me and my girlfriend got into a fight 2 days over something very dumb and she truly doesnt act like she loves me at all and we both agreed that she wouldnt hang out with her and just 1 or more guys and i couldnt do the same regarding to girls kas were both very jealous people and since the fight all she does is chill with guys and i wanna dump her even though i really do love her because i dont think she loves me at all and has lost total interest but she says she loves me and wants to stay with me but i can just tell that shes not being honest by her actions so should i dump her or what. idk what to doI need girl/moral advice?
Move on like dude said. If you guys fight about someting this stupid all the time, just think about what kind of fights your going to have when you do find out that she is not being honest about everything with you. ditch the *****, and get on with your life :DI need girl/moral advice?
You know, I heard once that where there is slavery there will be rebellion. You're both trying to control each other, so you both act out just to prove that you're not under control. You two should split, definitely. And work on your self esteem %26amp; confidence. Because believe it or not guys %26amp; girls can be friends and not have anything sexual going on. You don't trust her- obviously, or you wouldn't try2 tell her she can't hang with guys. It shouldn't matter if every guy she hangs with has a crush on her, if you trusted her you would have that confidence in her.
You aren't saying how old you are? You have to give her an ultimatum, Edither stop hanging out with the guys or let her know you are going to break up. If she says she still wants to hang out with the guys, then she obviously does not care that much about you and your feelings, so you need to break up and move on.
Ok so you love her and she loves you, but she obviously does not have any respect for you on the flip side of things why have you restrictions on each other its very possessive, you both need to sit down and see what you want from this relationship, are you heading down the route of kids and marriage or is less serious?? if you are going to become serious you need to have this discussion.
Ummm well jealousy isn't very cute maybe just a little bit. But not a lot it really shows how insecure you are. and her making a bet like or deal. means that you guys dont really trust eachother and trust is very important in a relationship.if her actions seem like she doesnt love you well idk what to tell you maybe you should just move on.
dump her see she knows you love her so she is thinking if he loves me he won't and can't break up with me!. to her surprise if you break it off she will be shocked and if she is hanging out with boys you go hang out with a girl. what's good for the goose is good for the geese.
your right she sounds like shes lost interest. these things happen, so my advice to you is to dump her, move on, and have some fun in the mean time. she will say anything she can most likely to keep you around but trust me, she has no intent of treating you better (even if she says she will). goodluck, happier days ahead of you!
the best thing to do is talk to her.. to find out the real answers.. no point waisting you time asking us.. because the relationship is between you two and your the one who knows hoe much you love her and that.. so just talk to her and tell her how you feel... and ask her if theres anypoint in the relationship.... because only she can tell you whats in her heart.. dont dump her coz some stupid person on yahoo answers told you too... follow your heart and use your brain...
ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THEN WORDS.
Im so sorry to say this, but I can tell she doesn't seem to be into you anymore. She's off hanging out with ohther people.... do yourself a favor please, and move on to someone who treats you right!!
Good luck, maybe I helped =)
-julia
Let her go and once she realizes what she has done, she will want you back.
Your better of if you let herr go because she is only going to continue to hurt you.
find another chick
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i think you should dump her because if she loved you she wouldn't do anything to hurt u...and hanging out with other guys is hurting you right now..so honestly i feel that she doesn't care about this relationship or your feelings...you deserve better
Yeah you need to end this relationship.
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Ummm, maybe. She probably genuinely doesn't love you, break up. But if you like her so much that it doesn't matter, go ahead. IT's your decision.
uhh. well maybe you should start acting like her hang around a lot of girls and tell her u love her.. and maybe she will realise something? i would do it...
If you feel this way, I think you should probably move on and find someone that treats you better, fight or not.
OMG!!! Can you insert some punctuation in the story to make it more understandable, please?
Move on.
move on you two are not ready to be with one person
That's really hard.
First you need to talk to each other about the fight.
Then, once that is fully resolved,tell her that when she hangs out with guys a lot you don't feel like she loves you. just talk it all out. of course she's going to say that she loves you and all of that, but you should tell her 100% how you're feeling.
really talk.
Tell her that you don't really think she cares about you by her actions, that you don't think she's into you anymore. And that if she is, then she should act like it. Don't be aggressive. try something like this ';I really love you, and I want us to stay together, but how you're acting...I don't feel loved. I mean when you hang out with all these guys, I feel like you really don't care about me. I feel like if you love me you'd show it more.';
If she's not changing or putting in a genuine effort, I'd suggest calling the relationship off.
me and my boyfriend are the same way but he lets me hang out with guys but i don't unless were in a fight but i hang out with them 2 make myself feel better because i miss all that attention from my boyfriend. so maybe you could just send her flower and a card saying your sorry and to meet you out at dinner 2 talk the fight over(even if its not your fault she might blame it on you and she might feel better knowing you are sorry for the fight). oh and if u stop her from being her own person and act like you don't trust her around other guys maybe the lack of trust made her not love you anymore but if she accepts your apology and apologizes back then its most likely that she does love you
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