Ive had problems with this girl since 9th grade (now in 10th), she thinks i copy everything she does , and dislikes me for that reason and really we shop at the same stores and share similar taste is that my fault , she has to be a huge ***** about it , i dont see the point and in class i have to hear about her life story .. its like no one cares ..she also tells people that i copy her , she has no right saying that at all.
when i dont , i would never want to be like her ....help?I need advice on this girl in school?
Tell her that as much as she hopes to think you want to be like her tell her that you would never lower your standards.Tell her that you don't copy someone you don't really care exists.Tell her that your too mature to even possibly think that she would be able to just see that we might happen to share the same taste but you think its so cute that she pays you so much attention since you were so busy with other things not to even notice her.I need advice on this girl in school?
I had that exact thing in 6th grade through 8th she thought i copied her with limited too, although she bought everything i got. She even went with buying the same pens/pencils and school supplies. we were in english in 8th grade and i guess i must of said something that pissed her off, she spazzed at me called me a B and everyone thought she was crazy. She hates me so much she said she wanted to kill me... I didnt do anything, all the guys she liked liked me maybe thats why. I would just leave her alone dont talk to her just say hi when you see her. Ignore her, also when she keeps talking about how you copy her, tell her it looks better on you not on her and she needs to stop making things up to make herself feel better.
Tell her your not trying to be like her because you don't want to be like a ******. Tell her it's normal to shop at the stores you do because your in high school and mainly high schoolers wear the same type of brands of clothing. Wow she is being really stupid about this tell her you could care less about what she does.
Just after talking to her don't look at her anymore, and then others will see you could care less about being like her. If she continues to spread rumors people will dislike her because rumors are so babyish. Tell her to grow up.
Just ignore it and wait till it goes away.
If you really don't want to be like her, you'll stay quiet and let her carry on being a huge blabbermouth.
Also, you could try defining yourself in another way, something that she doesn't enjoy/isn't good at/can do at all, etc... that way, people will see that you're not a clone of her.
Good luck.
stick up for urself
and say
no one would want to be like so
you stop being so up yourself!
good luck x
just be like 'heyy at least we both have good tastes.'
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