All Guys Please: Virgin girl need advice about first time (girls please help too)?

Hi. I am nervous about giving oral tomorrow for the first time to much older, really experienced man. What can I try to make him have an orgasm so he'll keep wanting me as much as he does now. I plan to give him my virginity, too, but not tomorrow b/c his kids will be in the house with us. What can I expect about the oral? And what should I do to prepare if he wants to lick me? Please answer b/c I will be with him tomorrow and want to make him really like me.All Guys Please: Virgin girl need advice about first time (girls please help too)?
First of all it sounds to me like you are under-age. Which is 25 to life in prison if anyone finds out about it, which do trust, will happen.





Secondly, if you are a virgin you shouldn't waste your virginity on a man who is married with children. I know it's corny, but it's a special thing that you only have to give away once. And if you are going to do it so freely, you might as well get a pimp and stand on a street corner.





Thirdly, if you are only doing this to get this man to like you, then why are you even going to be with him in the first place?? Why would you want to be with someone, if you are so concerned about him NOT liking you if you do something wrong??





Fourthly, I am a married woman. And I will tell you right now, if I found out that some little tramp was sucking on my husbands c0ck. I would flip out. Him and her both would be in for a world of hurt. Because not only would I tell the LITTLE GIRLS parents, I would divorce my husband, but not before I called the cops to come and arrest his nasty @ss for sleeping with a minor. I don't give s $hit if the pope told you that his wife wouldn't care, and wouldn't find out. SHE DOES, AND SHE WILL. Then not only are you going to have to deal with the pain of knowing that you cause IMMENSE pain in a wifes life, you are going to have to live with the fact that you are the sole cause of breaking up a relationship that involves children.





So pretty much....





His wife WILL find out, it isn't a matter of IF, it's a matter of WHEN. You shouldn't be giving your virginity to someone you aren't in love with. And if you are going to be a tramp, go fu*k someone that isn't married with children.





I'm not looking for a best answer, and I'm not asking to be liked. I'm telling you straight up, how it is. If you do this, you are no better than the 2cent hookers who stand around on street corners waiting for that dollar bill!!!!!All Guys Please: Virgin girl need advice about first time (girls please help too)?
you said, ';his WIFE'; and that's where your story really starts.





Dump him. He's using you. And quite frankly, you should have asked his wife yourself as to her preference regarding him having extra-marital relationships. You are being gyped.


If you're under 17, what you're referring to is called ';statutory rape.'; Get off the internet and dial 911.





How old are you, and how old is he and his wife? These are the things I'd like to know.
Do you really believe what he says to you? If so, you need a reality check, sweetie. If you need advice about it and you are asking online, you are probably not ready.





To KayBay above: Are you serious? At 12, you should be focused in school, not preparing yourself to get pregnant! YOU ARE STILL A CHILD!!!!! Unbelievable.
He only wants you to be a sex object for his sexual entertainment. How could you be so unwise and willing to be used up there and down there. You really do not need any help for that. Just let him stuff you anywhere and don't complain. If it hurts, it hurts. You will suffer.
DONT DO IT!!!!!!!! what is wrong with you??








HE'S MARRIED!! ITS AGAINST GOD!!!








what is wrong with you..








p.s put it in your mouth and basicly pretend your mouth is your vagina. i hope you can handle breathing through your nose for 20 minutes gagging a few times. and drinking spirm.
IF HE STARTS LICKING YOUR PUSSYCAT, I DON'T THINK YOU WILL NOT ALLOW HIM TO GET IN BETWEEN YOUR LEGS.





BUT IF YOU CAN CONTROL AND JUST ONLY ORAL TO HIM AND LICKING TO YOU.








CONGRATULATION. YOU THE BEST GIFT YOU CAN GIVE TO YOUR FUTURE HUSBAND IS YOUR VIRGINITY.
dont do it. im tellin ya now, dont do it. my friends dad did the exact same thing with a girl, and told her that his wife wouldnt care... his wife found out, and they got a divorce a month later. the family was shattered, and in the end, everyone was hurt.
this is fake.





but to entertain you, there is nothing you can do that is wrong if he is in love with you as well as physically attracted. the act alone will be pretty erotic.
First of all, affairs are stupid.


