Tuesday, November 22, 2011

I need a girl's advice on this one please?

Well it was my friend's brithday today and i gave her a card which i though would be a nice gesture, and i was the only boy in the class who gave her one. Well its obvious that i like her, thats why i'm asking this question. Anyways. i gave her it infront of her friends and she said awww which i guess meant she may have appreciated it and after i left i over heard her telling her friends she didn't think i'd remember. She told me after a while thank you for the card. My question is i gave her a card which said happy birthbday and it had balloons and streamers printed on it, but i had another card in mind that i wanted to give her, which said stuff like its your special day and you deserve to be happy etc. Did i make a big mistake not giving her that one? I didn't give her that one because i didn't want to scare her off, but i felt that i missed a really big opportunity there, do you think i still have a chance to let her know i like her? Oh yes i also wrote in the card ';May all your wishes come through on your special day'; What about the comment was that ok. I'd like to hear all your opinions and what should be my next step, because i really missed an opportunity there.I need a girl's advice on this one please?
I think she is very lucky :) you obviously like her a lot and she'll appreciate the sentiment that the card was,


but you need to tell her that you like her before you get too far into the ';just mates'; category.


good luck!I need a girl's advice on this one please?
LOL the fact is you gave the girl a card, and thats already a nice gesture.She probably doesnt even care whats in it because just the fact that you got her a card and remembered her birthday is special.
you didnt miss the opportunity at all - you extended a gesture which she obviously appreciated!


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I think you made the right choice and that she really appreciated it. She knows you thinking of her.
oh my, you are soooo cute, that was a lovely gesture. she is obviously happy with it. leave it a few days, ... then you could ask her would she like to do something with you as a treat for her bday, like you could bring her to the movies or coffee? if you suggested it as her bday gift and she accepts that is the first step over, you can see from there how you get on and then suggest perhaps a 2nd ';date';... let me know how it goes!
You should have given her the other card but since you didn't that fact that it is her birthday is a huge opportunity for you. If you aren't nervous...you can go and strike up conversation and ask her if she has plans for her birthday. If she says no and you are bold enough..you can ask her if you could take her out for dinner and a movie (or just dinner so that you can talk to her). If you want to express how you feel be bold, women like men who take initiative and who aren't afraid to go for what they want. And the statement you place in the card was really sweet, I think that was a nice touch. Just don't think about it.... go for it. Good luck to you!!

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