Girls help.. i dont know how to deal with this girl...need advice!?

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Theres this girl at canada high school i chat to all the time (shes in my class), she used to be quiet when i used to talk at the start, and i always catch her staring at me, and when i catch her she looks away:).Now she has really opened up and talks to me alot, and laughs alot when i speak to her!, she can still be quiet at times though, but she will try her best to start a conversation now too! i wave to her everytime she looks and she always smiles and waves back to me. The other day, i told her about an event i went and done during my holiday, and she was like ';i havent done that in ages!';, and then she said ';where do you even go to do that nowadays';..i told her where and said its heaps of fun....then she went quiet for awhile...then we started talking again, was she wanting me to ask her out?i like this girl alot! and have been chatting to her little bits at a time for around 4 months!.she also said ';do you have any plans for your school break?';Girls help.. i dont know how to deal with this girl...need advice!?
Well.. Maybe she wasn't really happy with her current BF and she was trying to see if you could be a better replacement.. Or maybe she was just fooling around and didn't really think what she'd do would leave an impact on you.. Another thought, she might see you as a friend only and she just has fun when she's around you.. I don't really know.. But if I were you, I'd definately ignore her after all that act she pulled.. And if she was REALLY interested, she'd ditch her BF and come after you.. I say ignore her, just be friendly to her don't be mean or rude xD no extra attention.. Treat her like ';one of the guys'; you know?? And see what happens.. Unless you don't like her that much lol then you are free to go find another girl.. I say find another girl anyway xD she already has someone, you wouldn't want to be plan B now, would you??





Best of luck boy ^-^Girls help.. i dont know how to deal with this girl...need advice!?
well sounds like she was flirting, I don't think she was playing you (well yet anyways), I think she wouldve gone out to the movies with you if her bf hadn't have answered your call. Hmm why didn't she mention the fact that she even had a bf? Anyway, if she is still talking with you, i don't see any harm in that. But if you expect more, I would be careful.
it hard maybe she doesn't like her bf any more. she just cant find a way to break up with if not she is playing around with your feelings which is just wrong.
yikes





just play along


and maybe she'llbring it up





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If you didn't' know she had a boyfriend she may be hiding more than you know,


Oh the other hand, she may be trying to get out of a relationship but the other party just is not getting the hint or doesn't want her to go. meaning he is possessive.


You make her feel good, and that is a good thing. Even if it's just a flirt from class. Give her some time, then ask about her boyfriend. Find out if they are trying to break up and if she does need help to get rid of a psycho guy, then she should talk to a counselor or something.


If she is opening up to you, keep that line of communication going, you never know what will happen. Or if she will need you for something.
She was very deceitful. If she comes on to you all flirty I would ask her why she accepted a date if she had a bf and why she never told you this before. She was willing to cheat on her bf so what kind of person do you really think she is? Be glad you found out now before things got too involved. If you feel you want to continue a friendship with her I'd keep it really low key.
dude dont mess with her if she has a boyfriend. i've been that girl before, having a boyfriend and seeing someone else too, and it is HARD and NOT FUN, not to mention STRESSFUL!!! the guy that i was seeing (aka: you, in your situation) ended up getting hurt by my ';sneaking around'; cuz he wanted me all to himself, not to mention my boyfriend got hurt too, when he found out. She's not gonna leave her bf for you, or else she already would have. I'd tell her to call you when she's actually SINGLE.
First of all ask urself this... Do you want a girl who will be dating you and going out to movies with other guys at the same time BEHIND UR BACK. She didnt ask her b/f if she could go to the movies with u ';as friends'; and all this flirting if shes doing this to her b/f then she is probably going to do it to you too and no telling how many other guys she talks to and sneaks around with. Maybe she likes drama too... No girl is going to leave her phone around her b/f knowing that other guys have her number (unless the guy is really cool and lets her have guy friends but come on they dont exist any more.) So if you want a flirt with all the guys, sneak around behind my b/fs back, drama queen go for it if not then u should already know that u deserve a way better girl and belive me they are out there!!!!!
Girls with boyfriends are off limits. Relationships are meant for two people only. It does not have room for three. If she keeps on talking to you, ask her ';how is your boyfriend?'; She'll know what you mean. You should keep your distance from her.
in this situation she proable just wanted to talk to you and like you a lot but she does have a boyfriend so be careful of smileing face because they tell lies what i mean by that is she want to get close but not in the risk of lose her boyfriend....or she tring to give him the cold shoulder and she dont know how in all reasons you will only know if you try this hold her han and kiss her on the lips if rejected you got your answer if accepted you have to decide wheather you want a relationship with her or just the firting and make it known
if she has a bf i would back off. sounds to me like she is a girl who loves male attention. so she loves that you notice her and think she is cute but is not ready to break it off with her bf
WOW! Her BF is a Ba*d (replace * with star (get it!?)).





Any way. She may just want a friend?! Did that every occur to you. If you have been chatting a lot then perhaps (!) she considers you a friend.





She doesn't sound like a player, otherwise she would of really been FLIRTING with you.
Personally I understand why it would feel weird, you like this girl and you thought she liked you. She should have found a way to let you know that she had a boyfriend, but since she didn't things are going to be weird. I think that you really only have a couple of choices, if she's still acting the same way towards you maybe it's just her personality to be naturally flirtatious. If she's willing to look past it and keep talking to you it's sort of cruel to snub her. Pretty much you can either keep talking to her, with or without flirting with her, or you can stop talking to her it's kind of up to you. Although, I should warn you, you don't know how stable her relationship with her boyfriend is, if they don't have much longer to last and you stop talking to her you could be the one that loses out in the end.