You have to tell Lizzy. If she chooses to not believe you, then give her time and let her find out on her own. But you really need to tell her. Find the nicest way possible. (ex: ';Lizzy, where was Ian at 0:00 time on your anniversary? Well I am pretty sure I seen him. I wouldn't tell you if I thought I was wrong. It's up to you as to what you wanna do, I am here for you regardless but I love you and I just wanted to tell you because I don't want to see you get hurt.'; if she is a good friend, she will be upset but give her time and make sure she knows that you are here for her if she ever needs to talk.My best friend Lizzy has been w/her bf for a year now, %26amp; i saw him make out w/some other girl today. advice!?
Well, hopefully she's not reading this, or you already told her!
omg thats terrible!!! thats worst hen terrible!! OMG! ok heres what you do you simply tell Lizzy what you saw don't worry she won't be mad at you or anything she'll probably be a closer friend then she ever was with you
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you can ask Ian what was going on between Lizzy and him not like saying oh so u just kissed that girl huh? but say so whats up with you and Lizzy are you 2 still going out? and if he says yea y say oh because i was just wondering if you 2 were ok
hahaha master plan rite there!!
tell her about him.
You should tell her. I've been in this situation before. If you tell her and she gets mad, don't worry over time she'll come to her senses and realize that you were just being a good friend. :]
I suggest you tell your friend. She may get mad and angry at you at first only because she wants to deny what you're saying. But as a friend you need to tell her. I've been with my BF 3 years and if i ever found out my best friend knew he cheated on me and DIDNT tell me and i was still w/ this ****** 2 yrs later, id be sooo mad.
she may get mad @ u and be defensive, but sooner than later she will realize ur right, face the facts and leave him.
then she will be ready to thank you.
good luck!
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