Dating A rich girl. NEED ADVICE!!! Please Read!!?

In March, My fiancée and I broke up after I found out she was cheating on me after dating 3 years. She came from an extremely wealthy family. The money aspect never presented a problem in the 3 years that we dated. The whole spring and summer last year was extremely depressing to me. Finally, in late September, I did something out of the ordinary for me, I joined Match.com/. Within a week I had 4 dates lined up, they all went OK. And then I met this one girl, lets call her Jen. I have been seeing her since the beginning of October and things are going really great. “Jen” also surprisingly happens to come froma very- well –to- do family also. This girl is NOT spoiled and is a sweetheart. My mother keeps warning me “ She comes from a lot of money, I don’t know if it’s gonna work out, be careful.”. I need Advice!!!!!Dating A rich girl. NEED ADVICE!!! Please Read!!?
Money doesn't mean that people cheat. There are a group of cheaters out there, but they come from all different levels of society.





I think you answered your question yourself. She is your sweetheart. Don't let your cheating ex girlfriend ruin your life anymore. Keep ';Jen';!!Dating A rich girl. NEED ADVICE!!! Please Read!!?
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dont judge her because of money judge her by her additiude in life and the way she treats you ...
Not all girls that come from money will do you wrong....
I am what you would consider a ';rich girl'; - I grew up being around extremely rich people all my life - people who owned Casinos, restaurant chains, private jets, fast expensive cars, vineyards, race teams, race horses, custom made everything, huge hunks of land and entire neighborhoods!





Know what I learned?? I learned that MONEY does NOT make a person, and most of those people were pretty miserable and made terrible relationship partners. They were selfish, demanding, spoiled, hard headed, cold, and always looking over their shoulders for that ';someone'; who might take it all away from them.





I ended up marrying a great guy who literally had NOTHING money wise, but was driven to be a good partner, Father, and lover - - we live in a great neighborhood, kids go to great schools, and we both earn an HONEST living. He still cannot understand why I am not impressed by people who have money - guess he would of had to have been there!
money should not be a factor if she really loves you. just be yourself and be open and truthful wth her... if she love your personality, even if you don't have that much money, your relationship will turn out pretty good... just be you and things will fall in to place...





Good Luck!!! i wish you the best!
Not ALL rich girls or boys act spoiled and rude and everything., some take careful control of their wealth because they do not want over spend..


I think it's going to work out pretty well.


no offence,but if it doesnt, if you go to dating sites again, SI think you should ask if their wealthy or not. IIN A NICE way. Because most girl's feeling easily get hurt.


GOOD luck! (: :)
You take her as you see her


The last one cheated , you got rid of her. This one is good so far accept it at face value unless you get hit on the head. and don't go looking for something.
it's not the family that she comes from that you need to be careful. it's match.com.





i know this cuz i was told that my ex wife is on that site.
There are modest, well-to-do people out there! Listen to your heart. Good luck!
get to know her first and if she falls in love with you it will work. Just try to keep the love there
sounds like you need to get to know her better before you can make a decision on what she is like.





Go out on a few dates and see what happens, she might be as she appears.
Keep ';Jen';,





I went out with a guy who's family were on benefits, he was often kicked out, never leant to drive, and was constantly on the 'sick', I felt the need to reform him.... he got a new 'good' job, learnt to drive, paid rent (thus sorting out family rifts and getting kicked out' . I wanted him to do the things I had done.





In the end we split because at the end of the day.... although he had achieved my goals and to an extent his own, he still had the same morals and lack of future.





(Please note I am not drawing any comparisons to your situation. This is an extreme case...)





At the end of the day different backgrounds can sometimes affect the future that people see themselves having together.


Be clear with each other what you'd like out of life, share goals and dreams. If your happy in a semi and Jen wants the mansion will it work?





P.s. I know houses aren't everything!





good luck..... things will be fine......
Your mother is probably just worried because the last wealthy girl you dated broke your heart. Tell her this one is different, they've got different personalities. Just because she's well-off doesn't mean she'll cheat on you.





Introduce ';Jen'; to your parents, and maybe they'll see the difference between her and your ex-fiancee and stop bugging you about it. If they don't, there's not much you can do. Just wait for them to stop judging her. However, having dinners with ';Jen'; and your family to prove how unspoiled and kind she is should definitely help the situation.





Good luck!
not all girls who come from wealthy family are spoiled...im not....and there are realy good persons who are rich,so if you like that girl why should that be a problem? money was never a problem,unless you dont have it.. =)