I hesitate though to take things farther...even though I really want to. My reason being that I just have so many things going on w/college and work. My routine sucks but there's no altering it any time soon...if I'm not at work, I am in class, and vice versa... I have every other weekend off, and normally get home around 7-8pm on any day I don't have off.
So my question is, with such a busy schedule, is there any way to make 'us' work? I've held off on taking our relationship farther because I know having very little time to spend with her wouldn't work well. I'm crazy about her but with so much going on, I feel stuck in the routine. I can't take off more work. Having classes has already sliced a good amount of my check nearly in half...
What should I do? Thanks all...I feel I may lose this girl if...(advice)?
Keep her as a close friend and start spending time together and going on causal dates. Make sure to let her know that at this time in your life there is not time for a 'girlfriend' but that you want to spend time with her. Let her make the decision if she is ok with your busy life right now.I feel I may lose this girl if...(advice)?
You honestly have to take care of your priorities first.
If you takes things further while trying to juggle your girl, work, and school, you're going to end up very stressed out.
Talk to your girl. Let her know the deal and how you feel. If she cares about you enough, she'll understand your situation and work with you on it.
Just remember, you come first, not your lady.
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