Thursday, August 19, 2010

Major Girl Problem. Advice?

Im 16. Me and my girlfriend broke up about a month ago broke up about a month ago but at the time it wasnt a big deal. We have maintained a descent friendship ever since. But she recently told me that she has been talking/doing stuff with this other guy. She didnt say it in a way that would annoy me at all. I knew that this would eventually happen but I didnt think Id care this much. She noticed that I have less interest in talking to her and I politely explained it when she asked why. She said she cared about me and didnt know I still had feelings for her. For the past week I can barely get out of bed and all I can do is sleep. Im really depressed and I dont know how I can get out of this situation. I need advice.Major Girl Problem. Advice?
Talk to her %26amp; see if you can get her again. Tell her the truth about how you feel for her. and see your way out.Major Girl Problem. Advice?
There are plenty of fish in the sea!





Get out there and move on. I know its hard but she already moved on and you should do the same. You will find someone just as great or even better than her.





Good Luck!
well...while youre in bed whats she doing? is she talking to you? i cant imagine shes in a very good way if she said that, and she will be considering your feelings and that other guy's. i cant really say what she will do next but she will be choosing one of you and until then you just have to focus your mind on something...anything that keeps your mind off her. but dont go for another girl if you feel sorry for yourself coz she will be really upset you messed her around, good luck x
So it sounds like you still have some feelings for her. Maybe at the time you two broke up, you didn't realize that you still cared for her romantically, and that you were still invested in the relationship. This is actually very common and happens in many relationships, so don't feel alone. Luckily for you, she still seems to have some interest in you. The fact that she told you she has been ';doing stuff'; with this other guy, means that she probably wants you to be jealous. Otherwise why would she tell you? It's wonderful that you two are still open with each other and talk about personal things. Now she knows that you still have feelings for her (which apparently she hadn't known before) so that's a big step in the right direction. She told you she still cares about you, so the big question now is: Does she care about you enough to get back together with you?





Only time can tell... Meanwhile, try to keep your options open. And be prepared that she might reject you. And, if that happens, brush yourself off and get back on your feet. Good luck!
Talk to her. Maybe you two haven't been so close lately, find time to be alone with her and just talk, and hang- out. Try not to think of the 'other guy' if there is one. People move on, there's a chance you can get back together, there's a chance you might not. If you really still like her, tell her how you feel, but in a subtle way, and do things that will prove to her that you still have feelings for her and that you really care for her. Hang- out with your friends and family first. Try to make it simple for yourself. Don't make yourself go through all that, it's gonna get too complicated. HAHA.

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