Girls help.. i dont know how to deal with this girl...need advice!?

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Theres this girl at canada high school i chat to all the time (shes in my class), she used to be quiet when i used to talk at the start, and i always catch her staring at me, and when i catch her she looks away:).Now she has really opened up and talks to me alot, and laughs alot when i speak to her!, she can still be quiet at times though, but she will try her best to start a conversation now too! i wave to her everytime she looks and she always smiles and waves back to me. The other day, i told her about an event i went and done during my holiday, and she was like ';i havent done that in ages!';, and then she said ';where do you even go to do that nowadays';..i told her where and said its heaps of fun....then she went quiet for awhile...then we started talking again, was she wanting me to ask her out?i like this girl alot! and have been chatting to her little bits at a time for around 4 months!.she also said ';do you have any plans for your school break?';Girls help.. i dont know how to deal with this girl...need advice!?
hate to say it, but your gonna have to give it up. tell her that unless she ends it with her bf then you can't have a relationship with her.


also, i've been in this girld shoes and its not fun. unless she's some kind of phyco *****, then she's just probably confused about what she really wants.Girls help.. i dont know how to deal with this girl...need advice!?
You really do know what you need to do or in this case ';Not'; do. Be mature and let her go. She clearly has a b'friend and you are the odd one out. Tell her politely that you don't roll like that and that things might be different if she lost him first. Don't be a fool you are worth more than that. If she likes you that much then she will make that choice, you can't do it for her. Find a girl that is available, there are loads of them out there!! The right one is just around the next corner. I promise!!
It sounds like her boyfriends a redard first of all. I can see why she is scoping other avenues. Not to say that she isn't genuinely into you. If she didn't have a bf, I'm sure she would have been able to go out with you by now. She is quiet, so she can't be like this normally. Something about made her open up adn Im sure her bf saw that change in her. Now seeing as how he appears to want to control her, of course he is going to not let her go to a movie with a friend.





My advice is... stay her friend. She obviously want to be your friend, that's why she isn't acting like anything happened, she dosen't want to bring attn to it from other people... ti's bad enough you got dragged in it. Hopefully she will get rid of him and then the road will be clear for the two of you. Just give her time and be her friend.





Of course, you could always just try and steal her away. :)
What makes you think it was her boyfriend, it could have been her older brother or her father that are restricting her movements. Have you asked her straight out, and make sure you are looking into her eyes and shes looking into yours otherwise if she looks down, or shuffles her shoes around etc., shes gonna make something up or is covering something up, don't push her though, maybe there is violence in the home and she is scared, just make sure she knows that you care about her and that you are there for her if she needs you. I hope this helps you, Goodluck!!!
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