I need GIRL TALK! Advice, advice, please help!?

To make a long story short: There's a new guy and my ex-boyfriend. I might still have some feelings for my ex but I'm not really sure. I dumped him not because I didn't like him, but because it was too difficult to keep seeing him. He still likes me and always asks to hang out and has asked me to go out with him again. I needed more time to think about this but the idea of going back out (apart from difficulties) was nice. Now there's this other guy that I've been crushing on even while this ex-b/f thing has been going on. We finally got somewhere and it's DEFINITE that I'm into him and kind of vice versa. I don't want to lead my ex on or be player-ish. What can I do? I don't want to say ';Sorry, I found someone else and don't really like you anymore'; because I did tell my ex that I would want to hang out with him again. But...I'm so into this guy right now and really want to move things forward with him? What should I do concerning myself? And what should I do about these two guys?I need GIRL TALK! Advice, advice, please help!?
I think you should go out with your ex and see what he's been up to. But you should ask yourself this question: Which guy are you more happy with? Someone who you think you still like but have trouble seeing or someone you KNOW you like and can be with him whenever?I need GIRL TALK! Advice, advice, please help!?
dont care about ur probs
completely agree w/ chris O ----^





how about just doing what your heart tells you, and just because your hanging out w/ your ex doesnt mean your going out w/ him- if you already told him you were going to hang out just tag a long some of your girl friends or tell him you just cant make it





good luck!
Date the new guy. Then you will truely find out which one you like more. A change might be good. Either you'll move on or you'll want to get back together with your old boyfriend.
Same thing happened to me. All you have to do is wait. Let time work its magic. After a while you will know who you really are meant for. Good luck!
As g2g, I would really suggest you reconsider your relationship with your ex and why you broke up with him. If you think you will have a better one with your new crush then just start really recognizing him and start to try and get to know him better.Then, if it works out, go out with him. And as for your ex, I think he would probably go and find a new girlfriend, because life goes on. If you want to know what to do about the ';I would want to hang out with you again';, just repair the meaning a little: say you meant that as friends, which would be totally plausible. I hope that helps! :]
Move on to the new guy. You broke up with the ex for a reason.
You sound like you're twelve. Stop worrying, school will be back in a couple weeks and you can focus your attention on your studies.





When we grow up we prefer sexy sucessful women rather than beauty queens who've done nothing with their life.
stay with the crush, but let him know ur not ready to get too serious. as u just recently got out of something. ur not a player for weighing ur options. if u want to see ur ex, see him. but lay down the ground rules.
You said you don't want to ';lead my ex on or be player-ish';. Then be up front w/ your ex and move on w/ the new guy.