I NEED A GIRL'S ADVICE!!! A GIRL'S POINT OF VIEW!!!?

Ok, so I鈥檓 23 years old and I work at a supermarket. A few weeks ago a girl I used to go to high school with walks in. I introduce myself. She tells me she鈥檚 working as an accountant, and I told her I was studying to be a radiologist. She seems so sweet, and really interested to talk to me, but I have another customer come in, so I tell her goodbye. About 2 weeks later she comes in again, and I wave at her. She smiles and comes over to my register. This time I am going to ask her out. But first I ask her some questions, just too talk to her. I ask her how鈥檚 work, where she works, etc. And she smiles and answers me. Then I ask her who she鈥檚 living with, and she tells me her boyfriend, but she says it reluctantly, like in a disappointed way. Now I have heard that she鈥檚 having issues with her boyfriend, and she keeps smiling and seems into me. I kind of felt like she wanted to ask her out, maybe to piss off her boyfriend, but me being the stupid nice loser that I am, just said, it was nice seeing you again, and gave her a high 5 like friendly gesture. Then she looks at me and says OKAY!! kind of disappointed that I didn鈥檛 ask her out or anything. Trust me this girl is no angel. She has been around the block so many times that the pavements all worn out if you know what I mean. But still she鈥檚 so pretty. Anyway I keep thinking about her the next few days, and I came on Yahoo Questions before to ask if I should call her at her job to ask her out. Everyone on this webpage told me NO! All the girls said it was creepy and I shouldn鈥檛 dare call her. Well anyway I couldn鈥檛 help myself and I called her, and I left a message at her work phone and asked her if we can get together sometime, because I had some questions on accounting. I KNOOOOOOOW THAT鈥橲 LAME AS HELL. But I really wanted to see her again.


Anyway, she never calls back. A few days later, she makes a facebook. I checked like the day before and she had no facebook. This is a brand new facebook. I friend her. I don鈥檛 know if she had received my message at work, so I ask her out on facebook. She accepts my friendship request, and writes back that she had been to the supermarket twice in a week to see me! (she wrote it with exclamation points) but she says that I was not there. She told me she just broke up with her boyfriend. She told me I could call her if I liked. So I told her that I would take her out once I came back from Florida, in two weeks. She agrees and we talk a little on aim instant messenger. When I came back from Florida 2 weeks later, she never answered my calls. I wrote her on facebook again like 3 times, and she never answered. I even texted her, and asked her out on her cell phone. She wouldn鈥檛 respond to me for like 2 weeks.


She鈥檚 still listed as single on facebook. She responded to me on her cell phone finally after I called and texted her a million times, and she told me that she鈥檚 too busy, and that we probably can鈥檛 hang out like ever. She literally said ever. She blocked me on AOL instant messenger, but she鈥檚 still my friend on facebook? Why wouldn鈥檛 she take me off her friend list, or block me on facebook??? I鈥檓 confused. WHAT IS THIS GIRL THINKING?!?!!?!? Should I just give up???





I need a girl鈥檚 point of view!


WHAT IS SHE THINKING!


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Your probably freaking her out..I know b/c I have a best guy friend that absolutely adores me and always asks me out and it's so annoying. Honestly it's like your stalking her...give her some space but i think by now she's not in to you anymore. Don't make the same mistake again. ;)
Maybe she got back with her BF or decided that she is angry at you for some reason. I would just let her be for the time being. It seems like maybe she wants some space. Maybe she is not over her BF or is just afraid of relationships in general. I am sure if she wants to talk to you, she will try to contact you. Plus there are so many other people out there that you could date. Put on your profile that you are in a relationship. She is she reacts to that in any way and decides to contact you. That would make for an interesting conversation.





I am a 24 yr old female
THATS WAS STUPID 2 BEGIN WITH
you've been used! that's what i think, she;s seeing another guy. and she wanted to make sure the other guy wants to go out with her so she accepted going out with you just to fill her time and get busy until the other guy takes a move.


i hope i'm wrong but i doubt it.


forget about her, that;d be my best advice!! goodluck! ;)
holy **** thats a story man, maybe shes just lost interest since uv been gone our mayb she got back together and never changed her relationship status on fb some of my friends have been in relationships forever and they r still listed as single bcuz they dont want the whole world to know bout there life sorry bud


best of luck
Doesn't matter what she's thinking! She's taken. So don't be a homewrecker and move on!
Im sorry to hear that. Maybe she just lost interest while you were away or met someone else. You shouldnt worry much about it... There are plenty more girls out there, you'll find your special someone eventually! Dont lose faith :)
she doesnt like you
she probably got back with her boyfriend or found someone else to date. she lost intrest with you for some reason or another. she maybe heard something about you from someone else or with all the asking her out in different ways turned her off. she probably thought you were too eager to go out with and got overwhelmed or creeped out.
She wanted to try before you left,


and doesnt now.


Honestly, it doesnt matteer WHY, just that she doesnt want to, and you need to give her space
It doesn't matter what she is thinking. It is obvious that she does not want to go out with you. As you've stated--%26gt; ';She has been around the block so many times that the pavements all worn out.';--%26gt; She isn't someone you should consider dating. Furthermore, move on because she is still with her boyfriend. Good Luck.
This probably isn't the answer your looking for cause im only 15 but its worth a shot lol.


Ive been in this situation before, i realy liked a guy wen i had a bf. I broke up with him and was going to meet up with the guy i liked, then i realized it wasnt a very good thing to do as i stil liked my ex and obly liked the guy cause he was hot and i fancied a change. i completely blanked him and told him to leave me alone. i fel pretty harsh but trust me it works out for the best. if i were you i'd just forget about her.


Sorry about waffling on! hope everything goes ok for you :)