dont go for it she only is paying attention to you cause shes now getting rejected by everyone else and needs help with her self esteem.
once shes skinny again then shell drop you like a fly. your her rebound.I need a girl's advice, please!!!!!! OMG!!!! WTF!!!!!!!?
Ok really, you're only looking at her because she's fine. That is so shallow, and if she's pretty, she can move on from you. Get to know her, you don't have to necessarily take her out, just talk to her. See if you like her as a person.
Also, if she's only talking to you now because she thinks you're in her league, it's not good. Once she loses the weight (if she does) she'll drop you like a hot potato and go for someone that she believes is in her league.
Hope this helps!!
Good luck ;)
Wooow dude that totally sucks. But it made me laugh :)
Anyway, I know she definitely is using you because she can't get the guys she used to (no offense at all). However, I think you should take her out because you might find that she is your type of girl. Looks may seem like everything but I guess if you're looking for that perfect meal you have to read the description on the menu, not only look at the pictures.
ok i don't really know this chick so i'll try not to generalize. Use your intuition maybe she is a total ***** and didn't realize what she was missing until recently. I think you should go out with her, get to know each other well enough, and when there is trust ask her about your doubts. Later on you can decide if continuing the relationship or not. Anyways, what's there to loose?!?! Please don't go out with her because of her hotness, you don't know if she'll fatten up even more as time goes by, so try to see her inner beauty !
First its not about your dignity! You don't now want she has gone through in the last year or way she has put on the weight. Maybe she is all over you now because she has realized what a great guy you are and wants a great guy. It may have nothing to do with her weight. If the weight is a problem for you then I think you should leave her alone because what if she doesn't lose the weight?
I'll give you the reason first....
before when she was smokin hot....she could have any guy she wanted and she got cocky about it making her ';quite the *****';....now that she gained a little weight she needs to feel like she can still get any guy, hence her being nice to you.
Be aware that she may get thin and dump you all over again.
You can take her out and see what happens, but remember you work with her and dumping her WILL make it awkward in the work place.
Hope this helped!
Ummm please don't be shallow. Because to be honest, if she's only talking to you now it's probably because she keeps getting rejected and needs someone to make her feel good about herself. And truthfully she'll prolly dump you the minute she starts feeling good about herself. Sorry dude, but seriously don't be shallow. Karma's a b****.
Keep your dignity. She's gained a few pounds and she can't wear that bikini no more. And if you do take her don't take her jogging because she will leave you when she gets her body back. It's not worth having a broken heart or getting blue balls when you can easily avoid it by getting you a real girl.
I would say don't waste your time with her. She is obviously really shallow if she didn't give you the time of day before and now since she isn't as attractive she thinks you will just jump at the chance of being with her? that's the dumbest thing i have heard in a while. You deserve someone who actually gives you the time of day.
Uhm, honestly tell her to go away.
Unless you want a fat *****... it's up to you.
But she's just trying to get your attention now cause she can't get anything and she knows that you were interested in the past. I don't think she's gonna lose weight either. Just show her you're not looking to play games for a relationship. Keep your dignity bud.
okay maybe she had a boyfriend before?
find out if she did?
and ask her why she is interested?
but i would say dont go for it
thats kindaa messed up now sincee noone likes her shes going to you
thats not right
but first find out whuts the deal
shes usen u and when she looses weight im almost 100% shure she will cheat on u or go out out with someone she thinks is better lookin than uu
and u dont waant to be upset if that happens and u cant be upset if you dont date her ....
omg ew how ugly! i think you should take her to the gym or something hqf(ha que funny) not mean but thats what I will do just be friendly and say hey want to go hit the gym later on or something. If she says yes then there you go and if she says why you think I'm fat say no I just want a workout buddy and have nobody else..
hope this works.And try to forgive and forget don't hold grudges..
-Kandii-=]]
You need to stop being shallow and know and figure out what this girl has in her plans if she wasn't into you before.
Being hot doesn't mean it has to be on a physical basis!
How about her mind, goals, dreams, beliefs, and personality (which you have come across of before).
I say that you don't date her until you know why she is interested in you all of a sudden.
HOPE THIS HELPS!!! :IF I HELPED ADD ME AS A CONTACT!!! :o)
well, both of you sound like you have problems
here's advice for you, never date a ***** who needs a self esteem boost and a little weight loss, and never ever date a girl in hopes she'll change into miss. sexy, because that's wrong on your part.
but final judgment don't date her.
Who says big women can't get anyone?
Sure its harder but there is someone for everybodyt.
Any ways
Now if u like her go for it
Tell her how u feel ask her why. Did she act the way she did b4.
%26amp; remember if u decide to take her out u can't change her weight
U shouldn't want to like her because of who she is and if overweight is who she is that's wat ur getting. What if she tried to change something about u!!!
Everyone is not perfect
that would be a cool way to help her loose wight if she's feeling bad about her self .but she might be just using u to make her self feel better, and your the only one paying her some attention. then again you could get to know each other hit the gym and live happily ever after!!!!
See why she's so interested now rather than before. It's probably just because she's getting rejected now because some people are so shallow. Don't stoop to her level. There are other girls that are just as hot I'm sure. Don't go for it. Keep yourself above her level.
Shes fat now of course she likes you.
Youre pretty much a dick for saying that you'll take her jogging and that all you care about is a sexy girlfriend CLEARLY since she treated you like crap earlier and youre willing to take that.
i wudnt go for her but u cud always say 'so listen, i was thinkin of becomin a member to this gym, wanna join?'; so she can lose the weight, nd u can see it from there cuz ull get to know hwe real personality by then :)
No, you shouldn't... what would your friends and family think when they find out that You liked this girl....
She treated you like crap....
she gains a few pounds...
now shes desperate and will go out with any guy that crosses her way???
Yeah, real good story to tell at te next Thanksgiving party
take her out. bang her. then blow it in her face and tell her shes a ***** that got fat and she got what she deserved. then never talk to her again :D
she is just trying to make herself feel better, if she liked you earlier you would've been able to see it in her eyes, regardless if she ignored you.
being shallow isn't going to work all the time. just because she's hot doesn't mean she's got no brain or heart. ask her why she's acting interested now.
You were not good enough at first but now that she gained a little and maybe isnt smoking hot, now shes interested!!
You are better than that. That really should show you how shallow she is
you can be her frined but not her lover she is just using you
no way,
she's just using you
when she's ';smokin' hot'; again,
she'll go back to what she dated before,
seriously
NOO.
she's just using you basically.
plus, if you helped her lose a bit of weight, she'd definitely go back to her old ways.
tell her to f u c k o f f !
IGNORE her!! Omg, she really is a b!tch...
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Don't do it. Instead return the favor and act like you're too good for her and her muffin top.
Amber is exactly right. Baby, stick with dignity.
if she didn't like you then( when she was hot), doesn't it seem weird that she likes you now when shes not? sounds fishy to me. anyway, what if she likes being chunky and doesn't wanna work out? hmmm
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