Teenage (girl) love advice?

okay, ive had the HUGEST crush on this guy for about 3 years now, and we have everything in common: we love the same tv shows, we have the same sense of humor, we both hate the same people (this sounds mean but its true haha), and we're really good friends. one problem: he's dating my best friend. she doesnt brush her hair, doesnt wear fashionable clothes, only watches disney stuff, and is way too shy (and a kiss-up). don't get me wrong, i love her, but i don't see why he does...he always talks to me about her, and i feel really bad.he texts me all the time, and his gf doesnt return his texts! i am head-over- heels with this guy, but i can't see us going out (we're really close friends) I tell him stuff i wouldnt dare tells my girlfriends.. and theres this other amazing guy who i think might like me, and i kinda like him... i dont know much about him, but my heart goes wild when he smiles... but there are some nasty rumors about this guy (drug use, and cutting) im pretty sure there not true but i dont know this guy too well...Teenage (girl) love advice?
fxck sake darling dont get involved with boys with drugs, been there dont that, got the t-shirt. as they say, chicks before dxcks and its pretty much true, good luck hun :)Teenage (girl) love advice?
I don't like the sound of the situation. You've known him 3 years but really don't know him? And you sound a bit unfriendly about your friend. If she and he are content, what's it to you how their relationship works. Friends come first - and hopefully, self-integrity does, too. Leave things as they are.
first if you were a real friend you would tell your friend all the stuff he says about her. and if he liked you tht much he would have broken up with her by now. so maybe you should back your friends dick ( sorry but its the truth) and find somebody else to mess with
tell ur bff bf that he doesnt deserve 2 b treated baddly like how shes treating him. tell him tht u like him cuz it soulds like he likes u 2. the other guy u like, he sounds cool. if u get turned down by the other guy ask him out and u can go on a doubble date with ur bff's
Off topic:First of all... who calls their friend dirty. How could you be so heartless?


On topic: Go for the guy that doesn't go out with your best friend...
Your friends has frontal lobe damage.


You are not a nerd, with three guys flirting you up I would have several other names for you.
you gotta say true to your friends.


he obvouisly likes her and you need to accept that.
what can i say opposites attract
Chicks before d***ks.
i feel awful for your friend, your a bad friend
hey, im 18 years old. no matter how bad of a girlfriend your bestfriend my seem to be, you never steal your friends man. so thats definitely no good. so what she doesnt brush her hair or wear fashionable clothes? maybe thats what hes into. who knows. if your her bestfriend you would offer to brush her hair or help her pick out a better outfit..thats what friends do. and as far as it goes with the cutter/drug guy, ask him if its true..if he says it is true, dont go out with him..you do not want to get caught up in drugs, trust me. you could even get in trouble driving in a car with someone who has drugs, even if you didnt use them. no good. and as far as cutting, if thats true, try to help him out tell him to try counseling or an anti depressant. i recommend Celexa
You may really really like this guy, maybe more I don't know, but if she's your best friend leave it be. Or you could tell her. If she doesn't return his texts, maybe she isn't too crazy about him.





If you can't see you two going out, then don't. I went out with one of my best friends, well, we were really close and we really liked eachother, but it turned out friends was all we could be.





I had a similar situation to yours, too, but it didn't work out. Plus, if he really likes your friend, you should just try to hang on and be happy for them. Maybe the odds will turn in your favor.
i feel bad for you. I don't know about that other guy, maybe talk to him a bit and see if the rumors prove to be true. I know you are trying to say that about your best friend nicely, but i don't think that's the reason he likes her. Anyways, if you hang out with them, or talk to him about them, then you can see if he really is interested in her. i am not quite sure if getting in his head and breaking her heart is the best idea though. i think you should just wait it out a bit. im sorry that your going through this