He said he liked me (in that way yes) and i was like ok (crap crap) i'm not confident around guys not even goofy sweet ones like him. The thing is i know his type of girl and she is not me but i think he likes me as he said he liked me on like Friday this was when i was drunk so wasn't really me.
We've recently met up with some of my friends and his (one of my friends going out with his) so theres me, two of my friends, one of his and him. They are much more fun and flirtatious i feel he'll be drawn to the single one if i don't do something quick. He told one of my friends he thinks i've got my barriers up (emotionally) well i guess slightly but really wouldn't make a difference if i did feel comfortable around him as i am truelly a boring person (not low confidence i honestly am). Today my mates kept urging me to talk to him and left me alone with him. It was so awkward i didn't know what to say to him, but this isn't just around guys it's same with sometimes even close friends. I just don't know what to talk about.
He is making the effort as he's never had a serious girl friend but i just think it's sooo frustrating how people need to make an extreme effort to like me. I feel lost as i have asked for advice previously but i don't get that decent advice I'm sorry but find something you have in common ok well how would you start that conversation? When i do say something my friends always seem to have the lead on their wittiness and fun comments and etc ahhhhhhhh sorry posted this already but got 1 answer.GAHHH teen girl needing advice about a guy! PLEASE HELP?
Lol, I thought I was reading about my life there for a moment. I'm the same really, I put walls up to protect myself from people and I know I do but I can't help it. I met this guy when I was a little drunk and we hit it off and then I started panicking the next day as I thought he wouldn't like me as me as in quite shy. My friends were very sutile about leaving us along to talk and it was a bit awkward for a while. But he persisted in liking me and we ending up dating ^^. I'm guessing your about 16? Just try and relax and the conversation will start flowing.
Good Luck.GAHHH teen girl needing advice about a guy! PLEASE HELP?
Do you like him?
The best advice anyone could give you in this situation is not advice you will want to even hear. You are way too young to be worrying about any of this. You just need to chill out and sit back and enjoy being young. None of this will even matter in six months!!! Trust me!! Just be a kid, stop getting drunk, and act your age. You will be much happier in the long run. This kind of drama is simply made up in the minds of a teenager. Just act like you are unaffected by his actions...and if he's meant to, he'll come around. At your age....you are supposed to have a ';wall'; up. You are a KID! Not an adult. Quit trying to overload yourself with adult problems. Enjoy being a kid.
stop sying you cant be confident and start acting confident. fack it if you have to but over time you will strartt to turely be it. and when talking just say anything it might be radom or something but at least it will get a coversation going. try talking to the guy if hes puting effort in to talking to you you should try to if you like him plus he might lose intrest or give up becuse its to hard for him to get to know you.
I know, you'll be sick of reading answers along these lines by now... but it's really true- if someone doesn't like you for who you are, then they ain't meant to be with you.
On the other hand, don't go giving up on him. If you like him, just be yourself around him. Best case scenario? You two end up dating. Worst case scenario? Nothing happens.
In that case, you just wait for a guy who does like you for you.. trust me, he'll be out there = ]
Just relax, be yourself, even if that is rather shy!
Some guys prefer confidence, others shyness... but ALL decent guys want a girl to be able to be herself around them.
Good Luck : )
well, i'm the same way with friends. one or two will come along and i can REALLY be my obnoxious self around them.
you need to just talk to him. be real.
it never seems like theres anything to talk about when your with him, just make something up.
say hey, and he'll say hey back. ask what his favorite color is or something ask him stuff like how long have you and (idk his name, his friend) known each other?
make sure you compliment him.
you definitely wont be comfortable with him right off the bat so you need to get to know him. go get some ice cream with him or something.
it may be awkward at first, but the more your around him, the more you guys will be comfortable and you'll get closer. hopefully you get the courage to tell him you like him. hopefully things work out. :)
good luck.
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