15 year old girl seeking advice???

alright im 15 years old %26amp; there is this 16 or 17 year old guy that i like. he goes to a different school than i do and we've hung out twice. the first time was at a US marines camping thing (he is joining the marines and my brother in law is the recruiter) we hardly talked there but the second time was when he met me and my friends at the mall. We talked there but it was basically the first time we had communicated in person (we've been talking to each other online also) so we were both a little shy. I think he acts like he likes me %26amp; flirts with me but i could be wrong i guess. i dont mean to sound conceited but i am pretty %26amp; i think i have a good personality so i dont know why he wouldnt like me. And he did come all the way to the mall by himself to meet up with a girl he barely knows...


So. to get to the point... my homecoming is coming up and i really want to ask him but i dont want him to say no. Would it be wierd of me to ask him even though we've barely hung out?15 year old girl seeking advice???
Lets start off with the fact that you said, ';not to sound concieted but I am pretty and think i have a good personality,'; THAT IS NOT CONCIETED!!! It is very, VERY good that you feel that way about yourself. Keep that up, don't let anyone tell you any different! Most girls your age don't feel that way and that causes a lot of problems later in life. Now, about your question, you should ask him. I mean, its just homecoming. Your not asking him to marry you!!!! lol! But you should probably hold off on getting in a relationship because of the age difference. But he might say yes... I don't know how you guys talk or how you get along, but if you feel he likes you, then he'll say yes(if he doesn't already have plans). If you do ask him, make sure you give him enough notice so that its not last minute. That could make him want to say no. Also, when you ask, sound casual. That way he doesn't feel pressured to say yes or feel that he HAS to go... that will most likely make him stand you up if he feels that way when answering, either that or the night just wont be that fun!!! So, if you do ask him, just ask him as friends. You'll soon know if he wants it to be more than that!!! Just give it time! Good luck! Enjoy homecoming!15 year old girl seeking advice???
before you ask him i would try to learn a bit more about him and try to get to know each other better. also ask if he has a girlfriend and if he doesnt you should ask him because probably he is way too shy to ask you. and also check out his friends to see with what kinds of people he hangs out with. if his friends like you, he will like you as well.
If you ask him and he does say no, it's no big deal. You still have all the people in your school to choose from. If it's something you want to do, go for it.
well this day in age girls ask out guys or vice versa. so basicly it is up to u what u want to do. My opinion would be to ask him out then he knows ur interested in him. But if ur one of the traditionists that the guy asks u out then wait until he asks.
u could ask him as a friend this way if he says no it won't hurt as much...it'll still hurt but u gotta try right.the worst he can do is say no.go for it.if u never try you'll never know.
Guys are just as shy, if not more so than girls. go ahead and ask him out. he is probably thinking that same thing... if he asks you, you will say no...





Guys are pretty simple creatures, they just like girls to like them...

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