Shy girl needs advice.?

so lets start from the beginning. I started working at a starbucks a few months ago. and it turns out that i like this guy who works there. We started working more together and yeah we become friends. I have invited him out to the movies, but he was golfing when i did so could not go attend the early show that i went to. He gave me his cell number, but he hardly text. Its the odd text here and there. We talk more at work. I work with this other girl often as well and he texts her a Lot more. We have all hung out and it seems hes flirting with me, but im never sure. Its hard to tell.





What do you think from what i have told you


What are some signs to look for.


I really like this guy and am to sky to ask him out.Shy girl needs advice.?
It's hard to judge... as he also speaks (and sends texts) to the other girl, he could value you both as friendly co-workers and nothing more. I think you need to bide your time, stay interested, but keep it casual so you are not full-on, as that could frighten him off. While at work, keep up the chatter and laughter, and ask him out on occasion: a drink after work, trip to the cinema - that sort of thing - like you did before.





Signs to look for? Well guys are pretty easy to suss out, you can usually tell if one is interested, unless they are really shy, but this guy doesn't sound like he is the shy type. Try to gauge how he treats you, both at work, and via his text messages. You'll soon get a gist of his intentions. I suggest you keep doing what you are doing - have a laugh and some banter at work, send him text messages etc, but don't get too serious until you know for sure.





With enough subtle hints from you, he'll soon get the message that you are keen, and then the ball is in his court and you just have to wait on how he serves it back. I know it's probably frustrating for you but try to have patience, and if nothing happens, I'm sure your Mr Right will come along soon.





In the meantime, just have fun. Good luck honey.Shy girl needs advice.?
Sounds like a friendly relationship between co-workers.





As for your ';shy'; comment. After I graduated and was entering the professional office enviroment, I read Leil Lowndes' ';Goodbye to Shy.'; It was helpful.
Okay just act like your not that into him and wait for him to ask you out instead of you making the move trust me it will work =]
Well, its hard to say for sure with just these examples but it sounds to me like he isn't too interested. He is texting the other girl more than you. He rarely texts you which is a hugh signal. If a guy likes you, he'll text you and if he doesn't don't waste your time on a guy who may like you but doesn't have the guts to follow through on his feelings. Guys that send mixed signals are hard to date because you never really know what is going on. If you are determined and really like this guy you have to have the courage to get over being shy and talk to him. Ask him out. Believe me, I was and still am a bit shy. It really held me back in the dating world because I was too scared to speak my mind. So, I would get so frustrated over this same type of guy and just get mad and fight. Looking back, I wish I could have just had the nerve to tell him how I felt. If I looked like a big idiot at least I would have gotten the answers I needed and not spent so much time being confused. PLEASE try to get up your nerve and talk to people!!! Yes, guys can make you nervous but you must be able to speak your mind in a relationship or it will never progress. Also, try starting out just looking at him as a friend. You won't be as nervous and you'll be more relaxed and have fun. If you're fun, he'll notice you more. And maybe start to like you.