Well Im 18 and the guy is 21.
From the min I saw him that was it, I was totally head over heels.
That night I saw him at a party, he paid for my drinks and kissed me and everything (AMAZING!!) but after that he never seemed to text me much? I'd have to text him first then he would write back and stop after that.
Then last night I was out and I saw him my heart started jumping outta my chest (Im totally crazy about him =[ ) And again he was being great with me buying me drink and we kissed and stuff (and he never tried anything sexual on me!) and he was being brilliant, then this morning he text me first (yay) but hasnt wrote back?? He tells his friends that he thinks Im gorgeous and everything (I dont mean to sound stuck-up there, but you know what I mean lol) He said he'd bring me out and stuff but he never mentioned it to me since :( Why is he acting that way?
What do you think I should do?
Should I text him or wait?
How do you think he feels about me?
Thanks Sooo Much for reading :)Confused Girl Needs advice!?
It's like lookin' in a mirror...
Without the gory details, let me just say, I have been there/done that. Do you know what experience has taught me? If a guy is interested, he will call. He will text. He will make it clear as freaking day that he likes you. Unless this dream guy of yours is shy, quiet and the nervous type...which I highly doubt, then you need to consider the possibility that you are the ';back-burner'; girl. You're not annoying to be around, you're the good-looking ego boost and he's gaged your interest to be intense enough to be a sure thing/safe bet and dependable?
My most recent back-burner moment was with this sexy, confident guy...who got my engine revved like nobody's business. We hung out, I meet his friends, his sister, he took me on a date or two, (bought me a couple drinks...) and when we hung out it was so fun. The next day, though, he wouldn't call. Or text. If I called/texted first, he'd respond...sometimes right away, others not. I'd get excited when he did, and pumped when we hung out...but this cycle continued for longer than it should. Then it clicked. He was keeping me on the backburner. Good enough to kiss. Good enough to kick it. But only when it suited him. He was smart enough to see I liked him, slick enough to use it to his adv. w/o me knowing...
Bottom line: If a guy likes you, he's not going to keep you dangling on a string where you might get snatched up by some other bloke. He'll move in and mark is territory, fast. If you don't inspire that kind of thing, then he won't. And he's just not as into you, as you are to him.
Hope I'm wrong, and maybe he's just a dumb putz who doesn't know what to do with a real woman when he meets one...good luck.Confused Girl Needs advice!?
I'm glad he did.
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you're thnking too much hun, let him sweart it out for a while, even if it takes a while for him to realise, if you come on too strong you'll push him away and i can tell thats the last thing you wanna do. its fine to respnd to him when he contacts you but if your thinking too much over this then youll contant him too much and see too clingy. just be yourself and dont feel you have to be the first to make the move. good luck.
Why is he acting that way?
I've always wondered why guys do that.
What do you think I should do?
Go with the flow, wait til he text's you or text him in like a few days with something like, ';Do you still like me? You aint texted me in a while xx ';
Should I text him or wait?
Wait
How do you think he feels about me?
Confused on what to do
Thanks Sooo Much for reading :) Your welcome
was he drunk everytime he was being nice to you? If the answer is yes, then I think you should understand that he may not be all that into you and that it was just a spur of the moment... If not, then wait for few more days or weeks until you are back to your senses and then you'll see for yourself if you 'really' like him or not :)
i can relate....
i would text him and tell him your going out %26amp; would he like to come...if not then be like ok then bye
then next try just talking to him..text him ask how his day is or something...
maybe even try saying hey want to meet for drinks tonight? trying being the one to propose something..if he says no then say you owe me then...
he he keeps saying no then maybe he's just one of those flirts and doesnt really think of you like that.
AND thats ok .....it just means hes not the type your wanting!!
I think he really likes you. I wouldn't text him first anymore, if he really is into you and means what he's been telling his friends, then he will text you first.
Don't wait around either though. You're too good for waiting around for some guy. If he doesn't make a move soon, than I would start looking for someone else.
he isnt commited. get over him. dont text him. hell feel like yu need him, and he doesnt need you. next time he texts you, wait a while before you text him. or dont text him at all. then text him once and then just turn off your phone. play hard to get. thats what hes doing. pluss hes being an a**
he's playing hard to get! Either that or he doesn't know what he wants, feeling confused for some reason, or perhaps he's just a d***!
Play hard to get back and see what happens, or try talking to him or a different level.
Some boys just aren't texters. You'll have to find another way to keep in touch with him (MSN?) but you don't want to look needy or desperate...so I'd play it cool if I were you.
But I do reckon he really likes you ;)
Hi.
So I'm 23, and feel like I've been through many similar situations, and although I'm not that much older than you, I do have a few good years more experience with.. idiots.
I would say forget texting him. If he continues to contact you then GREAT! But I firmly believe you SHOULD NOT chase him. If he wanted you he would be thrilled when you messaged and would of course text back, call, ask you out on a date, etc. I know it's so hard to see it this way, I've been in your shoes, but please trust me. If you have to try so hard and chase and play games, it's NOT going to work. And it's a waste of time.
Mostly people want what they can't have. So one, that's prob why you feel you want him so much.. (because he's making you chase)
Plus, if you back off, he'll think you're losing interest and he'll probably try harder to work for you!
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