Need help with girl problem? ADVICE PLEASE?

i liked this girl for a while and asked her to hang out a few times, but she either stood me up or flaked on the day, but she always said yes and with such enthusiasm and happiness.





I eventually got the point and left it that. we started talking again and tried to explain herself, how she was hanging out with guys here and there and they were just friends and how she wanted to only be just friends with me too. so i didnt wanna get into anything so i just ';yeah cool, dont stress it'; she knows i liked her a lot





Anyway i was curious as to why she did that and now we are pretty good friends. this happened 3 months ago. i wanted to email her this





';hey i just had a question that i was curious about since things are calm now and i aint feeling you like that anymore.





how come you never hung out with me? i dont mean to be intrusive or what not, im curious... i always asked you in a platonic way. You did say you were lonely and you were hanging with others... i did have feelings but i was gonna get rid of them on my own. Im also curious why you never said no...





Im not trying to stress you about it...';





is that good or bad? im really curious wgy she did what she did.Need help with girl problem? ADVICE PLEASE?
it is good she realise and return backNeed help with girl problem? ADVICE PLEASE?
girls (and some boys) don't like to hurt or disappoint people (the nice one anyway) so they will often give a wrong phone number or say they will hang out or something when they don't really want to. This girl has sent you the message - actions speak more truth than words. Smile when you see her and move on. There are a lot of good ones out there that will return your attention.
may be she is afraid
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i think you need to need the curiosity stay in your head


if it doesn't matter then what's the point?


like, you don't wanna seem clingy and desperate to know what other people think thats not cool








my advice: don't email her











good luck!
i think instead of emailing it, you ask her personally to her face, just be like, i was wondering some things that i could hope you could answer, and ask her your questions like what you wrote sounded good.


Maybe she had good reasons to not be able to go. let her explain herself and trust her.


I'm just being truthful here, but if she knew that you really liked her, if she liked you back she would problably atleast flirt with you a lot.


i hope this helped :)
I think thats it's totally fine to ask her that, but it would be better, if possible in person... she may also be confused about her own feelings, so the only way to know, is to ask!


GOOD LUCK!
She already gave you an answer and asking her by email seems a little too much. Just let it go
I think you should give her some privacy. Maybe she will understand later that your sincere to her. Girls always want a privacy. But if you can't wait for the time, you should say like ';hey, it's not that I didn't trust on you but seriously I just want to know why you never hung out with me? Please don't stress yourself.
God no, don't send that. It makes you sound desperate and needy. She would never want to see you, let alone go out with you if she sees that.