomfortable, don't do it, unless you enjoy it-- but in all probability most of your friends do it, too. Don't believe me? If you are all hanging out at a sleepover or whatever, and play ';never have I ever'; or ';truth or dare,'; you can find out.
You don't want to tell your friends but you want to tell the rest of the world?
Phone the Sex Line UK 0800 28 29 30.
Every child, will masturbate. Some teens have wet dreams, but it's part of life. Don't be embarrassed, be happy about it. It means your growing up.
its a private matter you dont have to talk to anyone about. but yeah its fine nothing wrong about it. my mates do this stuff you cant tell any diffrence in their behaviour, watching porn and mastubating is just pleasure it doesnt change your behaviour or make you bad. ave fun:)
Honey, not everything is everyones business. If you like to masturbate then do it. No need to discuss it with your friends.
And just so you know, a lot of people act like they don't do certain things, but they do :)
It's very likely that your friends DO do those things, and that's why they don't talk about it. These are all private matters. You don't have to tell anyone. When you get older, you'll all be more open about it.
Im 15 too!
Aw don't feel pathetic (or guilty!)
They probably do too but don't say they do. You can't read their minds!
Umm sorry i'm no help I just thought 'hey i'm 15 too what's her q about lol'
im also 15 and nothing could be further from the truth
there is nothing wrong with what your doing
dont feel bad about it, just enjoy it.
dont worry, be happy
im 18 years old and i just graduated with a group of kids that done the same thing whenever it came to talking about sex. people dont realize anymore that sex is a way to show somebody that you love them but now its just been made to be thought of as a sick good male story to tell his buddies. you are still a child and if you feel its bad to say what your friends say aboust sex is perfectly ok. whenever i had friends to talk about stuff like that i would tell them the same exact thing that i told you and they accepted this. and one final thing, dont do something just because your friends are doing it (or at least they are saying that there doing it) if it makes you feel really guilty. just be who you are and tell them what you think, because what it really boils down to is that sex is whenever two people love eachother and they want to show it, not just because it feels good and they want to brag to their buddies.and if you ever have someone trying to get you to have sex just say no, not just because there is so many of pregnant teens in the world but also because you can only lose your virginity one time, do you really want to lose it to just anybody or do you wanna wait until your married and lose it to somebody you love? And i know that theres hormones that make you want to do things at times but trust me, you'll be thankful one day
trust me, ive been through this before and if your friends are really true to you then they'll understand
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