i used to ';fool around'; with this guy about 2 years ago %26amp; it ended abruptly %26amp; now we are hanging out again but are just doing small talk and not having any deep conversations and i feel that we have a ';road block'; so does anyone have any ideas what i could say to start these deep conversations? i really have no idea what happened 2 years ago... like why it endedConversation advice for younger girl to older guy?
that's not too big of an age difference.
start with a typical conversation, and hint the conversation to deeper topics.
try something simple first. ask him if you can ask a couple basic questions, and when he says yes, ask some simple things like favorite color, food, etc. also, mix in some deeper questions like ';what do you like to do'; and ';what kind of people drive you nuts';
if he says something like ';i love playing guitar';, ask questions about types of music he likes, how he feels about the music, etc. people love to talk about things they're passionate about.
if he says something like ';fake people drive me nuts';, ask him why. it could lead to a story from his past that's deep.
don't ever be afraid to ask why. many times people don't ask why because they're afraid they'll sound nosy, but lots of times people would love to talk about those things. for example, a guy says he wants to teach in an elementary school later in his life. instead of saying ';oh, that's sweet'; ask why. he says he loves soccer. instead of saying ';me too'; ask why.
you'll be amazed at how easy conversations turn deep that way.
good luck!Conversation advice for younger girl to older guy?
LOL older guy???
ok soo basically you guys are the same age.. humm my advice don't pressure him or dont try to rush the things everything is gonna fall in the right place at the end.. but if you relaly like him or whatever talk to him.. and tell him how you feel ..
I have learned from experience if it did not work the first time don't bother with the second!!!! Move on in life not backward.
He had his chance with you once and he blew it, save your energy on someone who is more into you.
fool around?? By chance would you not go as far as he wanted, and know he thinks he might have a chance with that? don't do it. He used you then and will again.
Maybe he was just tired of just fooling around and was ready to settle down. I know that may seem silly for high school students but some boys want serious relationships in high school, because thats how some marriages get started
well, ha i got ur message here u go:
well first talk about something you like about him by giving a compliment.. lets say his name is dan k?
';dan, i like your hair like tht. it looks cool
';dan i like your shirt where did you get it?';
usually a question can also get started talking too.
';ok what bands do you like? mines paramore.';
';what is you favorite car? i like a mercedes';
since you two used to fool around, start randomly dancing
and offer him to join. make sure its from someone you've seen do it before like
*dancing from the song ';rockstar'; by prima j
';this is how they dance on this video dan c'mon dance with me';
alot of ways you can get something started :D
at skool everyone loves to tlk to me. but all i do is these things!!
hey answer my last two questions but not the one you've answered alrady
No comments:
Post a Comment