Heart Broken Girl needs advice..?

My boyfriend of almost 2 years broke up with me almost 3 months ago, i loved him so much and i still do! It's been hard. I've been keeping busy, focusing on school but he is still on my mind pretty mcuh all the time, i still think about him everyday. Dream about him, everything. We haven't talked since he broke up with me, I know we both agreed we shouldn't talk for awhile but it hurts a little that he hasn't even msged me or just called to see how im doing since he is the one who broke my heart. A friend of mine who knows him says sometimes he'll ask about me and say he might call or what not but he never does...I am also proud i havent caved in and called or pranked call him. Its hard ur with someone for almost 2 years talking seeing them almost everyday and then BOOM. Haven't talked or seen him in 3 months..:(





Any good tips?Heart Broken Girl needs advice..?
Only time heals...





In the meantime, get out of the house... Go out with friends. See movies, visit new places, try new things... Try to live your life. The absolute worst thing you can do is just sit at home and dwell on the subject... Maybe you'll even meet a new guy at some point while you're out having fun.





Live your life and have fun doing it! Life is really too short to be depressed...





Good luck.Heart Broken Girl needs advice..?
A really good tip would be to just move on with your life. The guy has broke up with you. That's it. He's not coming back so the best thing you can do is:


1) Spend time with those girl friends you've been ignoring


2) Exercise and get healthy


3) Smile and have a great time


4) Find a new boyfriend and forget about this one
Time will heal your broken heart.


In the meantime be happy that he's freed up up! men know if they don't want to marry a girl, some waste your time for years, while chasing and dreaming of other women, be happy that he was nice enough not to play games and admitted to himself that you deserve better than him. Someone who will love and appreciate you for you and WANT to be with you forever.
only thing that you can do about it is to give more time well i feel in love whit a girl she left me and it was not a nice feeling took me almost 1 year to get over her i have not talk to her 1 year and almost 2 months now i guess she don't want to be friends
keep doing what your doing.


yeah, it hurts, immensely.


but, by not talking or seeing him is kinda a good thing.


on the other hand, keep your mind busy.


start going out with friends, invite some guys.


HAVE FUN.


just try to forget him. it all takes time.
don't care wat hes doing...just say to yourself, why should i care when he don't seem to care....im going through the same and it does hurt...but hey life is life and i strongly believe in everything happening for a reason.
well i think you should just lay back relax and just wait for him to just give in and call you but if he just doesn't wait a few days and call him back see what he says





hope it helped
It's best to move on and move ahead in your life.
I know how you feel. You can't concentrate. The thing is, you need time. the more you love someone, the longer it will take to forget about them. Find a friend to talk to, but make sure it's someone that is serious and doesn't treat your problem like some silly matter. Don't give in.





Right now, you need inspiration into something new. The end of something can signify a new better beginning. Don't trap yourself inside your house too much. Ask your parents for a family vacation. If possible tell you parents what happened and seek their mental support. Go on a cruise ship, or Paris, or New York, or something. Relationships can be messy when one person doesn't contribute. So it's not your fault, it's his. Hate him for that.





You're looking down on yourself right now, and you feel unloved. You feel like you're unwanted, that's why you want him to contact you. But you won't feel like that once you find an inspiration. Alter your emotions.
The fact that he asks about you shows that he does care that your heart got broken. He probably wants to avoid the drama that will happen if you guys start communicating again, because, lets face it as girls we are drama. If you really want to see how he is doing, then call him. Show him you can be mature and if you still want him in your life then reach out to him as a friend. You need some serious closure and the only way your going to get, it sounds like you need to communicate with him.
I went through this 2, i was the one who broke up w/ her, i felt bad, i dint know if she wanted 2 talk 2 me or not so this is wat i got from experience.its not a competition 2 c who can last the longest w/ out talking 2 u. if he asked about u he cares, if he said he was goin 2 call he probably was but didnt know wat 2 say or wat u would say. talk 2 him, go up 2 him wen he's alone and ask how has he ben then start small talk. (it may be akward the 1st day but if u start talking 2 him regarly it will be like the old times.) he didnt go out w/ u 4 that long if he didnt care!! if u were friends b4 u should stay that way
I've been through the same thing, it's really hard. But you have to keep looking ahead. I know it sounds really hard but if you get your eye on another guy (even for just a little while) you'll see that you can still have feelings for other guys. It feels like this guy is the best you'll ever have, right? If it doesn't feel like that it should be easier, but if it does then I know what it feels like. You just have to let go and keep going. I had to look myself in the mirror every morning for a month after I realized what I was doing to myself by keeping my heart in the past. But it gets easier after a while, and you meet new guys and you'll just find it easier to be around people without thinking about him.
Don't dwell on the past. Every girl gets her heart broken sooner or later. Just move on. Pick up the pieces, get it together, and go. Find an activity to do- a sport, dance, cheer, fashion maybe, cooking. anything. Hang out with your friends a lot, write in a journal or write songs/poetry. Focus on your school work or job. Maybe if you're religious you can pray to God for support and love. Itll all get better, but the road is tough.


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omg! i had the same thing going on. but trust me time will make it all better! every nite i would dream about him too. i would cry my self to sleep because i missed him so much. we went for 6 mounths with out talking. until i called him on his birth day. i was still so in love with him. i bearly realized like maybe a mounth ago that it was over. we were never gonna get back together. now were just friends. i dont love him any more because i gave it almost a year of thought and time. one day you will heal. dont worry just GIVE IT TIME.