Second of all, you're giving your virginity to a guy you probably don't love and he most likely doesn't love you either. Think about that.
Would you like to be tagged as a ';Home wrecker';? Damn, you shouldn't be believing in all these craps! you wanna give your virginity to someone who just wanna have sex with you? Wake up li'l girl! Dreaming is over!
You will regret giving your virginity to a married man. And how can you believe anything he says? Just to be sure...since he said his wife wouldn't mind, I'd ask her permission first. You're in for a rude awakening.
Ok. News flash. Most wives are NOT going to be ok with her HUSBAND and FATHER OF HER CHILDREN to be sleeping around with some girl. You're probably still in high school. He's lying and using you! Don't be so naive!
he is using you. go away before its too late





also, please answer mine too in business http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
Ask his wife how he likes his blowjobs done. He said she doesn't care after all. I hope you don't mind giving your virginity to a complete liar.
If he's married then run! Don't get involved whatsoever!





How would YOU feel if your husband had oral sex with another women behind your back?
tongue techniques...tongue techniques!


move it liek a snake....no teeth no teeth...that hurts





If he wants to do it to you...well u better be prepared to enjoy a natural high!*
U can practice on me...I'll teach u everything
he just wants to enjoy u thats it he just wants to have refreshment.
Don't walk away, run! Geez ...
Dont do it....he s just using u and u r DEFINITELY on the path of getting hurt......JUS DONT DO IT
There are things about having sex for the first time that really counts. It not only has to be with someone special, but it has to mean more to you than just losing your virginty, or in your case, giving oral for the first time. The first thing you need to think about, is his pros and cons. Will you regret him later? Will he be one of those guys you never want to see again? Will he hurt you? If you say he has a wife that doesn't care, then that means that he doesn't care about her feelings. If can't care about her feelings, what makes you different from her. The only thing is that you're a virgin, and being one, there are a lot of things you have to look out for when it comes to guys like this. It isn't about if you can do it. Sex is a natural thing that, if done at the right moment and in the right moment, it'll all just come naturally to you. Which is why the only thing you want to look out for isn't the question of can you do it right? It's the question, is he special enough to take that power from you. Think about that long and hard before you go do something you may regret later. By all means, if you don't think you will, then do it. Let it just come to you. But if you're not sure, then don't do it. No matter how sweet he is, he still has the ability to take this one thing you have against him, away from you, and in turn, could turn out to be your biggest regret. Love yourself enough first.
ARE YOU MAD??? He's MARRIED!! How old are you anyways?? What is the world coming to? Please reconsider you actions, this can't end well for you, he's playing you, a side-attraction to his wife. I'm sorry if you're hating me right now, but girl! Please think about all this...it can't be good. It's going to turn out badly whether you think it is or not. Just how much does his wife know about you anyways? Think about everyone this is going to effect if it blows up. Please, think about what you're doing...
I'm not sure if this is a real question, but this is a real answer anyways. First off, sleeping with an older guy isn't necessarily bad, but it depends how much older and how old you are. You sound young and for this guy to have kids already...he sounds waaaay older. You sound too young to even be having sex, I'm 18 and no virgin, so its not some 40 year old mom telling you that. Honestly, If I had sex when I was 14, I'd probably be pregnant because I was stupid. I didn't think so then though. No one can force you to wait, but you probably should because honestly, yes, you are still very very dumb. And I say that in the nicest way possible :) Second, he has a wife and kids. Not only are you messing in a place that you really aren't welcome...I don't care what he may say...and you are making things hard on his kids. If this question is legit, I just wouldn't do it. Its your choice, hopefully you think like an adult then act like one. Good luck!
girl im in the same possition


im 12 hes 15


hes experianced


im barely


WE CAN GET HELP ON THIS TOGETHER