Monday, August 23, 2010

About a girl, need advice please.?

Hi. I really need some advice, any help would be appreciated. I dated this girl when I was 16 and we broke up five years later. It's been 2 years since we broke up. When we were together, she was kinda crazy and she used to call me like literally 100 times a day (at the worst points) anyway, we kind of broke up, she's the one who broke up with me, but I guess we were both okay with the breakup. (she left me for another guy)





Well, I thought I was over her, but I guess I'm not. I've been thinking about her a lot lately and I messaged her a few times on myspace, we talked a little, she seemed bitter over what happen years ago. I told her that I was seeing someone new, and thats when she stopped responding to my myspace emails. Well now I've broken up with the girl that I was seeing, like literally a few days ago. I tried emailing this chick (the one that I was with for 5ish years) asking her if she wanted to play some pool or somethign and get together, but she didn't respond.





What should my next move be? Should I leave it alone, or should I persue her and tell her how I really feel?About a girl, need advice please.?
Tell her how you really feel. If you were together for five years, then it's likely that, at some point, you had a good relationship. Be aware, though, that just because this is how you feel, she may not feel the same. You may never know if you don't tell her, though.





2 years can be a long time, especially at your age...People can do a lot of changing, maybe you'll get to talking and you'll realize she isn't the same, or vice versa. On the other hand, maybe you'll both realize you were meant to be together, and will be able to move on to form a strong relationship.





In any case, you should tell her how you fell, but be realistic in your expectations of her response to that information! Good luck!About a girl, need advice please.?
If you're SURE you wanna be with this girl, tell her how you feel. Otherwise...you might regret not telling her on down the road.





Just be upfront about it.





If she doesn't respond to that, or responds negatively...then that's when you should just leave it alone and let the past be the past.
I've been there.





Leave it alone. Ya gotta forget about her and move on.





She already took up 5 years of your life and capped it off by cheating on you, more or less.





Hate her and be happy that she's miserable and bitter with her new life.
Im sure you can find other girls to hang out with... why open old wounds.
Leave it be. Find someone new! ';A Change is as Good as a Holiday';
well i know where you're coming from. its hard but you should probably let it go. good luck bro.
leave it alone.
leave her alone.. maybe she don't have interest with you anymore.. find some new girl that is really loves you
depends on where she is. if you think she is keen by all means go for it. you will always be wondering if you dont. however, be careful and thoughtful about what she is up to these days. she might have another guy shes seeing at the momen too so i guess you just gotta try and suss it all out and test the waters with her. give her a call or a text and see if its super awkward maybe? hope it works out for you.


good luck! :)

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