Confused girl seeking advice of men?

details....


~met him a year ago


~had a bf who was abusive at the time


~he always talked to me and was nice to me even when i was flipping out over my XBF


~asked me out


~I was too scared my X would do something crazy


~a few days ago he asked mem to hang out


~he asked me out agian


~this time I was just to plain scared to answer (my X is looong gone and miles away)


~a few days later he was online and we ended up admiting that we wanted to be more then friends


~nothing happened


~still nothing happened...he doesnt call or email but when I see him out he FLIRTS LIKE CRAZY!


~I see him online last night but he says nothing...I pop up and say hi...then feel stupid because he doesnt seem like he wants to talk....even though he says he does....


~ getting really mixed messages and dont know what to do!!!!


okay so I really like this guy and want to date him...what can I possiblt do that would make him want to hang out with me?Confused girl seeking advice of men?
It almost sounds like he's playing with you like a cat with a mouse...or maybe he prefers the personal touch instead of IM or phone calls and e-mails. Try talking to him face to face and see what happens. :)Confused girl seeking advice of men?
just ask if he wants to hang out . it be like a of a date thing then you guy can end up going out LOL